Juan Vancouver

Not al all, you sound like an intelligent, well-informed, well-meaning man who has thought about this subject more than two minutes and who is not reacting to rape guided by the things your asshole uncle drunkenly barked at dinner.
 
What a bizarre world this is in which an intelligent, healthy opinion might be attacked as a bleeding heart liberal reaction.

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No, It doesn't sound like you are minimizing it. You ARE. You are literally saying that it is not as bad as she thinks it is.
 

 
Yep.
 

 
Yes, and until we stop trying to tell the victims how to feel and tell them they didn't get it as bad as they think they did, rape will have the masses moral support.
 
By telling a victim he/she should buck up and tone it down, what we are doing is (consciously or subconsciously) supporting the perpetrator.

Yet another example of how being a white male with money gets you out of alot or at least minimizes the damage to you. Yes, they were both drunk, but Brock Turner flat our raped that woman. Period. And he's basically getting away with a slap on the wrist. Welcome to America.

People are so incredibly sexist... it's so gross!
 
“This was not a clear-cut case, and I hope the jury got it right,” commented one man on a local TV station’s coverage of the verdict. “Of course Turner made some terrible mistakes, but I will always wonder if consent happened or not."
 
No douchebag, she was passed out so bad that it took her three hours to come back. She could not have given consent in that state.
 
It is the most clear cut case you will ever see.
 
“So his BAC was 2 times the legal limit, while hers was 3 times,” said another. “There are no winners here, but she is considered a victim while he goes [from] Stanford student and Olympic hopeful to registered sex offender for the rest of his life once he gets out of prison. Fair enough.”
 
Yeah, douchebag, one person was passed out, the other wasn't. He IS a sex offender, I don't give a shit about his sportly feats. I hope he went directly from Stanford Olympic hopeful to jail pass around bitch bottom.
 
And people say that the rape culture is only real in the inflammatory, hysteric minds of the feminist lobby.
 
How sad.

Damn. You write about my nipples, I get a boner. They are that hard wired to my dick!
 
Big hug, you sexy fucker!

Damn. You write about my nipples, I get a boner. They are that hard wired to my dick!
 
Big hug, you sexy fucker!

I don't send pictures of my face, but if anyone asked me to take specific pictures to appease them, I would pass without any further ado.
 
I put a lot of effort in creating a clear image of who I am, supporting a strong positive presence and a long list of reviews. Personally, I am not much for jumping through hoops.
 
Now, if you are about to hire an escort whose ad appears to be a scam, I guess thats an entirely different thing.

I don't send pictures of my face, but if anyone asked me to take specific pictures to appease them, I would pass without any further ado.
 
I put a lot of effort in creating a clear image of who I am, supporting a strong positive presence and a long list of reviews. Personally, I am not much for jumping through hoops.
 
Now, if you are about to hire an escort whose ad appears to be a scam, I guess thats an entirely different thing.

Exactly... folks likethat will never be pleased, I am sure many of them are just wasting your time and enjoying the power of demanding something (a specific pic) and getting it... maybe some wants assurance the pics are real but 90÷ are picture collectors or just paranoid.
 
What would they ask next? Meeting in the corner.

Juan, I had always read these 'proof' requests as being methods to resolve doubt about the authenticity of an ad, not an 'every case' procedure. As such I always considered them unremarkable. I would be dismayed if there were people who seek to apply them to everyone they approach. Any combination of a consistent and clear advertising presence, good reviews, positive commentary in here or positive engagement with the forum should be enough to obviate the need for a specific photo. I completely understand your stated reaction to such a request.

I don't send pictures of my face, but if anyone asked me to take specific pictures to appease them, I would pass without any further ado.
 
I put a lot of effort in creating a clear image of who I am, supporting a strong positive presence and a long list of reviews. Personally, I am not much for jumping through hoops.
 
Now, if you are about to hire an escort whose ad appears to be a scam, I guess thats an entirely different thing.

As an escort myself, if you ever find anything that gives you insight into my private life, I would be eternally grateful if you told me.
 
Please, and thank you.

As an escort myself, if you ever find anything that gives you insight into my private life, I would be eternally grateful if you told me.
 
Please, and thank you.

Please let him know that one of his pictures, after a cursory search reveals a lot of private information.
 
If he cares about his privacy, he will be thankful.
 
If you are too concerned about ruining your session, send him an email after it.

Lol. We always end in the same place. For most questions, there are as many answers as people involved. There is no standard in this industry. I guess we have to be open and perceptive to get to know the other as much as possible, and make a decision. It is not what we think we should do in an hypothetical situation, but what it is the best to do in specific circumstances.

As an escort myself, if you ever find anything that gives you insight into my private life, I would be eternally grateful if you told me.
 
Please, and thank you.

As an escort myself, if you ever find anything that gives you insight into my private life, I would be eternally grateful if you told me.
 
Please, and thank you.

Please let him know that one of his pictures, after a cursory search reveals a lot of private information.
 
If he cares about his privacy, he will be thankful.
 
If you are too concerned about ruining your session, send him an email after it.

Please let him know that one of his pictures, after a cursory search reveals a lot of private information.
 
If he cares about his privacy, he will be thankful.
 
If you are too concerned about ruining your session, send him an email after it.

My advice is this--Cancel the appointment...NOW. By your own admission, you do not know how to shut up when alcohol enters an equation, and blabbing that you know an escort's real identity is you on your knees in kneepads BEGGING for trouble. Furthermore, I call "bullshit" on your "cyber-sleuthing"....my view is you were actively looking.
 
Tip to renters--Unless an escort wants you knowing his life story/bidness/etc....keep your nose out of it.

Let me clarify. If both partners want to eat each other alive, that is just called kissing. And yes, it's pretty hot, and pretty rare.
 
Tonsil raping is when one partner, without warm up, without care and without reciprocation seems intent in pushing his tongue as deep into his protesting partner's mouth as he can. One attacks, the other tries to squirm away.
 
Tonsil raping is a one way street. And sadly, it is terribly common. A couple clients in this forum have written that the way to ensure an escort "kisses" is to thrust their tongues as deep into their mouths as they can as soon as the escort walks through the door. "If he doesn't like that, send him his way", was their advise.
 
So gross in so many ways.
 

 
Don't feel weird. You are entitled to like whatever you like. That's awesome. Just make sure to avoid the temptation to think that because you are paying someone to spend time with you, your way of intimacy has to be obeyed. Intimacy is a two way street, otherwise it's just rape. Propose, listen, respect, negotiate, enjoy.
 
There are clients and escorts, however, who believe the escort is just a machine that has to fake enjoyment doing things he abhors. As long as the escort fakes well, the client is happy. That is not intimacy, though. All you have to do is chose which camp you want to live in.
 

 
In that, when it comes to me, at least, you are wrong. But it doesn't have anything to do with the client being hot, or beautiful. If the client is clean, respectful, present, considerate and is treating me like a human being, if he is listening to my kissing and is abandoning into his own, it is really hard NOT to fall in love a little... In the height of the passion there is this delicious abandon that has to take place and my heart breaks a little and it makes it bigger and stronger. If I don't fall in love a little during the session, I feel the session didn't take off.
 
In order to never compromise my clients' feelings, it is my duty, as a responsible escort to to get that little infatuation filed in a secret place in my heart and move on, grateful, happy, fulfilled.
 
Mutual kissing is where it's at!

I always tell my future partner my stats before we meet --- If it is a problem for him I would much rather know before I have prepped. set up the gear, and set aside valuable time - Only to have a caller get to the door, stammer and either say this isn't gonna work or gulp and grind his teeth and fake it as we both have a lousy time. I am a Big Bodied Rolly Polly Bear/Chub and I like my
big furry body - If you don't lots of other guys do!
 
Good Communication makes for great fornication!!!!!!

Questions regarding escorts reactions to client’s age, ethnicity, and weight are constantly coming up on this site. The solution is really quite simple. At an early stage of communication with an escort upload him regarding age, physical appearance, activity level and sexual likes and dislikes. I always provide this information to an escort I’m interest in hiring and conclude by asking him to contact me if none of the information is a problem for him. I’m 75 and if the guy I’m communicating with doesn’t want to play with someone my age he simply doesn’t have to respond -- this has happened ONLY once and at that time I was in my 60’s.
 
The ABSOLUTE KEY to having a successful get together with any escort is ALWAYS honest COMMUNICATION.

it might be that I am an escort, but the sexiest name that sends chills to my spine is:
 
Summer Clearance

it might be that I am an escort, but the sexiest name that sends chills to my spine is:
 
Summer Clearance