KeepItReal

Have to disagree. It is certainly right there on the edge of snarky but not rude in my book. I tend to roll out the snark quite a bit myself, so maybe that is why I find the comment funny. 🤷‍♂️

I don't really frequent Spas in NYC - but this profile caught my eye and he ("Sergey") claims to have worked at a well known Spa in NYC. Anyone recognize him and can maybe recommend him? https://rentmasseur.com/SergeyUA Thanks!

#GokuSuperSaiyanMode 🤣

Have you considering getting your hands around the problem? In other words, jerk off ahead of time so you aren't so...excitable? (It's know as the There Is Something About Mary approach! Lol)

I agree with @mike carey. Don't make too many assumptions or try to overthink. Ask him instead of assuming. If he questions why you are asking so many questions - tell him you want to make sure he has a good time while visiting. Explain that if he does not communicate his desires (does he want you to show him some of the local sights) you can't prepare (some spots require reservations). It is okay to ask if he would be okay staying at your place. Be tactful but direct. Maintain a positive vibe and make it work! 😉

Maybe sticking with the review theme - www.adamapproved.com I am also willing to let go of www.keepitreal.com! 😉

He did, the next day. He wasn't available on the day I texted him or the next day when he returned my text.

I am currently traveling and seeing this guy visiting Dallas. Any insights to share? https://rentmen.eu/Manhattanboi

Do you work as a couple....'cause that could be fun! 😉

So much for "Loyalty & Honesty"! 🙄

Contacted him by text, no response back. Will give him another shot based on your comments.

There are some laws (FOSTA/SESTA) that could get you in trouble, but under free speech it is likely a "he who owns the site makes the rules" situation. Also depends on where the website is domiciled. 🤓

That is good advice - blocking them from seeking once you go to an offline discussion is a pretty good idea, especially when things look to get dicey. I have the same policy - I need to see them face to face, even if it is a video call, before I am willing to provide any aid. There are just too many scammers out there.

I don't know - looks like he could be good for my mental well being... 🤭

Also on Rentmasseur: https://rentmasseur.com/DustinB

Dude - you've bumped 5 threads in the past 24 hours. If you are that much in need, it is time to paint or get off the ladder!! 🤣

It is a generic term used to refer to sex workers but also non-sex workers like masseurs here on the forum. I prefer "companion" instead of "provider". Do you have a better generic term to propose?

There were quite a few on my list too! Like you, some I have not seen in more than a year. A small number have moved on but I still keep in touch since I consider them friends.

He has been discussed before. New name on the profile. According to his Instagram he is in NYC - so that tracks.

Any advice on how to search a specific thread for a specific name? For example, there is a very long thread about Spas in NYC - if I want to search for a specific provider (let's say Alan) how would I do that? Thanks! 🙂

Okay, now I understand. It's not that you had to leave the city; you chose to leave the city because of circumstances. 🤓 I decided to stay in NYC ... but I was prepared - after hurricane Sandy I created a standing reminder on my calendar for 1st of July to swap out/replace my emergency supplies so I can stay put in case of an emergency.

I don't follow...You say you had to leave town.. You say you couldn't stay home... Why? Why didn't you just stay in your home like the rest of the folks in NYC? 🤔

Sometimes it is polite and appropriate to pay for the cow, even if the milk is offered for free! 😉

So true! It is an effort but it can pay off when you find the right fella. Going on my first trip with a foreign student I met a few weeks ago. Our first date was a quiet dinner. Second date was dinner at my place. This coming week, work is sending me out of town. It was cheaper to fly out early so I booked a flight for today (Saturday morning) so I could enjoy the city over the weekend. Flights were so cheap, I offered him the opportunity to join me and he thought it was a great idea. Hoping for a great weekend. He asks very little - time and affection. How can I say no? 😁

Why are you SHOUTING? I promise, we can hear you just fine. 😁 You can cancel your trip at any time. I am guessing your question relates more to whether you can cancel and get your money back? 🤓 That depends on the airline and travel agency policy around cancelations AND if you booked a "no cancel" type cheap ticket. Most airlines and travel agencies allow you to cancel and get your money back within 24 hours of making the reservation. After that initial 24 hours, there really aren't any hard rules. Sorry.