FTM Zachary Prince

Yup. But it’s generally seen as bad form to discuss this topic openly with clients.

To handle the flight booking, you can price the flight on Southwest.com and then have the client send you a digital Southwest gift card so that you can book the flight yourself. All he needs is an email address to send it to. And it doesn’t even have to be the same email address that your Southwest.com account is under. You will receive a gift card code that can be used to book your tickets. I would personally never let a client book them for me, because they could always cancel the return ticket and leave me stranded somewhere. Of course most clients wouldn’t, but SOME clients do the wackiest things sometimes! Better safe than sorry!

RentMen definitely doesn’t ask for US ID. Just look at how many guys are using it in Mumbai...
 
I heard of another site changing it’s policy after SESTA/FOSTA to require US ID for anyone who wanted to post ads within the US. I assume this is to protect themselves from accusations of facilitating international human trafficking...

This has worked great for me in the past..ironically with another Zachary! Zachery Scott of Las Vegas.

I have done exactly this for Delta. They can buy physical gift cards as well. Both work just fine.

To handle the flight booking, you can price the flight on Southwest.com and then have the client send you a digital Southwest gift card so that you can book the flight yourself. All he needs is an email address to send it to. And it doesn’t even have to be the same email address that your Southwest.com account is under. You will receive a gift card code that can be used to book your tickets. I would personally never let a client book them for me, because they could always cancel the return ticket and leave me stranded somewhere. Of course most clients wouldn’t, but SOME clients do the wackiest things sometimes! Better safe than sorry!

I think you’d be surprised the number of people who book escorts primarily for companionship across the board. It’s true that it’s rare for sex to not be part of the equation. But I think quite a large percentage of clients are motivated by companionship more than anything. Sex is a part of how we connect with each other. But the connection is what they are after. I would expect this to be true across the board. Requests for companionship without sex are rare but they do happen. And people’s ideas of what constitutes “sex” can also vary widely.

I feel neutral. I have seen many clients with disabilities. My rate per hour certainly does not go up, and I would think it would be crazy and unethical to charge a higher rate to someone for having a disability... I do not treat clients with disabilities any differently except for the ways that it’s required to accommodate them enjoying themselves. For example I do not usually agree to “on top” positions for an extended amount of time with most clients. I find it unnecessarily physically exhausting. I like to service people but I see no reason for clients not to share in the physical effort required to fuck. In the case of someone who is physically unable to achieve certain positions, though, I might expect to have to do more of the physical labor required to play. I would definitely plan my day accordingly if I knew in advance by not scheduling any other demanding physical activity that day. I have a wheelchair-bound client who is paralysed from the nipples down who books me for 8 hour sessions sometimes. I always take the entire next day off to recover. It requires a lot of me physically... Disabled people are people who need sex just like anyone else. In fact many are hot and fun to be with sexually, and often face extra barriers against casual hookups being an option. I usually have a great experience and have no complaints.

Yup. But it’s generally seen as bad form to discuss this topic openly with clients.

An advance deposit is a standard ask for travel bookings. Typically 50% of the total. You can have clients mail blank money orders to you in a magazine and fill the name in yourself. You can also ask him to buy Vanilla Visa gift cards, which you can use to pay bills online or convert into real money using PayPal. I don’t recommend accepting PayPal directly from clients, ever. Not only will they see your full legal name when they send you the money, but they can also reverse the transaction months down the line, well after you have delivered service. And PayPal will ban YOU for life. Escorts are not allowed to use their service at all, and even the accusation of being an escort can get you banned. Thus it’s much safer to never share your PayPal account with a client directly. Instead, ask for pre-paid gift cards. There are tricks to get the money off the cards and into your bank account for a small processing fee.
 
Feel free to “ask a lot” of any client who is asking you to fly across the country and spend a weekend with him. He is “asking a lot” too.
 
As a personal anecdote, one time a client flew me across the country to keep me up in Vegas for two days so he could sneak away once or twice a day while he was there on a boring trip with his family. He promised he would arrange my hotel and give me the details when I arrived. I reached the Vegas airport after a 3 hour flight and asked him which hotel I should head to. No answer... I desperately needed to replace my phone, so I headed to a shop to purchase one while I waited to hear from him. Still no answer... Finally another hour later, he emails me to say he needs to cancel! After I’ve already been in his city for two hours! I would have been devastated had I not taken a 50% deposit in advance for the session. But I was able to book my own hotel and not sweat too hard about losing money on the trip. Since he had ditched me, I posted last minute ads and snagged another client. And guess what? My original client ended up getting free the following day, I extended my trip by an extra night, and he ended up seeing me the next couple days and paid me the balance that he owed me for the full trip anyway. If I had not taken an advance deposit for that trip, can you imagine the pickle I might have been in? Taking advance deposits allows you to stay secure during your trip no matter what kinds of crazy emergencies or changes of plans may happen on the client’s end. And that can be very, very valuable. Last-minute changes DO unexpectedly happen, discretion-related needs sometime trump everything else, and having that deposit money in your possession can protect you from a lot. I take bookings without deposits, but I definitely never go out of my way to travel to a client without one. Keeps things simpler and drama-free.

I will say I miss the bars in NY where the boys for hire congregated ... Cats, Rounds, Stella. The clients checked out the boys 'live' and the boys checked out the clients. A few drinks were had, and you were off to the races. It was more honest and more straightforward.

You're going to get a slew of answers and opinions here.
 
Point blank: Ask the escort before you see him. Don't put him on the spot about it.

No. I require absolute control over who is granted a session with me and who is declined one.
 
But I totally understand why having an agent is appealing to some people.
 
The take in the OP is not an excellent argument. It is an ignorant one that misses many key points about why most escorts in the US do not use agents.
 
First of all, agents in the US do not charge 10-15%. Almost no agent in existence in the US offers more than a 50% cut, especially in the case where they handle not only your advertising but also your bookings/scheduling and client arrival communications.
 
2nd, AUTONOMY. Agents are greedy and want to fill an escort’s schedule regardless of whether the client sounds nice or sounds pushy and possibly disrespectful. The agent doesn’t have to be in the room with the client. Escorts develop an important, protective sense of intuition when handling our own bookings that allows us to identify and decline most abusive varieties of clients in advance.
 
3rd, the distinction made between $300/hr escort labor and $12/hr secretarial labor is a totally false distinction. $300/hr is merely a billable rate. Not the actual value of an hour of the professional’s labor. That value is simply a client-facing numerical value. There is absolutely no standard correlation between that number and the amount of money that an escort is compensated per hour of his work. Do not analyse it as such. It renders your argument baseless. Escorts have nearly uncountable variety of various types of unbillable labor that also need to be factored into your math to even attempt to come up with an hourly rate. Let me save you the suspense... it’s nowhere near $300 an hour that we earn after all is said and done.
 
I’m not trying to attack or abuse the author of the quoted OP here. Just not interested in seeing this heralded as some kind of excellent argument when it’s not one.

Well it depends... how long can you last before you explode?? I tend to push my clients up against a wall and have my tongue and fingers inside their nooks and crannies within moments of my hotel room door closing. First impressions really set the tone. It’s not unusual for me to drop to my knees right there behind the door. Oh... you need a shower? OK, I guess I can give you a moment for that. After all, my tongue wants to be able to go *everywhere*. My sexual repertoire is so varied that an hour is really not enough time for my sessions. It’s why I have a two hour minimum. The sex I have with my clients tends to take a minimum of 1.5 hours between oral every which way, fucking in both directions, prostate stimulation, tease & denial (more oral), and the big finish. And usually guys cum so hard that they need 5-10 minutes before they can form complete sentences let alone get showered and dressed. So I don’t really have an answer for how much sex happens in a one hour appointment. One hour appointments don’t exist for me. When I used to schedule one hour appointments, I was kicking people out well before either of us wanted them to have to leave. My 90 minute appointments consistently ran overtime. Hence now I have a two hour minimum and all my clients seem happier. The way I personally like to have sex, I don’t even understand how to fit it all into a one hour booking. Whenever guys come to me for an hour thinking they only want to try X and Y activities, they always end up wanting to do more once we are together.
 
I agree with the other comments that say every encounter is different tho. You shouldn’t really try to pin a number of minutes on the sexual activity you should expect from any particular length of appointment.

No. I require absolute control over who is granted a session with me and who is declined one.
 
But I totally understand why having an agent is appealing to some people.
 
The take in the OP is not an excellent argument. It is an ignorant one that misses many key points about why most escorts in the US do not use agents.
 
First of all, agents in the US do not charge 10-15%. Almost no agent in existence in the US offers more than a 50% cut, especially in the case where they handle not only your advertising but also your bookings/scheduling and client arrival communications.
 
2nd, AUTONOMY. Agents are greedy and want to fill an escort’s schedule regardless of whether the client sounds nice or sounds pushy and possibly disrespectful. The agent doesn’t have to be in the room with the client. Escorts develop an important, protective sense of intuition when handling our own bookings that allows us to identify and decline most abusive varieties of clients in advance.
 
3rd, the distinction made between $300/hr escort labor and $12/hr secretarial labor is a totally false distinction. $300/hr is merely a billable rate. Not the actual value of an hour of the professional’s labor. That value is simply a client-facing numerical value. There is absolutely no standard correlation between that number and the amount of money that an escort is compensated per hour of his work. Do not analyse it as such. It renders your argument baseless. Escorts have nearly uncountable variety of various types of unbillable labor that also need to be factored into your math to even attempt to come up with an hourly rate. Let me save you the suspense... it’s nowhere near $300 an hour that we earn after all is said and done.
 
I’m not trying to attack or abuse the author of the quoted OP here. Just not interested in seeing this heralded as some kind of excellent argument when it’s not one.

Also - treating sex as pretty much anything other than an explorative conversation about connection and affirmation that we're having using our bodies and psyches is doing ourselves a disservice, in my opinion.

I think one trouble in answering this question comes from the idea of "actual sex" - that itself means different things for different people.
 
What people seek from a sexual encounter varies person to person.
 
Soft intimacy, naked cuddling, bound and gagged, fisting - these are all activities that tap into one's sensual, sexual self.

I think you’d be surprised the number of people who book escorts primarily for companionship across the board. It’s true that it’s rare for sex to not be part of the equation. But I think quite a large percentage of clients are motivated by companionship more than anything. Sex is a part of how we connect with each other. But the connection is what they are after. I would expect this to be true across the board. Requests for companionship without sex are rare but they do happen. And people’s ideas of what constitutes “sex” can also vary widely.

No. I require absolute control over who is granted a session with me and who is declined one.
 
But I totally understand why having an agent is appealing to some people.
 
The take in the OP is not an excellent argument. It is an ignorant one that misses many key points about why most escorts in the US do not use agents.
 
First of all, agents in the US do not charge 10-15%. Almost no agent in existence in the US offers more than a 50% cut, especially in the case where they handle not only your advertising but also your bookings/scheduling and client arrival communications.
 
2nd, AUTONOMY. Agents are greedy and want to fill an escort’s schedule regardless of whether the client sounds nice or sounds pushy and possibly disrespectful. The agent doesn’t have to be in the room with the client. Escorts develop an important, protective sense of intuition when handling our own bookings that allows us to identify and decline most abusive varieties of clients in advance.
 
3rd, the distinction made between $300/hr escort labor and $12/hr secretarial labor is a totally false distinction. $300/hr is merely a billable rate. Not the actual value of an hour of the professional’s labor. That value is simply a client-facing numerical value. There is absolutely no standard correlation between that number and the amount of money that an escort is compensated per hour of his work. Do not analyse it as such. It renders your argument baseless. Escorts have nearly uncountable variety of various types of unbillable labor that also need to be factored into your math to even attempt to come up with an hourly rate. Let me save you the suspense... it’s nowhere near $300 an hour that we earn after all is said and done.
 
I’m not trying to attack or abuse the author of the quoted OP here. Just not interested in seeing this heralded as some kind of excellent argument when it’s not one.

No. I require absolute control over who is granted a session with me and who is declined one.
 
But I totally understand why having an agent is appealing to some people.
 
The take in the OP is not an excellent argument. It is an ignorant one that misses many key points about why most escorts in the US do not use agents.
 
First of all, agents in the US do not charge 10-15%. Almost no agent in existence in the US offers more than a 50% cut, especially in the case where they handle not only your advertising but also your bookings/scheduling and client arrival communications.
 
2nd, AUTONOMY. Agents are greedy and want to fill an escort’s schedule regardless of whether the client sounds nice or sounds pushy and possibly disrespectful. The agent doesn’t have to be in the room with the client. Escorts develop an important, protective sense of intuition when handling our own bookings that allows us to identify and decline most abusive varieties of clients in advance.
 
3rd, the distinction made between $300/hr escort labor and $12/hr secretarial labor is a totally false distinction. $300/hr is merely a billable rate. Not the actual value of an hour of the professional’s labor. That value is simply a client-facing numerical value. There is absolutely no standard correlation between that number and the amount of money that an escort is compensated per hour of his work. Do not analyse it as such. It renders your argument baseless. Escorts have nearly uncountable variety of various types of unbillable labor that also need to be factored into your math to even attempt to come up with an hourly rate. Let me save you the suspense... it’s nowhere near $300 an hour that we earn after all is said and done.
 
I’m not trying to attack or abuse the author of the quoted OP here. Just not interested in seeing this heralded as some kind of excellent argument when it’s not one.

Well it depends... how long can you last before you explode?? I tend to push my clients up against a wall and have my tongue and fingers inside their nooks and crannies within moments of my hotel room door closing. First impressions really set the tone. It’s not unusual for me to drop to my knees right there behind the door. Oh... you need a shower? OK, I guess I can give you a moment for that. After all, my tongue wants to be able to go *everywhere*. My sexual repertoire is so varied that an hour is really not enough time for my sessions. It’s why I have a two hour minimum. The sex I have with my clients tends to take a minimum of 1.5 hours between oral every which way, fucking in both directions, prostate stimulation, tease & denial (more oral), and the big finish. And usually guys cum so hard that they need 5-10 minutes before they can form complete sentences let alone get showered and dressed. So I don’t really have an answer for how much sex happens in a one hour appointment. One hour appointments don’t exist for me. When I used to schedule one hour appointments, I was kicking people out well before either of us wanted them to have to leave. My 90 minute appointments consistently ran overtime. Hence now I have a two hour minimum and all my clients seem happier. The way I personally like to have sex, I don’t even understand how to fit it all into a one hour booking. Whenever guys come to me for an hour thinking they only want to try X and Y activities, they always end up wanting to do more once we are together.
 
I agree with the other comments that say every encounter is different tho. You shouldn’t really try to pin a number of minutes on the sexual activity you should expect from any particular length of appointment.

Breaking it down like this takes every ounce of fun out of a meeting. If this is how someone thinks about meeting with an escort, perhaps they should reevaluate.
 
If minute-to-minute is of importance, discuss it privately with your guy. There is no hard and fast rule on any of this.

There are so many hoops in my booking process... it’s not like clients with cash in their possession just give me an address and I show up. If someone is capable of complying with my booking procedure, they are clearly capable of consenting to an encounter with me. Whatever their mental disabilities or diversities may be, my ability to service them is limited only by their ability to make me feel safe, comfortable, and respected.
 
I am not observing and analysing my clients to search for mental challenges. I find the framing of this question weird. I am not a psychiatrist nor qualified to diagnose anyone. The only things I’m carefully observing new clients for are red flag behaviours like boundary pushing, malicious drama-stimulating gossip about other escorts, disrespectful generalisations about people in my line of work, controlling and invasive lines of conversation, etc.

No. I require absolute control over who is granted a session with me and who is declined one.
 
But I totally understand why having an agent is appealing to some people.
 
The take in the OP is not an excellent argument. It is an ignorant one that misses many key points about why most escorts in the US do not use agents.
 
First of all, agents in the US do not charge 10-15%. Almost no agent in existence in the US offers more than a 50% cut, especially in the case where they handle not only your advertising but also your bookings/scheduling and client arrival communications.
 
2nd, AUTONOMY. Agents are greedy and want to fill an escort’s schedule regardless of whether the client sounds nice or sounds pushy and possibly disrespectful. The agent doesn’t have to be in the room with the client. Escorts develop an important, protective sense of intuition when handling our own bookings that allows us to identify and decline most abusive varieties of clients in advance.
 
3rd, the distinction made between $300/hr escort labor and $12/hr secretarial labor is a totally false distinction. $300/hr is merely a billable rate. Not the actual value of an hour of the professional’s labor. That value is simply a client-facing numerical value. There is absolutely no standard correlation between that number and the amount of money that an escort is compensated per hour of his work. Do not analyse it as such. It renders your argument baseless. Escorts have nearly uncountable variety of various types of unbillable labor that also need to be factored into your math to even attempt to come up with an hourly rate. Let me save you the suspense... it’s nowhere near $300 an hour that we earn after all is said and done.
 
I’m not trying to attack or abuse the author of the quoted OP here. Just not interested in seeing this heralded as some kind of excellent argument when it’s not one.

I feel neutral. I have seen many clients with disabilities. My rate per hour certainly does not go up, and I would think it would be crazy and unethical to charge a higher rate to someone for having a disability... I do not treat clients with disabilities any differently except for the ways that it’s required to accommodate them enjoying themselves. For example I do not usually agree to “on top” positions for an extended amount of time with most clients. I find it unnecessarily physically exhausting. I like to service people but I see no reason for clients not to share in the physical effort required to fuck. In the case of someone who is physically unable to achieve certain positions, though, I might expect to have to do more of the physical labor required to play. I would definitely plan my day accordingly if I knew in advance by not scheduling any other demanding physical activity that day. I have a wheelchair-bound client who is paralysed from the nipples down who books me for 8 hour sessions sometimes. I always take the entire next day off to recover. It requires a lot of me physically... Disabled people are people who need sex just like anyone else. In fact many are hot and fun to be with sexually, and often face extra barriers against casual hookups being an option. I usually have a great experience and have no complaints.