FTM Zachary Prince

Ehhh what’s the difference between sucking a dick that was just up someone’s butt and sticking your tongue as far as you can up the same butt? I realize cocks are longer than tongues, but if a bottom knows how to clean his ass properly (which a professional porn star DOES), then it’s about the same. Ass is yummy...

People tell me that my legs are very manly. I have to admit I love them. I’m still early in my testosterone treatment. I should see a lot more hair growth starting next year. But my legs and ass are already sprouting full of hair even in this early phase. Makes me feel like I’m going to be a total furball on my lower half by a few years from now. I love to wear shorts in public. I love it even more when people stare at my legs. Some people seem to get really horny seeing such a sweet, feminine looking guy with such muscular hairy legs! Once on a long-distance train I was sitting opposite a guy in a corridor/vestibule on the floor, who started discreetly stroking my leg hairs. It was really hot. Eventually he ended up stroking my armpit hairs too. Amazing how sometimes the hottest encounters don’t even have to involve kissing or getting naked. I will never forget it!

Yes. I do MMA & BJJ and WOW, there is no better way to start your day than rolling around with sweaty guys!! Talk about heaven!! This is one of the most fun and joyful things for me about “passing” besides being able to participate in public cruising. I wrestle men who have no idea that I’m trans and I’m usually a lot stronger and better at it than they expect me to be given how slim and feminine looking I am for a guy. They also think I’m like 18 lol. I love the tension of struggling with someone, the smell of the sweat, the feeling of slick skin, and the excitement of either winning or losing the struggle... both are fun for me. It’s super primal and satisfying in a way that appeases my fetishes without being explicitly sexual. Not that I would be opposed to that either if it went there!!

I used to do well in Boston pre-transition, and have a regular or two in town, so I visit 2-3 times a year. Can’t say I have strong feelings about it one way or the other. Boston has been VERY good to me at times. Sometimes it’s very mehhhh tho. Especially nowadays post-FOSTA/SESTA and post-transition. I still usually recommend it to my escort friends to include in a tour, tho. I think it’s generally a great city to work. Good money for escorts and loyal regulars if you make some.

THIS! I advertise on half a dozen different escort platforms. I have multiple other streams of income besides escorting, which also involve communication. I do not have a receptionist or an assistant to check my “email” (note: internal messaging, not actually email) on every single website where I advertise. I absolutely insist that all of my appointment requests (from NEW clients) must come streamlined through one form of contact. I do not have time, when I need to double check what is the address for the Outcall, to search through my email, Twitter DMs, rentmen messages, and text inbox trying to figure out which platform my client used to send it to me. All the information in one place is a MUST for me. I receive dozens of messages every single day and I need all the serious inquiries in one place or I simply cannot keep track of them. Most escorts who insist on one particular form of contact probably feel the same. I think most clients have no idea how overwhelming it is to deal with dozens of inquiries a day, the majority of which are just jerkoffs looking for free attention, and then to also try to keep track of where your serious inquiries are spread across multiple methods of contact. Plus tons of time wasters like to DM on every single platform with no intention of booking. It takes a lot more effort to open my website, read my booking requirements, and come correctly with a detailed appointment request by email than it does to send a DM on this forum, rentmen, twitter, or any of the other numberous sites where I advertise. I want to see my potential clients jumping thru a hoop or two to prove to me that they are serious about booking me before I dedicate my valuable time to responding. I’m not the type of escort that people book out of CONVENIENCE, hence stressing myself out to keep maximum forms of contact available to accept bookings is NOT a priority for me. The clients who end up as my long-term, repeat clients generally find something unique about me that makes them willing to jump through a hoop or two in order to meet me. That is who I choose to focus my attention on servicing. If someone is ready to move on to the next escort because I don’t accept appointments by text message, then so be it. I will wait for the client who is happy to adhere to my preferences because he respects that I have booking policies for a good reason.

A lot of my clients say that from the moment we meet, they feel like we are long lost lovers. I have a natural talent for making people feel comfortable to be deeply intimate with me very quickly. I can’t really claim that this is something ONLY I can do, but it’s definitely something that seems to make my style of BFE very special... I kiss without reservation. Love and sex are not separate entities to me and their energy flows together when I give BFE. Now am I literally in love with all my clients? No, but perhaps for the moment, I allow myself to be energetically on that path with them. Someone who is looking for a taste of genuine intimacy can find it with me. My portals are open when I allow them to be...

When I want to network with another provider, I offer to meet them for coffee or lunch. My treat, if I can afford it at the time. Meeting face to face, feeling each other’s vibe, and getting to understand the basics of how the other person enjoys doing business can go a long way. Not every meeting yields referrals, but some of them do, and all of them make me more well-connected and turn me into a real live human being for that person rather than just an Internet persona. If you’re struggling to network with people then I highly recommend you (or any escort) try it. Asking a colleague out to a lunch meeting in a professional manner is wildly different than if I texted a colleague who I’d never met before saying that I randomly saw them out in public, which I’m sure you weren’t intending to be creepy, but would be received by a lot of people as exactly that. I don’t think it’s a great example of another escort declining to network with you. Try not to let that experience get you down about networking in general. Networking isn’t about making guaranteed referrals from every single meeting any more than advertising is about making guaranteed appointments from every single click. It’s just an additional source of exposure. And it can be very effective.

In fact, trading referrals is just about one of the most old school and discreet ways of doing business. A lot of the higher end escorts who are too exclusive to advertise take new clients ONLY by referral. And if/when the internet escort ad venues all cease to exist because of FOSTA/SESTA, the escorts who have strong referral networks will suffer the least...

What is REALLY tacky, tho, is when a client who has NEVER met you or spoken to you before emails you to tell you that he’s not attracted to you, but can you provide any referrals to another escort in your area? You’d actually be shocked, guys sometimes email me to say that they’re not into my armpit hair and could I please recommend another escort who looks like me who shaves their armpits? Or they’re not into trans guys... can I recommend a cis lady or a cis guy in Mumbai? OMFG. Talk about tacky! These are guys who I’ve never even met or conversed with before!

1) We don’t know if the referred escort would take on the client. That is for the escort to decide. A recommendation is just that... a recommendation! That said, I have friends who I refer to regularly who appreciate the business and take my reference seriously. Because I do not put up with BS. I’m no one’s pimp and I don’t have a single client who would confuse a referral with a guarantee that the escort in question would meet him. So I’m not seeing how this is a reason not to give referrals at all. When you have good working relationships with other escorts, you know if they want more work or not, and they also tend to prioritize accepting the clients you refer to them. 2) My friends’ rates often differ from mine. My clients generally know better than to haggle. If they are hagglers, how did they end up as my clients in the first place? They didn’t. My clients know better than to try to haggle one of my friends’ rates. If they did any such thing then my escort friends surely wouldn’t blame me, as they know I’m not my client’s keeper. It’s simply a business referral that didn’t work out in that case. And that client would never get a referral from me again. But I’ve referred clients to other escorts hundreds of times over the last 8 years, and I can’t think of a single time this has happened. 3) My escort friends aren’t racist. You can choose not to cross-network with other people and give/accept referrals, but you’re only damaging your business and limiting your income. You can justify it all kinds of ways and feel like you don’t owe any other escort referrals and they wouldn’t give you any referrals either, but that kind of attitude severely limits your income potential. Taking the time to develop relationships with other escorts and trading referrals is very profitable. Clients like it, and it’s good for business. That said, if you don’t have a referral to give, simply say you don’t know anyone! No harm, no foul.

I agree. Being possessive about clients is a newbie mistake in this industry. There's plenty of business to go around. Abundance mentality & networking with other talented escorts goes a LONG way!

Lol... if any fellow escorts who bottom would like to *personally* test the caliber of my toppings services so that you can consider giving me as a recommendation to clients... just let me know :p;):D:D:D #escort4escort

I’m always happy to recommend friends. Hell, sometimes I have a friend pop into a date as a surprise! LOL Happy Birthday!!

Breath play gets a bad rap. There are situations that make it very dangerous, but there are also ways to do it that are very safe. The high is absolutely luxurious! I’m a huge fan of breath play... Safety tips for extremely low risk breath play: ~ never do it alone, always with a sane & sober partner ~ avoid using objects to restrict airflow... the web of your thumb is all that’s necessary ~ do not crush the voice box; breath can be cut off at a much lower point in the neck using very little pressure ~ avoid making your partner pass out / ask your partner to avoid allowing you to pass out... EDGING is very effective in breath play & five or ten minutes of struggling to breath and barely getting enough air is enough to make you high and your orgasm insane... the struggle causes your brain to panic... releasing happy chemicals ... without the medical risks associated with passing out ~ TOPS: keep EYE CONTACT with your bottom during breath play AND/OR keep your head very close to their head!! You want to be able to hear each and every ragged breath escaping through their windpipe so you are intimately aware how much air they are getting! You should NEVER restrict someone’s airflow in a situation where you are unable to monitor your bottom’s breathing! This is also why you should NEVER EVER do breath play alone!! There is virtually no risk to breath play if these safety tips are followed. A little web of thumb across the lower throat, perhaps your body’s weight on his, the restricted airflow and perceived helplessness causes a panic that turns delicious and euphoric after it runs its course. Yes, breath play can result in death. But only when safety is blatantly disregarded. Fastening belts around necks and hanging oneself from a closet are absolutely not safe, sane forms of play, so that’s what you want to stay away from.

Wow... warms my heart to hear that! Will have to check it out the next time I’m in NYC!

I never let a client I haven’t met before pick me up, for safety reasons and a whole host of other reasons mentioned on this thread. A client who I’m familiar with, it would just depend on the client, our chemistry, and the circumstance... In the circumstance where he can’t host and also doesn’t have his own transportation, you may find him flexible about your offer. It never hurts to ask.

Being fingered without a glove is low-risk, but there are a few factors that can increase the risks involved. Blood-borne transmissions are the highest risk with “bareback” fingering. And that risk is generally pretty low. Cuts on the hands or fingers, including microcuts that are too small for the naked eye to see, can open a passage to blood-borne transmissions. If the giver does anything rough with their hands on a regular basis, such as cooking, cleaning, carpentry, mechanic work, the chance of them having micro-cuts that cannot be seen by the naked eye is pretty high! Rinsing your hands with lemon juice before a date is a good way to determine if you have any on your fingers, as it will sting in contact wherever they are. Micro-tears in the rectum, including those too small to be consciously felt or produce any visible traces of blood, can open the passage for blood-borne transmissions from the receivers end. Rough sex without enough lube in the hours/days prior can easily leave these. As can improperly trimmed fingernails create them during the fingering process. Steps you can take to reduce chances of blood-borne transmission during bareback fingering: ~ the top could check his fingers for invisible cuts and scrapes using lemon juice beforehand ~ one or both parties could be on PrEP ~ both parties could test negative for Hep B ~ the top should make sure his fingernails are filed down smooth, so that there is zero roughness felt when scratching them across skin; a two-sided emeryboard is key here ~ plenty of lube should be used during fingering... even if fingers can be shoved in successfully without it I cook a LOT, so I always used gloves for fingering prior to starting PrEP. I no longer do unless it’s requested by my bottom OR my fingernails are not smooth enough to do it safely.

I sort of wish I had become an escort when I was in college because I would have slept and eaten a lot more regularly in those years if I had!! But on the other hand, might be better that I didn’t. I doubt I would have had the judgement to make good decisions considering the position I was in. We can roleplay that I’m still in college now tho if you want.

Plenty of homeless people have roofs over their heads AND hope for the future. Also, I didn’t say they have more ways to make money. I said they have more options to get free food. Reading comprehension not your strength? Point is college students are often much more desperate for immediate cash than homeless people. And that is the damn truth. Having been both homeless AND a college student, I definitely know both situations. Homeless people qualify for food stamps. College students do not (even if they’re also homeless). Homeless people who are not in college have time to apply to housing placement programs that most college students are not able to access. Homeless people who are not in college have time to work a traditional job 30-40 hours per week and can search for one. Full time college students can not. In America today, grocery stores throw out tons of perfectly good food on a daily basis. Sometimes they donate it to churches that give the food away in boxes to homeless people. How many college students who are studying 60 hours a week and working 10 hours a week do you think have time to go seek out and collect all this free food waste? These programs are all targeted at homlesss people (who aren’t college students). Point is, college students have no support systems in place for them when they are broke and hungry. The systems designed to support homeless people aren’t accessible to them. Homeless people (who aren’t in college) have far more resources at their disposal than college students who are hungry. Which equals a much higher level of desperation amongst broke college students to earn something by any means necessary. Maybe you assume that all college students have year-round housing or meals provided daily but that’s simply not true.

Advertising to clients with a higher budget is all about putting yourself in places that aren’t traditional escort ad venues (which, if someone is in the habit of browsing, they are more likely to be more into paying an average rate). Social media is one way. Making a name for yourself as a porn star (even an indie/self-made one) is another. Drinking at bars that business executives frequent (during the times they actually go there) with a stack of business cards is another. SEO is another. Having your own brand/website that can stand on its own outside of escort ad venues is KEY for all these strategies except maybe the social media strategy, and even then it helps. Clients willing to pay a higher rate tend to want to book you for YOU, not just because you’re an escort who fits X Y and Z parameters. Creating a presence in places where men with a high enough income to afford your rate can notice you, desire you, and realize that they can have you is the real game. Figuring out WHERE those places are that your potential clients can find you is the real challenge. But the above are some examples of strategies that WORK. In my experience showing a lot of depth of personality is helpful. A handful of generic selfies and a couple generic ad paragraphs simply do not cut it, in the world of higher rates. Make them fall in love with who you are as an individual and what makes you special, and the rate becomes less of a determining factor.

I’m happy with my rates and won’t be changing them for full service escorting. Now that I’m based in SF (temporarily) and it’s a lot more convenient for me to get to clients within a smaller ratio, I’ve been thinking about adding a more affordable massage option, since I’m good with my hands. Doubt I would offer this service outside of SF tho. I agree with a lot of the ideas in this thread, but I don’t think the same clients are the ones paying $50 and $500 rates, 99% of the time. That’s pretty rare for a client to agree to pay such widely varying amounts. Most clients have a price range they’re comfortable with, and they stick to it. You’ll find guys who pay $40-80, guys who pay $80-150, guys who pay $150-250, guys who pay $200-300, guys who pay $300-500, guys who pay $500-1000, and so on and so on. Most (but not all) of the guys who frequent this board and RM are going to be price shoppers, but I bet a lot of them would hesitate to agree to an offer for a $20 hookup too. They might wonder what’s wrong with the situation that it’s so much cheaper than what they’re used to. Most of the guys who exclusively stroll the streets and hookup apps/sites for escorts are gonna have the lowest budgets and would balk at the idea of paying even $150. The guys who prefer to pay $250-500 might skip over an ad that lists an hourly rate of $150, assuming (perhaps falsely) that since the price is so low, the experience won’t be up to their standards. You can literally NEVER make everyone happy or choose a price that appeals to everyone. Most of the types of clients who pay my rates ($1000+) don’t post on these types of boards, so one might think from reading here that they don’t exist. But Mocha, your story about changing your rate to $500 and then getting new clients doesn’t surprise me at all. Those clients are out there, and a lot of them don’t even pay attention to your ad until there is a high rate attached to it. At the end of the day you should choose your rate based on what YOU need to earn, based on your opportunity costs, travel time, income needs, volume preferences, etc. If there is more resistance than you’d like, you’re simply marketing to the wrong crowd. Figure out where the guys who are happy to pay your rate are looking, which marketing tactics speak to them, what type of photos they respond to, how much advance notice and what type of Incall location they require. In my opinion, don’t change your rate- change your advertising and find the clients who are willing to pay the rates you want in order to give you the income you need. Advertising the same way that $150 escorts advertise, on the same venues they advertise, using the same quality of photos, and operating under the same business model, is always gonna result in clients who WANT to pay $150 telling you that at $250, you’re charging too much. Likewise if you start advertising on grindr, you’re gonna get guys telling you that even $150 is “too much”. When I raised my rates from $200 to $500 (gradually over time), I always experienced comments about my rates being ridiculously high (even at $225 I used to get those comments). But as I changed my advertising to seek out my target audience more and more effectively, the naysayers ceased to contact me and the guys who were ready to pay my asking price found me. This experience/advice I’m sharing isn’t necessarily an encouragement to raise rates even higher. Everyone should literally sit down with their business model and income needs and then decide how much they need to charge. If you’re happy with your rate then keep it! But don’t let the “going rate” control your business model. You control your rate. You can’t control how the market responds. But you can LEARN from negative market responses and adjust your advertising accordingly. You don’t have to appeal to everyone, or even most. You just have to find your people and keep them coming back.

Riiiiight... because everyone knows that college students are the LEAST likely to be desperate for cash!! Do you even remember what being a college student was like?? Literally I have never seen people more desperate for cash than college students. Even homeless people have way more options for getting free food than college students. College students are the MOST DESPERATE and also the EASIEST to take advantage of because they’re inexperienced. Why do you think SA is full of students ready to spend an entire evening with someone for $150-200? Colleges expect your parents to contribute to your educational expenses and if a guy’s parents doesn’t, then he’s fucked. Try studying 60 hours a week and then trying to make ends meet off the 10 hours a week that you manage to work for $7.25 per hour at your campus job. Great... $290 per month... oops I mean $200 per month after taxes. Try feeding yourself (plus buying toiletries, clothes, etc) on $200 per month while attending college, studying, and working 70 hours per week. If that doesn’t equal financial desperation, I don’t know what does. Hunger is extremely motivational. Just be a good client, pay his asking rate, respect his boundaries, and leave on time. Don’t concern yourself with who is “desperate” for money. Half the time people are acting anyway. It’s all a part of the hustle.

What about: “No -KS”

I LOVE embarrassing the TSA agents!! “What is this?” “It’s a steel prostate wand” “For what?” “For fucking people in the ass!” :D Sooo much fun! In India you actually have to get your bag searched before entering any five star hotel too, so this happens to me even more frequently there. I find that the less embarrassed I am by the whole thing, the more awkward the person searching my bag seems to feel. So I’m super bold and smiley about it when they ask. They typically get so embarrassed that they stop searching my bag or search it less thoroughly, which I don’t mind at all.

I advertise as vers/top, and it’s pretty much to signal that while my pussy IS on the table, my primary mode is as a top, I’m most talented as a top, and I prefer topping to bottoming given the choice. Simply listing as versatile might yield the impression that I’m equally into topping and bottoming, which is simply not accurate. I totally agree with the earlier comments that many bottom clients assume guys advertising as “versatile” are really bottoms. Seeing the word “top” in the description is helpful. And I DOUBLE agree that cis guy clients tend to assume that trans guys are all bottoms, so it’s even MORE important for trans guys who top to emphasise that we do in fact, top. Hence Vers/Top is much more useful as a descriptor for many of us than simply saying Vers. Maybe this is obvious to everyone, but in my mind: Total Top: only tops Vers/Top: prefers to top; will bottom in the right circumstance (perhaps upon request, perhaps having to do with dick size or mood) Vers: offers topping and bottoming with roughly equal enthusiasm Vers/Bottom: prefers to bottom; will top upon request Total Bottom: only bottoms