FTM Zachary Prince

What amazes me is how many clients are shocked that escorts would have policies in place to curb away potential clients with such an incredible sense of entitlement. His body, his choice who to show it to. If you don’t like it then move on. Not everyone feels like revealing everything to every Tom Dick & Harry who wants to see. If you need to see the guy’s asshole/erection to make a decision then simply move on to someone who shows theirs openly. Plenty of fish in the sea. He doesn’t owe you a thing, and I guarantee you there are plenty of other clients who are happy to hire him based on whatever he chooses to show publicly. Respecting someone’s boundaries isn’t “putting up with crap”. If you seriously think that, then it’s absolutely no loss to the guys you aren’t booking. Nobody wants a client with the sense of entitlement that you seem to have. That’s not to say that most escorts won’t reveal private photos upon request. But your attitude about those who choose not to grant you access is VERY REVEALING about you.

NYC is a difficult market to crack and a rewarding market to succeed in. Anyone who wants to move here to establish themselves as an escort should expect to struggle. I think you have two realistic options unless you’re sitting on a bunch of savings you can use to fund your life until business picks up: 1) Minimise your expenses in NYC. This means don’t get your own apartment in Manhattan. Rent a cheap bedroom or a friend’s couch and establish some regular clients before you stick yourself with a huge monthly rent. NYC is expensive as hell and the market is oversaturated. Looks do not guarantee quick success... it takes lots of time and consistency to build a solid client base. You can use apps like Recharge or websites like DayUse to book hotel rooms to host Incalls. Having your own Incall apartment in NYC is living the gay hooker dream, and it’s definitely not amateur territory unless you have a lot of money to invest while your business builds. 2) Get a day job. Use the income from your day job to get that dreamy HK studio that’s perfect for Incall. Escort on the side until you have a good amount of clients. Then quit your day job when the time is right. Ta-da! You’re now a full-time escort in NYC...

The Cock used to have a trough-style urinal. I was so sad when the place shut down. I’d gotten lucky there more than once. I heard they re-opened in a new location though. Anyone been there? I don’t know if it’s quite as delightfully seedy as their last spot...

Once a regular client and I scheduled a meeting really close to a flight of mine. We met in an airport hotel. Well our little roleplay went overtime and next thing you know we were both rushing to get dressed. “Daddy” quickly pulled the money out of his pocket and shoved it into my hands as he rushed to get out of my way so I could close up shop and get into a taxi. I didn’t get to count it until I was on the way to the airport, and when it came up short I remembered the quickness with which his hands had grabbed the cash from his pockets. I was in too much of a rush for my flight to even message him before takeoff, but I had a super apologetic email waiting for me when my flight landed... he had reached home and gone into his pocket for something else only to come up horrified at the small wad of 20’s remaining there. Daddy was sweet enough to send me an extra 20 for not assuming the worst and being totally cool about it. Then there was that one guy who showed up with only $80 back when my rate was $250 and was hoping that I would go thru the booking without noticing... yeah... his ass got kicked OUT... but that was a long time ago! LOLOLOL

The argument is: there are literally guys who get off on just contacting us and wasting our time while they jerk off. The jerk-offs are the most likely ones to ask for live visuals like FaceTime. Suddenly we find ourselves non-consensually involved in someone else’s jerk-off session which we had to interrupt breakfast with our grandma, brush our teeth, and fix our hair to accommodate. How many times do you think a newbie escort puts up with that scenario before he learns that most serious clients are willing to book without such measures? Is it worth interrupting our lives, grooming ourselves, and giving uncompensated live performances on a regular basis to strangers who claim they MIGHT book us but are just jerking off 80% of the time to accommodate the 20% who might be serious? Depends on how desperate we are for business I guess. Or how naive. Or how patient. It’s all a matter of perspective... but surely you should be able to understand why someone would choose not to put up with this.

Hey... I never said I don’t eat dinner with anyone for free. But it’s at my invitation, or perhaps at my discretion to accept an invitation if the chemistry is breezy and my schedule allows. Stranger who found me through my escort advertisement inviting me to accompany them to dinner = work. I’m an escort and companionship is how I earn a living. I don’t dress or behave the same with a client over dinner as I do with my friends who I smoke up and talk nonsense with and the companionship fee is there to compensate me for the difference. But we agree on one point which is... to each his own! If the escorts you meet are thrilled to provide you with companionship for free then congratulations and I hope it stays drama-free and continues to work for you. My clients don’t have a problem compensating me for dinner and it seems to be worth their while since they continue to do so again and again. There are things that you cant learn about me from verification that you CAN learn about me from dinner... that’s true... however I CHARGE for the privilege of getting to know me that way. In my case, I am not just pretending to sell something besides sex because of the legality of it all. What I sell is my time and companionship. There is literally no reason for me to give my primary product away for free. I love sex and its a huge part of what I offer but the clock doesn’t start and end with sex. Ultimately you’re gonna find a wide variety of opinions among escorts that fluctuate between mine and the ones of the guys who are happy to do lunches and dinners for free, but I’m guessing that the more experienced and professional escorts understand the value of their companionship too much to bother. There are plenty of clients out there who are ready to compensate us appropriately for our time.

By all means... please DO verify! Are you suggesting that there’s no way to verify an escort besides asking him to provide his companionship service for FREE?! There are tons of ways to verify me, and all of them involve my potential clients taking the time to research me before booking. NONE of them involve me disrupting my life to provide free companionship services in order to convince someone that I’d be fun to fuck.

It’s well known that a lot of instagram models use insta as a very discreet way to escort. It happens all over the world. Instagram is totally unfriendly to escorts, professional doms, and anyone of the sort however. So escorting on instagram happens really discreetly. Known escorts/providers who keep instagram accounts often see them deleted out of nowhere suddenly. Just for being a known escort from elsewhere online. Advertising escort services openly on Insta is definitely not possible. The models who escort off instagram run their pages like normal models, but they will reply when you ask how you can meet them in real life. The smart ones will give you another form of contact to discuss it off instagram since it can get them banned easily to discuss it thru the platform. But yeah if you google I’m pretty sure there are articles talking about how (perhaps female) instagram models are escorting secretly thru the platform.

Who doesn’t LOVE being invited to work for free??!

Dunno if I’m your type @Batch79, but I have been specialising in introducing my clients to prostate stimulation and anal orgasms for more than 5 years. I am quite an expert and feel confident that I can help anyone who is after this experience to find what they’re looking for. Not always on the first attempt, but usually that’s because people are over-thinking it, nervous about anal penetration, or otherwise not in the right frame of mind. My success rate is very high and my clients rave about the experience I give when introducing them to it. All my reviews are from pre-transition and thus the “juicy details” are behind a paywall on TER, but almost every single one of my reviews from the last 3-4 years discusses my talent with prostate stimulation and the resulting out-of-this-world orgasms that ensue. (See my signature for the link to those.) An anal orgasm is a much more full-bodied, intense, and longer-lasting surge as compared to a penile orgasm. It’s not uncommon for guys to lose control of their legs, lose the ability to form sentences, etc when/for a few minutes after having an orgasm. Basically a penile ejaculation is a bottle rocket in comparison to this diesel-engined monstor truck. The journey toward a prostate orgasm sometimes feels too intense to even handle psychologically- tho there should be no pain involved, guys often describe is as being TOO MUCH PLEASURE TO HANDLE (omg it’s so intense, can’t believe how intense...); some people welcome the roller coaster ride and some just aren’t ready for it. (This is one of the reasons I mention some people being undermined by their own psychological blocks.) But most people can adjust to the newness of the intensity within a few minutes and joyride thru the mind-blowing pleasure levels from the extended prostate stroking. I love to combine the prostate stimulation with an extraordinary tease of blowjob... the tip of the cock has these nerves that connect back to the prostate and the combination is pure bliss... One thing I love about giving prostate orgasms is that I as the stimulator am in total control of when the orgasm occurs. So I can really tease someone and draw the pleasure out, tho many people also tell me in no uncertain terms when they are ready for the earthquake to roll its way through their body, and I’m inclined to oblige. But it’s really fun to pull the trigger myself. The prostate is the body’s control center for orgasms- once it’s being stimulated, the cock loses its relevancy in being the cause of orgasm. Something a lot of bottoms probably already know, but a new experience for a lot of tops. Prostate stimulation and anal orgasms are accessible even to most people who struggle with bottoming, because something as small as a single finger can provide enough stimulation to give an earth-shattering prostate orgasm. Size and length are not the key to this puzzle, but rather curvature. A curved dick, a curved finger, a curved toy: anything curved can hit the right spot, but a straight object is unlikely to do the trick. (Depends on internal body shape and position too I suppose.) The prostate is located just a few inches inside the body, so there’s no need to plunge that deep either. My favourite toy for prostate stimulation (and by far the biggest crowd pleaser among my clients and especially my repeat clients) is the njoy “pure wand”. It’s perfectly curved for giving anal orgasms and feels so smooth and warm inside the body that it actually feels way more natural than you would expect considering it’s made of surgical-grade steel... http://www.njoytoys.com/products/purewand.php

I’m a big fan of sluts and like hearing stories about any/all of my sexual partners other escapades! When the line is crossed into negative gossip, I get very uncomfortable and I think it reflects badly on the client more than anything. Likewise with sharing intimate details that might best remain private. I love hearing that you fucked your last hire in the washroom of an Amtrak train on your way down to D.C.! I don’t need to know his real name, his medical conditions, or any other personal details that he might have shared with you in confidence. Likewise, I don’t need to hear if he asked you to bareback him and you were shocked and decided not to hire him again even though the hookup was awesome. You may be looking for someone to share the story with and expect a sympathetic ear from me, but pretty much any time the conversation crosses into negative-gossip it becomes over-sharing to me.

First of all, relax, and don’t put too much pressure on yourself. If youre having performance anxiety that is going to block your success. Second, try a good prostate massage session with someone who REALLY knows what they’re doing. Your ED will be completely irrelevant, and you can perhaps cum much more forcefully than you ever have in your LIFE! (Assuming you are new to prostate stimulation...) No hard-on required, and the prostate stimulation, if performed by someone talented, will really take control of the timing of your orgasm completely out of your hands...

so you can imagine just how far up your ass my tongue can go... isn’t it obvious??

Just hire me! I specialise in experiences like the one you’re looking for. My rate’s already about double the going rate tho... so no need to double it again!! I have a lot of reviews written by ‘sensitive bottoms’ on TER from before I started my transition if you want to read all about it... https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=190835 I agree that a lot of the battle can be mental. But there are ways for an escort to hold your hand through that part too, in addition to giving you the gentle approach that you need to enjoy it.

Even if someone IS tested regularly and very in touch with risk reduction, it provides a false sense of security to trust that they know their status. Unless you’re also planning to ask the highly-invasive and inappropriate question of how many people has he had sex with since he was last tested? I think in most cases for escorts, even if we tested negative for everything two weeks ago, we have had sex with other people since then. We’ve also typically had sex with people before the test wherein the incubation period was not completed before the test... hence the test results are not even necessarily accurate as of the time of testing. Some escorts may work only occasionally and both accept the invasion of privacy that the question poses and be able to provide a truthful and accurate answer. But the very best that most of us can do still falls quite short of being CERTAIN about our status at any given time. Especially for stuff that transmits more easily than HIV.

Very popular in India and its called MD here right now. Majority of local escorts seem to get addicted to it sadly. ... I always see PNP as referring to hard drugs beyond alcohol or marijuana. I’m practically a devotee of ganja so 420 is obviously more than cool with me... if someone else doesn’t use it then I’m not going to show up smelling like it or smoking it but you can rest assured that I am *medicated* alllllll the time, and I perform in such a manner that I guess you’d never really know. Cuz that’s my normal state. I do play around with hard drugs occasionally in my personal life, but never with clients / while working. Even if requested. So you wont ever see PNP-friendly in my ads. I do usually have a bottle of poppers and some kinda weed (probably something more discreet than a smokeable) tucked away in my trick bag, but they only come out upon request. Except for the fact that I’ve now gone slightly public about my 420 use via some images of me smoking hand-rolled joints in my marketing, my goal is that even someone who doesn’t use any substances (including alcohol) could meet with me without having an issue. I never raise the subject on my own to avoid bothering anyone who might find it detracting.

I was tired of being devalued by the food service industry, needed to focus on my education, and couldn’t manage enough time for that while making <$10/hr for skilled & demanding labor (wherein I was often sexualised anyway as an informal requirement of performing my job successfully). I’d been quite sexually adventurous in my late teen years and found myself more comfortable with casual and semi-anonymous sexual encounters than most of my peers. A lot of my real-life flirtations were with older men, and I found them much less complicated to engage with sexually than guys my own age, who surprisingly had too many feelings and often couldn’t handle our sexual encounters being NSA. By the time I was in college I was mostly back to sleeping with my peers, but I never lost my openness to sleeping with people that fell outside the box of whoever I was “supposed” to be interested in according to society’s standards. I had learned that the most popular, best looking guys were often the most clumbsy, unskilled lovers, and the guys who no one looked twice at were sometimes the most repeat-worthy in bed. I knew all along that I would be well-suited to being an escort someday, but never seriously considered it until finances got so tight in college that I had to leave University and continue my education on my own. I was too afraid of being subject to violence (my parents had a fondness for watching Law & Order SVU in the house when I was a kid) to try it any sooner than I did. Too bad, because I probably wouldn’t have needed to drop out of University had I tried it a couple years sooner. But my self-education and my career were both ultimately successful and I couldn’t be happier with where my life is at, so I have no regrets. Maybe I was just the right maturity level to handle it by the time I started. For a couple years I used it as a way to not really have a “real job”, and accordingly made just enough to live a very thrifty lifestyle comfortably. After a while I realized I liked escorting enough to pursue it as a career. I spent a whole winter holed up in a rural woodland cabin burning logs & reading Internet forums via solar-powered wifi to research how to treat escorting as a business: marketing, touring, managing finances, etc. I worked small cities in the southern states for about a year before moving to NYC, where my career really had the opportunity to take off. My lifestyle involved a lack of routine and a lot of travel in my early-mid 20’s, so my work being so portable & flexible suited my life exceedingly well. When I first started out 8 years ago, I thought I would use escorting as a path to fund my gender transition surgeries. It ended up providing so much more for me than that, and now I’m not even sure I want anything surgical done & have tossed that idea out the window. Go figure...

Sorry that happened to you. Sounds irritating as fuck. Yes some people do these things purely to get a rise out of sex workers because they don’t respect us. And unfortunately, those kinds of people who would do such a thing are usually about as bigoted as they come and will target marginalised sex workers more often than others, and in more prejudiced ways. I feel like if someone asked me “What Diseases Do You Have?”, it would set my red flags off so hard I would start mouthing off and block their ass in short order. I’m super professional until someone reveals themselves to be a time-waster or someone who intentionally fucks with escorts. Giving them a brief piece of my mind and then blocking them sends a clear message that I have zero tolerance for that shit and helps me zap my frustration out and move on. Not really concerned with delivering polite responses to fuckwits... it’s hard to explain to civvies where that line is exactly, but I think a lot of us who have been doing this for a long time can get clued-in at some point when someone is fucking with us. I personally can’t tolerate it politely. Worded differently, in different circumstances, the question is still naive, but will get a more cordial response from me of course. This example is clearly, as you noted, disrespectful. Props to you for remaining professional because I wouldn’t have.

Not to mention RentMen wont allow trans men to show our hard-ons (strap-ons) in public. Considering it’s STANDARD for CIS men to be allowed to show theirs I find it pretty crippling and wish we had another ad venue to work with. I’m pretty much going to stop advertising on RentMen after my six month ad subscription expires because I find it useless without being allowed to show the tool that I actually top guys with. Trans men do need an ad venue that doesn’t discriminate against us. I hear A4A is banning trans men on the grounds that we are not men too.

Venmo and PayPal are both known for freezing funds if they get any inkling that the transaction is related to the sex industry, sadly. What a lot of people do is ask for an airline or Visa gift card and then use the funds to purchase flights or buy things online. Some disposable visa gift cards can be loaded with up to $500. You can also receive blank money orders in the mail or money orders made out to to your legal name if you don’t mind him knowing it.

As a massage parlour. Their website is squeaky clean. No mention of erotic services whatsoever.

Sadly, even in some places where independent escorting is decriminalised, like in the UK, escorts working together in groups remains criminalised. It’s even risky there for groups of escorts who are friends to share a working apartment as an Incall. I hope if we ever get decriminalisation over here we avoid making the same mistake. Being able to work together in groups offers a lot of safety and social support. My URL (FTM4RENT.com) is actually something I registered years ago, long before I was out of the closet in the industry as FTM myself. It was originally intended to be a directory for FTM escorts, much like RentMen but specific to transmasculine guys. Nowadays I’m too concerned about the legal consequences to pursue that project. Might repurpose it for that same reason later if the legal climate changes a little. Waiting to see what happens with Backpage...

Anecdotally it’s well-known that couples are more likely to be “fantasy bookers”. Maybe it’s because I make people jump through a lot of hoops to get a booking with me, but I’ve never actually had a couple who managed to get an appointment with me cancel it. I’m selective about the circumstances under which I will book a couple though. For example, I have to speak to both partners on the phone before I’ll accept the booking.

Once a guy booked two hours with me in a city nearby to a countryside property owned by some friends of mine. I was visiting them and had thrown up some ads for the closest city during my visit dates. I only got one appointment booked, but seeing as it was a multi hour I thought it worthwhile to make the drive into the city and book a hotel room. I emailed the guy to confirm the day before and he did. The appt was early morning so I drove into the city the evening before and checked into a hotel to sleep so I could wake up early morning and meet my client there. Around 11pm as I’m climbing into bed, I get an email from the client saying that his daughter has been in an accident playing sports and he was at the hospital with her all evening. Due to this he’s no longer able to afford to meet me for 2 hours for my advertised rate. However he IS able to meet me for two hours for a 40% discount off my advertised rate, and I really NEEDED to cut him a break and see him for 60% of what I normally charge because hospital bills are expensive!!

If prostitution was decriminalised I would run an agency and help people get into the industry in exchange for a percentage of their earnings. I would also teach them how to market themselves so as soon as they decide that they’re sick of sharing their earnings, they are equipped to go independent and keep all of them. An ethical agency can serve a good role in helping newbies enter the industry smoothly and safely. And to support experienced escorts who simply don’t care to handle the marketing aspect of their work (part-time escorts with demanding full-time employment outside the industry, for example). With the current legal climate in the US, however, I would never take the risk. The level of legal risk for agencies is infinitely higher than the level of legal risk for an independent provider.