FTM Zachary Prince

As long as you're paying an escort's rate I cant imagine there being an issue. Some escorts are not into the intimate and sensual stuff so it would be a good thing to mention when booking just in case. But the vast majority of us would have no issue with ṭhis type of request.

People DO ask us to fly 5 hours each way ON OUR OWN DIMES so they can book us for a ONE HOUR appointment... and that is where you will see us throwing curses, banging our heads against walls/desks and muttering under our breath about stupid requests... ...your request is really quite reasonable in comparison! :D

Typically if you're paying an escort's overnight rate and covering all the travel expenses, most escorts would find that a reasonable offer to be worth their time flying to your location and back. Of course your desired escort might simply not have time to travel, and the only way to find out is to ask. But you're pretty well in line for what most of us like to see when being approached with a travel request. Just try to set it up ASAP so your desired escort(s) are more likely to be available!

Besides lingerie, cash, bottles of wine/scotch, croissants & chocolates, which I've received regularly over the years, I've also been given giftcards to REI, NastyPig, Whole Foods, Starbucks & Amazon.com. Also homemade lasagna, vintage clothing, marijuana-infused fudge, a silver chain, a number of interesting books, an Apple Watch & an iPhone. I guess I've been VERY spoiled now that I look back on all that!! I'm sure I'm forgetting about some too, especially gifts from earlier in my career. I give gifts sometimes too! I once gifted one of my longest-standing regulars a surprise threesome with another escort who I knew he had a crush on for his 50th birthday during what was scheduled to be a one-on-one overnight. I remember my partner-in-crime showed up with his birthday cake... :D:p

Older guys tend to be way more talented in the oral department, I've noticed. Probably because practice makes perfect... Also, not always, but usually, older clients are more emotionally mature, which means less inconsiderate behaviour and drama. I find that more often I have those kinds of problems with mid-life-crisis-aged guys than older ones. And believe me, drama-free-dick IS a turn on...

I know I can't be the only one who has gotten properly dicked down by, exchanged piss with, and fisted guys in their 60's and 70's? I've also had workaholic insomniac 35-50 year olds fall asleep on me less than halfway thru a session. Or just walk out early for a meeting. Age is honestly no indicator of who is going to fall asleep on me. The power executives are more likely to than the retired guys tho, that's for sure.

Lol I'm so confused by the discrepancy between the title and the clarifying question in the OP. I can only guess that it makes no difference whether the escort in question is truly into older guys or is simply a good actor? It confuses me why this question would be in the "as an escort" section then. Are you asking us to judge our own acting abilities? Why ask us if you don't care about whether we would TRULY rather be playing with older guys or not? I'm not an older guy who's met with dozens of younger escorts, so I'm in no place to judge who "appears to be really happy" with older clients. But as an escort I can say for sure- older guys come in every shape, size, smell, and personality type just like everyone else. Even tho I'm someone who has zero hangups about sleeping with older men, it's completely impossible to state that I'd truly enjoy being with ANY older man. Chemistry determines that just like with anyone else. But when chemistry fails... I'm a good actor too. Why? Because everyone (who treats me with respect) deserves to feel like the sexiest guy in my world when we are together. I guess I'm in a unique position right now due to my FTM transition and hormone treatment where I look almost a decade younger than I am. Hence I'm able to provide a "young teen" (18? 19?) type of fantasy experience while maintaining the experience and wisdom of my 28 years. I'd say that's been going over very well so far... guess I'd better enjoy it while it lasts!

The clients I meet with in real life tend to think that I'm one of the most gorgeous creatures they've ever seen in their life. My look certainly isn't attractive to everyone, though... in fact, existing at an intersection of multiple niches means that at any given time the majority of the population is generally not interested, and maybe even DISGUSTED by me. Of course people make comments online. I could link to multiple public threads full of clients commenting on how disgusting I am. It's difficult to take the comments of random Internet strangers that seriously though when my schedule is full of bookings and a thick stack of hundreds sits in my safe, earned exclusively from tricking. The negative comments are just noise in contrast to the success I've experienced. Anyway if they're not talking about you then you're probably not living up to your potential. Let them criticise! It's free advertising for me every time they open their mouth to someone else about it. Nowadays when someone starts a hate/disgust thread about me or comments publicly about my appearance in any way, I just smile and secretly thank them for the free exposure...

Of course it's fine! It's your body and you should wear whatever makes you feel sexy IMO. Wearing a buttplug to a date makes it easy to bottom. It takes way less time to remove a buttplug and slip into a stretched, pre-lubricated hole than it does to warm up a tight asshole from scratch...

You don't need a credit card to put down for incidental charges. I have been a touring escort for more than five years and I have NEVER had a credit card!! You can use a debit card to out down for incidentals as long as you have $100-150 or whatever the required deposit amount comes to. Another option is often available to put down a cash deposit. If you had pre-arranged this with an escort & added his name to your room, you could leave 100-150 in cash with the front desk for a room deposit, subtract it from the cash given to the escort for his fee, and he could pick it up from the front desk when he checks out of the hotel. Therefore if he takes anything from the mini bar or orders room service, its subtracted from his own fee. I've taken up a client on his offer to allow me to stay in a room after he left our meeting only once or twice in my career. That's because typically I'm the one hosting. The client's card was securing the room, but of course I didn't order anything that would have been charged to him. I'm well-known & reputable though, so my clients may have had a little more grounds to trust me and it worked out fine for them...

Interestingly, I met many clients during my winter USA tour over the last month but none of them booked an hour. I guess my pricing structure is doing its job... everyone booked 2-3 hours.

Thank you so much for recommending this! I just tried it for the first time in NYC and it was a GREAT experience... truly perfect, affordable, and easy to use! Wow!

Dinner is always on the clock for me, but I offer special pricing & flexible timing for extended bookings that's include a meal together.

Balls-to-the-wall action first. Get that out of our systems on an empty stomach. Then dinner. Then naked cuddling & making out until our horniness overpowers our fullness and we fuck again. Then goodnight!

Not comparable in my opinion. An alternative currency that provides the necessary function of circumventing repressive government-induced restrictions on financial transactions is not going to see its demand suddenly eliminated. I won't be surprised if the price drops suddenly as with the dot com bubble (sudden price drops are an established pattern in Bitcoin's growth history already), but in the long run BTC is going to be worth much more than it's worth now. Tulip bulbs didn't perform a vital & necessary global function. Even if you don't INVEST in Bitcoin (ie. store value) there, the practical value of having a wallet set up and being able to procure small amounts of Bitcoin to conduct financial transactions anonymously is worth exploring. Just as an example, major (female) escort advertiser Eros.com recently stopped accepting prepaid debit cards for ads because its payment processors are fully overseas. Now the only options are bank/credit cards or Bitcoin. Many providers switched to paying with their personal bank cards because they didn't have Bitcoin and simply NEEDED their ads to stay live. Now some of them are receiving calls frok their banks informing them that their accounts are being shut down due to violating unspecified terms. As sex workers, we are safer when we have access to an anonymous payment method like Bitcoin that keeps financial institutions out of our business. Sex workers have an obvious benefit to participation given the credit card industry's repression of our sector of the economy. But we are far from the only people with this type of concern. We might just be ahead of the curve on really "needing" this technology to protect our privacy.

It's a great idea. Seriously do it. You can also use Bitcoin to pay for your RentMen ads so like... why not?? I agree with that prediction. I do think that the political climate could interfere if all the governments start declaring it illegal tho. It's really BEYOND government control, but perception of value IS value when it comes to currency. Otherwise I really do see it increasing indefinitely tho. It definitely has a ways to go before the governments pay enough attention / feel threatened enough to start targeting it tho either way.

You can buy Vanilla Visa pre-paid/disposable gift cards for amounts up to $500 each and use them to pay almost any American payment processor for things that require a card. Bitcoin is also a great thing to look into. Not necessarily a stable or predictable investment tool, but so far the value has only been multiplying rapidly. I had a client send me a $300 deposit via Bitcoin a month ago and it's worth $600 now.

I'm also a much bigger fan of perks for regulars rather than discounts. My rate is a boundary that I expect to be respected and I find requests for discounts to be a turn-off, especially when I know that a client has a higher annual income than me, which makes me think that it's not an issue of the client not being able to afford my rate but rather just feeling as tho they are entitled to a discount for being a regular or repeat client. I don't get discounts from my favorite hotels or restaurants for being a loyal repeat client. I do usually get better service tho, and extra perks.

I used to have a lot of sex at a drive in movie theater when I was a teenager. Maybe that's why I'm still so into sex in cars. The drive-in was run by devout Christians and would run advertisements encouraging everyone to go to church on Sundays. They had rules against using profanity in the snack bar. But somehow they had no rules against hooking up in cars during movies nor anyone monitoring for it... They ran double and triple features on the weekends, and sometimes I would go with someone and have sex during movies for 5-6 hours... (I think the drive-in is still there too.)

A fair stipend is whatever the escort says it is. It's personal and no one else's place to make a call on but him. I've already suggested to you what I think a good offer is from your side. You said you're paying him $750-1000 a month now to meet him once or twice a month for 2-4 hours at a time depending on your schedule. Offer him the same deal with more stability for him and more flexibility for you. $1K a month flat, pre-paid by the 1st of the month, for 2 sessions a month lasting 2-3 hours each or one longer session if you can't make it twice that month. There is no such thing as a "fair" stipend. Everyone's circumstances are different. But as an escort I could see something like this being an appealing offer to many.

I totally agree. There is nothing guaranteed about the income otherwise. Ask ṭo be upgraded to sugardaddy status. Offer a fixed monthly stipend for an agreed number of meetings. Transfer it to him on the last day of every month so that he can use it to pay his bills on the 1st of every month. THAT is guaranteed income that genuinely benefits the escort and gives you some negotiating power to bring to the table because of how enticing that stability is to most freelance, session-based workers. I would recommend that you don't frame it as seeking a discount tho. Frame it as something mutually beneficial. Offer him about the same amount that you've been spending on him, but negotiate a little more time for yourself in exchange for the security that your monthly pre-paid stipend would offer him. That could easily seem like a win-win to a lot of people. Please also keep in mind: multi hour sessions and multiple one hour sessions in the same month are COMPLETELY different beasts in terms of pricing. Our rate for a one hour session includes our time to prepare for the session, travel to and from the session, and clean up afterward. Multi-hour sessions are typically discounted compared to one hour session because there is no need to compensate us for the prep/cleanup/travel twice. If it's the case that you are booking 3-4 one hour sessions per month, then there is absolutely no reduction in his prep/travel/cleanup for the sessions. A single 4 hour session is much more appealing for an escort to discount because there is a lot less misc work involved than with 4 one hour sessions.

Not as a professional actually. But I love hooking up in cars. Have done it a number of times with personal hookups. Pretty sure I've had extended dinner dates with clients where I've taken advantage of the opportunity to give a little BJ in the car on the way to or from dinner. But there was a hotel room and a dinner involved in those dates, so can't really say that they qualify as "car dates".

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I never share my government name with clients. I don't accept western union or PayPal as payment because they require it. I always buy my own plane tickets for this reason also. But then again, I'm transgender, and haven't managed to change my legal name yet, so sharing my government name is extremely unappealing to me because it's a girl's name and I hate it. Even most of my close friends do not know my government name. For me it's like a curse word that shouldn't be said out loud. I wince every time I have to use it with a customer service agent. A lot of the time I explain that I'm transgender and request not to be called by that name just so I don't have to hear it. It's really uncomfortable for me to share that name so I avoid it if at all possible. I consider my "real name" to be the name I chose for myself, the name that all my friends and community members know me by. Until recently I was in the closet with my clients about being FTM, so I didn't share my real name with them. My clients thought I was a girl, but my real name is a boy's name. Now that I'm out of the closet about being transgender and my clients know that I'm FTM, I do think I'd be willing to share my real name with clients. It's a freedom I haven't had before. My government name, on the other hand... you pretty much gotta be writing me into your will to get that.

I guess the issue is whether Backpage.com can be held liable for what users choose to post on their site. Backpage' lawyers say no they can't. The US government says yes they can and are prosecuting them for it, as well as running a smear campaign to ensure public morality opinions remain largely against Backpage. Legal precedent support's Backpage's claim, but with the current political climate towards sex work & the overblown hysteria around the 'human trafficking epidemic', it's really hard to say how the courts will go. I think what Backpage is doing is aligning themselves with other websites that haven't been subject to the same kind of political smearing. BP wants to argue that it's not any more liable for the content its users publish than Twitter or Facebook or Instagram. So I think they're making their case physically more clear by eliminating any opportunity for users to post anything incriminating and requiring all the potentially-incriminating details to be located on third-party websites (social media giants) that are less enticing for the courts to hold liable for the content they publish. On Twitter anyone can say openly that they sell sex in change for money, and Twitter won't censor or ban them. Twitter allows that freedom of speech because according to the courts, it's not liable for whatever its users choose to publish. If the courts decide that BP is liable for what its users published then it sets up legal precedent for Twitter to be held liable as well. I think BP is just kind of making that consequence more transparent by forcing the connection between its users and social media giants. Solidifying their case.