FTM Zachary Prince

Yes. Been a fun and wild ride so far. But transitioning while working is also like starting over in a lot of ways. It’s fun to feel like things are brand new again...

I agree. November is usually one of the busiest times of the year- speaking from a decade of escorting experience.

I find it creepy when clients wanna know my “real name”. I use a chosen name for a reason. You’re hiring Zachary. Not the real me. The real me isn’t anywhere near as professional and selfless when it comes to sex. Zachary is a real fireball of a character. Calling me by any other name or expressing a desire to would take me out of the headspace that I’m always in when I’m “on the clock”. Not to mention trigger privacy concerns. And make me feel like the client is being invasive unnecessarily. I know a lot of you think you want the “real person” behind the escort, but you don’t. If that’s what you really wanted then you’d be on grindr or cruising in bars instead of hiring. If you want a professional experience then call Zachary for a good time. If you want my “real name” then go find me in a bar or at the gym and ask me for my name. You’ll get my name but you won’t get the experience that Zachary can give you, that’s for sure...

I shoot a lot of piss videos and I always start hydrating heavily a few hours ahead of time. Its also important to “break the seal” once or twice before shooting to get rid of the yellowish and stronger-smelling pee. By the time I shoot a piss scene especially one where I plan to be pissing in someone’s mouth, my piss runs clear and has an extremely mild taste. I am sure there are some hardcore enthusiast who enjoy a stronger taste, but most people appreciate the freshness of a well-diluted piss flavour. :cool: The thing about shooting piss videos is that once you get that hydrated and have drunk so much water you kinda have to pee again and again? Since I’m an indy producer, I tend to shoot multiple piss clips in one day because of this, but I wouldn’t be surprised if people people shoot a performer pissing multiple times over the course of a shoot and then splice it all together to make it look like a longer piss. As for starting and stopping while peeing, I also do that to draw out my vids and make the scene a bit longer. I’m also kind of a tease in general and its a very teasy thing to do. I can also vary the intensity of my stream quite a bit, from very powerful blasts down to a gentle drizzle. So I incorporate a lot of variety to keep things interesting.

I mean... if I’m already there then why not?

What KIND of suggestions are you looking for? I could certainly give some, but the ask is a bit vague, LOL.

I’ve been hired by couples many times, but never by two friends. I do not charge extra for couples. I personally find group action more exciting, and feel that I charge for my time, which is unaffected. I do sometimes require a two hour minimum for group sessions tho. Only because an hour is never really enough time to explore the real potential of the situation and I hate being the one to call TIME when things clearly are not over...

I think it depends on how talented you are at self-producing your content. An area with many studios might have more well-established resources and population of active adult actors for you to tap into. But if you find that you can instigate regular content production on your own, then it’s really not necessary to be located nearby to those networks. People don’t mind an amateur feel for pornography. It feels voyeuristic and intimate to a lot of fans. You can really just shoot your personal hookups on your iPhone or a $200 Canon Vixia on a tripod, or solo/duo verbal domination videos in the aforementioned genre, from literally anywhere in the world. What’s most important is that you become comfortable in front of the camera, get on a regular production/release schedule, and be able to instigate content trade or get hookups to agree to allow you to shoot them and use the content. I mean you could also do only solo content but the networking involved in content trade seems to benefit all parties involved. I can see how that would be easier in areas with a lot of studio action. Whether you can find success with it in other areas or not probably depends on your personality and your ability to self-motivate for production.

I’ve been wrestling with a lot of these same considerations over the last 2 years, @Mocha. Ultimately considering that FTM porn is the fastest-exploding type of porn and underserved as a genre, coupled with the fact that most escort ad venues have structural flaws that render them inadequate for FTM advertisers, and also that I’m personally struggling with a lack of traffic flow from people who are in fact attracted to people of my gender and physicality, I’ve reached the conclusion that my career needs to expand into porn! I definitely think self-producing and owning your content is the way to go, but as people mentioned, this hustle requires consistency to yield good financial results from the content itself. I’m curious about approaching porn primarily as a form of advertising, since many escorts report that it brings them lots of work and that’s why they do it. If I consider it that way, it seems that posting my porn scenes publicly on tube sites would benefit me a hell of a lot more than being paid $400-500 by a porn company that is going to place the scene behind a paywall. I figure since my escort hustle is solid but traffic is my problem, having the public exposure will earn me a lot more. So I’m now collecting scenes until I have 8-12 put together for a big grand opening on my new pornhub channel. Let me know if you will ever be in the same place and time as me and wanna shoot some content trade. I’ve got a studio in SF now.

I can’t think of anything off the top of my head exactly, but I will say that many clients have been a part of my journey to develop expertise in prostate stimulation. I have been sticking my fingers up guys butts while blowing them since I was younger than I’m probably allowed to mention here. But I never really got the hang of prostate stimulation and giving prostate orgasms until I started using the term “prostate massage” as a euphemism in the straight escort world for the fact that I was into putting things up guys’ butts. Well it didn’t take too long for me to realise that if I was advertising prostate massage then I definitely needed to learn how to actually do it. I did read books, watch instructional videos, and even attended a class by a published author on the subject. But it’s really my experiences with clients that taught me most of what I learned! I attracted clients who already knew what they liked and could explain as well as enthusiastic newbies who had no idea, but told me how everything felt in real time and shared their experiences with me as I practiced what I was learning. Now, many years later I’m something of a prostate whisperer, and I definitely could NOT have done it without all the clients who let me learn on them along the way!!

I love rimming. Its definitely one of my greatest talents. My reviews rave about my rimming, and my clients come to me for it again and again. I can rim for a loooong time. Maybe since my own little cock isn’t big enough to fuck someone with, my tongue fills in the gap instead. You know, unless someone is experienced enough to take my fist. Rimming is clearly part of what I offer, so I’ve had to navigate the cleanliness issue plenty over the years. I always offer clients a shower at the beginning of the session. If they decline or say they already showered, I ask again “Are you sure you are squeaky clean in ALL your little nooks and crannies? Because I’ll have you know that I want to stick my tongue EVERYWHERE...” If they agree to shower I implore them to do a thorough cleaning job for the same reason. That usually does the trick! And if not, then I have no issue dragging them back into the shower in the middle of the session to finish the job. I want my tongue up their ass. Period! Total tops who don’t want my tongue up your ass: you’re boring for me. Please book someone else! ;)

Yup I’m honestly surprised if this is an uncommon occurrence in male escort bookings. Women and many trans escorts usually get MORE of these attention-seeking, time-wasting, fake inquiries than we receive real ones. Sorting thru them is part of the fun of running an escort business. I cut people off after the 2nd or 3rd inquiry that doesn’t go anywhere and mark their email address to auto-label as DO NOT SEE in my Gmail inbox.

weird/nonsensical 5% very rude or violent 5% vague timewasting (hi, sup, etc) 30% inquiries for cities I don’t visit (often from fake ads posted on ad phishing sites) 15% fake inquiries fishing for attention/dirty talk 20% real inquiries 25%

Try being an escort while living in central TN and getting requests to meet clients in Nashville (CT), Memphis (CT), Knoxville (ET) & Atlanta (ET)! I did for years and yup at least once I had to ask a client to push a meeting back by thirty minutes due to the fact that I completely forgot about the time change... ayiyiy!!

I’ve been a full service escort for many years, but I’ve never offered erotic massage as a separate service before. Recently I became interested in exploring this since I’m very talented with the prostate, and I’ve been able to arrange a discreet and convenient Incall location where it seems economical to offer it. But I’ve been ignoring all the info on where to advertise massage for years. I know of a few sites off the top of my head, but I’m curious to hear an update from providers who are actively working or clients who are actively seeking... what are the best websites to advertise erotic massage in SF currently?

I prefer advance bookings. I travel internationally and it helps me plan my schedule. More than six months in advance is probably too far most of the time, since I usually don’t have a good idea of my travel schedule more than six months in advance.

Your opinion about whether escorts should follow our intuition based on body language and your follow-up example are non-sequitors. The escort who you had a bad experience with clearly didn’t even take the time to evaluate your body language. Just because you had a bad experience doesn’t mean that other escorts don’t know what someone means when they start putting their clothes on, tell us that it was a fun session, and make a work phone call while ignoring us. We all know what things like that mean. I agree that in cases of uncertainty it’s better to check in verbally. But often it’s pretty obvious, something you might not realize from the client side of things.

Did @MikeSinz piss in your cereal or something? The only person who comes off as “deranged” in this conversation is the one launching unnecessary personal attacks. Hint: it’s you. Go find something better to do with your time. Your opinions about Mike’s tattoos could literally not be any less relevant to this conversation.

In that case, no it’s not strange at all that you would feel disappointed. You might reach out to the escort in question to express your disappointment and give him the chance to respond offering to make it right to you however he sees fit... perhaps it was an honest mistake on his part and he’s confused whether you are fine with it or not? He may have other clients who schedule two hours and sometimes finish early and just want him to leave but pay him for the full time. And he may not realise how disappointed you are as a result. If he’s any good at his job, he will realise that the miscommunication is worth addressing. In fact if he is a relative newbie you may be doing him a real favor by bringing up the subject so he can learn something from it.

I signal vers/top because the clients who truly want a passionate bottom who really wants to get pounded long and hard should seriously avoid me. That is not me. To those who say- the best tops are guys who occasionally bottom... I fully agree. That is why I signal vers/top. I prefer to top, but I do bottom sometimes and I know what that’s like. My versatility makes me a better top. Plus I have an extra hole for fucking that plenty of guys are curious about... and vers/top signals that, yes, the pussy is on the table to be experienced if desired. But no, it’s not my primary passion to bottom. I would much rather fuck you in the ass til your eyes roll into the back of your head and your legs shake from the crazy full body orgasm that has taken over. That’s really more what I’m about. There’s a lot of weird assumptions that vers guys are really bottoms, and that only pure tops are really tops, so I understand why some people would choose to say that they are tops when they are really vers/tops. I’ve chosen to say that I’m a top or that I’m a vers/top in different situations because of the different cultural understandings of what those terms mean. But what I truly mean is that I prefer to top and I’m very talented at topping. Yet I do bottom sometimes, and the option is on the table, tho it’s probably not wise for “total tops” to book me... unless your idea of “total topping” involves me eating your ass and sucking you off for most of the session, in which case I can totally get down with that...

I’m kind of confused based on the OP. It sounds like the decision to end the session early was mutual, and you expected him to leave some of the money on the table since previous escorts did. Then in the next post, OP says that he was disappointed not to have gotten more cuddle time even tho he didn’t send any kind of signal or communicate that he wanted the escort to stay longer. So which is it? Was the decision to end the session early mutual? Did the OP send subconscious signals that the session was over? Such as saying, “well that was fun!” Putting on clothes. Etc. We all know the feeling when a hookup feels done with our presence, whether paid or unpaid. So, OP, did you give him the impression that the session was over after an hour, even if not explicitly stated one way or the other? And did you do this because you expected to not have to pay for the 2nd hour if he left early, as per your previous experiences, as stated in your OP? Did you decide that you were disappointed not to receive extra cuddle time only after you realized that he took the entire fee? Or were you disappointed that he was leaving early regardless of the issue with the fee? Because it sounds to me like a case of miscommunication and mixed signals. I suspect that the OP may have communicated with body language and energetically that the session was over for him, even if not explicitly stated. I suspect this because of the difference between the OP and the follow up post. Is the issue that you were happy to end the session early but expected a partial refund of your fee? Or is the issue that the escort left when you did not feel that the session was finished? Frankly, if you schedule two hours, you should always expect to pay for two hours. If any escorts have refunded part of your fee when they left after an hour, that was generosity on their part. Perhaps they were hoping to make a regular out of you. If you book two hours, you pay for two hours. Even if you finish after an hour. The escort set aside two hours for you on his schedule. You are compensating him for his time. Just because you decide that the session is finished after an hour doesn’t mean that you are entitled to a partial refund. The escort is entitled to keep the money because he reserved two hours of his time for you. He was unable to schedule any other commitments during the 2nd hour because it was reserved for YOU. Therefore you need to pay for it, regardless of whether you let him go early or not. If the escort automatically left after OP came, without any signalling from OP that the session was indeed over, then I agree that the escort is totally in the wrong for leaving early when he was booked for two hours. But I suspect that this is not a cut and dry case. OP clearly expected that he should receive a partial refund for his two hour booking in cases where he finished after an hour. He may have sent some subtle signals that the session was over after an hour, prompting the escort to feel that his presence was not wanted for the 2nd hour. If the client books two hours but finishes after an hour, the escort is still entitled to the two hour fee. He’s not in the wrong for that. If the escort in question truly left the session unprompted, then he is in the wrong for leaving. You should definitely leave him a bad review for that. But he’s not on the wrong for taking the full fee to which he’s entitled for the two hours that were booked. He’s in the wrong for leaving a two hour session after only an hour. Choose experienced escorts who know what to do with a two hour session in the future. Reading ad text, websites, and reviews can help you determine who is good with extended sessions. If the issue is that OP feels that he should be able to book escorts for two hours and dismiss them after an hour without having to pay the two hour fee, based on the fact that a few other escorts have been generous enough to give him a partial refund, then this is a case of incorrect expectations on the part of the OP. If you reserve two hours of an escort’s time- you pay for two hours. Even if you are finished early. That is not the escort’s fault or problem if they take the entire amount of compensation for the time you have reserved. And does not warrant a bad review. None of us were in the room, so we cannot say what kind of subtle signalling was involved between the escort and the client here. Only the client can really say if he sent signals that the session was over due to his erroneous expectation of a partial refund... or not. But it’s worth considering when deciding whether to write a bad review or not.

I’ve come to feel that part of my job is teaching people how to free themselves from this anxiety. Particularly since I specialise in prostate stimulation, which tends to make even men with constant raging erections go soft during the prostate stroking itself. This means I’m constantly dealing with guys who are dumbfounded that their dick is soft in the middle of a sexual encounter when they haven’t come yet, and before I learned how to help guys let go of their anxiety about their lack of hard-on, a good 20-30% of them were actually letting it ruin their sexual experience because they just couldn’t deal with their own feelings about their soft dick. At the end of the prostate experience lies the most powerful orgasm that most of my clients have ever had in their life! But so many guys couldn’t get there because they were so anxious about why they didn’t have a hard-on. Now I tell first-timers to expect to go soft before we even begin, but in a very nerdy way where I discuss how the blood flow actually re-routes into the prostate, which is the “control center” for orgasms. My eyes light up as I explain, and I add with a naughty wink that just because your dick is soft doesn’t mean it won’t feel good to have it in my mouth while I’m stroking their prostate... then I keep an eye out for anxiety once I notice their dick has gone soft and reassure them again that it’s totally normal and they can still have a CRAZY orgasm. Or if they were never hard to begin with, but have also never experienced a prostate orgasm before, I reaffirm that they’re about to experience the most awesome way to orgasm where an erection doesn’t even matter. I suspect that a lot of highly-experienced escorts have strategies to help clients address this type of anxiety. I personally want every single client who meets me to have a unique, intensely-pleasurable experience that they will NEVER forget. And I strive for a high percentage of my clients to feel that it was the hottest encounter or the craziest orgasm they’ve ever had. Even if there is never an erection involved! I personally don’t have a hard dick to work with either! And I’m a top! I’ve found a LOT of ways to share mutual pleasure without a hard dick. I hope no one is ever afraid to book me because they’re worried they won’t get an erection and won’t enjoy themselves as a result. Sexuality and sexual experiences are so varied. There are tons of ways we can enjoy ourselves, with or without a hard cock in the room.

I’d be glad if RM goes down at this point. Their decision to allow cis male tops to show their throbbing hard-ons but block trans guys from showing ourselves with our dicks “strapped on” means that trans guys who top professionally simply can’t compete. People believe only what they see, not whatever you write about yourself in your profile. If I can’t show myself in similar poses to the ones that cis tops are using in their advertising then it comes across as pretty unbelievable in my ad that I’m a top. I’m not interested in advertising as a bottom so RM is pretty useless for me as an ad venue. Oddly I’ve found that I have this same problem with almost every major ad venue- their rules make it impossible for me to advertise effectively that I’m a top, whether it’s female-oriented escort venues that won’t allow us to discuss sexual activities/preferences at all, or male-oriented ad venues that won’t allow me to show myself with my “equipment” the way cis guys are allowed to show theirs. I’ve pretty much been WITHOUT any available/effective ad venues since SESTA/FOSTA took down all the websites that were not censoring me and thus yielding me clients. What am I doing? Focusing on my regulars. Getting creative about how I get my brand out there and branching out into other sectors of the adult industry until a solution presents itself. Any ad venue that actually allowed me to advertise my brand without censoring me would have my loyalty in a heartbeat. But as far as I know, there are none.

Yes, most escorts (whose service is worthwhile) have regulars. I guess those who are rip-offs probably don’t. I can’t understand the 2nd half of your post. “Is it a matter of hiring time and time again or should expectations be talked through?” What does this mean?? If it means what I think it means, you cannot just “declare” yourself to be a regular and then negotiate the special treatment that you would like to receive as a result. Tons of guys tell us on their very first contact that they plan to become a regular, haggle for discounts or boundary-pushing services, dangle their “regularness” over the escort like a carrot on a string to get him to spend more than the amount of time the client’s actually paid for, and then never book the escort again. Experienced escorts have seen this happen enough times to know that regular status is “earned”, not “declared”. What’s regular to one escort may not be regular at all to another. I have a low volume business model, and I travel a LOT, so my loyal regulars see me once every few months, and have done so for many years. I know many other escorts who don’t consider someone a “regular” unless they meet approximately once a week. Whether you qualify as a regular or not is up to the escort and highly subjective.

Lots of things! Typically: Deep kissing, gentle neck nibbling, nipple teasing, armpit licking, cock licking, ball sucking, butt munching, asshole teasing, tongue fucking, anal teasing, prostate stroking, cock teasing & cum swallowing! Also, occasionally: toe sucking, spit play, watersports, topping w/ strap-on, anal fisting, spanking. Also lunch, dinner, sleeping, cuddling, mutual massages, porn-watching, and talking! What I DON’T do when a client (or any sex partner) can’t get it up: Take it personally.