Monarchy79

Don’t be that person. Treat that question as if it was rhetorical. 

The last couple times I went to Decadence, I saw so much open drug usage and guys just wacked out of their mind on meth that I stopped going.  It was depressing.
It's like that with most of the circuit events, tbh.  Guys with incredible bodies who go on three-day benders until it finally catches up with them.
... And it always does.  Hard drugs are like a very sharp, ugly boomerang.

I had the opposite situation happened at a spa recently, the masseur wiped his precum on my nipple. He was precumming even though he wouldn’t allow to be touched.

I got that part.
I can’t tell you how you should feel or what your standards should be for a massage.
However, from reviewing that dude’s MF profile, and reviewing your detailed experience, I can’t help but to think that he believes he was doing you a favor by even entertaining you, and treated you as such. 
 
 

I got that part.
I can’t tell you how you should feel or what your standards should be for a massage.
However, from reviewing that dude’s MF profile, and reviewing your detailed experience, I can’t help but to think that he believes he was doing you a favor by even entertaining you, and treated you as such. 
 
 

After this dude was flat out arrogant and disrespectful, you dared to reach out to him again?

And you found it ok that he used GLOVES to give you a massage? 
This masseur treated you like dirt, and took your money to do it. 
 
 

I got that part.
I can’t tell you how you should feel or what your standards should be for a massage.
However, from reviewing that dude’s MF profile, and reviewing your detailed experience, I can’t help but to think that he believes he was doing you a favor by even entertaining you, and treated you as such. 
 
 

After this dude was flat out arrogant and disrespectful, you dared to reach out to him again?

And you found it ok that he used GLOVES to give you a massage? 
This masseur treated you like dirt, and took your money to do it. 
 
 

Update:
After some time I was able to make an appt with him. I must say  he delivered an amazing massage/stretch session.  He clearly knows what he is doing
It was 100% therapeutic and was fully clothed.  Too bad as he has an amazing body.
Anyways, I see he has an ad on RentMen as "Erotic Massage".  Curious what that entails and rate.  So if anyone has done that with him, please let me know
Thanks

I tried a new provider yesterday for massage.
He offers therapeutic, sensual and erotic.
I asked for a blend of everything.
Price was $160.
Happy with the deep tissue work, happy with the relaxing sensual part and was pleasantly surprised with his instincts and efforts in the erotic finish. 🍆💦
So added $100 tip for giving-it-his-all on the erotic part.
He messaged later to thank me for the generous tip and said he was looking forward to serving me again.
This is how it should work.

Except me 😉

Those are the same people who have recently obtained gluten allergies, 
and have the following descriptions for their relationship status:
1.) “Conscious uncoupling”
2.) “entanglements”
 
 
 
 

There was nothing bitchy about my statement. I’m merely observing what you yourself have said many times before. 
 
Since you called me bitchy, does that mean I get to call you shallow and myopic? 
 
Cherry pick all you want. Your way is not the way, not even the best way so maybe kick off your self-righteous “shoes” and stop commenting every time someone brings up appearance. We’re all WELL aware of where you stand.

most New Yorkers are not 100% tone-deaf & completely lacking self-awareness 
Im sure you’re charming at cocktail parties - doubtful that ever happens tho

Like I said before .."kosher" is a religious practice, not a fashion choice.
Either you are or you are not.
There is no kosher-esque.

Personally,
Food can be flavorful and have some spiciness, without being so hot that my sense of taste is burned off my tongue…. 
 
I also try my best to avoid extremely spicy food, but not because I don’t like it, but because of my philosophy on spicy food:
If it’s hot going IN, it’s going to be just at HOT coming OUT 🔥🚽

That may be a fact. 
But the truth is that out of the thousands of members on this site, there’s going to be someone who looks like that guy, is his weight, and has been insulted with such comments, and your posting is going to trigger their past trauma. 
 
I know how you roll, but I have a preference for forum posts that are honest, but also are less vitriolic. We endure enough of that outside of this forum in real life, so let’s try to be civil here and create a safe space for opinions and even debate. 

Because they're home with their wife and kids.

1) PARTICIPATE. 
2) know your own body and have an active idea of what you want out of the experience. Or even baseline, what it takes to get YOU off - not just to get us off (if that’s your thing). That’s ultimately what we are for - to make you happy. 

If you have a roommate, either:
1.) Disclose that you have one and they will be present, or
2.) Make arrangements for the roommate NOT to be there when you’re meeting with a client. 
 
Clients expect privacy for many reasons and also keep in mind that although you and the client may not know each other (and both of you are taking some risk with meeting), the roommate is even more of a stranger AND a surprise to the client. 
 

On the topic of “age shaving”. 
 
I’d care more about the age you APPEAR to be , rather than the age that you actually ARE… 

On the topic of “age shaving”. 
 
I’d care more about the age you APPEAR to be , rather than the age that you actually ARE… 

On the topic of “age shaving”. 
 
I’d care more about the age you APPEAR to be , rather than the age that you actually ARE… 

The pros don’t expect their clients to be young, fit or attractive…. When the client is, they are pleasantly surprised. 
 
With that said, you’ll be fine. Enjoy your twink trick. 

The pros don’t expect their clients to be young, fit or attractive…. When the client is, they are pleasantly surprised. 
 
With that said, you’ll be fine. Enjoy your twink trick.