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That’s a “hold”, but not a deposit. They will only charge a fee to the customer for a no show, but will not charge for a deposit in these cases.

I should go to the “Questions about Hiring” forum as ask escorts if they would take business from potential clients if they knew they were white collar criminals or registered sex offenders. I pose this comment to make the point that the clients have just as “if not more” potential to be harmful and dangerous than the actual professionals. Keep in mind that these are the workers who sometimes entertain the incels, the unattractive, the degenerate, the mentally ill, the socially inept, and many of whom has past histories of crime and issues. What blows my mind is that the professionals operate with more understanding and less judgment.

Would you all judge the guy if he was in prison for….. prostitution? 😎

@Simon Suraci made one critical valid point (out of many as I agreed with all that he posted), which was this: Stop being lured by the “Hot” guy, on those massage sites. I’ve been saying this for years, and I’ve never fell for the “hot” guy. There’s a method to it, as he’s not saying to pick guys you are absolutely repulsed by. it’s about fusing in looks, with potential, and skill , mixed with reality. Here are some realities: 1.) A guy that is so “hot”, that he could give an instagram model or only fans performer a run for their money, is going to charge TOP DOLLAR and NOT give you any massage with skill or beyond anything therapeutic, because he doesn’t have to. His collateral is solely in his looks and nothing else. 2.) The “Hot” guy wants your money, but doesn’t want to work for it. He doesn’t want to perform escort services because he only wants to play with guys who look like him, but he has no other redeemable skills to earn money, so “massage” is the other alternative. If he can make $300 for an hour of slathering cheap baby oil on some poor, naive sucker, without having to do anything else, he’s “won”. 3.) The “Hot” guy is playing into your fantasies only. He knows the value of his looks and his only mission is to capitalize off if. Being on a gay massage site, selling therapeutic massage, is the perfect niche of shaping false expectations, with innuendo. It’s the easiest way to snooker a lust-hungry man who seeks the fulfillment of being with a super “hot” guy. Here are some red flags of the type of guys on these sites who will snooker you: 1.) “perfect” , “hot” photos where they are perfection in its purest. instagram model style. 2.) excessive travel. Nothing but high-class vagabond hustlers. 3.) Ethnic descriptions such as “Arab”, Mediterranean”, or “mixed”. they are the biggest hustlers and teases.

Amen!!! If a group of “gurl” friends want to hang out and cackle, go to BRUNCH not a damn bath house. As a matter of fact, not even brunch… a drag brunch.

This dude is not gay. At all.

Correct. She said something along the lines of “let me see that handsome smile of yours”, and he snatched off that mask and started grinning…. He totally forgot that cameras could capture his image. He didn’t think to say: “look, I’m concerned about the next wave of COVID and my immune system is already compromised, can I take my mask off in a more private area? (Then search for cameras…) but with most murders, it’s the smallest thing that’s unaccounted for, that cracks the case…

I’m not disagreeing with you. My posting was to point out that both men are similar in character. And based on what you just stated, both men are privileged too. One was born with a silver spoon in his mouth, and the other was an inside trading money-hungry (at the expense of the sick and suffering) CEO.

You want to know what I think is even more sociopathic? Creating AI to automatically (and rapidly) deny patient insurance claims, in bulk.

All it takes is one good data breach to leak all of the full IDs and victims identities to be stolen. Then leaking the only fans pages subscribers patronize.

The sad part about this case is that this dude would have never gotten caught if he didn’t take off that mask to flirt with some random woman. It’s the smallest things that will sink a man.

People are self-absorbed, inconsiderate ass-WHOLES, regardless of the political environment. Human nature always supersedes any other factor that is assumed to impact how people behave… which includes politics, economy, and the environment.

Here’s another issue.. A lot of guys who are on gay sites and offer only therapeutic massage, just aren’t that good at it. If they were, they wouldn’t be on those site to net clients because they wouldn’t have to. They’d be right on MASSAGEfinder, with their shirts on. My favorite therapeutic massage therapist is gay, has a major gay following, advertises independently, and doesn’t go near the gay sites. His clients respect his work, because he’s just that good. The hard truth in the massage business is that it has a lot of hustlers. Many of them are hot guys who want the cash, don’t have the skills to give a really good massage, but don’t want to escort either… so they find this “sweet spot” of innuendo, mixed with labeling themselves as therapeutic. What their clients usually end up with are false hopes + muddled expectations + a set of blue balls, which = Getting Snookered.

Big NAY. If a provider is strictly therapeutic, then be on a general site (or create your own site), that generally confirms that the services are therapeutic only. But to be on a site like MasseurFinder, be scantily clothed, with pictures that allude to everything EXCEPT for therapeutic massage is intentionally misleading.

The term musky & musty are used interchangeably, depending on who’s using it. Both imply that the individual has a scent /“pheremone” fetish.

The male physique is a wonder of the world. Seeing a man with a properly proportioned body, with a nice, firm butt (regardless of his sexual position) is a great thing.

It’s the form of sexual “ cognitive dissonance” that a lot of people have. I know a guy who is “allergic”, to condoms and has been barebacking it for years (even before PrEP). During those days, his method of “safe sex” was to be partnered and to be “selective” with who they played with in their open relationship. Then he got on PrEP as soon as it was available. He’s spent years admitting to contracting multiple STDs, casually gets “cured” for them, because they’re treatable, and over the past 8 years, has mad multiple bouts in the hospital with the mumps, shingles, and other infections. His immune system is so jacked up, that his body is fighting against itself and the only thing he can define it as is “lupus”. When the medical industry introduced PrEP to the world, they prescribed it to be used WITH condoms. They also expressed their concern that human behavioral studies predicted that targeted groups (gay men), would ditch the condoms, and other STDs would potentially surge. This is exactly what happened. STDs are not to be trivialized. There are many people who have long term illnesses, are suffering, and who have died, from untreated STDs, and regularly contracting STDs and “curing”, them. At the end of the day, life is about choices, and accepting whatever consequences come with them. Condoms have their benefits and drawbacks, and so does PrEP. Choose wisely, and with common sense.

It wasn’t the pharmaceutical companies that lied to them…. It was probably their sexual partners….. 😎 I volunteered for a gay advocacy group (decades ago) that promoted safe sex (passing out condoms in bars, etc) and conducting support groups. Over 90% of our youngest clients who recently contracted HIV, weren’t sexually reckless or stereotypical “sluts”, they placed their trust in a partner who either lied to them about their status, or didn’t know their status, and lied to them about their monogamy. This was B.P. (Before PrEP) With the emergence of PrEP, what I’ve witnessed are a surge or guys LYING, telling others that they are on PrEP, just for the sake of having easy bareback sex. A naive guy will take their word on that and expose themselves to not only HIV, but other STDs. Being on PrEP requires quarterly testing and (in most places) some form of health insurance. Most of these guys out here live like vikings (wild, reckless and “pillaging” asses and dicks) , and can’t even keep up with teeth cleanings and oil changes, so believing that the masses are taking PrEP as prescribed, and being regularly tested, is a bit naive…. Look at the hook up sites… they are filled with profiles where guys have made up “expired” “tested” dates….😝, all while saying they they are “on PrEP” If you’re going to be sexually active, enjoy yourself, but protect yourself, whichever way you choose (condoms, PrEPs, vaccines, etc), but whatever you do, do NOT trust the “word”, of another man.

You’re absolutely right. Unfortunately , this is when being “right”, means very little. Most of the topics discussed in these forums slide into the grey area of “righteousness”, or the lack thereof. I’m certain many clients are cheating on their partners or crossing some boundary of “rules” in their relationship. Dishonesty is one of the “underbellies” of human nature which is so powerful that neither religion or government can control it.

Michael Sam wanted to use the “first openly gay football player”, as his grift to get into the NFL. The problem was that he just wasn’t that good. Talent must supersede politics when you are of any minority group. He had no fanfare for various reasons: 1.) The NFL didn’t find him to be of any benefit because he just wasn’t athletically good. 2.) The sports community (fans and patrons of football), didn’t care enough about his antics, as he thought they would. 3.) The black gay community found him to be yet another lame snow queen, so they had no interest in him either. All in all, Sam played himself. if he spent more time in the GYM, and PRACTICING, rather than trying to be a C -List celebrity, he could have possibly made something of himself in the NFL.

One more bump.

This will definitely impact the business over the next few years. Much of their customer base didn’t think about this, when they made certain “decisions”. 😎

The client could be looking for you to provide slots for him to adhere to. easy solution: Just give him times you are available and let him pick one.

This man has a really nice, succulent set of nipples.

Another murder linked to a “love triangle”. Crimes of passion, from the unhinged emotions from men in unconventional relationships are definitely on the rise.