Monarchy79

to be Accurate... PrEP is known to specifically prevent: HIV transmission. Condoms have been known to prevent: HIV transmission, along with Syphyllis Gonhorrea Chlamydia Other STDs and pregnancy And because of the physical barrier they create during anal intercourse, they also prevent infection that than occur by fecal matter than can get into the top partners urethral passages through barebacking. Consistent, proper condom use has worked as a successful method of safe sex for millions, and I’m a living example to that. As an aside (because NO method is 100% effective), the creators of PrEP intended for its use to be in conjunction with condoms.... However, many medical professionals were leery that their targeted audience would see this as a means to ditch condoms, just as the baby boomers ditched them when the birth control pill was created. And they were right.

How did she find out “all of it”? ?

I’m headed to Baltimore to do dinner with a friend next weekend. I will definitely be working out at Merritt and hittting the sauna/steam... At my current gym chain in DC, I stopped going in their saunas and steamrooms, after realizing that I’M THE TROLL... ????????????

.... and these are type of jock straps that will be sold to the highest bidder!!! ???

A few things: 1.) If your car is ever in the DC area, takenit to Passport Infiniti of Alexandria... they do great work, won’t try to empty your pockets and are honest mechanics. They’ve made me a loyal long term Infiniti owner too ☺️?? 2. The idea of having a job with no “health” issues is somewhat of a unicorn. I say this to say, that working a career in both govt consulting and then in local govt, I’ve seen more workplace health hazards, than in jobs that are supposed to have occupational health hazards. I’ve seen more people die of cancer in the past five years from one organization, and I truly attest this to stress and a toxic work environment. 3. The factors of your job that are annoying you won’t change, just like the annoyances of any of our jobs won’t change. The only thing we can do is asses how we react to those annoyances, and how we adapt to those situations when they occur. Ones attitude and adjustment are the only solutions. This is why two people can have the same job with the same bullshit and one person will be miserable, and the other will be happy and succeed. I had to learn this myself a long time ago. 4. When was the last time you had a real vacation? No work.. just lounging around on a beach, or backpacking around town as a tourist? Or even a weekend soaking in mud and getting massages? Sounds like you’re longnoverdue for some “me time”..... Just remember that the only variable that you can change and control is YOU.... ☺️??

Wise words.... I’ll add that concealing what you do regardless of the field, is the foundation to genuine social interactions. Socially, people tend to ask “what you do”, as a means of categorizing you and evaluating your so called “value”, when you find that someone values your time and their experiences with you, without placing a label on you based on your career, those are the ones where the most significant relationships are established. I never tell anyone what I do for a living initially, and allow it to reveal itself organically. And if someone asks me if my career upon initial meeting, I’m usually turned off.

Condom is the new “C” word. It offends guys and makes them gasp as much as calling a woman a C@&$..... I literally get ghosted on apps when a suitor asks me of my sex practices, and I shamefully admit that I’m a condom user....

I’ve had a flea minor blunders: 1.) I’m in an elevator with my former boss, and go to my personal phone to check something and as soon as I open it, the listing of nude photos from dudesnude pops up... I quickly try to minimize it, but I just knew he saw it from his peripherals.. lol.

Should have bitten his dick... lol.... Problem solved.. ?

Now B.B. sex is an act of delusion. HIV transmission rates are down, but all of the other STD rates are skyrocketing.

Lmao!!! Ha!! Go figure... I was talking about dating apps

I need to confess.... I haven’t had a full-on escort yet (out of fear that I’ll never attempt at even dating a regular guy again), But I indulge in sensual-erotic massages.. and hell, regular guys can’t even touch you right... And let’s not get into the bad dates.. sitting across the dinner table from someone who had the brain of a Brazil nut and you’re carrying this draining conversation, or observing that the guy has the table manners of a two year old. Professional sex workers cover all bases of how to have good sex and provide good date, BFEs, and I absolutely see why guys who can, order them. It’s just flat out more convenient.

Here’s what’s in bars: 1.) Cliques of guys cackling like girlfriends 2.) guys of interest, letting their less attractive friends cock-block them 3.) aggressive/belligerent drunks 4.) guys with their heads buried on their phones on Grindr.

Another reason is that many regular guys are just simply bad at sex.....and don’t know how to both please and be pleased.

Here’s what’s on dating-hookup apps: 1. Catfishes 2. Time wasters 3. Serial killers 4. Serial chatters 5. Incels ( socially retarded) 6. Bad manners 7. Fakers 8. Potential poor performers in bed 9. Cheaters 10. Bad Hygiene/ Ettiquette

Don’t be so sure of that.... the moment you doubt your sex appeal, is the moment you either will encounter a suitor, or obliviously overlook one.

I hope you understand that you are the exception. A refreshing exception, but an exception.

Stop going commando at the gym..... Guys who do that totally distract me... in the best way ???

I change them twice a day. Once I’m done with my workout, I shower and put on fresh undies. The ones I worked out in are entirely soaked. Wouldn’t think of putting them back on. Basically my underwear changes every time I shower. Clean package, goes in clean briefs.

I came into “Gay World” at 18 in 1997, in DC. The entire club-bar scene was amazing at this time (both straight and gay)... every weekend, I was hanging with some group of friends, swinging from the chandeliers. Although I rarely go to bars/clubs now (unless I’m traveling) I’m glad I did it when I did. I had a fantastic time. You’re only young once, so get out there and swing from the chandeliers too!!!

I agree with you. However the point the poster was making was a bit different. For example, there are service providers who will not accept an offer from me simply because of the belief that blacks are dirty.

Bottom line up front, Many ethnicities have stereotypes of other ethnicities body odor and assumed hygiene habits. Typically what happens is that someone will witness or experience bad hygiene from a few people of a specific ethnic origin and then make a blanket generalization about the entire race.

Not giving any formal advice. Just speaking from experience

This is how you screw a big guy: 1.) put him on his back 2.) slide him to the edge of the bed 3.) have him spread his legs as wide as he can and push them back as far towards him as he can 4.) stand at the edge of the bed Dive right in and mission accomplished.

Exactly!! Or put him on his back, slide him to the edge of the bed, push those legs back and out and dive right in ?