Monarchy79

Should have bitten his dick... lol.... Problem solved.. ?

Now B.B. sex is an act of delusion. HIV transmission rates are down, but all of the other STD rates are skyrocketing.

Lmao!!! Ha!! Go figure... I was talking about dating apps

I need to confess.... I haven’t had a full-on escort yet (out of fear that I’ll never attempt at even dating a regular guy again), But I indulge in sensual-erotic massages.. and hell, regular guys can’t even touch you right... And let’s not get into the bad dates.. sitting across the dinner table from someone who had the brain of a Brazil nut and you’re carrying this draining conversation, or observing that the guy has the table manners of a two year old. Professional sex workers cover all bases of how to have good sex and provide good date, BFEs, and I absolutely see why guys who can, order them. It’s just flat out more convenient.

Here’s what’s in bars: 1.) Cliques of guys cackling like girlfriends 2.) guys of interest, letting their less attractive friends cock-block them 3.) aggressive/belligerent drunks 4.) guys with their heads buried on their phones on Grindr.

Another reason is that many regular guys are just simply bad at sex.....and don’t know how to both please and be pleased.

Here’s what’s on dating-hookup apps: 1. Catfishes 2. Time wasters 3. Serial killers 4. Serial chatters 5. Incels ( socially retarded) 6. Bad manners 7. Fakers 8. Potential poor performers in bed 9. Cheaters 10. Bad Hygiene/ Ettiquette

Don’t be so sure of that.... the moment you doubt your sex appeal, is the moment you either will encounter a suitor, or obliviously overlook one.

I hope you understand that you are the exception. A refreshing exception, but an exception.

Stop going commando at the gym..... Guys who do that totally distract me... in the best way ???

I change them twice a day. Once I’m done with my workout, I shower and put on fresh undies. The ones I worked out in are entirely soaked. Wouldn’t think of putting them back on. Basically my underwear changes every time I shower. Clean package, goes in clean briefs.

I came into “Gay World” at 18 in 1997, in DC. The entire club-bar scene was amazing at this time (both straight and gay)... every weekend, I was hanging with some group of friends, swinging from the chandeliers. Although I rarely go to bars/clubs now (unless I’m traveling) I’m glad I did it when I did. I had a fantastic time. You’re only young once, so get out there and swing from the chandeliers too!!!

I agree with you. However the point the poster was making was a bit different. For example, there are service providers who will not accept an offer from me simply because of the belief that blacks are dirty.

Bottom line up front, Many ethnicities have stereotypes of other ethnicities body odor and assumed hygiene habits. Typically what happens is that someone will witness or experience bad hygiene from a few people of a specific ethnic origin and then make a blanket generalization about the entire race.

Not giving any formal advice. Just speaking from experience

This is how you screw a big guy: 1.) put him on his back 2.) slide him to the edge of the bed 3.) have him spread his legs as wide as he can and push them back as far towards him as he can 4.) stand at the edge of the bed Dive right in and mission accomplished.

Exactly!! Or put him on his back, slide him to the edge of the bed, push those legs back and out and dive right in ?

Also, any escort who tells you that it’s difficult to screw a fat guy is either: 1.) lying 2.) lacking in skill, or 3.) doesn’t have the endowment to “get it in”

Yet many Asians will cry “discrimination”, when the white guys they desperately desire tell them “Sorry, no Asians”.

A sex worker is using their body for the services they perform. Whether it’s biased, bigoted or not, they are not entitled to service every prospective client. On a lighter example, let’s say a potential client hasn’t showered in a month. He is not entitled to receive the services of the escort because he requested it. The sex worker has the right to say no. I believe in transparency. Although you are correct in stating that it’s a bit much to expect escorts not to be judged on their preferences, I feel that the idea would have positive results overall. 1.) escorts who do not have racial biases would increase business from new clients. 2.) escorts who have racial biases will get what they are looking for. 3.) potential clients won’t have to wasted time, playing the guessing game of who will want to do business with them. Although I agree with you 100%, the world we live in has realities that just aren’t fair, and we have to deal with them

If there are any masseurs or escorts who the group knows of who have racial preferences, please send me a pm with their links, so I will make sure to never even look at their profiles. I value my time and don’t like it wasted.

Time hasn’t changed ? It’s always been like this. Lol

This is a reality, and I’m not necessarily sure if I have a problem with it, as escorting is a very “personal” service. Whether it’s social or morally right or wrong is another discussion. But in an Industry where it’s requried for someone to touch, taste, prod and maintain and erection, preferences do come into play. I haven’t had escorting services yet, but tons of massages and I always make it clear that I’m black. Some guys don’t like black guys (their reasons aren’t important to me), and that’s fine. I’d just rather know that up front and discontinue the conversation, rather than have an awkward moment on the table, or weird communications. As I’ve stated in another post, I’d encourage all service providers to actually state their preferences (race, age, body type, etc.) and would hope they wouldn’t be judged on it either. I’d rather not waste my time in engaging with anyone who does not like me. I’m not saying bigotry is acceptable. I’m saying that the rules are a bit different in the sex industry. Now housing, banking, education, and employment should never involve these factors. But in who one will have sex with is a grey area, regardless of how vile racism (or any other “ism”) is. And quick funny, The first experience I had with a masseur who didn’t like black guys was actually black... lol.... Go figure....

Good post. I’ve always hated JRs as well. It always had a “Twinky-Trashy” vibe to it.

Bumping....