Monarchy79

Check out Reno Gold, This dude makes hundreds of thousands of $$$ annually, and probably has never had actually sex with anyone (escorting), a day in his life.

Easy answer.... People like @The_Incorrigible_G, take pride in his ways. It amplifies his pompous, Eurocentric, obnoxious, pseudo-elitist, attitude, which has been ingrained in his minuscule brain since he was just a little young twit, in prep-school. His belief systems run through his blue veins, and every time he posts on these threads, calling people fat, or talking about who he dislikes (as if we care), it’s a false form of empowerment for him, and gives him a temporary satisfaction of feeling that he’s better than someone else, when in fact, he’s trying to overcompensate for his own shortcomings. Most people who behave like he does online, fall under this description. He’s basically a sociopathic, narcissistic, jerk, who uses these forums to further strengthen his cognitive dissonance, along with his delusions of grandeur.... This is why he talks so much about his obsession with young, skinny, model-ish, white twinks... because deep down in his limited psyche, he wishes he were one.

Thats not why you don’t like me... ?..... And we know each other quite well.... from our previous thread.... Shall I remind you?

No you don’t.... ?

You show your true colors and personality in every single thread...... You’re such a Gem....?

I tried him out this week. 90 minute massage. Ultimate professional experience. One of the best massages I’ve had in a while (and I already booked my next appointment). If you workout a lot, or are an athlete, he’s perfect for sports massage and therapeutic massage. His certs are real and he knows what he’s doing. Spotlessly clean space, and he worked out a knot in my shoulder, that I couldn’t seem to shake off myself. He also has the Theragun, and cupping options as well. Sexy guy, and is taller than he appears in his pics (if that matters to you). However.... There was nothing “extra” or “naughty” that occurred with me, and I didn’t care. The massage was THAT good.

I’ve found that people often feel “empty”, when they are looking for others to “fulfill” that emptiness. Whether it’s an escort, masseur, lover, spouse, friend, family member, or colleague.... Expect nothing from them... especially not emotional validation. Enjoy your experiences with all of them for the moment, read nothing into it, make no assumptions, and be happy.

Entertaining escorts isn’t the issue... just one of the symptoms. Seek some therapy, figure out the root cause to your emptiness, and get better.

That’s it... First you pledge your allegiance to your bullshit racist ideologies.. and now you’re making snarky remarks on someone’s size, whom you don’t even know. And you’ve made posts on other threads, calling people fat, and other childish names.... You are an ignorant, delusional, aged twink, whose FAR past your prime and is trying to hold on to whatever crumbs of self-proclaimed “admiration”, you had probably more than twenty years ago. Take your insults, and your ignorance and shove them all the way up your filthy, miserable, EuroTrash ass.

If you can’t take the heat... then get out of the Kitchen....

Ummm no...First...I’d suggest dislodging your head out of your butt.... Then...... taking a look in the mirror and asking yourself why you have your “preferences.... and examining the roots of your prejudices. You can literally do this without having sex with anyone. You keep focusing on the “What”..... We are focused on the “WHY”. Which is the part of this discussion you have ducked, dodged and avoided THE ENTIRE TIME.

Well.... At least you got to a point of standing in your truth. congratulations!!

One final note.... Dressing up racial biases by calling them “preferences”, is just as effective as a pimp dressing up his whore in Chanel. You’re still a racist, and she’s still a whore... -M-

Baby, You can dress up your biases however you choose to, to make yourself sleep well at night... that’s your prerogative. But Helen Keller, Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder see what we all see.... You are a prejudiced, biased, racist. Have an outstanding weekend. ?

Don’t you mean Provincetown POLAR Bear Week attendees? ? Where there’s .... 95% Polar Bear ✊? 5% Grizzly Bear ✊? 5% Panda Bear✊ ??? So much for “diversity”

White gay bears crack me up... You fight for “equality”, over image, to refute the body fascism, perpetuated by the waxed and pruned “muscle twink”, you vehemently loathe, all to create your own scene that literally MIRRORS the scene that you accused of bias.... Now that’s the true irony... https://sdlgbtn.com/news/2018/06/26/public-facebook-bear-community-group-no-africans-no-asians

And about those liberated bears....? https://instinctmagazine.com/new-article-calls-out-lack-of-diversity-in-the-marketing-of-bear-circuit-events/

I didn’t say that, you did.....

You’re projecting your own body image issues and injecting that into this discussion (which isn’t relevant)..... Even in Provincetown, among a group of liberated bears of all shapes and sizes, the issue of race is still a problem. My point of mentioning “hot guys”, wasn’t meant to shame fat, hairy, or any other body type.... it was in response to pictures posted, that even race supersedes one’s general sense of attraction to characteristics anyone can have. So to your point.... Even in a group of hairy-backed, barrel-bellied bears, there will still be Asians, Latinos, and Blacks of the SAME body type, that will be rejected because of their race, as its “just a preference”.....

Ummm..... You originally posted your “preferences”, on this forum, I didn’t.

Ahhh, Racial “preference”, sprinkled with a little bit of ageism too.... Is it Peter Pan you seek, my friend? ?

Sexual orientation, or sexual preference towards a gender, is scientifically proven to be genetic, metaphysical, and innate. Racial preference, is scientifically, psychologically, and sociologically proven to be a learned behavior. The two are not the same. Believe it or not, your attraction to Latin men, is learned, and at some point in your life, the idea of Latin men being sexy, came from a source of influence. I’m not saying this is good or bad, but you were not born with that preference.

That wasn’t his purpose for posting those pictures. what I got from him was this.... Most guys are attracted to guys that are hot. (Smooth skin, beautiful bodies, beautiful faces).... To reject any of those guys, simply based on their race, proves that the idea of preference is not only ridiculous, but flat out racist.... @The_Impeccable_G , further proved this theory...out of all of the gorgeous white guys out there (I don’t have any racial preferences, I like them all), he posts a pic of a somewhat cute, but average looking white guy, with no physique, basically telling the world that he’d reject any of those hot guys of color, to prefer that, to support his racist ideologies. The point is that when someone is racist, or has “preferences”, their biases are even stronger than one’s general sense of beauty standards.... they throw that all away, just to be with someone white.

We know you would..... ?

Both of these guys, are drop dead gorgeous..... purely hot..... Anyone who would pull a “No thanks, just a preference” with these guys, clearly shows that there’s a PROBLEM.