thedanNYC

10 hours ago, BSR said:

What do you like about it so much?

It reminds him he's rich.

13 hours ago, sutherland said:

I just tried grindr for the first time and got stung.  I knew to ignore the 20-something bodybuilders (why would they be interested in me?) so I started to communicate with a 57-year old.  The morning we were to meet I asked him to please verify that there would be no exchange of cash and we were meeting for mutual pleasure.   He wrote back that he did expect payment.  I lost interest.  OUCH !!!!  He threatened me.  I would expect this from a young hustler but, come on, a man in his 50s ?   Luckily there is no way for him to find me since I did not give my contact info.

Did you message someone who was clearly an escort? Or whose profile said he wanted to meed for $ex? Or something along those lines? I'm thinking you might have missed an early warning sign here. 

I've never met up/come across a non-escort Grindr dude who expected payment for hooking up.

8 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

I don’t think this is Tech talk, but maybe…

Was just gifted an Oculus VR headset. It requires a Facebook login. I left FB years ago, not interested in re-upping that. What should I do?

19 hours ago, nycman said:

That doesn’t prove anything….

Condoms aren’t 100% effective at preventing any disease.
Condoms break.
The "insertee" (for lack of a better term) can also stealthily remove a condom…been there.
People lie….on both sides of this equation. 

Like most of California…the Law is well intentioned, and stupid.

1 hour ago, BnaC said:

Honestly, I do believe that in the context of it being a trans woman.  As further details indicated, the presence of a partial erection probably caused them to doubt the sincerity of what was in their presence.  

I think you might change your mind if you watch the viral video of the lady who taped herself complaining to staff about the trans woman being in the women's spa. The women's outrage had nothing to do with the trans woman being in any state of arousal.

Here you go. This is America for you: 

This is the full video on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CQgfGijHyrv/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link  

One reason for the delay is that Rule 32 of the Federal Rules of Criminal Procedure generally require that a probation officer conduct a pre-sentence investigation and submit a pre-sentence report to the court, which the parties can respond/object to and the judge must consider when imposing a sentence. That requirement alone can prevent sentencing from happening for at least ~1.5 months after the defendant pleads/is found guilty. 

On 9/27/2021 at 8:51 AM, BnaC said:

While I have never been a woman or even played one on TV, I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express once.  Based on that experience, I’d suggest that it’s not simply the presence of a penis in a female safe space that makes a woman feel uncomfortable.   It’s probably the presence of a penis in a “discernibly turgid state” that makes them feel uncomfortable - whether covered or uncovered.  Frankly, I doubt that a trans woman would have been discernibly turgid in that environment as I’m making a (potentially false) assumption that hormone treatments were in force as part of a transition that would have likely rendered this particular penis to be less than interesting (at least, to many in this forum). 

Interesting, you really believe that's true in the United States of America? I don't. I would expect nothing short of a riot if a penis (flaccid or erect) makes an appearance in a women-only space in which women are allowed/expected to be naked, especially if little girls are present.

In some European countries mixed-gender nudity is accepted, so a penis in a women-only space there might be dealt with more calmly.

But in America... I mean, look at this video of that trans woman being kicked out from that L.A. spa: 

Nope, I'm not ditching condoms. STDs are largely curable, but I'm not looking to end up casually gobbling antibiotics like they're candy. 

16 hours ago, RJD said:

Isn't he the Italian mouse who appeared on the Ed Sullivan show? 😁

Topo Chico is a drink. The mouse is called Topo Gigio.

Edit: Did I miss a joke here?

For Halloween, I'm considering dressing up as a moderator and locking down this thread. Would that work?

27 minutes ago, Walker1 said:

So you don't have to have gender reasisgnment surgery, before legally becoming a female? This reminds me of that trangender woman in Canada who went to some immigrant women only salons and wanted them to wax her balls.

I remember that. Her name is Jessica Yaniv. She is definitely problematic...

I think the issue here is that some people's logic is that trans women are women, therefore their whole anatomy is female including their penises, therefore it is transphobic to suggest that trans women who haven't had reassignment surgery to remove their female penis can't be nude in front of other women.

It seems that's how the Wi Spa lady thinks. She's basically saying she is a woman, including for legal purposes, which makes her the actual victim here because she was being harassed at the spa just because she is a woman who happens to have a penis.

Just now, IronMaus said:

Are you concerned that someone is going to try and show someone else your face picture and then a faceless dick picture and try to cause you trouble with it? Because I've never heard of this actually happening. Don't want your face/dick associated, keep them in separate photos.

Not someone else, the world by posting them together online. There are plenty of posts like that out there. I simply have a zero risk tolerance policy when it comes to that.

You have a different risk tolerance or think sending separate photos addresses the risk I mentioned? Great, I'm happy that works for you. But that's just not the way I operate, and I'm just offering my perspective directly to the OP.

9 hours ago, Gadfly22 said:

I didn’t. Just found it odd that’s all.

I understand but in both cases they contacted me first and they didn’t send me dic pics (lots of other guys did BTW). I did send a real face pic and offered to meet in person to show them the goods - they each live less than 5 minutes away according to the locator. I still think it was some kind of scam. Just trying to figure out how it works.

It's very simple. You don't owe anything to random strangers online. So don't do anything you're not comfortable with on Grindr, Scruff or whatever other app you try. If the guy on the other side is not happy with that, then move on (whether he blocks you or not).

I've never ever sent a dick pic on Grindr and never will, no matter who is asking for it. And I certainly wouldn't recommend you do it after sending a face pic. Do you want to risk your face/dick photo combo ending up online if you hook up with a psycho who was just trolling, or wants an encore but you don't, etc.? I sure don't.

On 8/5/2021 at 10:18 PM, lonely_john said:

Found him, SO HOT! 🔥

@boner5150 on Chaturbate, Twitter, and Only Fans.

I just saw him online on CB self-sucking and came looking for this thread to give you his deets. I didn't realize you'd already found him. Do I get Karma points anyway?

23 minutes ago, PinkyPie said:

I just want to be my natural slut self and fuck as many guys as I can have them run a train on me and then for the right loving dominant top to come along and fuck me good like I like it some BDSM from doggy and missionary lifting my leg and riding my boyfriend til he cums inside for Christmas

Um, you're officially on the naughty list.

7 hours ago, Smurof said:

Danny DeVito, Belize, I'll just stop right there.

Just to confirm, you mean this Danny DeVito?

7 hours ago, lonely_john said:

Resuscitating this thread to see what are others' recommendations on what should one definitely eat in this life, or right before leaving this world.

Right now I can only think of Foie Gras

 

1-800-call-PETA

If a woman gets fat, her boobs and ass grow. If a man gets fat, his dick disappears. That's just not fair.

17 hours ago, JoeMendoza said:

if u continue to be a bad boy, I may just need to add YouTube videos on linear algebra and differential equations...lol.

I'd rather let the devil be my master!

4 hours ago, Deadlift1 said:

Pfizer approved.   NYC teachers mandatory vaccination just announced.  NJ and many more to follow.  Buffalo Kyle is right.

Cue the anti-vaxxers

Any woman whose large estate I would inherit.

I went to confession yesterday. My penance was 10 Hail Marys and reading this thread.

5 hours ago, Epigonos said:

Be aware that starting the 26th of this month (August) all restaurants and bar in Palm Springs "must" require all potential customers show proof of Covid19 vaccination.  Now what they will be requiring in April is anybodies guess.  My recommendation is that if you are anti vaccination and would like to attend make refundable hotel reservation and cancel if that policy doesn't change. 

You're nicer than I am. Anti-vaxxers wouldn't have gotten a heads up from me. They would've just gotten one of these if they made a non-refundable booking and weren't allowed indoors anywhere:

Side note, here's Miss Supranational 2021:

She's from Namibia. Yes, you read that right. That's Miss Namibia.