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    Gadfly22 reacted to + sniper in Why some straight men enjoy M4M massage...   
    Yeah while acknowledging it's stupid, I'm not going to press it and risk the guy backing out....
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from NavyChief in Why some straight men enjoy M4M massage...   
    Ha Ha!! Cleopatra isn't the only queen of DE-NILE!!!
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from Redwine56 in Blow-job assistance?   
    Nobody liked this? I thought it was funny.
    I feel like Brett Sommers on Match Game
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from liubit in Blow-job assistance?   
    Nobody liked this? I thought it was funny.
    I feel like Brett Sommers on Match Game
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from + Funguy in Blow-job assistance?   
    Nobody liked this? I thought it was funny.
    I feel like Brett Sommers on Match Game
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from nynakedtop in Advice to Masseurs - if they want more regulars   
    Thanks!!
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from Capitano in Advice to Masseurs - if they want more regulars   
    Tell us who he is! The purpose of this forum is to share useful information, not whine! (Well maybe a little whining )
    But seriously share the benefits of your experience (good or bad) with the rest of us.
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from + HornyRetiree in Blow-job assistance?   
    Harvard hosts an anal sex workshop every year. Maybe you could get in touch and ask them to host a cock sucking workshop.
    I bet they'll think its a great idea! They might even give you an honorary degree!
    Don't believe me? Click on the link below to read about it in the NY Post.
     
    https://nypost.com/2017/11/08/harvard-hosts-annual-anal-sex-101-class/
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from + Avalon in My Baby Loves Lovin'   
    Yes! My anthem for trannies:
     
    Girl - you need a woman soon............
    Soon............. you'll be a man!!!
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from + ODIN51 in Oral fixation   
    My take is a bit simpler than MasageAddict. When it comes to sensual pleasure sometimes I want to be active and sometimes I want to lie back and be serviced. When the former I hire an escort; when the latter I go for erotic massage. And if there are guys out there who are willing to go the "extra mile" I'd like to know about them and maybe give them a try. Reasonable?
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from niceandthick in Oral fixation   
    Understood and thanks. I thought this topic might be pushing the boundaries but as I said before I have seen it come up in other threads. If anyone is still reading this thread and has any info on the subject please PM me. I'll gladly share anything I learn with any interested parties (privately of course).
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    Gadfly22 reacted to Dmitri in Advice to Masseurs - if they want more regulars   
    Additional tips:
     
    1) KEEP your appointments with your clients. We juggle our schedules to keep our appointments with you. You do the same. I have lost count of masseurs who text me an hour before to cancel with a lame, transparent excuse....such as " I need to cancel your session. An emergency has come up." I am not stupid. I know the "emergency" is either they have another client that wants to book a longer session for more money.....or they are going out with friends for dinner. Flaky does not work to keep clients.
     
    2) Do NOT text during the session. Yes, many times I am aware that my masseur will be texting other clients with one hand while massaging me with the other. (?) This leads to #3
     
    3) Be PRESENT for your client during the massage. You are there for HIM. Don't watch the clock, text other clients, or give the impression you want to be somewhere else. I had a massage last night where the masseur was telling me during the massage how hungry he was and he could not wait till the massage was over so he could go get a pizza (?) That is insulting. It does not make you feel the love.
     
    We are paying good money for these guys (to much money, in my opinion), and need professional, stable masseurs, not flakes. And if you are a professional, stable masseur you will have us as a regular, which is where the real money is. Your bread and butter is your regular, steady client base.
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    Gadfly22 reacted to + purplekow in Do You Give To Panhandlers?   
    Cynical group here. When I give, which is sometimes, I do so with the expectation that I have no control over what that person may do with the money I give to him nor how much money that person has accrued by this activity, but rather I do it with the expectation that at this particular time and in this particular place, I am feeling a kindness towards another human being who may need my help. On a cold winter night walking in the streets of the NE, I may slip a bill of some denomination into the sleeping bag of a person sleeping on the street with the hope that this may be the dollar or five or ten, that brings this person back. I know some find this naive, I find that the world is frequently a hopeless place and I figure I am not giving away money, I am buying a bit of hope for myself and perhaps the recipient as well.
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from Sandlapp in Best Kisser?   
    I'm glad someone posted this pic because they say a picture is worth a thousand words. I actually hate when a guy says he likes to french kiss and does this...... just gives you the tip of his tongue. What up with that? That's not a french kiss to me. I want full tongue - I SAID FULL TONGUE MR. SULU. NOTHING LESS. Anyone else feel the same? Anyways thanks for listening to my rant.
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    I think that factoid was absent from the mobile app version of the website. Now it says “profile recently expired “ so it looks like his career as an escort was really short.
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    Gadfly22 reacted to MikeBiDude in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    When I looked it clearly stares his ad hasn’t been approved by administrators and therefore “is not visible in searches...”

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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from SuperJunior in "mutual touch"   
    Um hate to bring up the sordid topic of coin but this thread intrigues me. What I'm interested to know is how much are you guys paying for these massages - whether they are at a "legit" massage parlor or otherwise - where you do not know going in whether intimate touching is allowed or if a H/E is part of the deal?
    As for myself I will never pay $100 or more for a massage unless the masseur replies with an enthusiastic yes to the following 3 questions:
    1. Are you nude?
    2. Can I touch you?
    3. Do I get a H/E?
    Now of course they lie sometimes but that's the chance you take.
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from + Tarte Gogo in "mutual touch"   
    Um hate to bring up the sordid topic of coin but this thread intrigues me. What I'm interested to know is how much are you guys paying for these massages - whether they are at a "legit" massage parlor or otherwise - where you do not know going in whether intimate touching is allowed or if a H/E is part of the deal?
    As for myself I will never pay $100 or more for a massage unless the masseur replies with an enthusiastic yes to the following 3 questions:
    1. Are you nude?
    2. Can I touch you?
    3. Do I get a H/E?
    Now of course they lie sometimes but that's the chance you take.
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from Martin in Personal Trainer Escort?   
    Several years back I was a member of NYSC in Hoboken. (BTW loved that place, so many hotties. Then I moved away. ) But one thing I noticed was that all or at least most of the clients of the male trainers were older gay men. I found it hilarious the way they would look at them with glazed eyes during the training session and often wondered if the services of the trainers extended to the bedroom. Anybody familiar with that location know any more about it?
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    Gadfly22 got a reaction from MikeyGMin in "mutual touch"   
    Um hate to bring up the sordid topic of coin but this thread intrigues me. What I'm interested to know is how much are you guys paying for these massages - whether they are at a "legit" massage parlor or otherwise - where you do not know going in whether intimate touching is allowed or if a H/E is part of the deal?
    As for myself I will never pay $100 or more for a massage unless the masseur replies with an enthusiastic yes to the following 3 questions:
    1. Are you nude?
    2. Can I touch you?
    3. Do I get a H/E?
    Now of course they lie sometimes but that's the chance you take.
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