FrankR

I dont mean to nit-pick but if you ask me to bottom during our session, I will almost always decline. I generally top (due to blessings of a big dick) and will need time to prepare - the time to ask is before the session. Sometimes I just dont feel it and dont want to bottom despite how proud I am of my perky, smooth peaches. So…ask ahead of time to avoid disappointment! 

I dont mean to nit-pick but if you ask me to bottom during our session, I will almost always decline. I generally top (due to blessings of a big dick) and will need time to prepare - the time to ask is before the session. Sometimes I just dont feel it and dont want to bottom despite how proud I am of my perky, smooth peaches. So…ask ahead of time to avoid disappointment! 

Nice guy, but very expensive for…not much. The $250 “sensual” option probably isn’t what you think it might be. For that, you apparently need to bring in the “partner” starting at $400. Also, his MF ad has a photo of a massage table in room that does not exist in his apartment. What is the point of that?  
The massage itself is amateur. No obvious training. Just some light pinching. 

DoxyPep use will inevitably result in more antibiotic resistant STI’s. It’s a longtime loser.
Im always surprised at how much pushback I get from people when I insist on condom use.

So how much did you charge him? Did he tip well?? 😜 😆

I am sorry this happened to you. Not to be harsh, but it would not surprise me if you arent the only one. Have see this happen many times - some men are more subtle than others, but it all leads to the same place. In my case he told me he was having financial difficulty and would have to move back west to stay with his parents and how much will we miss our time together? I didnt bite. By a miracle he is still in town and still available - I see him often. Less subtle are some of the moneyboys I met in Thailand, they still text me asking for money a year later and promise to pay back every baht. 

That is right up there with blaming mercury being in retrograde.  

Tons of prior discussion going back several years.
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/110848-411-on-colllegestud/
Also mentioned here:  https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/117881-san-diego/page/2/#comment-1778097
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/106528-411-on-college_guy/#comment-1357245
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/81105-college_guy-in-san-diego/#comment-885593

That is right up there with blaming mercury being in retrograde.  

So how much did you charge him? Did he tip well?? 😜 😆

That is right up there with blaming mercury being in retrograde.  

I would suggest a travel insurance policy - it is about as temporary as you can gey.   It will take care of large, unexpected medical expenses during his visit but will likely not cover existing conditions.
 
You can also consider World Nomad which is usually more comprehensive and intended for digital nomads that work in various spots - they have a USA coverage option.
 
Getting a traditional policy (Aetna or UHC) is difficult since it is really a full year commitment. 

That is a dick move. If he has a thread here on the forum, please add the comment to his thread to make others aware. 

I would suggest a travel insurance policy - it is about as temporary as you can gey.   It will take care of large, unexpected medical expenses during his visit but will likely not cover existing conditions.
 
You can also consider World Nomad which is usually more comprehensive and intended for digital nomads that work in various spots - they have a USA coverage option.
 
Getting a traditional policy (Aetna or UHC) is difficult since it is really a full year commitment. 

I would suggest a travel insurance policy - it is about as temporary as you can gey.   It will take care of large, unexpected medical expenses during his visit but will likely not cover existing conditions.
 
You can also consider World Nomad which is usually more comprehensive and intended for digital nomads that work in various spots - they have a USA coverage option.
 
Getting a traditional policy (Aetna or UHC) is difficult since it is really a full year commitment. 

I would suggest a travel insurance policy - it is about as temporary as you can gey.   It will take care of large, unexpected medical expenses during his visit but will likely not cover existing conditions.
 
You can also consider World Nomad which is usually more comprehensive and intended for digital nomads that work in various spots - they have a USA coverage option.
 
Getting a traditional policy (Aetna or UHC) is difficult since it is really a full year commitment. 

What is a dominant passive top? Sounds like an oxymoron to me. 

You can heed good advice or not (in regard to the Shakespeare quote). In my case, I have never regretted refusing to lend someone money.  I have on occasion lent money that was more than I would want to lose but the situation was such that I was confident I would get it back.  In the three cases of which I am thinking I got the money back, only after having to ask for it several times.  That did leave me regretting ever having lent the money to start.  

So how much did you charge him? Did he tip well?? 😜 😆

Hello @gooduslife and welcome to the discussion forum. 
It is wise of you to see out advice - I am sure you will get valuable responses.  As for myself, an older gay, I would be remiss if I did not advice you to take care of your health first.  Before you get more sexually active, please ensure that you get all the recommended vaccinations (HPV, Hepatitis, Meningococcal - you can look it up on the internet as there is specific guidance for men who have sex with men) from you student medical center or a city health clinic.  You may also want to get on PreP if you are not already. 
My second piece of advice is that you join a local gay community group - some of the most valuable friendships I have is from meeting older gay men at my local community center; they have been a great resource for me in life with guidance and support when I needed it.  They understand life as a young gay man and have always been willing to help when I needed a sympathetic ear or was struggling.  And all it cost me was a cup of coffee and to stay in touch.  
From the information you provided, I conclude that you are studying in San Francisco on a student visa.  If that is the case and you are not a US citizen, you should be aware that as a guest in the USA you are particularly vulnerable to law enforcement scrutiny. San Fran is a fairly liberal city where escorting isn't a priority for law enforcement, but if you should travel (with a man or without) and questions are raised about you escorting, it could impact your visa and ability to finish your studies.  So you have to do what you can to maintain a lower profile.  Not posting your face on rentmen is smart - get the "burner" app for your phone and use that "burner" number exclusively for your side business. 
Most men will only agree to meet if they see your face, so consider how much you will be willing to share even if it is via text/whatsapp.  Consider the type of client you want (a few local men that you see repeatedly vs traveling men who may be able to host at their hotel and pay more, but you are always seeing someone new and not building up a client base). If you do decide to create a rentmen profile - my advice is to be honest in your profile - use pics that are of you, even if it does not show your face, make sure they know what you are willing to do and not do and then communicate clearly and quickly. If you are meeting a man you have never met before, my advice is to meet in a public place first (hotel lobby, coffee shop) so you can look him in the eye before you get intimate.  Video calls also work - get a sense for the guy and protect yourself against time wasters and scammers. 
Good luck and reach out to me if you have any questions.

So how much did you charge him? Did he tip well?? 😜 😆

Hello @gooduslife and welcome to the discussion forum. 
It is wise of you to see out advice - I am sure you will get valuable responses.  As for myself, an older gay, I would be remiss if I did not advice you to take care of your health first.  Before you get more sexually active, please ensure that you get all the recommended vaccinations (HPV, Hepatitis, Meningococcal - you can look it up on the internet as there is specific guidance for men who have sex with men) from you student medical center or a city health clinic.  You may also want to get on PreP if you are not already. 
My second piece of advice is that you join a local gay community group - some of the most valuable friendships I have is from meeting older gay men at my local community center; they have been a great resource for me in life with guidance and support when I needed it.  They understand life as a young gay man and have always been willing to help when I needed a sympathetic ear or was struggling.  And all it cost me was a cup of coffee and to stay in touch.  
From the information you provided, I conclude that you are studying in San Francisco on a student visa.  If that is the case and you are not a US citizen, you should be aware that as a guest in the USA you are particularly vulnerable to law enforcement scrutiny. San Fran is a fairly liberal city where escorting isn't a priority for law enforcement, but if you should travel (with a man or without) and questions are raised about you escorting, it could impact your visa and ability to finish your studies.  So you have to do what you can to maintain a lower profile.  Not posting your face on rentmen is smart - get the "burner" app for your phone and use that "burner" number exclusively for your side business. 
Most men will only agree to meet if they see your face, so consider how much you will be willing to share even if it is via text/whatsapp.  Consider the type of client you want (a few local men that you see repeatedly vs traveling men who may be able to host at their hotel and pay more, but you are always seeing someone new and not building up a client base). If you do decide to create a rentmen profile - my advice is to be honest in your profile - use pics that are of you, even if it does not show your face, make sure they know what you are willing to do and not do and then communicate clearly and quickly. If you are meeting a man you have never met before, my advice is to meet in a public place first (hotel lobby, coffee shop) so you can look him in the eye before you get intimate.  Video calls also work - get a sense for the guy and protect yourself against time wasters and scammers. 
Good luck and reach out to me if you have any questions.

Propaganda you say. Wall Steet analysts are saying it. The Federal Reserve is saying it. Large retailers are saying it. Fortune, Bloomberg and Wall Street Journal are saying it. Of course nobody is saying that ALL of inflation is caused by price increases - but there is no doubt greedflation is a thing and a large contributor. 

https://fortune.com/2024/01/20/inflation-greedflation-consumer-price-index-producer-price-index-corporate-profit/

Hello @gooduslife and welcome to the discussion forum. 
It is wise of you to see out advice - I am sure you will get valuable responses.  As for myself, an older gay, I would be remiss if I did not advice you to take care of your health first.  Before you get more sexually active, please ensure that you get all the recommended vaccinations (HPV, Hepatitis, Meningococcal - you can look it up on the internet as there is specific guidance for men who have sex with men) from you student medical center or a city health clinic.  You may also want to get on PreP if you are not already. 
My second piece of advice is that you join a local gay community group - some of the most valuable friendships I have is from meeting older gay men at my local community center; they have been a great resource for me in life with guidance and support when I needed it.  They understand life as a young gay man and have always been willing to help when I needed a sympathetic ear or was struggling.  And all it cost me was a cup of coffee and to stay in touch.  
From the information you provided, I conclude that you are studying in San Francisco on a student visa.  If that is the case and you are not a US citizen, you should be aware that as a guest in the USA you are particularly vulnerable to law enforcement scrutiny. San Fran is a fairly liberal city where escorting isn't a priority for law enforcement, but if you should travel (with a man or without) and questions are raised about you escorting, it could impact your visa and ability to finish your studies.  So you have to do what you can to maintain a lower profile.  Not posting your face on rentmen is smart - get the "burner" app for your phone and use that "burner" number exclusively for your side business. 
Most men will only agree to meet if they see your face, so consider how much you will be willing to share even if it is via text/whatsapp.  Consider the type of client you want (a few local men that you see repeatedly vs traveling men who may be able to host at their hotel and pay more, but you are always seeing someone new and not building up a client base). If you do decide to create a rentmen profile - my advice is to be honest in your profile - use pics that are of you, even if it does not show your face, make sure they know what you are willing to do and not do and then communicate clearly and quickly. If you are meeting a man you have never met before, my advice is to meet in a public place first (hotel lobby, coffee shop) so you can look him in the eye before you get intimate.  Video calls also work - get a sense for the guy and protect yourself against time wasters and scammers. 
Good luck and reach out to me if you have any questions.

Hello @gooduslife and welcome to the discussion forum. 
It is wise of you to see out advice - I am sure you will get valuable responses.  As for myself, an older gay, I would be remiss if I did not advice you to take care of your health first.  Before you get more sexually active, please ensure that you get all the recommended vaccinations (HPV, Hepatitis, Meningococcal - you can look it up on the internet as there is specific guidance for men who have sex with men) from you student medical center or a city health clinic.  You may also want to get on PreP if you are not already. 
My second piece of advice is that you join a local gay community group - some of the most valuable friendships I have is from meeting older gay men at my local community center; they have been a great resource for me in life with guidance and support when I needed it.  They understand life as a young gay man and have always been willing to help when I needed a sympathetic ear or was struggling.  And all it cost me was a cup of coffee and to stay in touch.  
From the information you provided, I conclude that you are studying in San Francisco on a student visa.  If that is the case and you are not a US citizen, you should be aware that as a guest in the USA you are particularly vulnerable to law enforcement scrutiny. San Fran is a fairly liberal city where escorting isn't a priority for law enforcement, but if you should travel (with a man or without) and questions are raised about you escorting, it could impact your visa and ability to finish your studies.  So you have to do what you can to maintain a lower profile.  Not posting your face on rentmen is smart - get the "burner" app for your phone and use that "burner" number exclusively for your side business. 
Most men will only agree to meet if they see your face, so consider how much you will be willing to share even if it is via text/whatsapp.  Consider the type of client you want (a few local men that you see repeatedly vs traveling men who may be able to host at their hotel and pay more, but you are always seeing someone new and not building up a client base). If you do decide to create a rentmen profile - my advice is to be honest in your profile - use pics that are of you, even if it does not show your face, make sure they know what you are willing to do and not do and then communicate clearly and quickly. If you are meeting a man you have never met before, my advice is to meet in a public place first (hotel lobby, coffee shop) so you can look him in the eye before you get intimate.  Video calls also work - get a sense for the guy and protect yourself against time wasters and scammers. 
Good luck and reach out to me if you have any questions.