Kris_Canada

Okay, a week in Hawaii with someone nicknamed "Snuggly Shaun" sounds like an AWESOME time -- in my head I'm picturing some blonde hairy LUNK with a big muscle-butt who takes regular beast-fucks like a champ (top-only here, so he's a bottom in my fantasy or a vers guy who's happy with only getting filled for a week), is maybe a bit himbo-dim but as sweet as a mid-western farmboy to make up for it, and does as described---gives the best post-coitus cuddles/snuggles. 😄

I wonder if he got his escort name from "Arrested Development". 😄

D'aww, yeah...definitely a good guy. I forgot to agree with above, that I could self-suck until my early-to-mid-20s too. Fuckin' hot, blasting down one's own throat or all over my face. 🤤🥴 Hmmm, should get back into yoga...🧎‍♂️🧘‍♂️

Subjective/matter of preference, of course, but I hope most guys with cool/cute/unique ears keep 'em as-is and don't get 'em pinned. 😁 There's enough sameness and yearning-to-be-clone in the queer world (hey, the Tom Of Finland aesthetic and twin-cest and boyfriends, partners, & husbands looking like each other has its appeal for me too, at times), we don't need more of it. Whatever works for someone, it's their body, but I hope people feel like they can have a perceived oddity and own it and not necessarily need to alter it due to outside pressure.

Artur is a prince of a guy, have worked with him multiple times. He's the real deal, genuine and passionate and yes, as you said, better looking than his pics. We carpooled to a mutual client's place a few times, had good conversations on the way. And the bedroom antics between the three of us were hot, of course. 😜 We sure do love giving four-handed massages and double-stuffing our dude. Or I filled Artur while client watched. 🤤🥴 We fit a lot into our 2-hour sessions. And into each other. 😁 I don't recall getting to see him self-suck. A request for next time, see if he'll put on a show. 😃💦

I meant to reply to this last year, but forgot. Kyle is charming and sweet in-person, too. He was one of the models/performers at a charity event at The Well in Toronto's Village, the guys were auctioning off their jockstraps. He charmed the pants off of someone in my group, gave him a big kiss, just sorta fixated on the one (I suspect Kyle is LEGITIMATELY very into daddies, as he wasn't being paid to pay attention to my friend but did so anyway). Cute guy.

Are you willing to say which escort became a meme ? (only reveal if he has his face in his RentMen profile--I don't wanna out the guy if he's doing this on the DL) I'm just imagining that meme with...well, the one below. Where people always insert different captions for what each person in the pic is thinking or what category they fit into.

Haven't had him, but can confirm he's stuuupidly hot in-person (worked together at one of my day jobs a year and a half ago and also saw him at another of his jobs downtown more recently). Those pics are okay, but he's better-looking in real life. Nice guy, too, the little I talked to him.

What others have said here ('specially bring your own water), but also, if you're at his place, you could follow him to the kitchen (or mini-bar, if at hotel) and watch your drink being poured. Good opportunity to feel him up and get to know each other anyway. I always offer a bottle of water and more options, unless we're at it right after he steps in the door and I don't get a chance to! 😀🔥

Anyone watch the short-lived sci-fi western-flavoured series "Firefly" a decade and a half ago (and its big screen conclusion film, "Serenity") ? It predicted what you mentioned above. One of the crew members on the small ship is an escort (they call them "Companions" in the show) and in one episode focused on her, you see her going through a list of applicants (potential clients) on her tablet, watching their videos, rejecting and accepting them and setting up appointments. She only seemed to have wealthy clientelle. That's the centralized and more common form of prostitution in that imagined future, but there are still traditional whores as well (the show's terminology). In another episode, they head to a rougher planet and one of the companion's friends has set up a whorehouse (and is its madame) because she didn't like the way things were being done in the mainstream companion world. In all likelihood, traditional escorts will still be around in some form. Due to the appeal of JustForFans and the like, though, it might become more of a niche thing to hire one for some in-person time. And it might get more expensive and be mostly for the wealthy? We'll see.

Woof, I'd take that for a ride. His profile says Top, but after a first session of no-fucking and sniffing each other out, I'd be asking if there was any way to convince him otherwise (or ask during that first session, if things are going really well). I like the mature, rough-around-the-edges guys too. Room for all types. 😁

Meet new guys and finally see some of our regulars again, yeah. In particular, I have an awesome guy in Rochester who texts me once every couple weeks to see if I'm coming down. Not yet, buddy, the border isn't open for us to come to you guys yet (fully vaccinated Americans can come to Canada, though...weirdly, it wasn't reciprocal). But given that COVID case counts are much higher in the States, a lot of Canadians--escort or otherwise--don't wanna go to the U.S. yet anyway. You can get down on a plane, but for me, a 2 to 3 hour session isn't worth it to fly down. Rochester bud doesn't pay my travel, I simply see him when I happen to be in Niagara Falls or Buffalo on my own time or if I happen to be down for the week or weekend for another guy. Hah, that trend may lessen for a few years. At the outset of the pandemic, a lotta Québecois snowbirds (French-Canadians) brought COVID back with them from Florida. With Florida doing pretty badly right now, it's not the most desirable vacation spot, according to a lot of fellow Canadians. The average Torontonian mostly goes down there to shop. 😋

On the topic of discretion, how do you (and anyone else who wants to chime in) feel about concierge/security at condo and apartment complexes? Do you feel more comfortable entering a provider's home when it's a walk-up entrance (right to his door, like at a brownstone), as opposed to having to run the gauntlet of front entryway & buzzing him, going through lobby and sometimes past concierge/security, then the elevator or stairs ? Do you like it when he comes down to let you in/greet you at the front entrance or lobby, or would you rather not see him (maybe because you don't wanna be seen with him) until you're at the door to his unit/suite? If it's an apartment/condo, does a concierge being present make people feel self-conscious, or is it reassuring that you're in a relatively safer building? Or just..."whatever"/you're neutral about that aspect?

Re: roomies or someone having their spouse or significant other home I tried doing this with a roomie for a year, a few years back. 90% of the time, I'd just pay my roomie $20 and he'd take a hike for an hour and go visit a friend, go get laid, or get some grub. When he wouldn't or couldn't leave, I'd tell any short-notice clients that my room mate was home, he knew what I did (plus sometimes did it himself--roomie still occasionally gave massages to older couples--couples' massages were his specialty, apparently), and that he'd mostly be in his room. No one ever refrained from hiring me because of him being around, but I could tell it made a one-off client uncomfortable one time. Which is when I decided I'd be living solo the next apartment or condo I had. My longtime regulars, the odd time they'd come to me rather than me travelling to them, they didn't mind the roomie being around. They'd chat him up a bit post-coitus, when they were getting their shoes back on. Very friendly, very relaxed vibes, those times. Apparently roomie had a big dick, but I never got to see it. We weren't into each other like that, lived very different lives, and he was a friend-of-a-friend. He was a flight attendant, away all the time anyway, and I knew his schedule, so it wasn't hard to make incall appointments only when he was absent.

Hot. Always offered, yep. That should always be automatically offered at the end of a session. 🛀💦 To help set the mood, yeah. If I was asked to provide massage (and I usually find a way to work some in there anyway), always have some relaxing music or nature sounds on (would be nice to do some sessions out in the woods at a cottage, cabin, or home-in-the-forest and have the background ambiance be the actual sounds of nature). A large percentage of my hires want half the session spent on massage and the other half getting pounded anyway. Sometimes at hotel outcalls, the guy has music going already, which is nice, because you find out what he likes. 🙂 I should ask ahead of time, from now on. 5+ years of doing this (four if you subtract the break of the pandemic) and it just never occurred to me to ask that in the initial chit-chat of setting up a quickie or overnight--"What music do you like?" 🤦‍♂️ I'll remember to have some music playing for the non-massage sessions as well, from now on. Music to fuck to, yeah!