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@Moe all the best to you. Maybe a job at Wal-Mart is not the best in the world, but it can be a step up for you. Make the most of it. You sound like a diligent worker, and that should go far. Once you get settled there, keep a bit of an eye out for other opportunities if you want. Have a steady job with a recognized employer like Wal-Mart can help that. As for your family, if you have one and want to help them, do. I would advise you to remember that as being a member of that family you should help support that family, it also means that family has a duty to help support you. If you're paying the rent and need your sleep, they need to support you and be quite. Family support is not a one-way street. You have the best hopes and wishes of me and a lot of people here. Please take that to heart. A lot of people who have never met you, will never meet you, are behind you.

Happens every day. And the more men that get tired of it and give up women, the more men for us

Hey, all my escorts say I'm the hottest, fittest man they have ever seen:p Your contention above could be disproven by a single victory of a woman over a man.

Atalanta was considered one of the best hunters and runners in mythic Greece, and was a woman. The women at my gym regularly run faster than me.

In the ancient Olympics the athletes were naked as well. There is a Greek myth that a woman entered a foot race and won, her breast slipping out either at the finish line or just after, revealing her to be a woman. Since only men were supposed to compete, being naked was a sure-fire way to assure that.

Asking a provider for a referral to another provider in the same business is tricky. In the case @jitalianjay describes, the escort is no longer providing a service he uses. I think @TruthBTold has given a very respectful way of approaching it. The regular escort undoubtedly knows his client wants to top occasionally, so this is not a client wanting to stop seeing an escort, just find a way to get a service that escort no longer provides. This is a case where I think asking for a referral is acceptable. You should know your regular well enough to have a gage of what he will think of the question. @FreshFluff , I think a good regular escort would be motivated to help a good regular client fill a service that escort no longer provides. There is a risk the new escort will steal all the business yes, but the good will generated by a good referral is better.

Forum members are fairly likely to write a review of an escort. I believe a very significant number of clients may not know that there is a site for reviews at all, and if they did, would not feel comfortable or motivated to do a review. So it is possible an escort has had a number of hires and a review does not appear. I do think this is a pity. I find the review process very simple and anonymous. I personally do not trust Rent.Men reviews. Here in the States I only see star ratings, and I have heard that escorts can request bad reviews be removed. I have hired based on the comments on the forum where an escort was not reviewed on Daddy's (I submitted a review of that escort).

@tassojunior I agree your bugler can't sue for invasion of privacy, he was only in your bedroom for the commission of an illegal act. I'm a little less sure I agree at this point (but I am open to discussion) if 2 party consent should be reduced to 1 in all cases. I have had private discussions with friends that I would be embarrassed if they were revealed. I also have no problem with situations with your regular who is aware he is being filmed. That is a choice you both made. I would be upset (and to be clear, I do _not_ think you would do this, it's just an example) if you and I had an encounter in your bedroom and you filmed it without my knowledge. Since you have signs posted at your doors, some of the burden shifts to me. Do this say cameras are active in the bedroom? I could see where following you home I'm more focused on your ass than signs warning me I'm about to enter a surveilled house. I guess I'm just wondering about the logistics.

That is a situation that had not crossed my mind before, to be honest. But if he's high functioning, I'd be inclined to think he's made a rational decision I've met with escorts who I think are primarily motivated by the money they receive. In the wider scheme of things, how is this any different? He's made a decision based on whatever factors he finds important, so it's not like he doesn't understand. You said he does know what he's doing. So you are not taking advantage of him. In fact, any appointment he has with you will be safer perhaps than someone else, since you will have his well being in mind.

Even in one party states, I think (and I'm not a lawyer) filming an intimate encounter would be considered illegal. It's one thing to have a camera on your front door, it's another to have one in the bedroom. You can be filmed in public (i.e. walking down a street) without consent, but videos in bathrooms, fitting rooms, locker rooms, and so on have been ruled an invasion of privacy. There was a rash of 'revenge porn' postings, if I recall correctly, most were considered illegal. If not the filming, the distribution.

If that's not the currently correct term, please excuse me. The thread on physical disabilities got me to wonder what an escort does concerning a possible session with a client who is mentally challenged. This question presumes the proposed client has the resources to pay for time, but if an escort discovers mental limitations either through disclosure or observation, what do they do? I believe it could be a difficult decision either way. Let a challenged gay man have some quality time he may not get otherwise, or ask him to find another provider? I do not dwell on, nor do I have have experience where I have guideposts on this, and so I'm interested in how an escort would approach the question.

Yes, the ad is back to the man I met, including the name Lucas. I wonder why sometimes there is a different man on his ads, and the most recent may have been different from the first different one in this thread. I'd see him again, and I think I would ask him what's going on. He may not answer as we are not close. But I would be interested to know why. I do not think it's good business, even if all the guys who appear are good looking.

Some I consider legendary: Brian Hawks Mike Ramsey (who was my first total crush) Kyle Carrington (not enough scenes, but perfect body) Brad Carlton (otter bottom) Cameron Kelly Eric Manchester Steve Ross

Armenian. I recall a news report that his son was beat up and they alleged the beating was in part because of his Armenian heritage.

True, the pictures on the account today are not the Lucas/Masculinehung I met. Like the first guy, the man today is attractive, but not the exact same "type" that got me going for Lucas. I was interested in him for his specific look. The guy today is nice, and I wouldn't kick him out of bed but I'm more interested in "my" Lucas. if @rhicks408 is correct, and this is account sharing/break/helping hand, I'm not thrilled with it. I want the guy in the pictures I contract, not a friend of his. If this is a hacking situation (which I sort of doubt), someone needs a better password.

There are other meanings, including completely positive ones (such "That is so thoughtful"). It actually boils down to you having to know what we meant.

If I could carry that amount, I know it would be worth the effort. I've spent time with Mr. Powers, and I think I'd use bills so I could better focus on him.

Swinging Richards in Atlanta opened a branch in the Miami area - technically Ft. Lauderdale, I think. I never visited it, but if Florida is your proposed location, you may want to look at how SR was treated in the area. As I recall, the authorities had some difficulties with the local government: they were fine with naked girls in clubs, not so much with naked guys. It was a strain on the SR organization: they had management for one club, not two. They did have the advantage of sending experienced dancers from Atlanta down.

Also not an escort :/ I think this is a different situation. Suggesting a change of relationship status - from one man hiring another for time to them doing the same thing without money changing hands - is something the person getting the money should initiate. I think it would be great if any of the men I saw on a regular basis said "Hey, no more charge!" but if I suggest it, I'm asking a good escort to take money out of their pocket, to stop making the money they make off of me. I know escorts who can totally convince you they are happy to be there, are having a great time, and can't wait for the next one. But it's all an act. It's part of the service. They may not, in fact, be turned on or be enjoying themselves. But they have a job to do and that job is making you happy and satisfied. This hobby is predicated on the escort being able to get into the moment with the client. In some cases, the escort really is attracted to the client. Or even if it's not a physical attraction, personally likes the client and enjoys his company. An escort who can leave you wondering if they were turned on and into you or if were just them doing their job has done their job well. Very well. So well in fact, that the client really doesn't know how the escort felt. This is good business. You might want a longer session next, or more frequent, or suggest (paid) other activities like dinner. This is a successful escort. It's like seeing a really good acting job, you can't tell if the actor is really feeling it or just acting. When a client takes this good work and suggest becoming FBs or anything else, the escort is faced with having to tell them it's a business relationship. That strongly breaks the mystique that has been created. If the client never mentions it, the mystique can stay in place. Suggesting not paying an escort for the services you have been paying for impacts the escorts bottom line. Any answer is a risk. If he agrees, he's lost the income he was getting from you. If he declines, he knows you may engage him less. But, if the person who is suggesting the change is the one who bears the financial burden (in this case, the income) it's fine. In your case, this escort seems to have really connected and wants to go further. He likes you enough to give up the money. That means he's serious. To be clear on my saying it's an act on the escorts part: I know it may not be, that escorts can be turned on and happy to be with their clients. My point is the good ones have the ability to fake it when they are not, and fake it so well the client does not know. It's a skill I don't have and admire those who do.

If I may, and only because of my interest in words. "Exotic" just means unusual for an area or nation, and it's just for people, but anything, like food. If there is a lot of German food in your area, Chinese is exotic, only because it's not common there. It does have a Greek root. As I'm not an escort, I don't have to make the decision of where best to travel for business, but it makes sense to go someplace where the local providers can't offer what you do. If there is a location with mostly twinks, a muscular escort could get some business from clients who would like muscles over twinks.

I didn't see anyone answer on this. Yes, I think it is. The question is not actually a flip, was there is one basic difference: the number of "guests". A successful escort travelling would have a few guests each day. I'm not sure what that number would be, but assuming he was fully booked for his entire time, it could be a decent number of people. In general, a client would have one or two total escorts over. I think it would be unusual for a client to have more than 1 escort per day. It's basically the same number as someone getting lucky at the bars. In general, a client would get an AirBnB because they are on vacation or work, and an escort visit is a 'treat'. An escort is there to conduct business and the AirBnB is where it happens. Someone who rents out an AirBnB expects a person or persons to stay there rather like a hotel, perhaps having people over for platonic visits, and perhaps some bedroom activity. A person renting out an AirBnB would not expect a renter to be running an escorting business out of the bedroom. I don't rent AirBnB's, and I wouldn't put my house up for rent there. I do think an AirBnB provider as taking on risks like a hotel does, where renter may cause some damage and certainly use items. Escorting would not be expected, but is certainly a possibility, and as we've seen, happens. Since a lot of AirBnB's are private residences, it does mean that a serious of "one-hour" visitors to an escort could be noticed. That sort of thing is somewhat masked in a hotel, so an escort renting an AirBnB increases the change their business would be reported to the property owner.

Could you please tell me what MHG is?

Congratulations on your success!

I think very little I have to say will be something you have not considered, but I'm adding it for the sake of the thread. My regular has his own home, owns not rents. I know escorting is his only business, and I include his massage clients in that (as he's an erotic, not therapeutic). He's in another city, and I've been able to visit him there a couple of times as I drove through. He usually comes to my home (we know each other's real names, and have been doing business for years). I am glad he has a place I can visit him in my pass-through situations. Since he has no roommates, we don't have to shuttle someone away or deal with the roommate unexpectedly arriving. If the roommate knows the man is escorting, I don't think it would be a problem for the escort, but I can easily see clients not being comfortable with it. Related to this, and something I have not asked him, is what do the neighbors think of a number of one hour visitors you get? Even if a neighbor isn't prying into your business, it is not hard for a neighbor to notice a level of traffic. And a level of traffic you would probably want as a successful escort who hosts as part of their business. This does not count at all any neighbors who actually do pry into your business. Consider what the housewife across the street who just happens to be able to notice the cars in the drive while she passes her window or does her gardening. I find it a bit hot to visit an escort in their own place. It gives a nice sense of intimacy. As has been noted in some other threads, it's better if the place is presentable. I grungy place would be a turnoff for me, as I would wonder how well the escort maintained himself if he lived in filth. I'm considering a house in the suburbs. There would be some differences for apartments, of course. Can the lady downstairs see different guys going up and down all day? Does the doorman ask you for a special "tip", or does the old lady hear a knock on your door and peek out? If you do buy, and give out your address, it can mean that someone can search for the owner and get your legal name. I've never done this outside of some professional work, but it is possible.

Yes, it's the man I met before "Marky" appeared. I suspect he changed his stage name for a bit. I thought he had a Daddy's review, but I don't see it. I think you would enjoy time with him, so if he's your type, go for it.