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I believe some escorts are more comfortable with some clients than others, so I wouldn't mention "special services". I've met one who kisses me but it's not part of his normal service. When we discussed it, he said he makes the decision based on how he feels with the client. I think that makes sense. I think an escort who totally knew a client only had sex with him would be more comfortable doing bareback since the risk would be so small (for example). I wouldn't mention he kissed in a review, so other clients wouldn't demand it of him, and he gets a sour taste in his mouth (I promise that didn't start as a pun), and not feel as comfortable kissing me.

I don't ask as a general rule, but I have told my regular when I do one. If they have a profile on rent.men or another, what I'm saying should only help their business. Not that it's ever happened, but unless I did a deserved poor review, I would forward a request to take it down if the escort asked me. If we engaged in services he doesn't state on his ad, I would not mention them. I think anything like that could be covered in "marvelous experience" "more than I hoped for" or something like that. I admit I would be surprised for a man for whom this is their business would not want a positive review posted. I've not seen an un-reviewed escort in years, and I doubt I will as long as I can find reviews.

@david78nyc I'm not an escort, but texting lets you see if the other person is responsive at all. Plus it can be done much more discretely than finding a place to have a conversation. I generally don't call escorts because I know one of the things that happens is that men will contact them hoping to just get the attention of a hot man. In those cases, it's easy to silence the incoming texts, much harder to get off the phone.

Yes, I certainly do. I don't give them cash for the time I've watched them on video (as @Kevin Slater suggests) since it's one the things I use to decide I want to spend time with them I find it incredible see see a guy I've been with going at it on the screen. And when you get to spend time with someone you've watched for years, it will blow your..... mind. That's actually happened for me.

@marylander1940 I certainly think so. He has a great body and works hard for his client to enjoy himself.

A comment on the review of Alain. I've been with him a couple of times. I really must commend the reviewer in pointing out that Alain did something he didn't like but others would enjoy.

I do hope - but I'm not foolish enough to expect it. It is not a hope in total vain, there are many providers who are just great people, and can establish a good connection/friendship with an "old guzzard". The fact it is a business transaction makes it harder to determine a read friendship. Your dancer hasn't learned his lesson that tells him to keep the client happy. I actually think the ones who keep in mind it's business until they both realize they just like each other (even if just as dinner friends) have the strongest connections.

This is a study by the University of Georgia: https://www.psychologytoday.com/files/u47/Henry_et_al.pdf . According to this paper, university men who identified as "homophobic" experienced more arousal when watching gay porn than a control group of men who did not identify as homophobic. I found this going through this website, and this link has a nice summary if you don't want to read the whole paper: https://www.stuffyoushouldknow.com/blogs/5-greatest-academic-papers-time4.htm and thought it might be something some of you would be interested.

I think the butt and cock pictures are shared between them. I _think_ those stay for both guys. I can tell you there is nothing wrong with the real Lucas' body, but I can't promise if that's 'him' in the pictures without his face.

According to one of my regulars who had done porn in the past, I think that may be on the higher end, in part due to his fame.

I've met him twice, while traveling to Phily on business. I had a great time with both encounters. In my opinion, if you can see his face pictures, he is more handsome in person than they relay.

Having been with him a few times, and counting down the (few) days to the next one, he is vastly better in person than his pictures or videos can convey. I'm one of his reviews on Daddy's, and I've suggested him on this forum and will do so again. He is well worth a trip to New Orleans, even if visiting him is the only thing you do. As much as there is in New Orleans, that should tell you something.

And as the coverboy! Ethan is great, in the bit's I've gotten to hang out with him, the reviewer is right - he's great to spend time with.

I've met with Ethan Slade a few times, and I'm due to meet him again in a couple weeks: https://rent.men/EthanSlade . His ad is showing expired, but I might be able to connect you. He's a great escort, and even better in person than on screen.

I can give you a one solid and one possible suggestion. I'm not in the area, but I scanned who is available. You will want to look at Daddy's Reviews to see feedback for anyone you consider. Some commentary can be found in the forums as well. My solid suggestion is https://rent.men/MikeGaite . I've not had the pleasure of his company, but several posters here have, and he is very highly regarded. DC is currently on his travel schedule. By all accounts, not something you want to let pass. The second is a gentleman with no reviews, but I'm sure he had a different stage name earlier. He's posted some new pictures and I'm 95% sure it's him, so there is a risk I'm wrong https://rent.men/CountryMuscle . If you take the plunge on him, I'd love to hear about it. I am going to hire him if we're ever in the same city. Other, more local people, may have more suggestions.

@queensboroboy I think it's less tacky in the situation you describe than someone looking for variety. In this case, your provider has stopped offering something you want. The question is how close is your relationship? If you are close enough, it should be OK, but if you think you'll hurt his feelings, explore without his advise.

Full truth in advertising.

When I met him via Rentmen, he provided what I was looking for. He matched his pictures and I had a wonderful time. The guy currently on Rent.men is not the Lucas I met, and where I would met Lucas again, this profile sharing has me a bit concerned as to what is going on.

Confusing dates can be a problem, I admit. It is possible for an escort to leave Miami on the 12th and arrive in Atlanta the same day. Some escorts really will travel to cities once they get some clients there. My regular is in another state, so if he were advertising that he was willing to travel to certain cities, it would be valid, because he does on a regular basis. His city is small, so he travels a lot. He has a few cities further out that he does visit on a less frequent, but still regular basis. So what I'm saying it multiple cities listed for an escort in New York or LA, but if he's in a smaller town, his business is travelling a lot. Interestingly, one escort I want to see had Nashville on his list for this weekend. I didn't see it until Sunday, but I suspect he wasn't really here, just checking to see how much interest he could get. He has a body I really want to see again, but his organization last time he was working left a bit to be desired. I say that because when he would make the fairly long trip here, he would decide just that week, and so show up without much warning. I think Nashville is a small enough market that a bit of warning would get more business.

I can understand where this can be frustrating, but I don't have a problem with as much advance warning an escort might be somewhere I could visit. If they put the dates in, sometimes it means I can arrange my schedule to see a provider I might miss otherwise. I have been known to change my plans when possible to give me an opportunity to see an escort. But I'm also the type to reach out to an escort early if I can. Were some escorts don't like planning far in advance, I want to get my hat in the ring so I have a better chance of getting a time with the man.

I don't consider these major, or a sign of anything, I just find them amusing, so I thought I'd share. I think these count as "bloopers", amusing mostly because men.com is a good sized porn company. I have a subscription, and I enjoy a lot of their content. I was interested in the "Stranded" series they did, and downloaded the first scene. The file was bigger than I thought it would be. It seems that the video is doubled. The scene runs and ends. Than starts all over again. I just checked, and that version is still streaming on the site. The second I just saw. "Attack of my Clone 2" stars Diego Sans. He and David Blake on on the bed making out. You can hear the director prompt them to remove their pants and underwear, then instruct Diego to go down on David. There might be more later, but I've only make it so far in the video I just find it funny that a usually professional firm as made two minor mistakes so close together.

All the best man, may your birthday be a new dawn of a wonderful life.

I've met him twice. He is a fantastic companion. I am looking forward to getting to see him again (which involves our travel cities coinciding). His pictures are accurate, his communication is good, he is unbelievable in bed. I do not think you would be disappointed in the least.

@Moe I can tell you from experience your body will ache, but you body will also adjust. Mall walking is a great start. Once you get comfortable with that, look around for something to challenge you. It doesn't have to be an American Ninja Warrior class, but once you are walking, it's time to run You have a plan, and a good one. Stick with it. Good work can bring promotion and new opportunities. If it doesn't that just means you have to look for it. You family does seem better than the earlier version you described. Be glad of it, and relish your time with them. I wish I looked like my profile picture. I want to, but it takes time and effort. I will say, as my body has improved some, I like sex more. Where I'm not my profile, I feel better in bed when I'm closer to what I want to be in bed with.

So if I'm a nice guy, will hot men rip off their shirts for me? Sign me up