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That domain has not been taken yet, so that speaks to it not being valid. Further, Gmail will allow you to have an email address with the domain you have. It is valid from a practical matter to have Google handle your email in the background, but if you are starting a website business and the right side of the @ is not your domain, it looks sketchy.

I'm a client as well. I know I've been with providers (some on here) who I am sure would have rather been in bed with someone else, but their professionalism was so great I could not tell. That is a mark of a great escort. He may not like his nipples done, but he'll seem to get into it. Yes, I want the escort I'm with to have the best time he can. But his job (and so many do this so very well) can convience the client they are having as much fun as the client.

Victor, we met once, you did a fantastic job, and I know you will be as successful in your new career.

If you think he's a good fit for your company, that is another reason to help him. You've hired him several times, so you like him at some level. Have a talk with him that his escorting and you have to remain away from that company. There is a very good chance he knows how to ignore a client in public.

When you are having a casual conversation, say you've enjoyed his company and ask if you can connect on Facebook or Instagram or something. Mention you should have lunch or dinner together before he leaves to just hang out. Let him pick up on the opportunity or not. You can decide then or not.

The way you have phrased it, is sounds like he's trying to text your landline. Call and ask him if he has been.

"I can't believe how comfortable you made me, as nervous as I was. I am so much looking forward to seeing you a second time, and I know it will be even better. Are you available about ....." Helping nervous guys is part of an escort's job, and the ones who do it well are treasures.

Even though I think I would get good reviews from my hires, I can see the dangers of a forum discussing clients. There is a difference, in my mind, reviewing escorts. To me, it's like being a celebrity. Celebrities are afforded less legal protections than non-celebrity persons. Escorts by the nature of their business have to be known somehow. Reviews and comments are part of that. Clients by nature are to be anonymous. I do not say it is equitable, but it is how things are due to their different positions.

I meet my regulars at my place, it's easier on all of us. That being said, I had good, comfortable relationships with those guys, so I did not worry. Where I have invited 1 guy I didn't know, I doubt I'd do that again. He was fine, but I'm so much more comfortable knowing the guy I don't want to change.

I saw this on Twitter today "LMFAO imagine thinking THIS was a good idea. "Yes, hello, I'd like to install an unencrypted messenger app developed by a company that exploits male sex workers and then discuss all my crimes in there while the app collects location and metadata to be shared with LE." [MEDIA=twitter]1223254863699742720[/MEDIA]

I was following from a distance - I never joined. If I remember correctly, they started having some trouble getting guys who would stay and have a draw. I think there might have been some financial trouble, but I could be mis-remembering that.

How would you proceed if this was a friend in need or the yard guy asking for an advance? A lot of this boils down to you relate to this provider. During the last session with my regular, I said I wanted to do the next session on "credit" by paying for it then and not having to when we met. My main idea was not having to pay in a session, but part of my thought process was tossing him some cash now in case things got tough on his business. I've been seeing him for years, so I'm not worried. OP, you must like this guy having done 5 days. Is he financially responsible enough that this pandemic has caught him with his pants down (that didn't start as a pun)?

If you are "technically proficient", you can right-click and "Inspect Element". You may have to open some closed "paragraphs" but running your mouse over the links will pop-up the image. From there, right-click to open in a new tap, you can right-click and save from there. Long, so not as easy as others, but works on most sites. For a JO file, find and extension

As an IT professional, I find it annoying that these systems do not work better for the users. There is little or no reason both cannot exist, and work well. Email and IM systems are fairly mature, meaning they can be used on sites like this without the difficulties being experienced, even "out of the box". I know, because I've done it - initial and subsequent notifications going out in a timely manner. The concept of a the chat app seems misguided. Nice if both are on, but if escorts need to keep their second job on the downlow, having an app on their phone is not a good way to do it.

I have a regular I've been with for years. I decided I wanted a session on "credit", so I cut him a deal during his visit last week, paid him double and told him the next one was a "credit" for me. He had no reason to object (and didn't). He's got his money ahead of time, I know he's good for it, so it works for both of us.

My Crossfit gym has continued posting workout (the actual gym is closed), including ones that can be done at home with limited equipment. They do Zoom workouts for people to join in, and have assigned coaches to work with members using calls and texts. The last part is really great as the coaches are still getting paid. Some of the coaches are younger and I know this is a needed part of their income. If anyone is interested, former porn star Tyler Andrews does remote training professionally. He has bulked up a lot since his filming days. I can connect you, PM me.

Not really. Meeting an escort is usually a one-on-one encounter. Restaurants and bars are being closed to reduce the larger numbers of people interacting and possibly spreading the virus. It is an argument against orgies however.

Once we always answered because calling was rare (think rotary dials), then we got answer machines and picked up if we wanted to talk to the caller, and caller ID to help. Now cell phones mean most of us can't use the pretext of not having it with us. Times have changed, and texting before a call is common. I'd suggest changing the tone of your outgoing message "I do not answer calls from numbers I do not recognize. If you would like to be assured of speaking with me, please text first so I will know who is ringing." A bit shorter as well.

[uSER=9299]@gapguy[/uSER] Former escort and porn star Tyler Andrews does online personal training. He is very dedicated, and I've referred to him in the past. He spends time to find your goals and what will work with you. Since his porn/escort days he has bulked up and competed in body building competitions. PM me and I will arrange contact if you are interested.

To mention acceptable longer chats. Sometimes it works if you have not met yet, sometimes. But follow the escorts lead. A couple years ago I arranged to meet @VictorPowers in Cleveland. I'd mentioned I was on here, and after business was arranged, that there were some things to see. He picked up and we exchanged a few messages of suggestions. It was just a few, but it shows that some "extracurricular" chats can happen. He picked up a thread that if he had left it would not have been rude to do so. When he didn't respond a bit later, I didn't pester him. It was pleasant for me to have some extra 'time', and since I was generally responding to his, he was not obligated to continue. He was most polite. And I did meet him, a reason I can say no one would go wrong with an appointment.

I'm not an escort, but have hired several. The wise move is for the client to be as brief as possible. If the escort gets chatty, that's great, go with it. One of the "costs of doing business" for an escort is guys contacting them just to chat and never make an appointment. If you have not been with the escort, there is always a chance you will not show up for an appointment, so the time the escort is taking is essentially cost. He wants to know he'll be earning. My understanding is clients who chat a lot (text, RM messages, etc.) are less likely to appear for the appointment. Not knowing what happened in this conversation, we can't tell. If you had settled business (time, rate, activities) and he kept messaging you, all is well. If you kept going he might have become convinced you are a time waster.

I've hired Parker Pitts a couple times: https://rentmen.eu/ParkerPitts and I've been quite satisfied. He's traveling now, but is expected back in a day or so. He's on Sean Cody so you can check him out in action.

I fully understand the suspicions, but if he appears sincere, it is a clever way of getting to a new city to expand his client base, and he is offering what he has. Yes, this is an offer where you would put up money to get him, but he is thinking outside the box. He might be wiser to try clients in London or Amsterdam, since the outlay would be less for the proposed client. Not an endorsement, I've no clue who this person is. I just think it's a good idea.

I must agree, I've not had the same experience as this poster, but I use GV to help assure I don't. And I value my privacy. I have never missed an appointment. We use different names (often), as do escorts. I know escorts who have a special phone/number for this business. Why shouldn't the client as well. Yes, this can be a tool of a scammer, but it's a tool of good clients as well. In fairness, I suspect if a GV was the only indication, you wouldn't be as concerned.

I'm not a personal fan of the practice, but for an escort (of which I am not), it means not having to leave the room/hotel in search of a meal, and saves a bit of money. Traveling costs money, which eats into their profit. I think it's thrifty in this case, and shows practical planning.