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I can't recommend Ethan Slade enough: https://rentmen.eu/EthanSlade (expired, DM me for his number) I've met with him several times, and enjoyed every minute every time. There is no way you will be disappointed.

I know this is an old thread, but I met up with CountryMuscle today, and he is the escort I remember from before. I'm very glad to re-connect with him, and he is certainly worth the time. I greatly enjoyed myself. I'll be doing a review on Daddy's for him. If you get a chance, I do recommend him.

Is your crush out? He may have Grindr and be using it, but he may be closeted. A friendly lunch, an invitation to come over and watch some of what you have suggested would be a good start. Get to know him as a friend first and that will tell you how to break the ice.

@Mocha, where I can understand why you want to charge in this case, as a client I'll tell you I would not pay to talk to an escort I was interested in setting an appointment up with, and that includes the fee posted for contacting your number. I only contact if I am interested in hiring, and I know that is not universal. I fear having a fee attached to contact will disinterest many potential clients, especially the ones just checking to see if you two will be compatible.

I didn't find a thread on a quick search, but I can give a few pointers: 1. Use their preferred method of contact. If they prefer text, text them. 2. Tell them you saw their post on "RM" (I suggest initials - a lot have day jobs so it obscures a bit) 3. Say you would like to get together, and ask when plans could be made. 4. Know what you want, go for guys who like the same. If you want kissing, be sure kissing is in the profile. 5. When arranging, tell them anything special, such as "this would be my first time with an escort". 6. Be concise without being terse. 7. Follow the escorts lead if they go for longer conversation. 8. Agree to reasonable requests, say a phone call. Do not give money before. Skype if you are comfortable. 9. After making arrangements, confirm reasonably. The day before, the morning of, and an hour or so before is reasonable. I use "I look forward to visiting tomorrow/this evening/when I arrive in an hour". 10. If they confirm to you, reply as soon as you reasonably can. 11. Keep the appointment. This is important. Even if you don't go through with it, go meet him, and offer the full fee. He has invested time in this. He will understand if you get nervous. 12. Before the appointment, shower up, if you will bottom, douche. Leave off cologne. 13. If it's your first time, tell him you're nervous (if you are), ask him to take the lead. 14. Tell him what you're interested in. 15. Tell him if you like or don't like something. 16. Remember he's a person, be polite, and he's doing something very nice for you. 17. Honor his time. When it's over, it's over. I always suggest going to a reviewed escort. Other suggestions?

I did this with an escort who is no longer in the business. He would travel to my area, we'd schedule a session and he'd use one of my guestrooms for the night. Before we started, we had established a relationship and he knew I would limit the "escort-time" to just our session. He could arrange other appointments, nap, do other business in any part of the house and not have to feel like he was on duty. It worked because he knew I wouldn't ask for anything of him outside of our session than I would any regular houseguest. He was, and still is (we're still in contact), comfortable with me. If you have a good relationship with the escort, it may work, as he knows he'll want to let his guard down. I think it would be more difficult to convince an escort you don't have a non-escort type relationship to go for it.

I'm a regular and should be seeing him this weekend for the upteenth time....

It's possible there was no scouring going on. If they share a computer/tablet and the bf types in "r", the browser will suggest sites or search terms used on that computer starting with "r". For me typing "m" into my browser suggests this forum. This behavior can be overridden by using "porn mode", whatever the private browsing option is for your browser.

If you think this guy is a scammer, and you want to have fun with him, try pulling a few things on him after he sends the pictures and starts on wanting money. Like how you have had your identity stolen and have to get your credit cards set back up. Talk about being on the road and the flight getting cancelled, or your car breaking down and you're stuck. Give him sob story after sob story. I have heard cases where the person playing with the scammer has created fake transmission numbers and said like the "Western Union number is XXX-111" or whatever, but it doesn't exist. I'm not sure that's legal, however.

@adventurous old guy - just wondering if you've maybe confused this guy with another. I've met the guy in the linked ad - body is his and I had a great time. He was very engaged and matched photos. I met him in Nashville and look forward to him visiting again. @Skip has met him twice according to https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-musculardude-ravi-nyc.146346/#post-1679776 @mattb , I think you would have a great time.

I'm a regular of his, and have been for some time. He's fantastic. Out of this world oral skills, and totally committed to his craft. You can't go wrong with him. He is attractive, likable, never flakes and is prompt in communication.

I've had one guy who had (gay) porn running when we had a session. My impression was that he used it to keep himself going. He wasn't one of the talky types, more there for the job (which he did very well). I know not every client turns on every escort, and some escorts need to do something to provide quality service. I get where some clients would rather have full attention, but I think it's the reality.

The last study I read on the matter (and it was years ago, so I can't give a reference) smaller dicks indicated more of a mind, greatly prized in ancient Greece. If I recall, it was why "David" isn't well hung.

I'm not an escort to to address: As a client, I would personally email an escort at the beginning, in an attempt to keep my phone clear of escort numbers. I don't generally exchange numbers until close to the actual appointment. My initial screening of an escort I'd rather do via email. I fully recognize it is easier and quicker for the escort to get texts, but I'd rather leave putting the phone # I use for that with as few people as possible. So in short, where I recognize it is much easier for you, and a faster response by you would certainly be had, I and some other clients want to keep our numbers to ourselves for a bit.

According to this thread: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/atlanta-travel-guide.145156/ yes, they are gone.

I've not been to SR in longer than I've wanted, so what I know is via my regular who mostly gets it from an Atlanta buddy of his who goes more often. That tells you I'm not relaying first hand. According to what I'm told, a lot of the experienced regulars are gone. Where is is always attrition, the 'feeling' was that management was showing them the door. So there are not as my experienced guys showing the new guys the ropes - how to spot and approach a man sitting and watching. The straight dancers were also more interested in the women there, even if the women didn't tip. There are some skills needed to be a dancer, that skill seems thin at SR now.

As a client, I find this very confusing. I would be interested in meeting the original Lucas again, but I worry that the guy who shows up will be one of the friends. Where the others are attractive, they don't have the specific thing I like from the original Lucas, which I grant was a certain look. I think this feels shady, and it makes me very uncomfortable.

@Jomo I'll second that on Ethan Slade, he's super hot, and i've been with this a few times.

My regular visited me yesterday, and according to him, the "Dick Dollars" thing at Swinging Richards is done and gone. What he told me is the dancers went on strike to get rid of it. @Leo Hammond can you confirm this? @Trister43 I forget what it costs to rent a private room, but last I was there it was $100 per 15 minutes to the dancer. Each dancer if you get more than one Which I've done exactly once.

So looking at my RM buddy list, I see this entry: https://rent.men/pedroxxlbr which is interesting because it's not someone I know, have met, or followed. Looking at the rest of the list, it's Lucas's account with a new name. I'm going to un-Buddy now, but I'm disappointed. I had liked my time with Lucas and would want to repeat it, but this is at least the third different man on the account, and I don't want to make an appointment with someone I didn't intend to. I'm sure the thought is it slide customers from one provider to another, but this strikes me as more of a bait and switch.

I think it's just spelling me and remembering part of the name, it's "Davi" in the RM messages we explained.

All the pictures look to me to be of the same guy, and it is Ravi, since that body is the one I got to be with. I can't address if there was a name change, and I don't recall if he told me where he really lives, his profile changes as he travels a lot. I greatly enjoyed my time with Ravi, and was disappointed when he came back to town and I was away, or I would have spend more time with him.

Time is hard to manage in this situation. I generally think it's up to the escort to keep an eye on the clock, in part because for a good escort the client is not going to be able to think about time But in this case, it wasn't activities that when over, it was conversation. I agree clients pay for time, but it seems like a hustle if you're listening to the escort just talk and he wants money.

Met him in Nashville; hung, hot, and very satisfying! He got right to business, and was a total pleasure.

Met him in Nashville; hung, hot, and very satisfying! He got right to business, and was a total pleasure.