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BluDay

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  1. I've posted this in one of the other threads, but one provider I visit was recruited to Sean Cody from RentMen. He's still escorting, and using his pictures and putting his SC name in his ad.
  2. In that he asked if you wanted to just hang out, it implies he had a great time and would consider it. But from a business perspective, he was following-up with a client and showing that he didn't forget you once he had your money and was out the door. Since you wanted to hire him again, he was on target as well
  3. @JerseyBabyDaddy you will have a good time. I've just had hour sessions, but he does seem like he would be fun for an overnight.
  4. Parker isn't fully aware of this forum. He knows it exists, but hasn't been here, or hadn't last I was with him. He still hasn't contacted Daddy about moving his review from "World" to "Nashville", so I doubt he's posting here
  5. I'm a military brat, but not from an officer. I've always seen it used as the child of a member of the military, regardless of the sponsor's rank. To be a "real" military brat, you need to have moved around as your family was moved from one base to another, have a dependent ID card, and have have some basic idea of how the military works. I've experienced it consistently used that way over a variety of military bases.
  6. I think it may have. An escort I visit periodically (and hope to again in a few days) has done a few scenes for them recently. I happened to be visiting just after he had been approached, via his ad on Rent.men. If they contact escorts to perform, I don't think they can tell them not to escort, and this guy is putting his SC name in his ad. I suppose it's possible that existing escorts can keep their business, but men who appear on film can't start an escort business, but I don't know.
  7. I've met Pedro (service above) and he is very sincere and accommodating. I would really recommend Jase Wolfe https://rent.men/WOLFE for a good time. The connection was lightening fast and he is incredible in bed.
  8. @sniper I can't fully argue with you, as I watched but wasn't always paying full attention. I believe the scenes concerning Uncle Jesse, and that the female ancestor who dressed as a man add to my boy-to-girl thought. According to http://riverdale.wikia.com/wiki/Susie_Putnam , the original plan was for her to be a man-to-woman. I also think the comment in the first video I posted that under her shirt wouldn't be boobs gave me part of the idea. So that's what I'm basing my thoughts on. I won't claim I'm right, it's not that I've been attracted to that storyline, I like the Harvey story better (I think he's cute).
  9. BluDay

    Objectifying?

    @Unicorn I am earnestly hoping your man is there, and his breath rushes a bit as he comes close to where he thinks you will be. And when he lays eyes on you, his heart leaps to his mouth. When you embrace, both of you will feel the joy and love you deserve.
  10. BluDay

    Objectifying?

    Going just on what you have posted - if he is/has fallen for you as well, it's possible he is looking for reassurance that you like him for him, not just his physical appearance? You met on SA, where true love certainly can come from there, but realistically a lot of that is a pretty boy offering his body to a wealthier man so the boy can live in comfort. That may (not reading anything anything into your situation) have been the case here, and love grew from it. If he's feeling like you are, he could be working out so much to keep you, fearing you only want a hot body. How does he respond when you compliment his mind, his taste, his personality? Give him the same insecurities you have. He may have noticed you no longer need chemical assistance, and where I'm sure that gratifies him, he may feel he has to work hard to keep that up (pun intended). Perhaps you could find some things to do where he is not your arm-candy and stimulate your cultural interests? Taking him away from places where he sees himself as your trophy and emphasizes how much you like his company may give him assurance. This is the positive spin on your question: that he is doing what he can to keep you because he's fallen in love with you. I don't think I have to mention that if he's just in for your money, he's doing a very good job. For both your sakes, I hope it's love.
  11. "Opinions" not options, I'll plead that I was using a phone keyboard. I did a search of these forums, and his name shows up, but in a thread about an advertising escort not being who was in the pictures. The post is someone asking if Jake_NYC is the one being referred to, but it does not appear to be that the OP is talking about Jake, best I can tell. There is a link to his reviews, but they are not active at this time, so I cannot see them.
  12. He’s traveling to my area and it seems his reviews aren’t available at this time. Does anyone have options on him? I seem to recall he may have been discussed before but can’t recall. I searched but didn’t find much just one my phone https://rent.men/Jake_NYC
  13. My sessions with my regular guy are almost always at my place. We've been doing business for years, and we actually know each other's real names. I have one other to visits me there, and I've had a one-timer. I'm single and don't have anyone to explain to. However, I don't think I'd host anyone that I wasn't either familiar and comfortable with any more (so, I change in how I would do business). I think I'd make exceptions for some of the escort gentlemen here, because they have a "standing" in the community. Over the years, and after one close call and reading of some others, I don't think I'd invite just anyone back. It's a bit of a moot point however - in my area there is a limited number of guys I'm interested in locally, and travelers would have a hotel room. If the escort is well reviewed, I think you would most likely be safe. I would not consider it for someone who is new. You just don't know what could happen. If you do host, remember the guy will have your location, in addition to your number. If you use an alias, be aware it is very possible that without even trying, he will discover your real name. A piece of mail on a counter could tell him, as could any of a number of things in the open. Again, this does not mean he snoops, just things anyone could see. There have been stories here of escorts trying to get more out of clients, more session, loans of money and so on. If he has your address, it's much easier for him to show up. That's why I'd recommend it for established providers.
  14. I have a couple of escorts who keep in touch outside of pure business. I'm a regular or repeat with all three of them. The amount varies, but I've established something of a rapport with all that goes beyond sessions. In my opinion, it's a great business move. Getting a text that doesn't revolve around business shows an interest and makes me want to see them more. With these three, it's not pure business, we have some out of the bedroom connection, but I know it's centered in business. But getting the contact is always great for me, and that type of interaction can push a client over to more sessions.
  15. As a client, I'm uncomfortable with sending in a deposit. I always have cash. I don't like the idea of a traceable transaction. I'm single, so no husband (or wife) to question a charge. I've also never cancelled an appointment. Postponed some with my regular guy, but never cancelled. I do understand how someone I've never visited wouldn't know I won't cancel, so I get you. Clients cancelling are a bane to this business. I know we get nervous and flake out, but three in one day is horrible for you. I think confirming helps, but unless there is a untraceable way to send a booking fee, I think the clients most likely to cancel an appointment won't pay. Which is another way of saying if the client is willing to post some money up front, he wouldn't cancel anyway. If there is a deposit and the escort cancels, yes, that should be refunded, IMO. I'm always, er, motivated, to meet an escort, so if they have to cancel, I don't want to be out more than my unfulfilled desires.
  16. Ooops, sorry: I thought you were a client looking for recommendations for escorts. Conversation in another thread showed your rent.men link, so I presume you are traveling for business Nashville gets some level of travelers, I wish it were more. I can't gauge how good business is for them, sorry. I do think it may be a city worth hitting. Based on what I can tell from traveling escorts, different guys do well in some cites, and it's just a case of finding which ones. I hope where ever you do head to, it is very successful for you.
  17. I can endorse https://rent.men/StripperMar and https://rent.men/ParkerPitts in Nashville. Nashville's got more options than it's had for a while, but I've not met any others.
  18. I will miss adult Tumblr, and I agree with @rvwnsd, just like Reddit, Tumblr could have omitted adult content from it's app and kept going. I've seen a number of posters moveing to bdsmlr.com, which has been struggling under the strain of many new users. https://sharesome.com is also getting some attention. I made an account there, but haven't found how to subscribe to posts like I did at Tumblr. Some are heading to wordpress as well.
  19. I consider it to be the ultimate responsibility of the escort, after all, I shouldn't be able to think about a clock . However, I do my best to get an eye on when we start so that when time wraps up, I'm not too surprised.
  20. I didn't think of this until after the forums had gone down for work. Since there is some testing, I'll post it to see how it goes, and with apologies to William Goldman: There's a shortage of perfect cocks in the world. Would be a pity to damage yours. We could dress Kurtis up as the Dread Pirate Roberts. Than remove the costume piece...by... piece...
  21. I hope he doesn't. There is no reason to mar something as beautiful as his dick. Plus, I find it a turn off. I'd hate to have to take him off my list of men to spend time with, as I'm generally looking for a reason to get to his city just for him.
  22. Here is a promo for Sabrina, staring the very nice-looking Gavin Leatherwood preparing a turkey dinner: . Gavin plays "Nick Scratch", one of the warlocks. In the video, Gavin exhibits some skills that may be better used in a different room.....
  23. The series is headed by Roberto Aguirre-Sacasa, who took the characters in a much darker turn with the Zombie-based "Afterlife with Archie". He's also behind the more mature "Riverdale". The final episode is better if you've watched the run-up to it. There is a scene in one of the last few episodes that I rewatched. One of the Sabrina's best friends is a trans (boy to girl). She is trying to shoplift a copy of "Orlando" from the local bookstore. She get accosted by a couple of high school bullies. Sabrina's aunt Hilda (the more Mrs. Weasley of the aunts), who is working at the store intervenes and tells one of the bullies he is that way because of how he was treated by a number of boys in a summer camp as a child. Not said, but a rape is strongly implied. She then points out that the other bully is madly in lust with the first one. Both leave uncomfortably. I really like that scene. EDIT: Here is that clip https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GfF9Ar8kecs
  24. @latbear4blk I don't necessarily believe it either, but I do take it as a guide to what he's willing to tell the general public about their services.
  25. @muscmtl No kissing on a review for that one provider who does not generally kiss. If it were listed in is ad, I consider it fair game. If you had a provider who was a top, but bottomed for you because of your relationship, I wouldn't put that in the review because it was just the two of you, he wouldn't want to do it for anyone else.
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