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And if you find him, consider posting so we can see which one

If he was shooting porn in Austin, TX check out the models at www.chaosmen.com/, which is based there (or near there).

I'm a client, but I prefer dinner before. If I'm having an overnight, I'd like to play a bit, then go to dinner before the main event For a shorter period, I would rather not enjoy a time with a companion, than go to dinner which will probably make me want to enjoy him again than see him go.

On the "Ask an Escort" forum is a question about what a weekend/2 night rate would be. That got me thinking. If you hire for 2 nights and at least one day, do you expect your companion to have some time away? Even if it's just a few hours? Or do you want to stick together the whole time? I would think there would be activities outside of bed? Movies, walks, whatever. But would you expect it to be all together? Would it be different if you hired him to join you in a place like the Bahamas, rather than your house/hotel room? I'm not thinking the escort would be meeting other clients, as his time is booked.

If you know someone famous, it's normal/natural to want to tell people. I would suspect some escorts want to get the cache for being with someone famous. It's a violation of the great need for discretion in our hobby, so I wouldn't hire that escort again. In some ways, I think it being hired by someone famous would be like a client hiring a famous escort/porn star - something you would want to talk about. I could easily see an escort, especially a new one, lying to make them look more desirable. I don't think its wise, but I could see it happening. In this forum, those of use who are clients can brag about some of the great escorts we have seen. A nice outlet A couple of my regulars have said things like "I have another regular who is ill just now", that being so generic that it tells me nothing. So I don't think it's any breach.

If it's the advertiser on rent.men in Buenos Aires now, the ad is: https://rent.men/Mark_fitt but I'm not the original poster, who should confirm. If it is him, the phrase in his ad "Always ready and horny chems long session" implies to me that he used pharmaceuticals to keep things up - but since the ad is in English and I don't expect that to be his native language (only by his current location - I actually have no idea) it's possible the phrase is intended to mean something else.

Kissing is one of my favorite activities. I've had a few escorts who don't care for it, and where they do not promise a BFE, it's a let down when the escort isn't into it. If you really want kissing to be part of the session, mention that during the before conversation. It's just like any other request you have to make the session enjoyable. Escorts are used to all sorts of requests. I've heard of men wanting them to be in workout gear, to have just come from the gym, or start off in a suit. I agree that kissing is part of the BFE, but since there isn't an accepted definition of what the BFE actually is, it's best to include that is is part of what you are looking form.

Well, I did post a review I met Ethan in the French Quarter, he looks fantastic, and he's been a fantasy of mine for quite a while. The visit went very well. He was very engaging and it was the sort of thing you would want if you have had a fantasy of a porn star, and get to meet him in a private room :> If you get the opportunity, I really suggest spending time with him. Since we don't do reviews on the forum, I hope this doesn't count as one.

I hired him when he came through my town for work. I had a very good time. His pictures are accurate, and he delivered. Unlike most providers I have met, he asks for additional money for a hotel. You'll need to consider that in the financial side of the decision. I am suspecting that the work he does does not get a private room for travelling. I don't recall any communication problems.

Not having met them, @TylerandAce seem like no worries. But it's a valid question. It's one thing if a companion doesn't show up to your hotel for whatever reason, but to have put out serious money for time and travel, and the companion not to show is expensive. In some businesses (not this one as far as I know), you could put the money in an escrow account and release it at some point. Where that would be nice I don't see it as possible here. So short of such a well regarded couple, what could you to to be sure the man showed up? I'm excluding not having chemistry from my question, although I'll grant it's a risk. And the reason I leave first visits to an hour.

He did some scenes for men.com as Charlie Pattinson, was an exclusive for a while. I'm not sure why he's not still doing that. I think he did a scene or two for FraternityX as well. I'd like to spend some time in those arms.

Only if it came from a way someone else could find it, a link to his personal FB account on a "business" page. If I discovered it in a private way, like he was showing me something on a phone/laptop/etc. and I happened to see it, than no. In part, he took the risk by showing me something that could have his real name. Otherwise, I try to move away from screens until my companion has found the page he is looking for.

I'm a bit worried about jumping in on this thread, but I thought I'd point out part of @SecretShopper first post on it: Which flags him as involved with rentboy.pro (note the "we" in the statement). If he discussed being involved with the rentboy.pro site with @Guy Fawkes first and stays within whatever rules set by good for him. Be it an escorting site or some other one, the fact that it is listening to feedback and making changes sounds like a good thing. It's a new site and it will take some time to not only attract escorts to advertise there, but for whatever changes we as clients might want to see. As a client, I'd love "free samples", but it seems that once pointed out it's not really believable they changed how that was done (to actually hiring). This is responding to feedback. I'm not sure a site reviewing an escort is going to be fully trustworthy, as a bad review will mean a possible lost customer, but it is a response. For something just a few months old, they seem to be trying. I think it's understandable they want a voice here, so when an idea comes up they can get more details. If any of us were starting a new escorting site, where else should we go to get input?

On another thread https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/all-time-favorite-porn-flick.131052/ I realized that I like the Buster/Mike Ramsey scene in "The Bigger the Better" at least in part because the actors resemble the stars of the TV show "Legmen" (a short lived 80s). I remember being attracted to the two stars, so years later when I find the porn scene it tickles an unconscious desire in me. It's a great scene even without the desire for a couple of actors I also admit a desire for Donny Wright https://www.thesword.com/the-very-best-of-donny-wright.html because he looks very much like a former co-worker I have a crush on. Do you like a porn/cam model because they look like someone else?

Those two indeed. Wouldn't watching them in bed be a great show?

On YouTube, I found some old rips of "Legmen", a short-lived 80s TV show about a couple of college students that repo cars. They are a blond and brunette. Watching a bit, I realized my fascination with the scene of 2 guys in "The Bigger the Better" - the one with Buster and Mike Ramsey - was subconsciously created by that. I've watched that one scene, so very many times. It's beautiful how those two guys do each other. I love the other scenes as well - each one is hot.

I've sent you both a pm (combined). I recommend Ethan highly. He has a beautiful body and I had a fully wonderful time. He is well worth spending time with. I have also put a review of him here on Daddy's. Ethan has raised my desire for some time now. Meeting him was a dream come true and not a disappointment.

Since you've had other long sessions, and he was worth having another, could he have just been having a bad night? If an ordinarily good companion has a bad night, I don't think that's enough to quit them, and if, since you say his not 'out' about his business, got a bit of cold feet at being very public about it, can you be very surprised? For a bottoming session, unless he was trying to get out of it (which he generally hasn't) it could just be that he couldn't get ready. For meeting your friends, that might be difficult enough if he was just a buddy, if he was sure they would know he was escorting for you, it might have just been too much for him to handle. He seems to have been great for you for a long time, have you considered how he might be beating himself up for not meeting your expectations? Reading your descriptions of the encounter, it seems like a tough bit for him (meeting your friends) plus an unfortunate occurrence of unpreparedability. If they had been two different sessions, would it be as big of a problem?

Safari private browsing seems to do this where Chrome doesn't have the problem.

This is a great business move in my opinion, especially shortly after the meeting. A text along the line of "Great visit" encourages a client to want to engage again since it shows the escort didn't forget you when the door closes. A number of that type of provider send me Christmas/Birthday cards. I've had thank you notes from jewelry shops where I've spent good money. It's an easy way of engaging with the customer beyond the normal bounds of service.

Try typing in a name of a gay performer. Here is the result from Griffin Barrows, who I've just discovered and want to go to bed with quite badly: http://www.iafd.com/results.asp?searchtype=comprehensive&searchstring=griffin+barrows

Try http://www.iafd.com/ which also lets you search for pairings of performers.

Unless the other sessions were the same day, he might have been having a, lets call it "digestive issue". It can happen to anyone, and he seems to have been honest that he wasn't ready. Bottoming takes a bit of preparation, and if it's not done correctly the results are unpleasant. It doesn't seem like he was faking to get out of it, since you've had other sessions. Depending on how "out" he is, he may just have gotten cold feet. He doesn't know your friends and may have realized it would be tough on him to be with them and obviously an escort. It's quite different from even a meal with just you, everyone is a stranger, and it's entirely possible that you are two people who are friends. Or uncle and nephew. As a client wanting to show off a hot companion, it's one thing. It's another to be the one shown off and face the thought of people going "He's selling his body for money". It can be a very uncomfortable situation for someone. I really can't blame him for being nervous.

I wouldn't have a problem with one showing up early - I'd be ready. It would be neat to have in fact. If I'm visiting, I'm usually there early, have a book and read until 10-15 before when I text to tell them I'm ready when they are. I'd always rather early than late.

@barrybt I get you. I've given you my best escort suggestions for the area. I'm not familiar with any of the other guys and I don't see reviews posted. I'm also not going to test drive them as most aren't my type. I think you would enjoy either of the ones I suggested, but until sucking dick is discovered to produce top 10 country hits, I don't think it get us new escorts.