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BonVivant

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  1. 3 hours ago, KeepItReal said:

    Yes, he is back in NYC. The gist of our conversation was: he is looking for twinks to film content with.

    Then foggetabout’im. 

  2. 4 hours ago, Walt said:

    I totally believe you -- but his profile does say kissing (which I have previously noted to myself as a positive thing). My head hurts. it's already too hard to evaluate all the choices out there, and then when a provider is not consistent in their self-description....

    Analysis paralysis. Make a decision and go for it.  Experience it. 

  3. 3 hours ago, JamesB said:

    I tend to avoid giving second chances as I've most often found myself regretting it afterward.

    I won’t give a second chance in my case; meaning I’ll never meet him again. He wants to discuss and make amends (e.g. refund) so that I agree to take down the negative review.  He said he was physiologically challenged the night we met; he over extended himself before he came over even though we had set it up two days prior. That’s what makes me mad. On the other hand, I could get a refund and move on. 

  4. I got a negative review reinstated. After a bit of work.  Here are the steps:

    1. Write the negative review and post it to RM. 

    2. The provider can challenge it by saying he never met you. He can do this by claiming you and he never met. He can demonstrate this by showing that no chats took place in the RM app/tool. 


    3. RM will review the issue. In my case, no chats took place in the RM app. So my review was removed. 


    4. I sent a chat to the RM Webmaster (RMW) asking why they removed the negative review which was accurate. RMW said see No. 3. 

    5. I said well… we chatted outside RM. The providers list their WhatsApp and Phones. Communication often happens outside RM chat. I also said it’s critical for the platform to be a trusted source of providers, and if they kept removing negative reviews then their reliability will fall. 
     

    6. RMW said show the chats by screenshot and send to the RMW. Also need to show providers phone numbers comparing RM and Chat. 

    7.  Review reinstated. 
     

    8.  Provider now reaching out to talk things over and make amends. 

  5. I got the negative review reinstated. After a bit of work.  Here are the steps (I will post it in a new thread too):

    1. Write the negative review and post it to RM. 

    2. The provider can challenge it by saying he never met you. He can do this by claiming you and he never met. He can demonstrate this by showing that no chats took place in the RM app/tool. 


    3. RM will review the issue. In my case, no chats took place in the RM app. So my review was removed. 


    4. I sent a chat to the RM Webmaster (RMW) asking why they removed the negative review which was accurate. RMW said see No. 3. 

    5. I said well… we chatted outside RM. The providers list their WhatsApp and Phones. Communication often happens outside RM chat. I also said it’s critical for the platform to be a trusted source of providers, and if they kept removing negative reviews then their reliability will fall. 
     

    6. RMW said show the chats by screenshot and send to the RMW. Also need to show providers phone numbers comparing RM and Chat. 

    7.  Review reinstated. 
     

    8.  Provider now reaching out to talk things over and make amends. 

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