cougar

Well.  I took one for the team.  Literally.  Smart, charming, handsome and a very sexy man who gives a highly erotic and skilled massage. He is personable and a good conversationalist.  He made me feel at ease and comfortable. He is lithe, defined and athletic without being overly muscular, and is adept at using his entire body. You will feel pampered and aroused at the same time.  All the equipment is in fine condition and quite impressive. This provider is a special treat.

I have seen him three times and I would see him again. He does move around a lot as he is usually in the club scene. 

I have never seen him, however, I do know some of his pics are several years old.

The only ones who know are myself and the men I hire.

In my opinion a very good reason.

The kids are wild these days. Between PreP and Doxy-Prep, they have no fears of infection. But the joke will be on them eventually because a lot of STIs are becoming treatment-resistant.  Oh, and we're not developing new antibiotics. 

I grew up in the 90s where condoms were just the norm.  I was also an escort in Chicago from '98-'02 where condoms were just required equipment.  Once I figured out a brand that fit, I never looked back or changed the routine.  As much as I like butts, I want a barrier between my dick any any possible stranger poo.
I was surprised recently... in NYC, hired a very good looking Bel Ami looking guy, originally from the UK, for 2 hours at an eyewatering rate.  Confirmed with him that I would want to top him for at least 45 minutes and that he was up for it.  About 30 minutes into it, I was getting a truly excellent blow job from him and needed it to stop before I went over the edge.  Flipped him over, rubbed his back and butt cheeks for a second, slipped a condom on my dick, slipped easily inside of him. 
Then he paused....'are you wearing a rubber?'  Assuming he was concerned, I answered yes and offered to let him see it.  
With half of my dick inside of this guy, we got into an argument about me wearing the condom.  He turned it into this weird thing and tried to guilt me into taking it off...I assumed he had a latex allergy and I told him it was latex free Skyn so no worries.  He pretty much told me that I was not going to wear a condom and top him and tried to physically reach around and take it off. 
Clearly, I am not going to force anyone to let me top them but the entire thing was just weird.  It's like a 180 form what I would occasionally encounter back in the 90s from positive guys.

For eight years, I showed up to massage the same man every week.
His name was Erasmo.
Two hours. Every week. Like clockwork.
He used to pay in advance because I gave him a discounted rate for consistency. In all those years, I never once heard him speak badly about another human being. Not once.
Funny how certain realizations don’t hit until someone is gone.
Erasmo worked as a janitor for the same school for roughly thirty years. Quiet life. Quiet discipline. The kind of man most people overlook because he never demanded attention from the room.
He retired… and passed away about a year later from a heart attack.
What stayed with me was how routine his life was. Morning workouts. Early discipline. Predictable structure. I used to warn him about pushing too hard in the mornings because cardiovascular events statistically rise during the early hours after waking.
Research has shown that between roughly 6 AM and noon, the risk of heart attack and sudden cardiac events increases significantly due to the body’s circadian rhythm. Blood pressure rises. Cortisol and adrenaline surge. The blood becomes more prone to clotting after waking. 
None of this means exercise is bad. Exercise is life.
But the human body is strange. Vulnerable. Rhythmic.
And sometimes the people who seem the steadiest leave the quietest absence behind them.
After eight years, I realized something rare about him:
Kind people really do exist.

If I were going to NYC, I would certainly like to see Luke Marco again. I got to see him once in Miami and I enjoyed our time together. 
https://rent.men/LukeMarco

I was thinking the same. He's a handsome fellow, with an impressive physique.  But that excessive body art is a huge turn off for me.  What a waste.

I don't think it is crass at all.  This forum is to discuss and / or protect us from escorts that may not be worth the amount they are asking for.  What are they willing to do etc.  We have had way too many escorts say they will kiss, or bottom, top, etc only to find out they are just lying to get the money.  I myself have had this happen way too often and when an escort is asking for that kind of money, they better be worth it.  This forum gives us the opportunity to also let the reader decide if they want to engage.  His last review was also Nov 2025, so.... 

I believe he is back to his original name.

Well, it looks like he’s packing a trunkload of diplomas in that ample ass. 

It's hard to take a guy like this seriously when the pictures in his profile date as far back as......2019, with many 2022 and 2023.  Certainly major red flag.  

I have been curious myself. He has been on RM for two years and only three reviews. I do not think in that time frame he has updated his pictures..
 

Met him a couple of times this year.  He is fantastic and very sweet.  He is definitely chatty but I appreciate the fact that he is very upbeat.  

Not to sound disrespectful, but he looks kind of scary. Like a lurker on the periphery of a nightmare?

Probably all of those silly tattoos...my opinion only, some love the ink.

Probably all of those silly tattoos...my opinion only, some love the ink.

Yeah, female realtors are really something. They post photos of themselves on signs taken 25 years ago or longer. When they show up it’s staggering how different they look and not in a good way. 

If I were going to NYC, I would certainly like to see Luke Marco again. I got to see him once in Miami and I enjoyed our time together. 
https://rent.men/LukeMarco

They're rarely labeled accurately. 

This guy changes his name all the time.
Previous threads are https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/166646-anyone-met-amarrbar-sf/ and https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/167633-barmann-in-irvinela/ but not much information.
A incomplete list of his previous names include:
AmarrBar
Baramarre
AmarMan
Manamarr
AMannnbar
MannBar
BarMann
Manbarr
MannBaaarrrr
BarMannnn

Not for me. No interest in that, sexting, private videos or zoom meetings. Does nothing for me except make me feel embarrassed for the performer and skeevy for myself.
I wouldn't even ask a potential provider for additional pictures if I can see their face and body type.
In person or not interested. 

Would be nice to see a face instead of the same pose in 10 different shades of underwear.