cougar
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+ cougar reacted to + Pensant in 411 on twinkbraziliann
Could be that the vast majority of his clients are like many of us: unwilling to pay an exorbitant monthly fee to write reviews. Lack of reviews seldom deterred me from experiencing new talent with overwhelmingly positive results.
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+ cougar reacted to + azdr0710 in Tampa Providers
it's very easy to DM here on the forum!...... from my own experience, I believe @studchaser is helpful and forthright, but wants to keep things a bit private for the guys he represents.....
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+ cougar got a reaction from BonVivant in Tampa Providers
Please, if you are going to tease like this, give us more information!
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+ cougar reacted to + glutes in Any 411 on Dimitrisxx, currently in NYC?
Kids or not, they aren't reliable.
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+ cougar reacted to Chancealot in Any 411 on Dimitrisxx, currently in NYC?
If I make an appt and have an issue I always reach out with as much time as possible to apologize and look to reschedule
I am a client not a provider
it’s common courtesy period don’t wanna hear about pride or other
blah blah blah
it’s not hard
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+ cougar got a reaction from + MysticMenace in Tampa Providers
He hasn't been in Tampa Bay for several years. I think he has moved back to New York area.
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+ cougar reacted to Heart It Deep in MitchDen, NYC/Boston
Always a helpful asset for a top. Some of us bottoms need something to hold on to during the ride. 😛
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+ cougar got a reaction from Whoisyourdaddy in Somebody Really Wants to Scam Me. What Should I Do?
Anytime I need to deal with a company, I have found it was always best to reach them directly through their website. Be careful with trying to google a company to get their contact information as I have seen news reports about people doing that and not realizing they did not select the correct info on their google searchj. Good luck as I too am having a difficult time following your situation.
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+ cougar got a reaction from marylander1940 in Somebody Really Wants to Scam Me. What Should I Do?
Anytime I need to deal with a company, I have found it was always best to reach them directly through their website. Be careful with trying to google a company to get their contact information as I have seen news reports about people doing that and not realizing they did not select the correct info on their google searchj. Good luck as I too am having a difficult time following your situation.
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+ cougar reacted to + BOZO T CLOWN in 411 on Faron in Miami
No surprise. He's young, muscular, boyishly cute, clean shaven, gay (so he claims), and no tattoos (yet).
BTC
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+ cougar reacted to Antares in Condomless encounters
What’s utterly bizarre to me is what started this thread: bottoms who refuse to be fucked with a condom. All through the HIV times before PrEP (which I consider an absolute miracle and am so grateful for) and up to just a few years ago if there was an objection to using a rubber, it was the top fighting it. Except for the “bug hunters,” which was a psychological malfunction I’ll never understand.
There was never a question that wearing a condom changed the feeling of topping, although condoms have come a long way from my early days when a Trojan-Enz was as fancy as it got…with a good poly one these days you barely feel the difference.
But as someone who was a 50/50 vers, I know damned well that it makes zero physical difference as a bottom. It’s totally a mental thing, and in the PrEP and undetectable era (also amazing how far HIV+ management meds have finally come) the dramatic reduction (but not elimination) in barebacking risk has just been fetishized. If being a cumdump is your thing, no problem, easy skip for me, just like water sports and whatever else I don’t care for. But freaking out if someone you’ve not said that to and started an encounter with because you wanted to fuck them is just weirdly childish.
A little empathy and respect for those of us who lived through the sex is deadly ‘80s and ‘90s and self-awareness that bottoming bareback is just a preference and not some kind of moral stance worthy of a soapbox would be nice. For many of us, barebacking was an intimate thing reserved for a trusting serious relationship and wearing a condom is more comfortable for a hookup. Call that its own fetish if you want.
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+ cougar reacted to d.anders in Condomless encounters
Reading this thread makes me wonder, how many younger gay guys can afford health insurance? How does a sexually active guy pay for all these drugs and doctor visits? I guess a lot of cities have free or low-cost clinics for gays, but if you're sexually active, how often does one have to visit? Doesn't this routine tire quickly?
I have a dear, younger friend (late 30's) who is probably a sex addict. He's what many would consider a hot top, and Grindr is a big part of his life. He told me several years ago that condoms were dead among younger gay men.
So many of us who survived AIDS in the 70's and 80's still live with that trauma. I'm so glad I'm not young and horny anymore.
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+ cougar reacted to + FrankR in Condomless encounters
You get to decide what you need to do to stay healthy. My health comes first. The enjoyment of my partner comes second - because if I am not confortable then he will doubtlessly pick up on it. Sometimes “No.” is a full sentence.
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+ cougar reacted to jeezifonly in RM Expired Profiles
Sometimes they forge a new career path.
Like the butterflies, we must let them be free.
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+ cougar reacted to jonasfoleson in Hiring a provider with not very many reviews
reviews are overhyped. Experiences differ. reviews make little sense when something is subjectively perceived, and this applies to escorting also.
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+ cougar reacted to + BOZO T CLOWN in 411 https://rent.men/johnpad
Los Angeles has 34 pages of escorts on Rentmen. Why would you pay a deposit to any of them when there are hundreds of others who don't demand 50% upfront? And he's a a 21-year old kid who's been in the business all of 10 days .
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+ cougar reacted to Nue2thegame in A Baby will be above my Apartment, am I screwed?
Winston is correct. Once endangered but They’ve been in South Florida for over a thousand years. Different and less aggressive than their African and Australian cousins, they’re now making a comeback. Maybe due to the abundance of small dogs and babies. Which offers an additional option, Rod could move to S. Florida and even possibly rent a room from Vegas.
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+ cougar reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in A Baby will be above my Apartment, am I screwed?
I can't speak for apartments, but dogs are much worse than neighbor's children for detached housing in the suburbs. I plan on moving to Florida next and getting a house on the water, because I'd rather deal with a crocodile 🐊 than a neighbor's barking dog (which the crocodile 🐊 will take care of 😊)
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+ cougar reacted to BuffaloKyle in A Wish List for Rent Men
I do wish you could search vers/top and vers/btm. I know when I want a mainly bottom guy I hate when I click vers and it's all vers/top guys. 😂
I've never done the safe/bb filter but I feel if you search for safe or bb it should just include guys who also put ask me instead of leaving them out as that usually will signal to me that they are open to both.
I am surprised as well on that note that you can't do a filter search of HIV status at all.
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+ cougar reacted to BuffaloKyle in A Wish List for Rent Men
I hate that one of the filters you can search for is "travelers only" but not "locals only". When I have a place in mind I want to go visit and want to see what providers are there I don't want to be seeing ads of guys who won't be there when I will be.
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+ cougar reacted to ACluelessGent in 411 on Alexanderurs in Dallaa
He looks more like a customer than an escort.
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+ cougar reacted to + KensingtonHomo in Providers altering travel plans, leaving you w/ blue balls.
I've never been and have no intention of going. I loathe gambling, and it seems to attract the type of people I live in NYC to avoid.
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+ cougar reacted to + Pensant in Providers altering travel plans, leaving you w/ blue balls.
Maybe it’s me, but I hope I never see Vegas again. I hate gambling and crowds.
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+ cougar reacted to + PhileasFogg in Providers altering travel plans, leaving you w/ blue balls.
I suppose if you’re a visiting provider in a big tourist town, you’re looking for the convergence of good client opportunities in the little slice of time you’re there. Locals have regulars and finding that convergence with visitors is a crap shoot.
Smaller markets have quality clients planted firmly who are looking for quality talent