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Not watching this dead horse get beat yet again. Liked the first season and stopped watching after the second. I'm sure someone will watch this, I just hope I'm not asked about watching this show by my straight friends. You should see the looks I get when I say I'm not into Bette, Cher, Brittney, Will and Grace, or musicals. I get a crazy look and told I'm betraying the community.

How did you know that they would not scam you?

@purplekow, what are you, some kind of curmudgeon?

I came across his ad while visiting NYC and thought about hiring him but somehow I decided not to. Maybe that was the right choice.
 
I've always heard different experiences from other clients. I've had some worse experiences from those that were highly recommended. I've actually had good experiences from those that were poorly reviewed. I think it's another proof that it's all up to the masseur. If you're his type then you'll probably have amazing experience. On the other hand, if you're not his type then you can probably expect a more robotic, assembly line type of experience. No masseur or escort would probably tell you what his type is though and lose clients.

unfortunately the chances of becoming an alcoholic rises with the surgery.

Gay men as a group need to do what they have always been good at taking over undervalued real estate and making it their own. Get in the ground floor for nothing and sell in 15yrs to straight couples at over inflated prices. We are so desirable as residents we could probably ask for the moon.

Gay men as a group need to do what they have always been good at taking over undervalued real estate and making it their own. Get in the ground floor for nothing and sell in 15yrs to straight couples at over inflated prices. We are so desirable as residents we could probably ask for the moon.

Gay men as a group need to do what they have always been good at taking over undervalued real estate and making it their own. Get in the ground floor for nothing and sell in 15yrs to straight couples at over inflated prices. We are so desirable as residents we could probably ask for the moon.

I think this belongs in the ask an escort.

I think this belongs in the ask an escort.

First thing I realized was muscle does not always mean masculine too.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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OP and RBMont-Real are the same. He created this newbie personality and dilemma just to answer the thread and prove how smart he is.

OP and RBMont-Real are the same. He created this newbie personality and dilemma just to answer the thread and prove how smart he is.

I live in Chelsea as well and know it to be a friendly neighborhood. The issue isn't your looks, it's your attitude. I don't know you, and I'm only judging from what I've read, but your writing feels needy - it feels like you're having a hard time accepting yourself for whatever reason, and perhaps are still hanging on to parts of an identity that doesn't fit anymore. Seeking happiness outside of yourself isn't going to help you feel happiness inside yourself. You might be beautiful, but you're not "straight looking" - that's not a thing and is akin to "straight acting," which is just "acting" - and people can smell bullshit without knowing that's what they're smelling.
 
You don't need to tell anyone what you look like unless they're blind. If you're truly seeking out meaningful connection, you need to show people who you are, not keep telling them how straight you look.
 
I can't tell you what you need or what you should do, but I think it's helpful to think about a few things. First, nobody out there is going to fix you or make you whole. Seeking outside yourself for validation might feel good when you get it, but what happens when you don't get it? Second, some people will like how you look and some won't and that's out of your control. Stop using your appearance as an excuse. Third, people will stick around in your life because of who you are and how they feel when they're with you, not because of how you look.
 
I recognize the harshness of my tone but I don't see value in coddling you. I do, however, want you to know that I know you deserve to have meaningful connections and a happy life. You deserve that as much as anyone else. I think you're relatively new to your gay identity and you're struggling with putting it all together. I get that. I have the benefit of being out for nearly 25 years and I know it's taken me a long time to get my shit together. If I haven't completely pissed you off, I encourage you to drop me a private message. I'd be more than happy to have coffee and be a space for you to feel heard and supported.

First thing I realized was muscle does not always mean masculine too.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Wow. It must be so hard being so good looking and picky. People just throwing themselves at you all the time. I can't imagine the stress of it all.

First thing I realized was muscle does not always mean masculine too.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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LIke so many things, it's a numbers game. You have to realize that and relax and start playing the numbers game. It's easy to obsess and think you need to get THAT guy who you're hot for but who doesn't seem to appreciate what a catch you are. Truthfully, you don't need THAT guy. You were fine without him. So, forget about him and move on to the next one. Every once in a while, it will work, but it never works as well as you think it should. This is what the Buddhists call the reality of human suffering. Life is never quite what you think it should be.

From this escort's point of view, it's not that you find out my "real" name - that's pretty easy to do, and I don't make many attempts to conceal my identity - I choose to use the name "Eric Hassan" because I like it. Everyone who has revealed they know my name has also asked me what to call me. I'm sure many clients know my real name and have kept that fact to themselves. Keeping my real name to yourself, or sharing that you know it and asking me what I want to be called, shows me that you have some respect for my personal life.
 
It's not that you know. It's that you show a lack of discretion and respect by calling the escort by that name without asking. If you'll do that, what else will you do? If you call me by my real name without asking and completely out of the blue, it shows me you have a big mouth and won't keep it shut.

He has a face and body that many admire.

Why not get in touch with Dylan/Sam and ask him directly for his IG and see what he says?
 
Why pursue his IG--something that may not be for broader public/client consumption--when you've got a variety of other intel right here in this thread, including a link to a Guy Site video?
 
Once someone has vouched for the veracity of an escort's photography (which I have--I've met and interacted with the guy), it seems to me one's hiring decision is/should be about some other calculus. At that point, some of this seemingly titillation-driven sleuthing gets a little ridiculous.

I saw Stas weeks ago. His hair cut was horrible. The guy would do anything but get hard. I cut the session short. He said he doesn't get hard with clients. I told him he should just stick to porn.

Thanks for nipping that in the bud

Santoro's voice is annoying as shit.

LOL. Stereotype much?