musclvr

smoking body and all the work going into it to get there and maintain...only to be fully covered by all the tatoos.....one of these days i will understand, maybe....

Over many years, I've developed a sensitivity to allowing mutual touch to be, well, mutual. In other words, I try not to get grabby right off the bat, and allow myself to relax and let the masseur do what it is he does well. If I've chosen someone who has a good reputation and I like the way he describes his massage and I like his reviews and any communication with him, I'm intrigued to experience what HE does. I always try to choose someone who can combine therapeutic techniques with sensual and erotic touch. I try not to choose someone who is therapeutic only--OR someone who has no therapeutic skills at all and is using the massage as a means of finding escort clients. No offense to escorts--some of my best friends are or have been escorts. But I'm looking for guys who have developed their individual ways of combining massage with sensuality and eroticism.
So here's what I do--and what I DON'T do: I generally try NOT to grab and pull or interfere with his rhythm and technique. As he massages my back, I let my arms hang down the sides of the table, but I hold off touching his leg until he's done serious back and shoulder work. I just breathe into his touch. That creates a physical connection between us that is entirely in his control. It establishes that I respect him as a practitioner. And he of course can begin to "read" my body without his touch being overtly sexually charged. Once that mutual trust and respect has been established and he can see that he's got me moaning and groaning a little bit, I let my hand touch his leg. I might give it a little squeeze, but I definitely do NOT grab it--I still want HIM to be in control of where on my body he's touching me and how the massage progresses from therapeutic to to sensual. Relinquishing that kind of control is part of why I'm there. I try not to break the spell he is casting over me. I also try not touch his dick until he moves it near my hand. But once he does, I touch it and maybe hold it--but again, it's touching WITHOUT grabbing or breaking the mood. At this point he's probably massaging the inside of my thigh, maybe between my cheeks, maybe sliding his hand beneath my hips, maybe touching my balls and cock. If at that point he presses his crotch near my head, I might break the spell a little, raise my head and suck him--but just for a bit, again being careful NOT to signal that you want the massage to be over and all you want to do is cum and leave. Remember--he's not a trick and he's not just an escort--he's an erotic masseur. He's also a human being with a lot of joys and sorrows. And he's had experiences you can't even imagine. It's like a dance--but you have to let him lead. He can probably teach you a helluva lot about connecting physically, sensually, and erotically with another man. Whether it progresses further is up to the two of you. As they like to say on this board, your mileage may vary.  But if you travel far...tip accordingly.
All that to say that my advice is: Don't try to control it. Choose well. And allow yourself to let it happen. 
 

I'm not a native, but I used to frequently travel there for work and I quickly learned that San Francisco just isn't THAT big a city.  If there was a conference of any size in the Bay Area (like the Dreamforce conference or the old Oracle OpenWorld), hotels rooms in the city would become incredibly expensive if they could be found at all.  The Super Bowl would cause the same availability crunch.  That might make a visit too expensive a proposition for a traveling escort.  

Not sure why your search didn't pull this old thread up. Looks like a buyer beware situation.
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/125278-411-infinityken-sfbay-area/#comment-1791225

I had a 120-minute session with SDBodyWork. I opted for the deep tissue ($320) with the sensual add-on (+$50).  It was pricey but well worth it.
He's clearly trained and knows his way around the human body. If you google the phone number in his rentmasseur ad, you'll find his professional affiliations. The deep-tissue massage was 10/10. The sensual aspects were standard, though touching his rock-hard muscles was extra nice. It was nice that he went back to the massage after the HE part was over rather then scoot me out the door.
Friendly, chill guy. Sweet smile. Looks like the pictures in his ad.
He talked just the right amount at the beginning and then was quiet except to check-in occasionally on how the pressure was.
I will repeat. 

P.S. The session was an in-call on a table at his place in University Heights. He didn't ask for a deposit when booking.
Skeptical, negative comments above from other posters are wrong. Though I fully understand and do not condemn the skepticism.

Posted a story of the encounter here incase anyone wants to read all the details on Reddit:
https://www.reddit.com/r/eroticmalemassage/s/x1wZrB8jmi
I shared this with the guys and they loved it! 😍 

I had a 120-minute session with SDBodyWork. I opted for the deep tissue ($320) with the sensual add-on (+$50).  It was pricey but well worth it.
He's clearly trained and knows his way around the human body. If you google the phone number in his rentmasseur ad, you'll find his professional affiliations. The deep-tissue massage was 10/10. The sensual aspects were standard, though touching his rock-hard muscles was extra nice. It was nice that he went back to the massage after the HE part was over rather then scoot me out the door.
Friendly, chill guy. Sweet smile. Looks like the pictures in his ad.
He talked just the right amount at the beginning and then was quiet except to check-in occasionally on how the pressure was.
I will repeat. 

I had a 120-minute session with SDBodyWork. I opted for the deep tissue ($320) with the sensual add-on (+$50).  It was pricey but well worth it.
He's clearly trained and knows his way around the human body. If you google the phone number in his rentmasseur ad, you'll find his professional affiliations. The deep-tissue massage was 10/10. The sensual aspects were standard, though touching his rock-hard muscles was extra nice. It was nice that he went back to the massage after the HE part was over rather then scoot me out the door.
Friendly, chill guy. Sweet smile. Looks like the pictures in his ad.
He talked just the right amount at the beginning and then was quiet except to check-in occasionally on how the pressure was.
I will repeat. 

I had a 120-minute session with SDBodyWork. I opted for the deep tissue ($320) with the sensual add-on (+$50).  It was pricey but well worth it.
He's clearly trained and knows his way around the human body. If you google the phone number in his rentmasseur ad, you'll find his professional affiliations. The deep-tissue massage was 10/10. The sensual aspects were standard, though touching his rock-hard muscles was extra nice. It was nice that he went back to the massage after the HE part was over rather then scoot me out the door.
Friendly, chill guy. Sweet smile. Looks like the pictures in his ad.
He talked just the right amount at the beginning and then was quiet except to check-in occasionally on how the pressure was.
I will repeat. 

I have certainly glanced right past his profile based on that hat

He's cute but I would tower over him. Even lying down on a massage table, guys on the shorter side can't some to get the right leverage to give a deep tissue massage for me.

I feel like I'm drawn to these expensive types: 18-21 y/o twinks/twunks, gay-for-pay twunks, and hotties with clout. The sad truth is that most of them don't make good providers. I don't mind a bad attitude. However, it begs the question: Does someone really want to pay $600+ to put up with it?

He's been around for awhile through RentMasseur. In fact his RentMen profile dates to 2018 but he's always active for a few months (if that) and then goes offline–on both platforms. He's one of those on-again, off-again providers. I've been in touch with him before, never took the plunge. There were times when he was chatty and others where he came off as not interested. Also, big thing for me was that he didn't like kissing, and I can see it's explicitly not listed in his "intos," so I'm assuming that's still his preference, which is always a big turn off for me–kissing is sometimes the best part–but I realize not all providers offer. A couple times he sounded like he would reconsider it but then went silent. So to echo what @musclvr said, YMMV.
Maybe one day me and him will finally connect. 🤷‍♂️

He's not the guy in the pictures. He's got no skills. After 10 minutes, I had to tell him to stop and leave. Please avoid.

Wow. Is it just me or does anyone else think that he used Grok or some other AI image generator to change his clothing in picture #2 vs. #1?

Wow. Is it just me or does anyone else think that he used Grok or some other AI image generator to change his clothing in picture #2 vs. #1?

Posting to bump and confirm what Dr.Daddy and ReynST wrote previously. See Gerrod for an excellent therapeutic massage and some sensual. Go elsewhere if you're looking for the reverse of that.

No info on a rentmen experience with MuscleR. His ad is pretty clear about what experiences he's offering.
I did a reverse image search and found links to his masseur ads plus several threads about the massage experience with him. It reads like the massage experience is unpredictable and YMMV.
https://rentmasseur.com/MassagebyRENE
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32879/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/162167-massagebyrene-in-la/#comment-1242940
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/158035-los-angeles-choices-rene-or-la-masseur/#comment-2412168
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/111053-massage-by-rene-in-la/

I have asked a couple of guys about why they put "Ask Me" as a response for "Orientation" in their rentmen ads, one guy in the UK and one guy on the East Coast of the US. Both basically said it's to increase their market opportunities. A good chunk of their business was with M/F couples. They thought that by saying "gay", it would eliminate them from that market. I'm not sure why they didn't use "bisexual". 

He doesn’t advertise this on his website but halfway through sessions (I went maybe twice a few years ago) he’d ask if I wanted a blindfold put on and be tied up and I am pretty sure things would’ve gone further, but I’m too vanilla and only opted for the blindfold 😅. Also there isn’t a specific tantric massage advertised, and I didn’t specifically ask for it, but I thought it was quite tantric. Worth reaching out and asking! Paul's a really nice man.
 
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That photo must be ancient--I think he was using the same one 20 years ago (I can't forget that tattoo), so he has to be older than 45 now.

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