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He lost a potential regular with his behavior and we understand your frustration after being stood up twice. 
 

 

 

Just back from a trip to NY and scheduled a session with Nick because his pictures and this thread intrigued me. Below is what I posted on RentMasseur. As you can see, I had a fantastic time:

I reached out to Nick before a quick trip to NY because I was impressed by his 5-star reviews and attracted to his dark good looks. His warm and gracious communications over the next few days cemented my decision. But I wasn't prepared for what I saw when I showed up at his comfortable studio in midtown. He opened the door, and I lost my breath. In person, he is even more handsome than his pictures, but it goes deeper than that--there is something spiritual and soulful about him, a deep desire to make YOU feel good. He greeted me with a hug--he's a great hugger! His massage and the stretching and the body-to-body contact he does are all intimate and knowing, deeply therapeutic, intensely connected. I left from his studio and went directly to the airport, where I proceeded to have a flight-from-hell and a 5-hour delay. But I was smiling the whole time. After my session with Nick, I felt like I was floating back home.

I might also add that I agree wholeheartedly with what others have said about Nick's kissing. His kissing was phenomenal.

I agree that what you said may be true for some providers.  One reason they may not have used "bisexual" is for a similar reason --  because there are people like me who never hire bisexuals. (I have found they generally are either straights who say that for Rmen marketing purposes, or are much more tentative in their limited passion, or are much more circumscribed in what they will do, or have never done "that" before, or are less spontaneous, or...)

I have asked a couple of guys about why they put "Ask Me" as a response for "Orientation" in their rentmen ads, one guy in the UK and one guy on the East Coast of the US. Both basically said it's to increase their market opportunities. A good chunk of their business was with M/F couples. They thought that by saying "gay", it would eliminate them from that market. I'm not sure why they didn't use "bisexual". 

I have asked a couple of guys about why they put "Ask Me" as a response for "Orientation" in their rentmen ads, one guy in the UK and one guy on the East Coast of the US. Both basically said it's to increase their market opportunities. A good chunk of their business was with M/F couples. They thought that by saying "gay", it would eliminate them from that market. I'm not sure why they didn't use "bisexual". 

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Advertises on Rent Men as HeavenHands.  Says he accepts only cash, no electronic payments, which is good with me.  He spells out his routine, a combination of timed massage, body contact, and erotic, with "free" finish.  Sounded like something I would like, but the experience turned out to be just plain weird. 
First was the scheduling.  I messaged him on RM and asked his rates.  A day later, I got a message back with an hourly rate for incall; no mention of out calls or tiered times or upcharges.  Sounded fine, so I asked about availability.  he asked what time I wanted.  I told him, he said okay, then immediately started negotiating for a later time.  I said I could do the time he suggested, but that didn't stop him from continuing to negotiate a different, midway, time.  After a few of these, just reiterated I'd be there at the time he first wanted.  Seemed a little flaky or unstable to me.  
Second, the lack of preparedness.  After agreeing to a later time, I arrived at his hotel to find messages from him 15 minutes earlier saying he thought he saw me (how? he had no idea what I looked like) and was in the lobby.  Messaged him back for the room number and he didn't give it to me, just told me the floor.  Got up there and no one.  Messaged him again and he popped out into the hall about halfway down and beckoned me.  Went to the room to find it wasn't made up, i.e. he hadn't prepped even given an extra hour.  Clothing, packages, and personal items everywhere.  Cleaned off a part of table for my things. Took time out of my paid time to put a fresh sheet on the bed and clean up in the bathroom.  When I asked to use the restroom, he didn't want to vacate, instead holding my penis (NEVER had anyone do that before, EVER) while I tried to urinate--didn't work for me, so ended up skipping it and went on to the bed for massage.   He had his dog (which smelled like wet dog) in the room and never once asked if that was okay or if I was allergic--these days, I would think anyone would know to ask.
Third, he never stopped talking the entire time I was there.  Very distracting subject matter and not calming to me (even though I usually like a bit of conversation).  The massage itself was limited to my legs and rougher than I would like.  Then some stretches that hurt a bit.  Spent too much time doing the same things over and over because, he finally said, I wasn't relaxed enough.  Didn't say that, though, until he had used up most of my time.  Then, he asked how much time I wanted, which I thought had been settled when I booked.  Told him I hadn't brought much extra money with me (I don't generally carry more cash than I need when I see a rent guy), but had enough for an extra 15 minutes (seemed ridiculous that he would even hustle me for so short a time).  At one point, he told me he wasn't a sexual person (which I can confirm) and doesn't react to physical stimulus the way most people do [paraphrasing].  He went through his final routine and arranged himself over me in reverse (to put it discreetly, but use your imagination--nice view, btw).  I don't generally respond to HE, but he tried without success.  Then the time was up.
When I went to pay him, he asked if I had an electronic payment form (I don't).  This was odd, since he had said upfront cash only.  I told him I had enough cash for the extra time we had agreed on.  Then, he told me there was an upcharge which he had not disclosed before or during the session.  He said he didn't want to mention it because he didn't want to spoil the mood.  I told him how much I could offer and asked if that would be okay.  No.  I was supposed to know that there would be charges for anything not specifically described in his ad.  This is where he turned insulting and unkind, totally negating any positive effect of the body work.  Finally counted out all the money I had and gave it to him, turned out to be only $5 less than he demanded.  This session ended up costing me as much as a full service rent man would be, without the full service!  Felt really awkward and uncomfortable, but it didn't seem to faze him at all.  Then, he walked me down to the lobby, which was unwelcome and a bit creepy.  By the time I got to my car, he had sent me a message that not saying goodby wasn't cool.  Again, weird, since we had done goodbyes in the room.  Never have I ever had another rent guy insist on taking me down to the lobby or send me a message like that afterward.
On the plus side, he has the most beautiful flawless skin I've ever seen and all the right muscles in the right places makes for a vision (if that's all you want at premium prices, but be sure not to touch).  He told me he's actually 37 but claims 25 in his ad.  He could pass, but it seems unnecessarily deceptive to deduct 12 years from his actual age, especially given the number of years of experience he claims in the ad don't calculate with the age given.
In short, I wouldn't repeat and suggest you avoid.  Putting together the odd talk and behavior, I'd say the guy has some mental issues and might possibly become scary if triggered.
ALSO NOTE:  This provider has dozens of reviews, most of which are more than 5 years old.  Although the average score is 5 stars, there are a number of low reviews--the way both RM sites calculate stars, after a certain number of high reviews are posted, low reviews have no effect.
 

Kevin is terrific. Therapeutic for sure, but very kind and really makes the client feel attended to!

Pony was visiting my city a while back and was interested based on all the positive reviews. I did a reverse image search and found his Instagram, which presents a different image than the one in his rentmasseur ad. I decided to pass. Glad I did.
No judgement on anybody who enjoyed his company. We are diverse and enjoy diverse and different experiences.

Kevin has a new place in the alley up to the Pilgrim House. He was strictly therapeutic when I saw him but very good. A nice guy too. 

After a disappointing session with another "certified masseur" off of rentmasseur the day before, I booked a session with RobertMasseurUK.
https://rentmasseur.com/RobertMasseurUK
Great session. Excellent deep-tissue massage and sensual elements throughout.
I found him more handsome than his pictures. Average body but way above-average massage skills. Nice extras at the end.
Very reasonable rates.

Ha. I love walking around the streets near the beaches in the morning and watching the surfer boys peel off their wetsuits. It's like unwrapping a visual present. I wish it could be more than just a feast for the eyes.

Posting to bump and confirm what Dr.Daddy and ReynST wrote previously. See Gerrod for an excellent therapeutic massage and some sensual. Go elsewhere if you're looking for the reverse of that.

https://rent.men/JohnLeeefresh
Pictures map to an IG account of a gay guy in Madrid. He posted from a national park in Brazil four days ago so he was at least on the west side of the Atlantic. It's a bit hard to fathom that he'd pop into San Diego as his first California stop four days later, without first stopping in LA or SF.
P.S. And he's not even in the City of San Diego but in Rancho San Diego, 16 miles east.

Profile is gone.

If you truly suspect that it’s a fake profile, I’d suggest reporting it. I think RM is pretty good at investigating and then shutting down fake profiles. At least that’s been my experience with the ones that I’ve reported.

These guys tend post pics they captured from weeks or even months ago to give the illusion they are jet setting. A popular OF couple I noticed post pictures of being in San Diego, yet their location shows: San Antonio, Austin and Houston at the same time. These days a lot of guys like this travel for OF collabs specifically and not necessarily available to meet. If you just see them show up on RM, its probably to promote their socials one on one. 

I dont think SD is the best city to seek massers from my expirence...

Robert is great. Always a unique but good time. 

After a disappointing session with another "certified masseur" off of rentmasseur the day before, I booked a session with RobertMasseurUK.
https://rentmasseur.com/RobertMasseurUK
Great session. Excellent deep-tissue massage and sensual elements throughout.
I found him more handsome than his pictures. Average body but way above-average massage skills. Nice extras at the end.
Very reasonable rates.

He should put his pictures in chronological order based on the accumulation of tatoos.

The consensus in the other thread on him is avoid.
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/149357-touchbyalejandro-in-san-jose-anyone/#comment-2250243
Currently in Denver on rentmasseur and in DC for rentmen. You may need to give him 6-8 hours advanced notice for him to get to the right city. And that travel expense add-on to his rate will be killer.

The consensus in the other thread on him is avoid.
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/149357-touchbyalejandro-in-san-jose-anyone/#comment-2250243
Currently in Denver on rentmasseur and in DC for rentmen. You may need to give him 6-8 hours advanced notice for him to get to the right city. And that travel expense add-on to his rate will be killer.

Oh, I found his info on the escort site tryst


https://tryst.link/escort/eurasian-gentlemen#photos
 

Not a critique. An observation. The accumulation of tattoos on his body are indicative of some out of date pictures, from no tats to arm tats to a chest tat. You don't accumulate that many tats without a passage of a good amount of time. It's a rare instance of us, as consumers, being able to ID the more recent vs. the more dated pictures.