Mydavid

A lot of escorts are not willing to French kiss either.

Whether they are attracted to guys or not is not really the issue. Most providers are probably not attracted to many of their clients. However, there is still a basic interest in having sex with someone who is the same gender. Straight guys generally don't like to take a cock in the ass but a gay or bi bottom would pretty much always be able to do it regardless of attraction. I could advertise myself as a escort for women, but I would never be able to actually perform to any woman's satisfaction. 

After I douche, there is always water left inside me. How can I get ride of it?

I don't think that this is a regulated profession, so what I do is that I pay the regular amount unless he brings up that there's a new rate. When there's a new rate, I may or may not agree to pay, and sometimes I agree to the higher rate but give less or no tip, depending. Inflation is out of control in USA, so we all have to be mindful of our expenses, especially us the working class.

If I contact a regular, I usually ask, "as usual?"
If a regular raises their price and waits until after the session to tell.you, you need to drop him.
EDIT In my experience,  good regulars lock you in at the original price. I only had one regular who (twice) raised his price, and it eventually ended badly.
When it's a new guy, I always repeat the amount of time and amount when asking for the final agreement.  The oral contract is made if he agrees.

If he hasn't confirmed first, always confirm before meeting.

Someone I've seen 2-3 times per year, told me of his increased rates prior to my last appointment. 

I haven't had this come up too much, but I think if you're seeing someone weekly or monthly, it's on them to disclose a rate increase. However, if it's been months or a year, I would confirm. We had a regular who has since exploded in porn, and I've been thinking of seeing him again, and I will definitely confirm the rate. 

I confirm the rate each time whether they are regulars or not. Mainly because I often schedule more than just the standard hour. For a short session I really prefer one and a half hours so that entails a small negotiation anyway. And some I might see after a year or so has passed so it’s best to check if the rate is the same.

With my regular providers, I don't confirm rates each time I engage their services. However, every six months to a year, I inquire whether they have updated or revised their rates. To date, none of my regulars have altered their rates on me.

The best time I ever had was during the pandemic when I paid $2000 for two nights with the day in between. This guy came 3 times each night and once during the day in the kitchen while I was making lunch. I got a protein shake. 

A lot of escorts are not willing to French kiss either.

Will people stop with this "corpse" thing?
This happens to a lot of people. Just Google and look for people who get frustrating because their partners just "lay there" and let you do all the work.
This happens to all couples, gay or straight, married or single, etc.
All it means is that you get a bad f--k.

Leave and negotiate paying less than agreed. If I want to fuck a dead body, I'd break into the morgue. You are paying to receive an experience that you enjoy, and that's not it. Part of the fantasy (and the reason many of us hire) is for feeling desired and wanted, even if it's not real. That's poor customer service. THAT SAID, I know of some clients who can't care less about it, as they care more for having a way with a beautiful, hot man. That's why I'm keeping this in "I" statements, as I know that some men care more about the hot body than attitude or mental presence.
Without attacking the provider, I'd give a review based on your experience, but there's a way to express your dissatisfaction without making it a personal attack,

A lot of escorts are not willing to French kiss either.

This is fucked up. You should delete it. I’m an SA survivor and you equating a lazy escort to me being held down and face fucked under threat of violence is disgusting. It’s offensive to SA survivors and @Mydavid who had an unpleasant but CONSENSUAL experience. 

There's a big difference between "unwilling" and "passive" participant. Unwilling (and unable) is intrugal to the definition of "rape."

Easy there with the judgement.

This is called rape buddy.  

Extortion? Preying on fears? Did I miss something? I have re-read and see only depictions of silence and non-responsiveness. The only preying I see is a client paying a fee for an extremely subpar encounter. Anything else would be self imposed paranoia, and there's no need to plant a seed causing that grow in other members.

yeah.. it sounds like something he took "kicked in" so he could coast through the engagement.  sorry that happened to you

I'm truly sorry to hear about what happened to you. I'm not certain I would have handled the situation any differently than you did. I would probably try to make the best of it, pay him and leave. Regarding payment, withholding part of the fee, especially when at his place, doesn't seem wise. For me, prioritizing personal safety is paramount, outweighing any monetary concerns. Leaving a review to caution others about your experience is definitely something I would consider doing.

I would assume he’s on meth, not safe, and get tested.  Not participating quite honestly sounds like rape…

Providers like this need to be “outed” - with the ability for them to defend themselves of course which is why forums like this are good. At some point if what you say is accurate this becomes akin to extortion, preying on client fears for safety, discretion etc - would help to know who he is if you’re comfortable sharing. 
The few times I’ve tried to leave without fully paying a donation for reasons I consider fully justified, it’s turned ugly; the most disengaged / high / drunk / entitled / narcissistic (etc etc) provider still wants his cash at the end of the day.  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

That's so annoying, frustrating, unprofessional and unfortunate. I'd personally want to stop what I was doing, get dressed, let him know that I was leaving because he was showing little to no interest and that I was only going to pay him $X for his time. But then you risk a possible confrontation which no one wants. It's a tough situation to be in. Sucks having to pay full price when I'm sure you weren't even into it at that point. You probably just wanted to get off and go and have it all over with. 
I probably would have done exactly what you did.