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    + robear reacted to Rod Hagen in Providers removing erotic, & current clientele not liking it.   
    Or...you could hire consistently well-reviewed escorts who also give professional massages; save yourself a whole lot of flusteration.
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    + robear got a reaction from Shawn Monroe in Providers removing erotic, & current clientele not liking it.   
    As is often discussed, "sensual" and "erotic" are vague terms that can mean many different things in practice.  An advertiser might change his ad for lots of reasons, including managing expectations of prospective clients.  However, if you're an experienced client with a provider, and the service provided has changed, why not simply ask?  It seems a case where actual communication would be better than assuming or making up stories about what has happened, there could be erroneous assumptions on both sides.  An honest exchange might either improve your relationship with the provider, or allow you decide not to come back to him.
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    + robear got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Providers removing erotic, & current clientele not liking it.   
    As is often discussed, "sensual" and "erotic" are vague terms that can mean many different things in practice.  An advertiser might change his ad for lots of reasons, including managing expectations of prospective clients.  However, if you're an experienced client with a provider, and the service provided has changed, why not simply ask?  It seems a case where actual communication would be better than assuming or making up stories about what has happened, there could be erroneous assumptions on both sides.  An honest exchange might either improve your relationship with the provider, or allow you decide not to come back to him.
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    + robear reacted to RadioRob in BEST PROVIDERS IN ATLANTIC CITY NJ   
    Was great seeing you on one of my visits to NYC.  My own experience was great. 
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    + robear got a reaction from MikeBiDude in BEST PROVIDERS IN ATLANTIC CITY NJ   
    I don't think that kind of nasty comment directed to a provider is necessary or appropriate in this forum.
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    + robear got a reaction from BodeBrentwood in BEST PROVIDERS IN ATLANTIC CITY NJ   
    I don't think that kind of nasty comment directed to a provider is necessary or appropriate in this forum.
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    + robear got a reaction from + azdr0710 in BEST PROVIDERS IN ATLANTIC CITY NJ   
    I don't think that kind of nasty comment directed to a provider is necessary or appropriate in this forum.
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    + robear got a reaction from Whatsupandstuff in BEST PROVIDERS IN ATLANTIC CITY NJ   
    I don't think that kind of nasty comment directed to a provider is necessary or appropriate in this forum.
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    + robear reacted to MCR in BEST PROVIDERS IN ATLANTIC CITY NJ   
    Having met up with you, I wouldn't recommend you though. 
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    + robear reacted to Simon Suraci in What area of the body do you want touched first for a massage?   
    I typically start with neck and shoulders face down, then back, arms, and work my way down the body to legs and turn the client over. Lots of long, full body strokes along the way. I do feet for a longer massage or when specifically requested. Not everyone appreciates their feet being massaged, but those that do really enjoy it.
    I like the face up approach. I’ve had this once before and the masseur said it was to minimize time getting a stuffy nose face down. I still start face down.
    I always enjoy incorporating what I like to call a “happy middle”. Sometimes followed later by a happy ending. Happy middle is often face down. Depends on the client though. Not everyone wants that, and some can only cum once…and want/expect it to happen at the end, face up, like every other masseur they’ve ever been with. I try to open up their horizons a bit, but some people are stuck in their ways and upset when something is unexpected and different.
    I do a lot of traditional face-up-at-the-end style happy endings as well. At least with those it’s never mechanical or boring. I take pride in giving a powerful, memorable, and pleasurable finale experience. Usually some edging play involved.  Sometimes some ass play as well, balls, other erogenous zones. There are so many ways to make it fun, interesting, and interactive. I’m amazed at how many men have never been properly edged before and it blows their mind!
    Sometimes there is another “happy” moment in the shower afterward. It doesn’t have to be confined to the table. Once in a while a client gets off the table for a minute or two to enjoy being on their knees…
    One of the important aspects is a sense of building connection, and then building up erotic energy over the course of the session. Sometimes I start off with a naked hug.
    A minority of clients either can’t or don’t want to cum, and that’s fine. I incorporate whatever level of eroticism the client wants. At a minimum, with me you always receive an excellent therapeutic massage.
    Reading and communicating with your client is important.
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    + robear reacted to jmichaeliii in What area of the body do you want touched first for a massage?   
    I go to a provider that brings on the happy ending 30 minutes into a 90 minute session, then we have some hot playtime and a great massage.  Then the second happy ending happens.  Love it!
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    + robear got a reaction from + azdr0710 in What area of the body do you want touched first for a massage?   
    I've had one (and only one) masseur begin with me on my back, working from top and bottom to center and the happy ending in the first part of the massage.  Then with that great relaxation in effect, over and onto the back etc.  Although very unusual, it makes sense in that the effect is to produce an almost coma-like state.
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    + robear got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Providers removing erotic, & current clientele not liking it.   
    As is often discussed, "sensual" and "erotic" are vague terms that can mean many different things in practice.  An advertiser might change his ad for lots of reasons, including managing expectations of prospective clients.  However, if you're an experienced client with a provider, and the service provided has changed, why not simply ask?  It seems a case where actual communication would be better than assuming or making up stories about what has happened, there could be erroneous assumptions on both sides.  An honest exchange might either improve your relationship with the provider, or allow you decide not to come back to him.
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    + robear got a reaction from Simon Suraci in What area of the body do you want touched first for a massage?   
    I've had one (and only one) masseur begin with me on my back, working from top and bottom to center and the happy ending in the first part of the massage.  Then with that great relaxation in effect, over and onto the back etc.  Although very unusual, it makes sense in that the effect is to produce an almost coma-like state.
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    + robear got a reaction from Whippoorwill in Providers removing erotic, & current clientele not liking it.   
    As is often discussed, "sensual" and "erotic" are vague terms that can mean many different things in practice.  An advertiser might change his ad for lots of reasons, including managing expectations of prospective clients.  However, if you're an experienced client with a provider, and the service provided has changed, why not simply ask?  It seems a case where actual communication would be better than assuming or making up stories about what has happened, there could be erroneous assumptions on both sides.  An honest exchange might either improve your relationship with the provider, or allow you decide not to come back to him.
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    + robear reacted to Danny-Darko in any others with a scent fetish?   
    Master Scott Foot Worshipping.mp4
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    + robear reacted to Jamie21 in What area of the body do you want touched first for a massage?   
    I start at the head, then do the feet. Head first because it relaxes the client, likewise with foot massage. I never start with the back. 
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    + robear reacted to Bluefin in So many bad reviews   
    I’ve seen him twice and had good experiences with him and would recommend.
    Not sure if he’s not challenging the reviews to have them removed or someone has it in for him or what, but I found him to be a pleasant and sexy guy. Massage was good (although on hotel room bed) and he was generous with extras.
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    + robear reacted to Jamie21 in Negative vs Negative on Prep   
    Whether or not he’s on Prep shouldn’t affect your approach. Prep protects him, not you. Nor should you take as definitive anything he says because you can’t prove he’s on Prep, you’re just taking him at his word and that’s a lot of trust for something so critical to your health.
    Because of my work I take Prep daily and I really can’t imagine why anyone doing sex work wouldn’t be on Prep unless they’ve a health issue that prevents them taking it. All of the guys I know who do similar work are on it. They also include it in their advertising. 
    It’s free here in UK and I get tested regularly (also free) to ensure it’s safe for me to use. 
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