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    PaulM got a reaction from tennisjock in MuscleBrad in Tucson   
    From my experience, he gets into it within his limits....Not sure he's straight and doesn't provide escort-like services at his massage rates. He's a nice guy, open and if your specifically looking for something just ask him - he'll tell you whats on or off the table so to speak....
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    PaulM got a reaction from EastbayMike in they advertise therapeutic massge but...   
    These are some of my favorite encounters.....the unexpected fantasy that turns.   If you're respective and chill, it does happen.  
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    PaulM got a reaction from bichiguy in they advertise therapeutic massge but...   
    These are some of my favorite encounters.....the unexpected fantasy that turns.   If you're respective and chill, it does happen.  
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    PaulM got a reaction from Penn7 in they advertise therapeutic massge but...   
    These are some of my favorite encounters.....the unexpected fantasy that turns.   If you're respective and chill, it does happen.  
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    PaulM got a reaction from Tactile Daddy in they advertise therapeutic massge but...   
    These are some of my favorite encounters.....the unexpected fantasy that turns.   If you're respective and chill, it does happen.  
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    PaulM got a reaction from tennisjock in they advertise therapeutic massge but...   
    These are some of my favorite encounters.....the unexpected fantasy that turns.   If you're respective and chill, it does happen.  
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    PaulM got a reaction from LaCapGuy87 in they advertise therapeutic massge but...   
    These are some of my favorite encounters.....the unexpected fantasy that turns.   If you're respective and chill, it does happen.  
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    PaulM reacted to LaCapGuy87 in they advertise therapeutic massge but...   
    I've come across this but for me, it boils down to consent. Just because someone is a masseur, advertising sensual/erotic or not, the only thing that ever matters is consent. They're humans, and just because they make money from sex work, it doesn't mean they owe anyone access to their body. Hey, if you're luck to find their OF and then get to work with them, treat it as a fantasy coming to life. 
    I've booked a therapist whose OF was strictly him and women. I could sense he was nervous and he asked for a drink. He took a few shots and dropped his clothes. I still kept my hands to myself. He moved my hands onto his body. Things escalated quickly. At the end, I asked what that was about. He said, that I had a good vibe and asked that I keep this between us. And that was it. I walked in ready to enjoy the fantasy of this straight man. Turns out, he was open to more, he just needed to assess and feel a connection/interest before offering more.
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    PaulM reacted to dkrz in Jesse in Phoenix (masseurfinder)   
    Absolutely outstanding. Very deep, very detailed, very well trained and reliable and responsive. Cannot recommend more highly. Had one session and texting now for a second. I've tried many in Phx and he's now the best available all around. Only negative is he doesn't do longer sessions but he puts in 150% for the time he offers. Given his professional setup won't comment further but wish I could. 
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    PaulM reacted to Jamie21 in $250 for a massage is not a massage   
    I’m always surprised at the complaints over pricing. If you can’t afford it don’t buy it. No one is forcing you to buy the service. 
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    PaulM reacted to Brian Kevin in $250 for a massage is not a massage   
    Please do not forget there ARE real LMTs out there. Aka Myself I travel cross country in my car WITH my deluxe top of the line Nova by oakworks table. I am college trained and have taken classes such as body electric and other male workshops. My rates include mutual nude, mutual touching, kissing, oral, body contact, top, vers, kinks. 
    At a starting point of I ask 225.hr, 325.90mins, 425.2hrs and 500.3hrs 
     
    Gas to travel 8 hrs to next city: $80.
    Name brand matriott hotel 80-250$ (per night)
    Table: 400$ plus scleping around a 85# table.
     
    I think instead of saying you'll never pay over 180 for a massage and blaming the provider I think you need to vet your masseurs more. Ask where they trained, where they worked, ask for reputable reviews or client testimonials (rentmen reviews are a great hint) oh me? Having 40 something 5 star positive reviews is not because I'm a fake LMT.
     
    Good day gentlemen and be safe out there.
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    PaulM got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Phoenix recent experiences   
    Agree with Azdr0710.  Be upfront about sensual/erotic and leave the rest to him.  He's an excellent masseur and very chill guy.
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    PaulM reacted to niceandthick in Offering free massages on Grindr   
    ...and one last one [for today]..

    Military Surprise: This one came from Grindr. I had checked out this guys ad many times on Grindr but never had the nerve to say anything. I figured that there was no way that this hot Military guy (one of his profile pics is of him in uniform) would be interested in me. My lucky day...he reached out to me.

    Him: Hey waht's up? How is your day going?

    Me: hey. Good...and yours?

    Him: Not bad. Cleaned. Just took a shower and now lounging. It's hot out there.

    Me: Nice. I haven't been out yet today.

    Him: Don't go. You will melt.

    He sent a GIF of a melting ice cube. Followed by some really nice pics of him.

    Me: Handsome man. So what's on your mind? What were you thinking when you hit me up?

    Him. I liked your pic and your profile. Wanted to hit you up. I don't have a motive. So what are YOU looking for on here?

    Me: Mostly like to give free massages. Sometimes more (bi/top guy here).

    Him: A massage sounds interesting. Are you good with your hands?

    Me: Only one way to find out...

    About 15 mins later, he was naked and on my massage table. Very handsome. Incredible body. I was really surprised by that bubble ass on this guy. Truly a treasure. He invited me to get fully nude as well and I obliged.

    The massage went as they typically do. Me massaging and teasing along the way. Once I start working on the legs...and up to the ass...I turn up the heat in hopes of getting access to that hole. Yes...things worked as planned. Fingers and tongue got to explore his hole. I had fun with that for a while and then backed off. Time for the flip.

    As I started to work on his front side, he kinda moved so that he could look behind him. I asked what's wrong. He said " Nothing. I just wondered if we could maybe move to the the bed?"

    Bingo! From me admiring this hottie's ad for so long...to him asking if he can get in my bed. It doesn't get any better than that! While on the table, he had been pretty passive. However, once we got on the bed...somebody must have hit his "on" switch. He became much more aggressive. This guy was an incredible kisser. We alternated between making out, him sucking me and me eating his ass. Several rounds of that and then we stroked together until we both shot nice loads. So hot.
    He has reached out since then to say hello. We will connect again soon.
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    PaulM reacted to former lurker in I offended a provider on a hookup site   
    From his responses, it sounds like he interpreted your comments and questions as holding his escorting against him and a reason you would not like to meet him.  Seems you were as unclear in your messaging as was he.  Good of you apologize.  Had I been in your shoes, I would have thanked him for his interest and tried to arrange a meeting.  If he was looking for a client, he would need to communicate that before meeting.
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    PaulM reacted to LA90046 in I offended a provider on a hookup site   
    No offense, but I cannot imagine any context where the question "I had the impression that you are a sex worker" would be well-received.
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    PaulM reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Least Favorite City to Work   
    Orlando also has a lack of character and culture. 
    It's where people go to forget they're still actually people.
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    PaulM reacted to Jamie21 in 8-Handed Massage in NYC …   
    It’s too many, I’ve done a 10 hand (not for a client, it was in a recreational setting) and the guy on the table was overwhelmed. It just becomes a group sex session very quickly. 

    Personally I think even a 4 hands is too much but some clients like them. It can work if you’re coordinated with the other masseur. I prefer to work with masseurs I know or have worked with before because you can make sure you’re aligned. It’s a better experience for the client.
    An 8 hands isn’t a massage it’s a group grope 🙂 
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    PaulM reacted to smgsfbay in Anyone tried Asthon   
    Wow, he’s very pretty. I’d love to know if anyone has tried him.
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    PaulM got a reaction from Kody S in Recommendations in Phoenix AZ for sensual massage with body contact   
    Try DL touch on rentmasseur.com.   I've had good luck with him...
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    PaulM reacted to + azdr0710 in Recommendations in Phoenix AZ for sensual massage with body contact   
    Brady is great and meets all your requests if he comes through.....he knows his communication is rough  https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40959/  and a thread on him....https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/127057-brady-in-phoenix/
    and here's DL touch as suggested by Paul just above: https://rentmasseur.com/DL_touch
    and, if he re-ups his ad, I've had very successful meets with https://rentmasseur.com/cochinoblk
     
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    PaulM got a reaction from CuriousByNature in "Gone but not forgotten", what fellow posters do you miss?   
    FrequentMassageGetter
    Big Dale - controversial,  I know, but I miss his wit and snarky comments 
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    PaulM got a reaction from dfwmassagelover in 411 on Asian tantric   
    Leon did send a photo when I text him....nice looking guy...
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    PaulM got a reaction from tennisjock in Easy Tiger   
    Thanks...OMG, I just left his place and I couldn't agree more.   I've had hundreds if not a thousand + massages and his was top 3, if not the best.  I don't know how he was hotter then his pictures, but he was.  He really dug into areas where I was all knotted up and remedied my issues all the while giving sensual touches along the way.  One of the best endings ever too.....it was my first but will not be the last with this beautiful man...
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    PaulM got a reaction from marylander1940 in "Gone but not forgotten", what fellow posters do you miss?   
    FrequentMassageGetter
    Big Dale - controversial,  I know, but I miss his wit and snarky comments 
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    PaulM got a reaction from + bashful in "Gone but not forgotten", what fellow posters do you miss?   
    FrequentMassageGetter
    Big Dale - controversial,  I know, but I miss his wit and snarky comments 
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