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PaulM got a reaction from BigDMike in RedCMT in San Antonio
Lots of reviews here....search Archie or Red.....mostly positive from his time in LA
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PaulM got a reaction from Wanderoz in Anyone met JasonToddxxx in Seattle?
Hey, I would definitely pass on him. Saw him last year and I had to end it early...nice guy, but a little off. I got the impression he is special needs - not that there is anything wrong with that, but not what I was looking for. Also couldn't perform. Felt sorry for him....
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PaulM got a reaction from DonnerBlitzen in Anyone met JasonToddxxx in Seattle?
Hey, I would definitely pass on him. Saw him last year and I had to end it early...nice guy, but a little off. I got the impression he is special needs - not that there is anything wrong with that, but not what I was looking for. Also couldn't perform. Felt sorry for him....
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PaulM got a reaction from RichArt in Anyone met JasonToddxxx in Seattle?
Hey, I would definitely pass on him. Saw him last year and I had to end it early...nice guy, but a little off. I got the impression he is special needs - not that there is anything wrong with that, but not what I was looking for. Also couldn't perform. Felt sorry for him....
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PaulM got a reaction from BigDMike in Justin from Palm Springs
Saw him about 18 mos ago.....OK massage, decent extras.....nothing remarkable. Nice guy, but a little chatty.
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PaulM reacted to RubMyThighs in TurcoMan in Los Angeles
All I can say as someone who reviewed him positively here is that I am also in my 50s. It does sound to me as if your questioning may have been perceived as aggressive. “Therapeutic erotic” makes perfect sense to me and describes his style well. And unfortunately $250 has become standard for erotic outcall massages in LA.
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PaulM reacted to + azdr0710 in 411 on ChrisMuscle in Tucson
Just now saw this thread. Met again with Brad/Chris about a month ago after about three years of him being off the radar. Same old very laid-back, low-key, masculine guy, but he's now in somewhat- leaner shape, with less puffiness, and just neater and more "groomed"-appearing. Still somewhat beefy, but that somewhat roidy appearance is mostly gone.
His ad pictures seem to vary now and don't always feature his current appearance, but some do. Pictures rotate at times, so mentioning specific ones may not help.
As always, be respectful and let him take the lead, suggesting areas you'd like him to work on. Mentioning 'sensual' in pre-meet planning may help if that's what you seek. Entirely nice guy. After developing some trust, you may want to politely and respectfully ask about special requests.
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PaulM got a reaction from + azdr0710 in 411 on ChrisMuscle in Tucson
Also saw him about 3 years ago.....nice enough guy, but i had to take the lead on everything. He's very chill....like getting a massage from a football buddy. HE had no issue getting naked, so-so massage back then but perhaps he's improved, standard xtras - MT/HE. I tried to book again, but schedules never synced up. I wouldn't expect a world class massage, but if you want to hang naked with a jock for an hour or more I can think of worse ways to spend an hour. He was open to suggestions and happy to please.
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PaulM reacted to Chiron368 in any new 411 on cochinoblk?
I took the plunge. he is gorgeous. built like a brick shithouse. easy to set up a session. quoted massage rate of $280 plus travel. The session went as described elsewhere in the forums. I got the extras I wanted for extra compensation. It was a good time and I would repeat. thanks for the advanced info.
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PaulM got a reaction from + azdr0710 in any new 411 on cochinoblk?
I've seen him for both massage and massage/escort services. He is a skilled massage therapist, has a killer body and is an overall nice guy. His escort services did not disappoint either - we had a lot of fun! Just be clear what you are looking for and he'll give you his going rate. It's been a couple of years for me, but I'm sure he's only gotten better!
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PaulM got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in any new 411 on cochinoblk?
I've seen him for both massage and massage/escort services. He is a skilled massage therapist, has a killer body and is an overall nice guy. His escort services did not disappoint either - we had a lot of fun! Just be clear what you are looking for and he'll give you his going rate. It's been a couple of years for me, but I'm sure he's only gotten better!
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PaulM reacted to BuffaloKyle in My AndycoxXx experience.
I think he was annoyed that you were messaging him just to say basically Hi I hope I can hire you sometime. I think it's best to wait to reach out when there is a true intent to book a session.
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PaulM got a reaction from themsg in Any info on Jimisagem in Seattle?
I’ll second the recommendation for Jim. Excellent strong massage from a hot guy. Upgrade needed for anything more than MN, MT and HE. Super nice guy too.
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PaulM reacted to Terpmaniac in *Please do not share PM'S
Listen I love this group, you guys are amazing, but please do not share my PRIVATE MESSAGES with masseurs you meet. A few months ago, I met a regular client who said to me "did you post something on this forum that was negative?" I said what are you talking about. He said he met a client who SHOWED HIM MY RESPONSE to a message about his work. I was shocked. I said " don't have clue and if it was negative then why am I here?" Please be careful with what is shared here. Private messages should remain so. No mad just concerned.
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PaulM reacted to Wanderoz in 411 on Grant_Jr - Seattle
Gotta love a “top” who only shows his bottom.
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PaulM got a reaction from + BritSD in Who's Your Favorite Poster in This Forum?
Loved this guy. His posts were always a great read and insightful. Does anyone know what happened to him?
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PaulM reacted to francisssgorg in Asianmassage in Seattle
I initially texted other guys on rentmasseur but they weren’t available, and since I’m only here in Seattle for a few days, might as well try some “locals”. This guy named Taka (as per reviews on rentmasseur) responded quickly. Side note: I am writing this review here and not on rentmasseur because I think it needs to be heard. In rentmasseur, most of his reviews are positive which I don’t know why. There are several who made some honest reviews but he’s quick to like clap back at them.
His photos are headless torsos and in his thongs so I was like taking a gamble with him. It also looks like he’s a bottom in those pics. When I arrived at the place, there were no spots left on the street so I have to pay 20 bucks for the parking. His location is at capitol hill which I think is the lgbt neighborhood in seattle. He went downstairs to fetch me, and as he opened the door, I saw his facial reaction, like he lost a bet or kinda disgusted by my presence. I know I’m not handsome and a little chub, you just had to rub it in right? Anyway, the feeling is kinda mutual, because you know why his photos on rentmasseur are headless? Well yeah, I’ll just leave it at that. Dunno why clients said he’s a good looking guy tho. Anyway, so I took a chance. Anyway, just to take note, his profile says sensual, or mutual touch with release. Ok, let’s keep that in mind. His place really is in an old building, and his apartment really looks a bit run down, which is ok as long as you’re clean. His place tho had a lot of stuff and furniture and portraits of art or like naked guys or girls and some other trinkets which btw, screams bottom. Nothing wrong with that, I had a bottom masseur before that was really nice and his place is immaculate. So anyway, his english I think is limited so we had difficulty communicating. He allowed me to strip and laid on his massage bed that is huge btw, face down. He started massaging me with the use of an oil that seems to be either really drying or he’s just too stingy when applying. It made the gliding and stroking of his arms and elbows non sensual. Like he meant for it that way, which btw, some negative reviews commented. His techniques are basic elbow shiatsu stuff with a decent amount of pressure, but he never initiated anything sensual in between my as* cheeks and thighs or groin area which I always get from any sensual massage. After that “routine” he asked me to turn over. Of course I wouldn’t be aroused with that routine so I was disappointed. He then started some lame moves to try to get me going (which was very lame I’d rather not describe) but I was checking his facial reactions, and again, he’s looking away looking like he’s completely disgusted. He never incorporated some other sensual stuff like n**ple pl*y or playing with the as* cr*ck whatsoever which is fine, but what I hated is that it feels like he’s deliberately doing some de-h*rnyfying moves. He started the “release” portion with the attitude of let’s get it over with. I tried the mutual touching part but he kept on budging and moving away. Ok, so I guess it’s only for certain clients and we know which clients are those, until I finished. And you know the first thing he did, went straight to the bathroom, swung the door open which made a whack sound and started washing his hands. It really made me feel so bad about myself. Afterwards, he brought a really small, barely damp towel and 1 piece of wipes and handed it to me, which to my understanding, clean yourself up. Ok, I was laying there, shocked, like I had the worst customer service ever, and so I wiped myself while he hurriedly dressed himself. And as soon as he did that, I started dressing to, like he’s saying b*tch what are you still doing here. And so I asked him if I could go to the bathroom, and composed myself before I came out and gave him the payment with tip. I shouldn’t have tipped him tho lol kidding. He offered water so kudos to that. And he was quiet the whole time so after putting my shoes on, I said my good bye, and walked myself down to their front door.
Moral of the story: find a masseur that doesn’t discriminate based on the client’s appearance. Again, that’s why I prefer straight masseurs rather than having diva’s live waving at your face. I think also moving forward, to my japanese sister, please just ask photos of your clients before accepting them, so in that way, you would grab clients that is to your liking. Idk why that should make sense because that is rentmasseur and not grindr or sniffies.
anyway I just need to delete that memory in my mind now.
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PaulM reacted to + 7829V in Lorenzo Cruz / Junior –Now in Las Vegas (formerly San Diego)
There are several threads on Lorenzo, most of them are already closed, and others are just quick mentions in general San Diego recommendation posts or in the “Best Masseur of the Year” nominations. There isn’t an active thread focused on him as a masseur, so I’m starting this one.
If you’d like to browse the other discussions, you can check them out here:
https://www.companyofmen.org/search/?&q=LorenzoCruz or 25720&quick=1&search_and_or=or&sortby=relevancy
Here is a summary created by AI of all the threads I found about this guy:
🧵 Thread Summary: LorenzoCruz in San Diego
📍 Platforms: RentMen & MasseurFinder | ⏳ 2017–2024
🔗 Ads: RentMen Profile | MasseurFinder Profile
🌟 Highlights (Positive Reviews)
🧑🤝🧑 Great Personality → Friendly, responsive, easy to talk to. Many say he’s professional and respectful.
📸 Accurate Pics – or Even Better in Person → “Pictures don’t do him justice” was echoed by more than one reviewer.
👐 Open to Mutual Touch → Several mentioned he was nude throughout and comfortable with sensual contact.
💆 Good (Early) Massage Reports → Especially in 2017–2021, users described satisfying sessions, some with erotic build-up and happy endings.
🧳 Flexible with Travel → Users saw him in Phoenix, Bay Area, and San Diego. He travels and does outcalls.
⚠️ Mixed or Negative Feedback
💤 Massage Quality – Just OK→ More recent posts (2022–2023) report “Grade C” massages: repetitive, mechanical, not well-trained.
❓ Escort or Masseur? → Some confusion. Users unsure if he offers full service. Some got a “hybrid session,” others didn’t. Expectations varied widely.
💸 Experience Doesn’t Match the Price → A few users expected more based on RentMen status or early praise. One called it “mediocre,” another said “not memorable.”
🗣 YMMV (Your Mileage May Vary) → Consensus: Lorenzo may offer very different experiences depending on client, mood, or context.
🔍 Community Discussions 💬 “POW” = Piece of Work? → Funny mini-thread on whether “POW” was a compliment or a red flag. Turns out, it meant “hunky.”
🤝 Is It OK to Ask About Extras? → Polite debate on when and how it’s appropriate to ask a masseur about going beyond massage.
🏘️ Safety Concerns → One user voiced concern about parking near his incall (National City), but most used outcalls.
✅ Recent Comments
📅 2023–2024 Updates:
“Not trained, mechanical HE, not worth a repeat.”
“Hybrid session. He was very accommodating.”
“Used to recommend him, but I’ve changed my mind.”
“Still sexy, but depends on what you’re looking for.”
📌 Conclusion
LorenzoCruz has had a long presence on MF and RM with varying feedback. Early reviews were glowing, recent ones more critical. Looks are consistently praised. Massage quality and sensuality vary by client.
👍 Best for: Those who prioritize looks and potential sensual elements.
👎 Not ideal for: Those expecting high-level massage skills or consistent full service.
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PaulM reacted to Viktorintheair in Brady in Phoenix
I literally just finished a two hour with him in my hotel, and all I can say is WOW. Easy to communicate with, easy to book, showed up on time, and I honestly don’t know what everyone who has said they’ve had issues with him showing up are talking about. All I can say the Brady that I’ve dealt with has been super helpful and really good. I’m definitely booking again when I can. And that BODY!!!!!! Lord!
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PaulM reacted to Dr.Daddy in KenAsianhot
This is what he quoted/described:
“Top quality therapeutic massage to start with, it will proceeds to naked body slide and hand release . You can touch and more etc . $200/60min or $280/90min
Thank you”
I paid 200 and was told it’s 100 more for him to top me. I declined. I enjoyed the HE and as I mentioned he is very sweet, sexy, and polite. I was only at his place for 45 mins, which included 2 showers so there was very little massage. It was fun but I wouldn’t repeat. He’s exactly what some ppl are looking for, and it seemed like he was really down to take his time if you hired him as a top.
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PaulM reacted to Wings246 in Which position is your dick in when lying on the table?
I seriously believe @Simon Suraci should consider becoming a standup comic. I almost pee my pants from laughing too hard...... 🤣
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PaulM reacted to + Jamie21 in Which position is your dick in when lying on the table?
I think I’m going off the subject of cock position, so apologies and please remove this to a new thread if necessary but @Simon Suraciraises a good point: preparation for massage/escort services.
If you’re expecting sexual energy, and 100% of my clients are, then as well as positioning your cock appropriately please be prepared! Let me list a few of the things I’ve had to deal with: warning- it’s graphic but this is my life so you need to know.
A guy with such awful haemorrhoids that it looked like a bunch of cherries was protruding from his ass. He’d even applied cream to them which made it look even worse. (Maybe it wasn’t haemorrhoid cream and he was trying to make them more appetising for me?) He did say ‘I may be a little sore down there so go careful’ which I interpreted as ‘use plenty of lube and try a finger first’ but when I saw the state of it I decided nothing was going to happen in that area. Nothing. Did he really expect me to …?
A guy who was very corpulent with dried poo between the folds of his skin when I spread his cheeks to rim his hole. The actual hole looked clean. Simon’s discreet wiping is a thing I do, but tbh it’s not possible to discreetly rub away at dried poo. I love rimming but not so much doing a lot of preparation work.
Cheese. That’s all I’ll say. I’m cut so it’s not something I deal with personally but I’m not dealing with it in my work OK?
Post fuck or fingering rimming. Always happy to do that after I’ve been in first time. But what goes in has got to come out squeeky clean. With a recent client I pulled out and my cock was covered in poo, which spread over the towel underneath, and onto the client’s balls and legs. When it’s runny poo like that it’s not so easy to clean up…He was face down on the table, oblivious to the situation. I told him ‘I’m just going to the bathroom to freshen up’ …. ‘Sure Jamie’ he replied …and before I went I cleaned him all up down there. Which must have been obvious because it took a while, then I dealt with myself. When I returned he’s on all fours asking me to rim him. We were near the session end so I flipped him onto his back, lifted his legs, went in (to stay in) and finished him off with my hands whilst I pretended to finish inside him (honestly I really couldn’t). When I pulled out there was another mess. I threw away the towel.
And people complain about the rate.
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