PaulM
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PaulM reacted to + Jamie21 in Why use rentmasseur when you want sex?
For many guys sex happens too quickly. Guys rush to penetration, and then it’s over…all too fast. This could happen easily with an escort. Massage slows all of this down. Sensual massage is like choreographed foreplay, the build up of tension (including ‘will he fuck me? or will he let me fuck him?’) is part of the journey and the journey counts just as important as the destination. Good masseurs can have you absolutely begging for it after an hour 😉
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PaulM reacted to Typical in Why use rentmasseur when you want sex?
I personally don’t find on demand paid sex interesting. I’ve only done it twice and both times were unsatisfactory to me even though both guys were exactly my physical type. A massage gets us to the same room together generally unclothed, so the big logistics hurdles are over. Then if two consenting adults want to go for it, it’s more exciting than an explicit sex transaction, at least for me.
If a masseur who has not committed to sex decides he actually wants to have sex with me, that’s a lot more fun in my book.
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PaulM reacted to Rodrussell in Why use rentmasseur when you want sex?
Speaking for myself I’ve tried both and find masseurs more reliable in that I get what I pay for.
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PaulM reacted to DMonDude in Why use rentmasseur when you want sex?
It's because it's what some/many masseurs offer in addition to their massage services. It's pretty simple.
It's more like eating at a restaurant that has breakfast, lunch, and dinner options and you get to pick what you want.
If RentMasseur was purely a therapeutic only massage site, they wouldn't bother to have providers be able to list HIV status as that's not relevant to purely therapeutic massage. It's there for a reason. And the "sensual" in sensual massage can mean whatever the client and provider agree for it to mean for a particular session.
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PaulM got a reaction from domonkasshu160 in info on Magnetic Touch in LA?
I saw him once in phx when he lived there. Ok massage, standard HE, he was nude and does have a big dick....never thought to repeat. Meh...
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PaulM got a reaction from Jacob_b in want more from long time massage therapist
I agree with Travis, make your move. If he objects, you haven't lost anything and potentially you'll get what you want. Where is this masseur (city)?
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PaulM got a reaction from Jacob_b in want more from long time massage therapist
OK, I think you got your message....I agree with the others in that a true therapeutic/professional masseur would never have the constant brushes. Also, the no uw under the loose basketball shorts was another green light. My recommendation on having done this dozens of times, is to book again (compliant him on the last massage in your booking text) and if the same scenario plays out YOU have to make the move. When his cock brushes against your hand/arm, reach out to touch it (he clearly is sending you a signal that its ok). He has sent the signal and you have to act....my experience is that once that signal is made that he won't initiate it for fear of losing a good client if he misread what you wanted which is why the next move is yours.....it might not turn into the porno of ur dreams, but you never know unless you start down that path. Who knows over time, it could.....good luck and keep us posted!!!
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PaulM got a reaction from Jacob_b in want more from long time massage therapist
My advice would be to try the massage at his house, see whats different (if anything)....if you are already hard during the session he knows it....Perhaps a change in location will change the massage somewhat. That has been my experience going from strictly therapeutic to more sensual. I would shy away from asking until after you've tried the new location to see whats different.
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PaulM got a reaction from Wanderoz in Westmoore Boston
Contacted him and he wants a deposit....non-starter for me....He acted like everyone's takes deposits!
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PaulM reacted to curiousjackp in Seattle - non MF or RM experiences ?
Hello - looking for massage therapists or parlor/spa recommendations not on MF or RM in greater Seattle area that good and towards the sensual side if not full sexual
Anyone can share? - if not comfortable revealing the names on comments - message me directly, and may be generic description of which area and what was ur experience can help too in hunting lol
I went to an asian massage parlor in lynnwood - the male therapists are really good there - pure therapeutic with openness to massage butt and groin area, inner thigh, everything except cock, nothing sexual but spent good time on butt so that was nice - didnt care much about draping - i like that
Looking for more such places/people
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PaulM reacted to Vnnnmmy in 411 - Jolatree in Seattle
I enjoyed it but it’s not sensual more therapeutic. Sucks that he doesn’t like mutual touch. I don’t think it’s worth the 200. He is nice tho
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PaulM got a reaction from Kevin Quade in 411 on machobegin?
BUMP....he's on the road again. Anyone partake? He's nice looking and tall....
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PaulM got a reaction from Poloblu209 in TallSixFootFive
Something is definitely off with him....communicated with him over the weekend. Took hours between texts, no follow through and works out of his RV. I also got the bro vibe from his ad but I'm afraid the fantasy would turn out badly in reality. It could be a fun time for limited cost (quoted me $50 p/hour), but I Iost patience.
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PaulM reacted to Topform in Jasonzhenkai in Palm Springs
Just wanted to recommend this provider in Palm Springs. I had a session with him on Sunday while I was in town on vacation.
https://rentmasseur.com/Jasonzhengkai
I met Jasonzhengkai (or Jason) at Raphael's Spa on North Palm Canyon Drive. The room was clean, but I didn't love that the tops of the partitions had lattices instead of going all the way to the ceiling. I could hear the people partying at the hotel across the street on Sunday morning lol. But Jason was very professional and I soon forgot about the distractions and was able to focus on letting him make me feel great! (For those who don't like distractions, I believe he can do outcalls.)
He looks exactly like his pics, has a great fit and smooth body (all over), and knows how to give consistent good pressure during his combination Chinese-Swedish style massage. He also knows how to wrap things up with a great ending.
I recommend him without reservation, the comments about the space notwithstanding.
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PaulM got a reaction from Topform in Travis -Palm Springs
Saw him a few months ago. Nice guy, does body scrub, massage and boy-to-body explosive ending. It was different, but good. Not the strongest massage, but he does know what he's doing.....did I mention the explosive ending 🤣
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PaulM got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Travis -Palm Springs
Saw him a few months ago. Nice guy, does body scrub, massage and boy-to-body explosive ending. It was different, but good. Not the strongest massage, but he does know what he's doing.....did I mention the explosive ending 🤣
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PaulM reacted to + bencleve29 in LAX layover recommendations?
Depending on timing of your layover - dayuse could be a good option for a room during the day.
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PaulM reacted to Whippoorwill in LAX layover recommendations?
If its important that you make your next flight, I would get a hotel room at the airport and import a masseur who is well reviewed on this site. Then you can relax and spend whatever time you and your man arrange without the traffic anxiety.
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PaulM reacted to BeefyDude in 411 Markinman
HIGHLY recommend this man. Amazing body and exceptional massage skills. Might be more on the therapeutic side but WORTH IT
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PaulM got a reaction from Moke in 411 on Vintik in Sacramento?
I think he's a YMMV provider. I've always had good experiences with him that have included mutual nudity and touch. He usually is in UW throughout the massage, but at least the times I've seen him, he was willing to remove them. The massage is worth the price of admission. Everything else is icing 😌