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Yes. Extensive experience. And a good success rate. As mentioned in my posts #3, #27 and #41 in this thread. My gratuitous advice: Be very polite in your DMs, Emphasise that you will be discreet about any meetings, and Be generous in what you offer.

A photo I’ve not seen before - a young Michael Yerger, before he got his tattoo - but I recognised that inviting butt

SA is a dating pool. And Yes @MidAndy it has are all types of guys. You just have to be persistent and focus on the good guys. I see no point whatsoever in dating the junkies and flakes. It strikes me that the adverse comments on SA are similar to views expressed by guys visiting Brazil. Posters comment on how they see attractive guys on the beach but couldn’t meet any of them, or on how they didn’t find anyone attractive in the sauna the evening they visited. Others comment on how the sauna working guys are money-oriented or jaded. Yet a man only has to meet one attractive guy and have a good date to change his view. This is as true of a sauna in Brazil as it is of SA. No-one here has suggested it’s an instant way to get a date with a good guy. You have to be persistent and do the work in filtering out the flakes. IMO it’s much better than spending lots of time on Grindr or the equivalent, and having lots of bad dates to rule guys out.

Welcome to LA!

I find your posts inappropriate @BSR for I believe strongly in the saying: de mortuis nil nisi bonum

I believe in tipping generously and he believed in good customer service @imma

I only had one date with him (IIRC) but it was very energetic. He was very obliging and compliant, doing everything in bed that I had earlier mentioned I enjoyed.

Thank you for reminding us of this @Karl-G I remember watching the play ‘The Laramie Project’ inspired by his killing.

I used a flipper (aka developer) once. It was a large and historic house in a rapidly improving area that was well-connected for transport, restaurants etc. To answer the question from @Unicorn, IIRC the discount for the rapid sale was 10%. I’d already found my “perfect” house (a centrally located, larger historic house which, along with only 11 other houses, owned a communal garden of 3 acres) which I bought for cash. So I found selling the old house this way advantageous as I was very busy at work; there was no hassle and the sale went through in a week.

Thanks for reporting back @orville. I entirely agree @rvwnsd ! Why were you so reticent @orville especially if you wanted something to happen? Just get naked for your next massage; stop overthinking; and enjoy a man working on your body. As the French say, you’ll soon get ‘comfortable in your own skin’. So true @tenderloin. The flirting can be a lot of fun. And sometimes you can call their bluff - years ago, a cute waiter flirted very strongly with me; he finally asked me “what kind of guys do you like” and so I smiled and said Guys who put out. Very nicely put @Wolfer.

And I answered this question in post #19

Good display by Rafa but I found the match uninvolving.

I once explained compound arithmetic to a smart muscleboy. He was astounded.

What a silly boy. He doesn’t yet realise that, even if interested in a young man, any rich older man is not going to tolerate his drama and gamesmanship.

Yes, lying about an affair is “horrendous” as @TruthBTold noted. I have an ex-boyfriend, a glorious-looking muscleboy, who used to humiliate himself by having anonymous sex with strangers. For him, it had to be kinky, depraved sex that was secret and involved them using and abusing him. This was while we were supposedly a couple. When I found out, I confronted him and he denied it…until he confessed and started crying. I forgave him…and it happened again later, and I forgave him again…the next time I kicked him out.

I agree @WilliamM but nonetheless I shall be glued to the television for the French Open final tomorrow

I totally agree @Wolfer. I woke up this morning and read this…and thanks to @orville I’ve been transported back in time to the 19th Century and a romantic melodrama. Why be so nervous and retiring @orville? Do you think your “straight RMT” will have a fit of the vapours if he glimpses your burgeoning interest in him? I’m a massage addict and I’ve had hundreds over the years. Mostly male masseurs but I have always been naked…even when massaged in the open air at the beach. I say Enjoy the flirting for what it is - simple fun. Given that you strangely kept your pants on last time, just tell him I thought I’d get naked so you can really work on me; I hope that’s OK. He won’t object. Don’t be crass but when he leans into you and touches you or he uses his hands in ways you like, tell him so: say That feels good or Oh, that’s so nice. If you want more pressure in certain areas, just say so: I like that but you can go firmer/deeper if you like. And if his cock brushes against you, just sigh with pleasure. If he positions his cock near your hand, just brush against it lightly. Let him set the pace and the boundaries. I’ve had straight masseurs do more than usual, even tho or because they know I’m gay. One just brushed my cock lightly and I twitched responsively so he stroked me more and brought me off. Another guy worked on my thighs and stroked my perineum before bringing me to climax without touching my cock. A cute Israeli guy asked me if I wanted him to ”relieve my tension” and he kindly used a warm washcloth to clean me up afterwards. The oddest guy commented that I have a pretty cock and asked me if he could suck me off; afterwards he reassured me he wasn’t gay but he”loved the taste of cum”!

So true @friendofsheila. Where has the go-go boy work ethic gone? Nowadays they’re not professional. Only a few years back, go-go boys took pride in their appearance and presented the goods well. For many, there was a career path from go-go boy to occasional escort to professional companion, and finally to toyboy for an older man. Now there‘s so little career planning.

Well put @TruthBTold - “mannishly boyish top bottom”- To me, the guy resembles a young version of a French model, Charles-Laurent Marchand. It’s no secret that with age, he’s lost some hair and come out as an eager bottom.

I don’t know where you looked @zboss but I just used the Search function on Twitter and found him within seconds: jphadley96 Given that his recent Twitter feed shows him sucking cock, having his chest sprayed with cum and on his back getting fucked, I’d say your surmise is accurate @BaronArtz

He‘s young as you say @BaronArtz. My guess is that he’s also very new to this and still finding out how to handle prospective clients. Have you considered that he may simply have panicked? I mean he sent you nude pics (at your request?) and then you queried his age further. Had you reassured him that you were very serious about hiring and dating him?

It’s the only fetish worth having IMO @sf westcoaster. I too wear 2xist briefs occasionally, but I feel the sexy low-cut briefs from Team8 look best on a ripped muscleboy with a bubble-butt.

They’re both nice-looking, gay puppies

I just found it. “The Octopus in My House” was a documentary from BBC 2019/2020. The newly divorced biologist bought a female octopus and she bonded readily and played with his daughter. The tank for the octopus was positioned so she could see the TV. She proved a quick learner.

You make a fair point @former lurker but I guess many people may not have much in the way of excess income (or uninvested capital) to spend on this hobby.