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I‘d say he’s confident and justifiably vain

Yes @The_Impeccable_G but without giving anything away to identify the young man To put it in context, I should mention I have one Golden Rule about first dates. It‘s my view that everyone presents the best version of himself on a first date. So if the man is rude or insulting (especially to the wait staff) or behaves badly or something seems not quite right/feels ‘off’ or if there’s some discrepancy with what I was told earlier, there is no second date. That’s s my Golden Rule. He was working full-time and living in London. He was my type: early 20s, university-educated, decent looks, athletic body; very compatible with my being a top only; and he was keen to meet an older man. I suggested drinks but he countered with dinner so we could get to know each other better. Alarm-bell 1: He asked where I was taking him to dinner. He approved my choice of a fashionable restaurant and I booked at the time he stipulated. Alarm-bell 2: I arrived 5 minutes early but he was already there. He told me he’d expected me to be there to greet him; I smiled and gently pointed out I was early. He countered with he’d been waiting for 10 minutes. Alarm-bell 3: I suggested a glass of wine. He said No, let’s have a bottle. Alarm-bell 4: He was dismissive to the nice waiter…and a little later, snapped at him. Alarm-bell 5: He happened to spill some wine on his shirt. When I suggested he dab some water on the stain, he snapped at me You think I don’t know how to do laundry?! Apparently it was a new shirt he’d bought to impress me. Alarm-bell 6: I was thinking how to smooth over his upset, when he said What? So now you’re not talking to me just because I raised my voice to you? Alarm-bell 7: I’d been making pleasant conversation and asking him about his job, his interests, his likes and dislikes etc. I made a mental note that he had not asked me anything. Then he abruptly remarked on the new iPhone. He said he wanted the one in rose-gold. I murmured Isn’t that expensive? He replied Not for you. Luckily, then our first courses arrived

@cany10011 I could not disagree more! The guys I met from SA were amateurs (not pros) and interested in finding some financial support. Some of the guys like spending time with older men. It helps if you’re a good listener and prepared to be generous. I feel that’s perfectly reasonable @fedssocr1 For my part, I would move things along to a dinner date quickly if I was interested in a guy. Often there was mutual interest and he stayed for breakfast. Excellent advice @The_Impeccable_G I feel Seeking is great but you have to be patient and enjoyed the ‘dating game’. I certainly had some great times with guys I met from Seeking, but I also had some frustrating times. I even had one bad dinner-date that was so bad that I refer to it as the gold standard of bad dates. Even now, it makes me chuckle to remember how, as we parted, he asked me when we were going to meet next.

I thought the movie was a terrific black comedy. It was highly entertaining. It had an excellent review in the Financial Times which said it was surprisingly easy in the US for an old person to be committed and find their financial matters organized for them.

While the 2 tops in the back of the boat are thinking about who will loosen up Pietro first and who gets to fuck him second, Pietro just has to wait...

To me @Trick it suggests that the escort normally speaks Spanish and thinks that the word translates literally. The Spanish equivalent means “ready (or eager) to please”

I loved the comment of one viewer: “Porn would be more dignified than this!” Personally I wish Nick would just come out of the closet and put that cock and body to good use. That physique was surely built for man-on-man action.

Imagine @bigjoey a 36year old man (with only an inherited fortune of $40-50 million) has his annual allowance of $3.5 million from his Dad cut off after 12 months’ notice…and the American public won’t help him & Meghan out? I hadn’t realized Americans were so savvy

It was an aside. I included the details as shorthand for them both (separately) leading middle-class professional lives, keeping fit with access to private healthcare, and working online from home. I was so surprised by what the first friend told me that I phoned the second friend and he confirmed the details of the crisis there.

Good response from @Jamie21. I feel it’s OK to ask, but @samsmithson1972 how can you rely on the answers? You have to protect your own health. If you’re planning to hire at this time, it may be better to simply ask what precautions the guy is taking to protect his health and yours.

I don’t disagree with what others have written about places in the US, Europe and Latin America…but I wonder what places will be attractive AND open for visitors later this year or in 2022 due to the pandemic. I’m finding it very difficult to plan foreign trips at all. I can live with the possible tests and quarantine requirements on returning from abroad, but I’m not confident about the measures being taken in other countries. Vaccination is proceeding at such very different rates in various countries. The entry requirements of countries are complex and changeable. Airlines too have different rules. And it’s also difficult to get up to date information. For instance, I knew Brazil was having a tough time but it was only today - when talking on the phone with a couple of Brazilian friends (fit 30s, middle-class guys) - that I learned that Sao Paulo has just introduced greater restrictions as the healthcare system in the city is on the verge of collapse.

The stated aim of the UK Government is to have every adult vaccinated by the end of July. A couple of research bodies have estimated today that this target may be reached by mid-June, assuming there’s no interruption of supply of the vaccines.

Todd Sanfield, when young as in the above pic, was sex-on-legs in my view.

Well said @nycman. Strange how this intensely private, media-hating couple turn up so often on TV and in the media. It’s undoubtedly a good thing that they generally have a private (or pet) photographer with them to make an accurate record of their good deeds.

I saw that too @bigjoey. My only quibble is your use of “may have stretched”…but maybe you’re being kind to Delusional Narcissistic Meghan. When DNM complained to Oprah about this, I did wonder just how much joy and delight she got from - waiting at check-in, - being inline to clear Security (even if it was the First Class line) - showing her passport at Border Control before - waiting for her luggage to appear on the carousel Silly Me then realised she had just swept from the aircraft to the limo, while her staff dealt with these commonplace formalities. I also recall the staggering cost to UK taxpayers of her ‘baby shower’ in NYC (when UK Police Protection Squad officers had to accompany her, along with armed protection from the State Department).

It’s important that you keep acting as normal @Lucky. I don’t want your protestations of innocence to alert the Police.

i was an avid fan of CSI so I learned about flies and decomposing bodies. Who else wonders if @Lucky was in confessional mode earlier? Now that it seems he’s got rid of the body, will he go ‘silent’ or will he, like Delusional Meghan, be ‘silenced’?

I’m surprised that no-one reports having taken him out for a full and thorough “test drive”. I had thought from previous online posts that twinks were very popular

The Palace statement was conciliatory. And 61 words long. It’s also pointed in quite a subtle way. Here you go… https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9343383/Queen-breaks-silence-Harry-Meghan.html

Did this guy just get charged with some offence? I met him years ago when he visited England briefly - that was before he became steroidal and heavily inked.

And for those who want to read more… https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9338421/Royal-revelations-test.html

I live in London and I could not have put it better @nycman. I doubt the interview will change anyone’s pre-existing view on H&M. When Meghan first arrived in the UK, there were several reports of her having come “to find a rich husband”. She befriended various people for help in meeting men, but once she met Harry she dropped those previously useful ‘friends’. I don’t believe for a moment that she didn’t do any research. I noticed Oprah didn’t ask M any tough questions about her behaviour. She didn’t ask about H&M shouting at the Queen’s favourite, long-standing servant, which rightly earned H a reprimand from the Queen. She didn’t ask why M blamed the Palace staff when H&M had handpicked them to run their private office in the Palace. It’s ironic that M blamed Palace officials for not supporting/helping her when they are the ones who tried to bury the several complaints of staff about M’s bullying behaviour. I disliked H&M complaining about being financially cut off, security being cut and the lack of a title for Archie. 1. Diana left H about $15 million on her death; being a child, it was invested on H’s behalf and when he became of age to inherit the money, it was approximately 4x that sum. Why should H expect to get money from his Dad once he ceased to work for the Royal family? 2. Security is provided by the UK Police and it costs the UK taxpayer. Only the senior working members of the Royal family get that protection. 3. M alluded to a “convention” but seemed to me to imply that because of his mixed-race Archie didn’t get a title. It’s a rule (set more than 100 years ago by King George V) that the titles of Prince, HRH etc are awarded only to some (not all) lineal descendants of the reigning Monarch. The children of H would never have been given titles, but H&M could have chosen the courtesy title of Lord for Archie and they chose not to - they registered his birth as Master which is used in the UK for any boy-child. Personally I hope the Queen strips H&M of their remaining titles. And I hope H&M stop seeking publicity, and retreat into anonymity and a quiet life in California.

Yes, because being in a relationship can mean much higher costs overall.

Why no mention of pecs @samhexum ? For me, well-developed and symmetrical pecs (on a preferably smooth chest) are beautiful and erotic

Maybe I missed those posts in this long thread but I don’t recall many “bragging about…affordable encounters”. With Seeking, it’s a longer process and involves building trust and friendship. Successful…if both enjoyed their time together. I‘ve met a lot of attractive young men with nice bodies over the years. Many have confided in me. Not one has mentioned having a “gay older friend”.