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I find this sad and somewhat personally painful, which is strange since I never met nor did I know this young man, except through his porn work and persona. But his wholesome good looks and pleasant presentation must have made a substantial impression on me, and I mourn his far too premature passing. Rest in peace, Seth, and condolences to all his friends and family.

His fiance made a post on X. No cause of death was given. He was so young.
https://x.com/SethPetersonXXX/status/2035532645178745058

His cumdump video is a collector's item. He got bred by 12 tops in that one.

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RENT.MEN SmithSterling Gay Escort in Miami, Florida, available for Modeling,Erotic Massage,Bodywork. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men I was so excited until I saw he says he doesn't bottom for clients. Does anyone know why? He bottoms a lot in porn. What gives?

I let them know upfront that I’m paying them the same 

I really like this solution provided by @Luv2play: 
Pay them each the same, using the rate of the guy with the higher rate.  The other guy will view the added amount as a tip.  Place in separate envelopes so they won't see what the other is getting, but keep it the same because they may talk afterwards.
 

Not sure if this allowed or best here, but what the heck.  Was thinking about my 2025 hiring and jotted some facts down - would love to see others.
Hires - 5 total
4 new 1 repeat Where I met them
3 outcalls (their place/hotel/Airbnb) 2 incalls (my hotel) Cities where I met them (I'm based closest to Philly)
4 in Philly 1 in NYC Where they're based
3 in NYC 1 in Philly 1 in San Fran Where they're originally from
2 from US 1 from Brazil 1 from Mexico 1 from Czech Republic Their advertised positions
2 verse 2 verse-bottoms 1 bottom Base hourly rate
1 at $250 2 at $300 2 at $350 Kind of fun re-living the meetings!  Happy New Year all!

I used to have like 2 or 3 go-to guys. Lately though, I’ve found a couple more I’d actually like to see again and more often. Plus there are the one-time or “only when they’re in town” guys too.
The tricky part is some of the regulars are used to being booked every X weeks. So if I don’t reach out, they’ll message me like “hey, what’s up, wanna meet?” It’s already happened a few times 😅 I usually go with “money’s a bit tight right now,” but then a couple weeks later… boom, they’re back in my inbox 😅
I don’t really want to be super blunt and say “hey, I found a few other guys just as good, so now there’s a rotation, please wait your turn” lol.
Do you have any polite go-to excuses for this? Or is it actually better to just tell the truth? 🤔

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=60628&version=2
He's fresh out of jail. Shame he's a top, I do like the chav aesthetic.

I've had providers in the past who i was seeing on a regular basis while his RM profile was inactive. I had his number so i would just text him or he would text me about meeting up. I asked him about why his profile was expired/frozen and he said he was prioritizing other sites at the time. He has a rotation of sites he spends the subscription money on and isn't using them all actively at once. I've also known providers to sometimes take breaks from fielding new clients and just focus on their regulars. A frozen/inactive profile is only really an issue or a "don't engage" for potential new clients, in my experience.
So if you already have met with the guy and have his number, it doesn't hurt anything to text and see if he's available. If he's available he'll be willing to set something up and if he's actually not available he'll either tell you that as well or he just won't reply.

I think this subject was addressed a few years ago. 
I'm guessing a "frozen" ad means that the escort is taking some time off - frozen profiles were prevalent during the pandemic. This is different than an "expired/deactivated" profile - even though I've "Chatted" online with at least one "expired/deactivate" provider whose ad continues to run on the Rentmen website (even though his telephone number is no longer visible on his profile) - but he continues to welcome my inquiries if I text him. It's a bit confusing (and there's no info on the RM "FAQ" page) - I'd just go ahead and text the "frozen" escort as I suspect that, even if doesn't respond, you'll have your answer.

Normally I'd assume it's frozen for a reason and wait for it to unfreeze. Given that you've seen him twice before and have his number, I might text him to let him know you're interested in meeting up; I'd put *something* in the text like "Hope all is well" or "Hope you're doing okay". 

That "Bad Boy" thing is such a turn on for me! 🤪🤤

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=60628&version=2
He's fresh out of jail. Shame he's a top, I do like the chav aesthetic.

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=60628&version=2
He's fresh out of jail. Shame he's a top, I do like the chav aesthetic.

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=60628&version=2
He's fresh out of jail. Shame he's a top, I do like the chav aesthetic.

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=60628&version=2
He's fresh out of jail. Shame he's a top, I do like the chav aesthetic.

Very reasonable in today's market

As a top ? Probably true....But nothing beats a young fresh bubble-butt for bottoming. A skilled top will make good use of even the most inexperienced sub-boy bottom. 

The same month as Scott Finn. We've lost 2 legends.

There's a general dearth of younger guys in Toronto but it has gotten slightly better in the past 12 months. 

We don't know for sure what Scott's cause of death was.  However, the implication in the Men of Porn link is that it was suicide.
Here is the link and the quote. You can infer from it what you want:
https://www.menofporn.blog/2025/12/passed-away-last-week-scott-finn.html
"A Facebook post last week from a friend or relative of Scott Finn announced that he had passed away. It was followed by another post that read, “Behind suicidal thoughts is not a desire to die, but a desire to escape pain. That’s why our kindness and presence matter most.”
BTC
🤡

Scott was known for his scenes at Active Duty and Next Door Studios.
 

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This. Picky providers don't seem to realize that supply and demand isn't on their side. When I get asked for a pic, there's usually at least 50 guys in a 20 mile radius currently available.
I don't know about RM, but SA estimated there's 8 wanna be male sugar babies for every 1 sugar daddy with money. Good providers understand those economics; new kids always seem to think they're the exception until they learn the hard way.