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I used to have like 2 or 3 go-to guys. Lately though, I’ve found a couple more I’d actually like to see again and more often. Plus there are the one-time or “only when they’re in town” guys too.
The tricky part is some of the regulars are used to being booked every X weeks. So if I don’t reach out, they’ll message me like “hey, what’s up, wanna meet?” It’s already happened a few times 😅 I usually go with “money’s a bit tight right now,” but then a couple weeks later… boom, they’re back in my inbox 😅
I don’t really want to be super blunt and say “hey, I found a few other guys just as good, so now there’s a rotation, please wait your turn” lol.
Do you have any polite go-to excuses for this? Or is it actually better to just tell the truth? 🤔

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=60628&version=2
He's fresh out of jail. Shame he's a top, I do like the chav aesthetic.

I've had providers in the past who i was seeing on a regular basis while his RM profile was inactive. I had his number so i would just text him or he would text me about meeting up. I asked him about why his profile was expired/frozen and he said he was prioritizing other sites at the time. He has a rotation of sites he spends the subscription money on and isn't using them all actively at once. I've also known providers to sometimes take breaks from fielding new clients and just focus on their regulars. A frozen/inactive profile is only really an issue or a "don't engage" for potential new clients, in my experience.
So if you already have met with the guy and have his number, it doesn't hurt anything to text and see if he's available. If he's available he'll be willing to set something up and if he's actually not available he'll either tell you that as well or he just won't reply.

I think this subject was addressed a few years ago. 
I'm guessing a "frozen" ad means that the escort is taking some time off - frozen profiles were prevalent during the pandemic. This is different than an "expired/deactivated" profile - even though I've "Chatted" online with at least one "expired/deactivate" provider whose ad continues to run on the Rentmen website (even though his telephone number is no longer visible on his profile) - but he continues to welcome my inquiries if I text him. It's a bit confusing (and there's no info on the RM "FAQ" page) - I'd just go ahead and text the "frozen" escort as I suspect that, even if doesn't respond, you'll have your answer.

Normally I'd assume it's frozen for a reason and wait for it to unfreeze. Given that you've seen him twice before and have his number, I might text him to let him know you're interested in meeting up; I'd put *something* in the text like "Hope all is well" or "Hope you're doing okay". 

That "Bad Boy" thing is such a turn on for me! 🤪🤤

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=60628&version=2
He's fresh out of jail. Shame he's a top, I do like the chav aesthetic.

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=60628&version=2
He's fresh out of jail. Shame he's a top, I do like the chav aesthetic.

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=60628&version=2
He's fresh out of jail. Shame he's a top, I do like the chav aesthetic.

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=60628&version=2
He's fresh out of jail. Shame he's a top, I do like the chav aesthetic.

Very reasonable in today's market

As a top ? Probably true....But nothing beats a young fresh bubble-butt for bottoming. A skilled top will make good use of even the most inexperienced sub-boy bottom. 

The same month as Scott Finn. We've lost 2 legends.

There's a general dearth of younger guys in Toronto but it has gotten slightly better in the past 12 months. 

We don't know for sure what Scott's cause of death was.  However, the implication in the Men of Porn link is that it was suicide.
Here is the link and the quote. You can infer from it what you want:
https://www.menofporn.blog/2025/12/passed-away-last-week-scott-finn.html
"A Facebook post last week from a friend or relative of Scott Finn announced that he had passed away. It was followed by another post that read, “Behind suicidal thoughts is not a desire to die, but a desire to escape pain. That’s why our kindness and presence matter most.”
BTC
🤡

Scott was known for his scenes at Active Duty and Next Door Studios.
 

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RENT.MEN SmithSterling Gay Escort in Miami, Florida, available for Modeling,Erotic Massage,Bodywork. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men I was so excited until I saw he says he doesn't bottom for clients. Does anyone know why? He bottoms a lot in porn. What gives?

This. Picky providers don't seem to realize that supply and demand isn't on their side. When I get asked for a pic, there's usually at least 50 guys in a 20 mile radius currently available.
I don't know about RM, but SA estimated there's 8 wanna be male sugar babies for every 1 sugar daddy with money. Good providers understand those economics; new kids always seem to think they're the exception until they learn the hard way.

I occasionally have providers ask for a selfie. I use that vanishing feature on whatsapp where they only get to see the pic once. In my experience it's usually models who ask for client pics. They're likely more selective about who they see.

https://rentmen.eu/ChanningFlynn
Has an OnlyFans, including scenes with Grom Burja and Diego Sans, and has done a video for men.com with Scott Braun.
I can imagine his asking price.

How much did Will charge you? He quoted me £400 last week which I thought was ridiculous. He used to be £350 just last year.

Jusmeinbr, I agree about Dimitryy. I loved that he's an investor; he was also a gorgeous twink back in the day. I'm disappointed that so many of these guys don't invest. I'm trying to talk my 18-year-old regular into investing, and it's turning out to be fruitless. At least, he has the education thing down.

I've been complimented by many escorts for my rimming abilities. I consider myself an aficionado. It's something that repeat hires look forward to.

The sink in the bedroom is also a deal breaker for me in its own right.

The sink in the bedroom is also a deal breaker for me in its own right.