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I'd define a regular as someone you meet about once a month on average. For instance, if I consistently see a traveling provider every time they're in town, I'd consider them a regular. Likewise, if they consistently see me whenever I'm in their area, it works both ways.

It’s these goldies you live for! 

A regular is someone who knows me personally, who I know personally, knows exactly what I'm into, and someone with whom I have mutual respect.
It's someone that I can text, ask if they're available at x o'clock, and schedule with no fuss.
I'd say I hire a regular at least 4 times a year, while others I hire 10+ times a year. When you have several regulars, you can't see them every month, especially when they travel.

Let's see if I  can remember this one chat dialogue:
 
Me: Hi <escort name>, I saw your ad on RentMen. Call me <my name>. Are you available this evening for a 1 or 2 hour outcall?
Escort: Hi
Me: Are you working tonight?
Escort: Hey
Me: Never mind....

"Guts" is just another way to say intuition ,street smarts, and unconscious desire. Always go with your gut.
 

We do exist! 👋🏼 

If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.

Chicagoan here:  Chicago is and always has been in the top 5 (in my lifetime, at least).
It's not considered a second-tier city, even though it's been called 'The Second City' (to NYC).
 

Take the cue and move on 😂 

What should a client make of such a similar exchange—
C – Hi. I saw your ad on RM. I’d like to ask about booking for an overnight. What all does that entail with you and what is your rate?
P – Hi
I’ve had this happen, perhaps not with that exact opener but something akin to it. On more than one occasion. When it does, I move on. This isn’t going to be a promising exchange, by my estimate.
 

Alam Wernik. Who charged nowhere near that. Wish he’d get back on the game.

When I give them a house key, they’re regulars. 

Correct. I should have been clearer. It’s the unaccompanied “hi” or “hey”, then nothing. What’s even more strange is that if I do reply with “hello” often nothing then comes back. It’s as if they’re testing to see if your number is genuine. 

The reviews would most likely be on Mr Number. RM doesn't allow providers to review clients on their platform.

....and to think that two years ago he was 18!   LOL

Is he also someone who shows up on time? 😜

A regular is someone who knows me personally, who I know personally, knows exactly what I'm into, and someone with whom I have mutual respect.
It's someone that I can text, ask if they're available at x o'clock, and schedule with no fuss.
I'd say I hire a regular at least 4 times a year, while others I hire 10+ times a year. When you have several regulars, you can't see them every month, especially when they travel.

A regular is someone who knows me personally, who I know personally, knows exactly what I'm into, and someone with whom I have mutual respect.
It's someone that I can text, ask if they're available at x o'clock, and schedule with no fuss.
I'd say I hire a regular at least 4 times a year, while others I hire 10+ times a year. When you have several regulars, you can't see them every month, especially when they travel.

A regular is someone who knows me personally, who I know personally, knows exactly what I'm into, and someone with whom I have mutual respect.
It's someone that I can text, ask if they're available at x o'clock, and schedule with no fuss.
I'd say I hire a regular at least 4 times a year, while others I hire 10+ times a year. When you have several regulars, you can't see them every month, especially when they travel.

A regular is someone who knows me personally, who I know personally, knows exactly what I'm into, and someone with whom I have mutual respect.
It's someone that I can text, ask if they're available at x o'clock, and schedule with no fuss.
I'd say I hire a regular at least 4 times a year, while others I hire 10+ times a year. When you have several regulars, you can't see them every month, especially when they travel.

A regular is someone who knows me personally, who I know personally, knows exactly what I'm into, and someone with whom I have mutual respect.
It's someone that I can text, ask if they're available at x o'clock, and schedule with no fuss.
I'd say I hire a regular at least 4 times a year, while others I hire 10+ times a year. When you have several regulars, you can't see them every month, especially when they travel.

A regular is someone who knows me personally, who I know personally, knows exactly what I'm into, and someone with whom I have mutual respect.
It's someone that I can text, ask if they're available at x o'clock, and schedule with no fuss.
I'd say I hire a regular at least 4 times a year, while others I hire 10+ times a year. When you have several regulars, you can't see them every month, especially when they travel.

I am very direct in my first message, typically asking for the rate and are you available today.  A lot of these providers are free spirits, they literally don't know where they will be in two weeks.  Some of these people are here today, gone tomorrow.  If you are thinking of booking an appointment like you do your doctor, very few providers act that professionally, and you are better off going to Massage Envy.  I read reviews here to get the lowdown on their massage, I wouldn't want to play 20 questions with a potential client either when I know most people in general aren't serious about booking an appointment.

It's the only blessing of the US not being on the metric system - these scammers have no idea what they are doing when they put stats into fake profiles. The other day I was hit on by someone alleged to be 6'5", 135 lbs, with a 42-inch waist. Hot! 

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