DrownedBoy

My favorite rant: "I want a $10,000-a-night hooker!!!!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSwyMHvXsuU

This guy's 54 (older than me), and I'd let him have his way with me any day. EDIT: Not only is he hot, but from his interview, he's also a gentleman. https://rent.men/maturedmuscle

@pubic_assistance I didn't want to bring this up again, but based on past posts, you have no place in the gay community, and definitely no right to speak about it. Right now, your actions (if not substance) are pretty much the same as a closeted gay guy whose only contact with the community is when you commit adultery on your wife. I don't know of many gays who feel "owed" by young people...except by not being treated badly. I don't ask for any recognition, but I do ask not to be insulted by young gays simply for walking into a room while being old. And I don't know how you raised your kids, but as a financially-secure adult with elderly parents, I gladly perform my filial duties, whether it's visiting them, helping them out, or just being there for them. I'm capable of gratitude.

As my posts here indicate, I tend to have an aversion to the attitude held by many younger providers. I'm hiring them less and less, and only when I have a good expectation that they'll act more responsible. I could go into "grumpy old man" mode, and repeat everything about how younger providers tend to be entitled, arrogant, overpriced, and irresponsible, not to mention their inability to follow a schedule. However, as an openly gay man, the biggest attitude factor is that gay youth nowadays have a lot more privileges, acceptance, and opportunities than I and other older gays did at that age. So I see a lot of them as selfish ingrates who don't recognize how much work and pain older gay men had to go through to create the society they enjoy now. And selfish, uneducated ingratitude will make me lose a hard-on faster than anything.

As a client, I like hiring on long weekends, but that's me - and I'm not afraid to invite providers to my home.

Haha I remember the same with my first serious boyfriend. After he rimmed me, I didn't want to kiss him until he brushed his teeth

@Charlie tell him about the journal you keep. The one that fills 2 filing cabinets, I think...

I've never met a provider who asked my STD status. I'm hoping it's because, like me, they assume that all their partners have STDs (including HIV) and take the proper measures.

Ditto to that. In order: 1. Check his other RentMen reviews, and check the type of clients who give him 5 or 1 stars 2. Search CoM 3. Make a direct, to-the-point text and watch how he reacts and answers You should do a photo search, and I need to start doing them. It's just a pain, with the new RM site, that you have to take a partial screenshot, and aren't able to right-click-save the pics like on the old site. However, there's a provider I might have hired, but someone on CoM posted that his photos were stolen.

I get what you're coming from. It's funny, but "my relationship with money" is probably the only thing that keeps me from doing the same.

The funny thing is that I've never met a provider shorter than me. Even ones who called themselves "short" on their ads are taller (and thus able to dominate) me.

A lot of guys choose escorting because they don't want to do grunt work...

I always date in my own age group. I need someone who recognizes the same cultural references. I only buy boys to play around.

Ask them in person. If they forgot what you asked the next time you meet, then don't even try to get closer. That's him staying away.

Unfortunately, guys are more expensive than chocolate. You can really screw up your finances if you can't control yourself.

Now that's the type of bi I was thinking of 😄

For outcalls, I think the bottled water/mouthwash/clean towels/sheets are sufficient, at least for me. However, I'm one of those clean freaks who won't have anyone over to their home unless the place at least looks tidy.

Ditto. Also - a question for providers - is it common to list yourself as bi even if you're almost completely gay? I've met a lot of people (both in the real world and RM) who seem to do that. I'm guessing it signals more masculinity,

I guess some clients would prefer to keep their providers private and cheap, instead of letting other people realize how good they are. They might decide to raise their rates then. You're not dating the guy; you're paying him. The Deli would be a good place to talk about him.

Bumble Boogie - the modern version of that song.

I did the same with 2 different providers. Both had to get out after a few minutes....and so did I!

The perfect escort. Customizable, always available, and obedient.

An escort would have to be high to try to start a fight with a client, because they'll lose either way. EDIT Those who read my past posts know that the only escort who ever assaulted me was on roids.

Although a decent BFE is described above, it's so overused by escorts that there's no guarantee what will happen. Especially with the younger escorts who think they're too sexy for most people.

Has anyone ever tried to pay, or been paid with, Travelers' Checks? Those are as good as cash too.