LivingnLA

This is the best approach. It has the benefit of clearly stating your interest without being rude and puts the control of his appearance right where it belongs, in his hands. Unless you're planning to hire for a week or however long it would take him to regrow his beard because he likely has clients into hairy guys.

This is the best approach. It has the benefit of clearly stating your interest without being rude and puts the control of his appearance right where it belongs, in his hands. Unless you're planning to hire for a week or however long it would take him to regrow his beard because he likely has clients into hairy guys.

Not at all - be respectful but direct: I enjoyed your pics - are you currently clean shaven?

GILF
GILF or “Grandma I’d Like to Fuck” is a natural evolution from the previous term. That is if you’re into grayhaired and wrinkled chicks. GILF porn is quite prevalent and surprisingly popular, but it often involves some pretty hot pornstars by any standards. Anilos.com is an excellent place to start if you into ripe old babes.

Here is something else to learn.
 
It is possible that you mistook his rubbing against you for a semi-hard cock. It is difficult to be certain what is beneath a uniform or clothing.
 
If you say to him (as you suggested) "that feels good" or "yes, right there" - it is possible you are mistaking an innocent maneuver for something else entirely. You might find yourself in an embarrassing situation.
 
There are too many willing providers that make it clear they are available for more than a massage.

I talk to my doctor about Everything. He even knows I use providers. After someone sees your anal warts, there aren’t many secrets. And yes, he is gay. If you are not comfortable talking about your inner most secrets with your doctor, no matter how great you think he/she is, you need a new doctor.

Meanwhile, Cyndi Lauper has, let's see now, had the most successful blues album of the year (2010), composed a musical for which she won a Tony and became the first woman to do so on her own (2013), subsequently won a Grammy for the cast album (2014), and is noted for decades of activism and fundraising for LGBT causes. She also looks great, has raised a budding musician and been married to the same handsome man for 29 years.
 

 
 
 

 
And 67-year old Cyndi can still rock multi-colored hair and outrageous outfits.
 
Girl's still having fun!

I think you would just continue to take one pill each day you were active, and for the two days after last activity. The 2 day initial dose is to get your levels up from zero, after that it's maintenance.

I totally agree @Wolfer. I woke up this morning and read this…and thanks to @orville I’ve been transported back in time to the 19th Century and a romantic melodrama.
 
Why be so nervous and retiring @orville? Do you think your “straight RMT” will have a fit of the vapours if he glimpses your burgeoning interest in him?
 
I’m a massage addict and I’ve had hundreds over the years. Mostly male masseurs but I have always been naked…even when massaged in the open air at the beach.
 
I say Enjoy the flirting for what it is - simple fun.
Given that you strangely kept your pants on last time, just tell him I thought I’d get naked so you can really work on me; I hope that’s OK. He won’t object.
Don’t be crass but when he leans into you and touches you or he uses his hands in ways you like, tell him so: say That feels good or Oh, that’s so nice.
If you want more pressure in certain areas, just say so: I like that but you can go firmer/deeper if you like.
And if his cock brushes against you, just sigh with pleasure. If he positions his cock near your hand, just brush against it lightly.
Let him set the pace and the boundaries.
 
I’ve had straight masseurs do more than usual, even tho or because they know I’m gay. One just brushed my cock lightly and I twitched responsively so he stroked me more and brought me off. Another guy worked on my thighs and stroked my perineum before bringing me to climax without touching my cock. A cute Israeli guy asked me if I wanted him to ”relieve my tension” and he kindly used a warm washcloth to clean me up afterwards. The oddest guy commented that I have a pretty cock and asked me if he could suck me off; afterwards he reassured me he wasn’t gay but he”loved the taste of cum”!

Don't be too eager or pushy. As others have said, follow his lead. This is risky for him. Though, why did he do it? Are you famous? A local celeb or something? It's very unlikely, but could this be some kind of set up? You could overthink this all day. It's best to try and relax and go with the flow. You'll at least get some good massage out of it.
 
Ok, so did he do any anterior chest and neck work? All of those muscles are typically involved in shoulder and upper back issues. Don't make up anything. Just mention stuff that's happening in your body.

I think when dealing with someone who presents themselves as "straight", this is 100% the best piece of advice you will get. Match his vibe and see if he escalates it further, specially in this type of situation it's probably better to not be the initiator.

Leave underwear on and cover it with the draping before he comes back in. That is normal. Don't say anything about pants off or lower back pain or whatever. If he asks why no pants, just say they're too constricting. Mention he did a great job yesterday and it felt great and you're back. Don't mention anything sexual. He'll lead if he wants to do something, but don't insult him by being too obvious. My earlier suggestions upthread are all you should do.

I'm in agreement LivingnLA, let the masseur do the driving. Last thing you need is to be banned from a place because you took it too far. Since this place sounds legit I wouldn't be pushing anything. Even if he is pressing his semi hard cock on you....it could be a ploy for a better tip or it could be a cellphone in his pocket. If I were in your situation, I would be telling him how good he is at his technique and that his cellphone pressed up against me a couple times. He will either apologize or tell you it's not a cell phone....just his hard dick. Innocent enough to bring up in conversation, yet direct enough to get answer.

Since you mentioned he's an RMT, that's Canada, yes? The training and regulations there are the real deal. Don't over read anything about this session except for the physical contact. If he's legitimately an RMT, pressing his penis into you is not an accident, especially since he did it twice. But, as you suggest, that may be as far as he'll go. I've known plenty of attractive men and women over the years who flirt and use the temptation of their assets to make some money. Being in a separate room with a door is pretty typical in a spa or legitimate massage business, except for places with a chiro/PT focus, then you get the one big room with everyone together. Or in those Asian places with hanging dividers, but the vibe in such places is usually very clear.
 
As others have said, you need to relax and enjoy whatever you're experiencing. He needs to be driving. You say you came in for back trouble? Any good LMT/RMT will have done an assessment and identified the problem spots, which for lower back issues, are frequently related to pelvic muscles. Is he draping you with a sheet? If yes, then does he step out to give you time to undress? Then remove your pants and keep your underwear on for a session or two and see how it goes. Let him know when something feels good or he's found a trouble spot. It's not always clear to the MT. Again, be relaxed, respectful, and non-pushy, even the penile contact is enough to cause an investigation that may cost him his career. Don't be a creep about it.

He's wearing a suit? I didn't notice.

Don't be too creepy, of course. Subtle body language can help. Still on your stomach, slightly spread your legs several minutes into it. Quiet little murmurs from you could help. "That feels good". Let him lead.
 
Rebooking should definitely send a message. If nothing more happens tomorrow than happened today, he may not be ready for more. Be polite and respectful.

Enjoy! I'm glad you also took HIV seriously till an alternative was available and proven to be effective.
 
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Metaphorically speaking, it's me.

Hmmm... I’m curious. So is the op and James Hoode the same person or are they friends working together to promote an agenda... a book perhaps?
 
I mean James just out of blue made a belligerent post, with no one attacking him. I mean I get some people are questioning the ops posts for being belligerent, but why he suddenly went off is confusing.
 
Furthermore, in the forum posts about what are you reading through the pandemic, Mr. Hoode promotes the op’s book, that no one heard off until another poster mentioned the same picture was being used on the book cover as is used by the op for his avatar.
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/what-are-you-reading-during-your-staying-at-home.156979/post-1951294
 
A mystery is afoot Watson. Lol!!! ?

@muscmtl Your pic was stolen.
https://www.amazon.com/Typhoid-Mary-McBeefy-Steve-Beeferman-ebook/dp/B072YYM951

Yeah, that's me... but I refuse to say which

My avatar is the formal portrait that was made when I was raised to the rank of earl.

I'm not about to enter into a conversation about whether the image I use is of me, or whether other users chose to use their own image. There is no forum requirement for folk to use an image of themselves, or their own name, or to disclose whether they do so. The fact that some other forum members may already know the answer to that question about me is immaterial.

You seem to make the assumption that people using pics in their avatar are actually them just because you decided to use your real pic. Just because you do it, don’t think others will. There is also people on the web who claim they are the people in the picture and are not. There is no way to verify unless you meet them. This has been a particular issue discussed multiple times on the forum about hiring providers.
 
Some use pics or illustrations because they just like the pic and it may or may not be representational of themselves. I’m assuming a lot of people won’t use face pics of themselves because they want to maintain anonymity... either out of fear of being discovered by friends, family, or a colleague. Others just because they just don’t want to. I do realize some forum members use their actual body parts (other than their face) and a lot of the escorts, who use this forum as more than a way to express themselves, show their faces or at least their bodies.
 
Besides this forum, I’m not on social media. There aren’t many pics of me online that I know of. As much as I like posting here, if I were to put my pic out on the web purposely, the forum would be the last place I’d post it.

Ok, for some reason I can't let this thread rest. If you were looking for something specific, and it was a multiple hour appointment and it became clear toward the beginning that what earlier you had made clear you wanted wasn't going to happen, you probably shouldn't have to continue for the whole appointment. It's one thing to make the best out of one hour. But 3 hours is a lot of money.
 
"I'm very sorry you're not feeling well down there today. I was really looking forward to going to town down there all day (night), ha ha. Let's do this, let's keep having fun for an hour, I'll absolutely pay for that hour, and let's reschedule, very soon, for when you are feeling better. $600 is a lot to me, and I'd rather invest it in a time when we are both at 100%" If you say this, if you smile when you say this, and he's an asshole about it, then the provider is an asshole in general.