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Breaking it down like this takes every ounce of fun out of a meeting. If this is how someone thinks about meeting with an escort, perhaps they should reevaluate.
 
If minute-to-minute is of importance, discuss it privately with your guy. There is no hard and fast rule on any of this.

At my age it's about 5 mins, give or take....

I find "Do you have any limits?" a bit of a red flag versus a much more appropriate "What are your limits?" --
 
Main issue is that safety doesn't appear to be a priority and harm would be likely to occur.
 
There's a bit of a dismissal of the provider as human - because I guarantee that just about every person has limits and theoretical client is just not recognizing that aspect of the provider's humanity.
 
(Not saying that *consensual* objectification/dehumanization can't be a fun avenue to explore... But only after a trust dynamic has been established)
 
 
For me personally, this would also indicate that the client hasn't read my site as I go into great detail about my interests/limits on there

He's delicious in both, but I prefer his Sean Cody look!

Yeah....I'm top....and I tend to avoid escorts to advertise as "versatile/tops".
 
It's a bad label because it's confusing. It means everything from I'm exclusively a
hardcore top but I like to appeal to a wide variety so I lie.....to I'm a full fledged
bottom but I like to appeal to a wide variety so I lie. And EVERYTHING in between.
 
For the record....many versatile/tops....and plain old top tops....LOVE to get
FUCKED when the door is closed and no one's looking. I just don't have a lot of time
to try and figure that all out. I also don't want to waste my precious time "hoping" that
I MIGHT get to fuck him.
 
On the other hand...versatile/bottoms....tend to be REALLY fun. Because they often
LOVE to bottom....but don't get hired in that role as much as they might like.
I'm happy to help them out!
 
On the rare occasion I do inquire about the services of a "versatile/top"...I make
it clear..."I'm a top...who LIKES to FUCK...are you cool with that?" If they start
rambling on about versatile, top, bottom, mood, phases of the moon...etc. I just
make it clear that it's a "yes/no" question and I expect a "yes/no" answer.
 
Hope that helps.

There are some tops out there, who, when the moon is right and the angle is tempting, have room for dick in the ass. Clearly, it depends on the angle of the dangle and the shape of the moon. There are also some who will just go with the flow

There are clients who believe that a serious escort, a real professional, will be able to find some way to connect with anyone. It's a noble idea, and hooray for the guys who can rise to it, but let's be real: I think some of those "no chemistry" encounters occur because some escorts have limitations that they don't admit to. Personally, I'd rather know.
 
That's also why I think it's a good idea for a client to provide an honest physical description if one is requested (maybe even if it's not). If there's something in the description that's going to lead to I'm-just-not-that-into-you erectile dysfunction, better to know before time and money are wasted. There will be some other escort who won't have an issue with a fellow who is chubby, or twelve-toed, or 75, and he's the better option for that guy.
 
What I don't agree with is the notion that escorting might be "the only occupation that does not get to decide which clients are a good match for them." Believe me, very few people get through a career in any profession dealing only with the clients they want to deal with ... there's a reason why they call it work.

I would for Abe or Stu from Seancody.

He's delicious in both, but I prefer his Sean Cody look!

He's delicious in both, but I prefer his Sean Cody look!

I would for Abe or Stu from Seancody.

Kellan Lutz. Hugh Jackman. Chris Evans.

Because a higher price does not always equal a stellar experience no matter "hot" the guy looks.

arpad miklos---2010; but I we almost met in 2004 too; our meeting started with discussion about how much he liked to travel; since I studied Hungarian, I tried to practice a little; then amazing kissing; a little oral, then I bottomed. It was beautiful and afterwards I said "I saw the face of God." That maid him smile. By the way, Arpad Miklos is two first Hungarian names.
 
Eric Flowers--2010 in Prague. I always through he was one of the most beautiful men in the world in his prime. Too many steroids took its toll. Not great kissing. He liked to be rimmed. Then I bottomed. It was nothing special. He was not too into it. Very gentle though and decent conversation. He's very smart and sarcastic and witty.
 
Leo Giamani 2016 A wonderful and kind gentleman. We talked about so many topics but did not have sex. I was mourning the loss of my cousin so was not in the mood. I got the sense that he was not excited to be doing this again after many years.
 
Paolo Ramatti three times in 2012. He is much thicker than than when he was younger. I always thought he was the most gorgeous thing in the world. He lightly kisses. He is a funny sarcastic guy. He has a girlfriend. I just liked lying in bed and having him hug me. He does top well.
 
 
Derek Atlas 2016 very open about his journey in life; totally sweet disposition; spent 1 hour in bad sucking, rimming, intercourse, kissing, very passionate and raw, then had drinks in the bar.
 
Jonathan Collins. 2012. A frigid night in Budapest. He wore a soft and thick cream sweater. The kind that made it so nice to hug him. Great kissing. He bottomed. Nice and gently guy. Wish I could remember more
 
Janos Volt and Ben Mason. 2009 Not a great twosome. Ben is my fantasy guy! But he was distant and would not do much. Janos was fun though.
 
Trenton Ducati 2013. I can't get over his speech pattern. Turns me off. But I think he is super sexy in videos. Wouldn't kiss. I sucked him off. He topped me, but when he saw a drop of my blood he stopped a freaked out. That was it. Disappointing. Bad conversation. Like he can couldn't wait to be over.
 
Rafael Alencar. A least a dozen times. What can I say. A masterpiece. Having him inside is one of my most pleasurable experiences. It's as huge as it looks in videos. And he knows how to use it. Such a sweet and fascinating and generous guy. I miss him.
 
Miguel Leonn 2004. I wish!!! We emailed a few times but never connected. My absolute #1.
 
Michael Lucas 2009. When he advertised briefly on gayromeo. We never met but sent a few messages back and forth. I asked him why he escorted and he replied "I like money"
 
Angel Cruz 2013 or 2014. Before he was famous. He said "in 3 months, there are going to be many films with me." A little full of himself. But sexy as hell as you can guess great top. I like his Catalan accent.
 
Alex Martinez 2015. Still looks great. Nice sweet kisses. He wears a cock ring but great top. Really enjoys topping. A kind soul.
 
Guys I would pay anything to spend 1 hour with: Vilen Cage, Johan Paulik, Andrew Stark, Connor from CF, Stu from SC, Marcelo Mastro, Niko (ciprian calin), Jordan Rivers, Brandon Manilow, Andre Boleyn, Cain from CF...
 
Ok. That's enough for now. I just wanted to document this so when my brain gets too demented from poppers I can refer to this and smile.
 
Over and out.

I never hire anyone unless I hear their voice first. There was one guy whose pictures I used to drool over. Finally, I called him. Once I heard his voice, I knew there was no way that I would be into him.

I'm sorry, but I respectfully disagree. You are minimizing the horror of rape for this woman. I'd ask you to reread what you wrote and think about it from the perspective of a rape victim. Try to be in her shoes. Waking up in the hospital. With bruises, cuts, blood, and soreness that you have zero memory of anything that could've caused all of it. There is zero comparison between a medical pelvic exam which you are conscious of consenting to and waking up with bruised sore genitals with dirt and other particles shoved inside and no memory of how it happened. The level of disassociation and psychological trauma are very real and significant for such victims.
 
To make matters worse, she had to relive that trauma regularly all throughout the trial plus additional traumas caused by a puerile media looking to sensationalize her experience and a savvy defense attorney trying to discredit and destroy her. And that doesn't even touch on her likely own self-hatred, guilt, and whatever her boyfriend and family went through and did to her.
 
With extensive and expensive counseling, she should recover, but she will always have this as a part of her. This is something many men--especially white men--frequently do not comprehend about women in our patriarchal sexist society. Most women go through life with a deeply embedded and constant "hum" of fear about men. Think of how the phrase "boys will be boys" was used in the past to excuse aggression in boys? Think of all the stories about "boys only want one thing" that we tell our girls over and over. Yes, there's some truth, but the underlying message our girls receive as they grow up in America is that men are dangerous and that you never know when one of them will go from catcalls, or comments on your "rack" to physically or sexually assaulting you. Sadly, given the statistics and news stories it happens quite regularly and is rarely reported because of this! Our society minimizes or even dismisses the victim's pain and suffering and barely punishes the rapist.
 
Until our society truly tackles the reality of how common rape is in America--and boys and men are raped too--we will never have a just society and we will never have true sexual equality.

The young woman, Emily Doe, whose name has been changed to protect her privacy, delivered at Turner's sentencing what Santa Clara County District Attorney Jeff Rosen called "the most eloquent, powerful and compelling piece of victim advocacy that I've seen in my 20 years as a prosecutor."
This is a must-read: http://paloaltoonline.com/news/2016/06/03/stanford-sex-assault-victim-you-took-away-my-worth

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