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Update #1
 
I spent a very nice early evening at Banos Finnisterre an old fashioned bathhouse 1 mile from my hotel, Sheraton Maria Isabel. 140 pesos to enter and I had a great massage for another 150 (the masseurs are only wearing towels and look like sumo wrestlers, therapeutic/sensual only and out in the open in the big shower area). I highly recommend the massages even with the older guys. At the baths, Most guys in the thirties but a quite a few younger and very few 50s. One guy probably in 70s.
Look it up online with details but extremely cruisy. Thin towel or naked, I was naked. Quite a bit of oral action and jo in the big well lit steam rooms (three) and fucking in the small dark one.
Also have private cabins available but this is NOT like the regular gay sauna. Very well lit and very social. I loved it.

Of course you can.
The number of traveling members who participate and share their experiences abroad is significantly higher in boytoy than here.
 
I cannot explain why, but the fact is that both forum communities have evolved towards a specialization. No one can compete against this website on information about escorts and masseurs in the USA and Canada. No one can compete against boytoy on information about escorts and masseurs South of the Rio Grande and in East Europe.
I hope I answered your question.

I’m heading back to CDMX in a couple weeks. Can’t wait

They were in total 3 investments, total of 140$. I found a 3rd one for FULL service, a hot Colombian guy in town for a few days offering his services.
The second masseur (the one in his 40s,), invited me for a coffee a few days later, and we went back to my room for some FOC fun....
I love Mexico!

Update # 2.
 
I am now in Monterrey for work, 3rd largest city in the north of Mexico.
Many hot guys on Grindr and Scruff, definitely in general better looking here than in Mexico City.
I found so far (in between some nice free encounters..) 2 masseurs.
 
I paid 40$ for each of the two massages. The first (hot guy, muscular, in his early 30s, super hung) was just a rub, quite mediocre, but 15 minutes into massage all of the sudden it became a hot sex session, and I had to accept his insisting request to top me
 
The second was another hot muscular guy in his 40s who came to my hotel, gave me an amazing naked massage on a table, and we ended up having lots of mutual oral enjoyable fun.
So far, I like Monterrey!

Thanks, all. I am in Mexico City now and this has not been a problem. I have to go down and escort my visitors up, but they have not had to provide ID or sign in or anything like that.
 
Ichabod

Whiteness is at the top of the totem pole in American beauty standards: doll experiments with kids 3-5 prove American culture conditions us from childhood to find whites more attractive and desirable than nonwhites. This byproduct of American racism is well known from long ago.
 
That means few black escorts will ever reap the financial success of white escorts of equal attractiveness from escorting alone. A 10/10 white escort may be flown worldwide in private jets often and kept in unbelievable New York & Hollywood Hills apartments and the like. Unless he's also a top porn star, a 10/10 black escort won't ever live like that in this country.
 
Unfair, yes. I was shocked when I found out how well your average white escort does compared to nonwhites. But at this point, my reaction is *shrug.* We are working to build a more inclusive, integrated society where nonwhites won't be devalued. In the meantime, black guys have to be twice as good and work twice as hard to get a fraction of the recognition that a thoroughly average white guy gets. With the possible exception of professional sports, it's true across American culture. In gay culture that means black escorts, black fashion models, black go-go dancers, etc are going to have a tougher time.
 
Until the better future we are fighting for is here, no use in me whining about it.
 
We are at a cultural inflection point on this issue. The success of Black Panther has proven false the industry's standard go-to excuse: "There just isn't a MARKET for blacks, so my representation has to be 99.99% white....I can't have more than one black guy on my model agency's roster because of the MARKET...I *have* to relegate black guys to fetished separate but equal ghetto porn beause the MARKET won't accept black guys as a boy next door type" etc. It's never been about the market. There's a market for anything with enough industry support. It's always been about segregation, who gets support and resources, and who is denied support and resources.
 
There will be a better market for black escorts once American society is more integrated and less insane about race. But we are still three or four decades from the day when a truly hot black guy gets as much attention as a certain horsefaced white twink already can around these parts.
 
And don't even get me started on what Asian boys deal with, good grief.

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/support-this-site.132486/page-2#post-1499709
 
Miami, why don't you just drop it and start sending Guy $50 or $100 a month, okay? Why don't you support this website instead of bitching at me about escorts you don't like or bitching about ideas of how to resist FOSTA?
 
If your goal is to dredge up the past, I asked you to drop it. There is an individual escort who became a menace to this website, lots of clients, lots of escorts, my friends, and me. Lots of people were kind to him and tried to help him, and he fucked with all of us. So if that makes me a kind-hearted moron, fine. There are many fine people on this website, starting with the Guy who runs it, who were kind to the asshole, and got lies and attacks in return.
 
Is your point that your distrust of him turned out to be right? Do you want an award because you disliked him from the start, and didn't want to give him a chance? I'll give you an award if that's what you want. You were real adept at dishing it out to him.
 

 
If your goal is to question my support of Jeffrey and Rentboy, fuck you. Let me repeat, fuck you. Let me repeat, fuck you. You are a traitor.
 
I'm proud of the fact that when the federal government tried to shut Rentboy down, I was one of the people who fought back. My organizing support and my GoFundMe account for his legal defense counted for about shit. But at least some people stood up for our community, and for a website that was used every day by lots and lots and lots of people I know.
 
https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/rentboy-com-bust-im-an-escort-not-a-terrorist-so-get-out-of-my-pants/#gs.=M97dYo
 
More important, the New York Times editorialized against the Rentboy shutdown. National LGBTQ organizations characterized it as a needless attack on the Gay community. Even the judge who sentenced Jeffrey said she was troubled having to send him to jail. She realized his website provided a service lots of people like you wanted, even though it ran afoul of a dated prostitution law.
 
You didn't lift a finger to defend him. You just bitched.
 
I offer no apology for what I did. Why don't you apologize for being a whiny little bitch who likes to use this website to piss and moan, but won't help defend when we are under attack? I don't recall you contributing to Rentboy's legal defense. Now, two years later, you want to dredge up one of the many lies the asshole who I won't name made up about escorts. He said lots of shit about me that was untrue, like I was being foreclosed on. His lies about my efforts to help Jeffrey were specifically intended to hurt me and one of my escort friends. He even managed to drag Rentmen into it. That was really stupid, because it then gave me a way to discredit him to Rentmen, directly. Which I did. So I'm 1000 % proud of my actions in this matter.
 
Now we have a much bigger threat, in the name of FOSTA. The fact that DHS took down Rentboy and got away with it - even though there was some pushback from the Gay community - was a mixed bag. If they paid attention, they might have concluded that they don't want to get up the ass of members of the LGBTQ community who feel vulnerable. In their floor speeches, Senators Schumer and Blumenthal specifically said that FOSTA wasn't meant to go after vulnerable LGBTQ communities, or websites that help "commercial sex workers" sort out how to protect themselves and others from violence and harm. So presumably you could take that as assurance that their efforts to go after sex traffickers of women and children is not targeted at Gay people like us. I was at a really fun party of escorts and people who hire them last weekend. And while I may have had one too many margaritas, I just didn't notice any sex traffickers lurking in the bushes.
 
Now you are asking, again, for a reasonable explanation of my GoFundMe account to support Jeffrey? Are you saying that looks "questionable?" Or are you saying my donations to this website look "questionable?"
 
Here's my point, asshole. Why don't you just stop being a whiny little bitch and make a monthly donation to this website, okay? Why don't you provide a reasonable explanation of how you want to come here to bitch and moan, but you won't lift a finger or donate a penny to actually defend this community?
 
If you want my two cents, every Gay escort in America should be talking about organizing locally, just like our female colleagues are actually doing - right now.
 
https://survivorsagainstsesta.org/june-2-iwd/
 
We should be figuring out how to resist a stupid law that will probably do more harm than good in the long run. It is definitely not a law that is appreciated by the kind Gay men that I know make up this community.
 
I realize what we are up against. We lost a vote on the Senate floor 98 to 2. Although Wyden had a separate amendment that got support from dozens of Senators that was a better way to actually fight sex trafficking - by giving DOJ $20 million a year to fight sex traffickers and support sex trafficking victims with things like housing and visas. It's going to take years to sort this mess out. But count me in as one of the ones who will fight it.
 
Now back to the point of this thread, before you launched a personal attack on me. If you don't like the proposal one escort put forward to raise rates, that's fine. I think it is one way some escorts can resist. It's not the way I will resist. I hope there are going to be 1000 paths of resistance. And I hope everyone will join one of them.
 
So how are you going to resist FOSTA, Miami? Or are you just going to whine and bitch and moan?
 
Because I'll defend your freedom of speech and your right to come to this website and be a negative, whiny little bitch.
 
But why don't you instead do some good and go to your bank account's bill pay section right now and send this website a monthly donation? Then you can provide a reasonable explanation of how we as a community need to come together, stop bitching, and focus on how to resist a threat to our survival.
 
 

It is never too late!!!

Has anyone met him recently?

I saw him last summer; his massage studio is in an office building; the massage was a good and sensuous one; did not have problems with communications.

Hand raised!
 
Escort or client, if you aren’t comfortable with who you’re dealing with - move on!
 
P.S. to this overall thread, I’ve sent my pic, age, stats etc. too many times to count to providers with zero consequences over the years

I can be attracted to any age, race, gender, or body type. All it takes is honesty. It's hard to know if someone is being honest if they aren't willing to share their stats and to talk on the phone with me before meeting. Discretion is important to me, but so is feeling safe and establishing a sense of trust. I don't judge clients who are unwilling to share information with me because I know they have their reasons not to, and because I know there are escorts who don't need that information that will better service their needs. To me, no one is just a client with money--and I don't want to be just action for the exchange of money. My sex work is also my sex life.

The fact that I just now read he is 50 yrs old makes him 10 times hotter if those pics are real, and I believe they are! FUUUUCK!!

First it was the professionals appalled at a Trump USA. Now I am seeing a new wave of immigrants to Canada - escorts. And I'm okay with that.

The tongue is a wicked beast! ;-)))

Never will forget, I hired a really good looking guy for it overnight. The next morning when we woke up he said his ass was almost chapped

I had yesterday another amazing meeting with Isaac Powers. I am still smelling him in my mustache. Both of us enjoyed the experience, a lot. He kissed me with love and passion. He rode me rolling his eyes in ecstasy and had an intense orgasm because he wanted to.
I am 55, he is 24.

It is not a requirement, rather a preference but 45+ is really the type of clientele I enjoy interacting with. I will tell you in person as to why

All that has already been said definitely. Also a great client is someone who shows me their investment in our relationship by being friendly and affirming - a simple 'I'm so happy you are here' at the beginning of a session will really set us in the right direction. By being dependable as a regular and letting me know when I can expect to see them again, or letting me know if our regular schedule has changed whats up. By offering me a glass of water or a shower - which shows that they are considering me and my needs. Also clients who don't take increasing intimacy as an opportunity to undercut or barter with me, realizing that while we like each other more and more my bank account still needs the same amount of money in it.

Everybody who is willing to spend time with me in exchange of some form of gratification is a "good client".
As far as personal preferences concerned, for me this is rather simple: CC = Connection & Chemistry. Those 2 defines whether the client is someone I would gladly see again or not.

It always surprises me when someone refuses to show their private pics upon polite request. I only request when I’m looking to hire and I make that clear in my request. If they say no, I move on. There are plenty of good guys out there that are willing to be friendly to potential customers. The rest aren’t worth worrying about.
 
It’s a really strange business decision to make the shopping process difficult for potential customers.

Eric, I have long ago unlocked your private pics. So very very nie. I just looked in your RM profile and it is in there.

You misunderstand me. I WAS originally considering hiring - that's why I asked for the access - but wouldn't do so after I was refused access to the photos. Both men lost a potential customer. I don't ask for access to get my rocks off - there is way too much free porn around to bother. When I am intrigued by a guy's public photos, and I am/will be in the same vicinity, I request an unlock. It's not like I am asking for a free test drive. Gee.
 
I gotta say that I am surprised at the disdain with which potential clients are often treated with regard to requests for additional info/views - the expectation that the purchase will be made sight unseen. What amazes me is how many clients put up with that crap.

(Sorry -I just wanted to read that again)