Rimming - Top, Bottom, or Versatile?

[Guest JON1265]

I find that MOST escorts will NOT rim a client but have no qualms about it getting done to them.

 

An escort who claims he is TOP only does not necessarily mean he won't get his ass licked - in most cases I beleive.

 

No reason to be graphic about it - just throw it back on the escort. Ask him what his "boundaries" are - if he is reputable he will be blunt in his likes and dislikes.

 

Funny, the older I get the less I like rimming - not sure why. I never enjoyed getting rimmmed, but used to love to eat a nice ass - now I can't be bothered.

[Guest NakedTony]

You may think this is a stupid question but I've never known how to categorize rimming. If an escort indicates they are a "top" does that mean their ass is completely "off limits" or does that just mean they don't get fucked?

 

I realize not everyone likes to perform rimming on a partner. But would most escorts object to having the client perform it on them?

 

I often don't want to get too graphical when first setting up an appointment with a new escort over the phone or by e-mail. I realize there is a good reason for paranoia and escorts to fear being entrapped. But, I really don't want to hire an escort without knowing if I can rim them.

 

So, how should I handle this?

[Rick Munroe]

How could I ignore a rimming thread? ;-) I never rim but live to get it done to me. I think most tops enjoy (or at least are open to) being rimmed. A top rimming a bottom is theoretically getting it ready to fuck, but when it's the other way around, it takes on a very hot subservient aspect...it's another way of servicing.

 

You're right about not wanting to get specific on the phone. The safest thing to do is just to wait until you meet...unfortunately, I don't think there's really a way for you to find out in advance without getting graphic!

[Guest chaz49wm]

But Ricky baby your ass is to die for and rimm for MMMM HUGS

[Guest Joey Ciccone]

Speaking as a bottom (for the most part - at least with my men customers - which is about all of them), anyone can rim me any time, anywhere. They don't even have to be a client. Many have asked via email if I rim or can they rim me. I've said yes and of course. That kind of question usually comes after the first or second email. Once we've established some kind of repoire. Probably shouldn't mention specifics on the phone right off the bat. That kind of indescretion usually makes me nervous.

 

- jc -

[Rick Munroe]

>Once we've established some

>kind of repoire.

 

Is that French for "rapport"?

[Guest Joey Ciccone]

By golly, you might be right. Either French or Esperanto.

[Guest Les]

How did you change your original uncouth answer?

This place is getting curiouser and curiouser!!!!! x(

[Will]

Don't give up so quickly, Joey. It seems to me that "rapoire" should enter the escort/client vocabulary immediately. It is the perfect hybrid of "rapport" and "repertoire," which is exactly what the initial swaps of e-mails seek to achieve. I'd say your creative imagination was running ahead of either the French or English dictionary.

[Will]

But "rapport" is also French, for "rapport."

[Guest Joey Ciccone]

>I'd say your creative imagination was running ahead of either the French or English dictionary.<

 

Thanks Will. My brain does sometimes get ahead of reality. Still, maybe I should send "repoire" off to the folks at the OED. After all, some 10,000 word definitions printed in that dictionary were submitted by a madman (a schizophrenic killer named Minor, as I'm sure you know). And I couldn't agree more about establishing some kind of understanding (repoire) through e-swaps.

 

Joey Ciccone - coining terms and rimming since 1985

[Guest Joey Ciccone]

All I know is, I'm not Rappport. (I guess that joke belongs in the Older Clients thread).

 

Seriously Will, a quick correction. I'll be submitting "rapoire", and not "repoire" to the OED editors. We can share the credit.

[Guest Joey Ciccone]

I meant Rappaport.

 

I'd better log off...

[CT Dick]

>I meant Rappaport.

 

 

No, you're not!

 

Dick

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

How far can we stretch the meaning of one word until it has no meaning left.

 

top/bottom/versatile -- for kissing, for oral, for intercourse... now for rimming. TWELVE possible combinations describing one's proclivites.

 

English (and all other languages) will be so much simpler when one word means everything.

 

Never was any good at reading tea leaves either. For now, I think I'll just ask in each case.

 

 

 

:+

[Guest NakedTony]

Hey guys,

 

Thanks for the response and comments. I won't be as shy about asking a "top" about rimming him. Glad to know that even most "tops" appreciate a good ass licking.

 

Joey, I haven't yet had the chance to be a client but does your comment mean I can have a free try at your ass?? }>

[Guest Joey Ciccone]

RE: Rimming - Top, Bottom, or self promoting?

 

Well Naked, I'm glad you asked. I just happen to be running a special this month:

 

Twenty free minutes of tongue-play with every two hour purchase.

 

Get it while it's hot!

 

rentjoey@hotmail.com

[Guest topsfstud]

I mostly top (95%), but still enjoy getting rimmed.:9

[Bastian]

>top/bottom/versatile -- for kissing, for oral, for

>intercourse... now for rimming. TWELVE possible

>combinations describing one's proclivites.

 

Hey guys, gather round and watch TY's head implode:

 

http://www.hankycode.com

 

I figure the brain lock will release sometime around August 3rd, 2005. Sorry to all Tampa's regulars...

 

>English (and all other languages) will be so much simpler

>when one word means everything.

 

Actually some linguistic experts regard the development of language much like evolution theory; If it doesn't progress it will stagnate and die. Ain't that a Smurf?

 

Bastian

[phraughy]

I hate rimming. Giving or receiving. I think it is one of the most vile sexual activities humans do. The idea of it seriously disturbs me.

[nsguy45]

I hate rimming. Giving or receiving. I think it is one of the most vile sexual activities humans do. The idea of it seriously disturbs me.

On the contrary, I think it is one of the most intimate sexual activities humans do. To have a hot guy moaning and groaning in ecstasy while I'm eating his ass gives me enormous pleasure, especially when my efforts result in his experiencing an intense orgasm.

[LADoug1]

I hate rimming. Giving or receiving. I think it is one of the most vile sexual activities humans do. The idea of it seriously disturbs me.

 

Care to elaborate why?

[phraughy]

Care to elaborate why?

I am germ phobic. No matter how clean I get my ass I just cant get past it. Kissing is very important to me and tops always seem to want to kiss me after rimming me. As for me rimming someone else, ass will never be clean enough for me. I really don't like ass. One of the reasons I wont fuck a guy. I know I am the odd one out on this but rimming just isn't for me.

[phraughy]

On the contrary, I think it is one of the most intimate sexual activities humans do. To have a hot guy moaning and groaning in ecstasy while I'm eating his ass gives me enormous pleasure, especially when my efforts result in his experiencing an intense orgasm.

I am happy for you that it gives you such pleasure to please a guy that way. I certainly have never felt that way by being rimmed. Perhaps I have had bad ass eaters. It bewilders me that you can make a guy cum by eating his ass. You have a magic tongue?

[nsguy45]

I am happy for you that it gives you such pleasure to please a guy that way. I certainly have never felt that way by being rimmed. Perhaps I have had bad ass eaters. It bewilders me that you can make a guy cum by eating his ass. You have a magic tongue?

So I've been told.