Rimming - Top, Bottom, or Versatile?

[escortrod]

Holy thread revival.

[TruthBTold]

As a few, some, or all of you know I live for it. It seems to me that most tops that I have been with can be coerced into a nice rimming. I think that occurs because I tend to spend a lot of time in foreplay and I can kind of just work it into a pan-sexual organ foreplay. As I said, however, because I tend to like to feel the other guy is being extremely pleased I have never concentrated in getting myself rimmed so I don't know if I would enjoy it. But I do know I like to finger, etc. myself so I would imagine a tongue doing the same thing would be something I could learn to like if the other guy were into it. I am sure there is some psychological disorder there. I also assume that a guy who does not want to be rimmed would find a way to let me know the fact (tho I might stare at him wide-eyed for a moment or two). I hate to say this tho, like every else, it is a skill and some people 1) spend too little time actually doing it during a session for whatever reason and 2) simply doin't know how to do it. I do not intend that as a criticism but like any skill it can be improved. I often find little techniques in porn.

[KeepItReal]

I am germ phobic. No matter how clean I get my ass I just cant get past it. Kissing is very important to me and tops always seem to want to kiss me after rimming me. As for me rimming someone else, ass will never be clean enough for me. I really don't like ass. One of the reasons I wont fuck a guy. I know I am the odd one out on this but rimming just isn't for me.

Have you considered asking them to use a dental dam? They come in all flavors these days and are very useful for good hygiene...

[MikeyGMin]

It seems to me that most tops that I have been with can be coerced into a nice rimming.

I have found the same thing. If you take the time to assure them you're not trying to loosen them up so that you can flip them, many pure tops will relax and totally get into it.

[phraughy]

Have you considered asking them to use a dental dam? They come in all flavors these days and are very useful for good hygiene...

 

Never crossed my mind. Thanks for the suggestion.

[liubit]

I have never concentrated in getting myself rimmed so I don't know if I would enjoy it. But I do know I like to finger, etc. myself so I would imagine a tongue doing the same thing would be something I could learn to like if the other guy were into it.

From an avid, voracious rimmer to another: believe me, you would enjoy it, yes, it can be heaven. I must admit, however, that I get even more pleasure from rimming than from getting rimmed.

[jjkrkwood]

I am another of those that gets more pleasure from giving than receiving. Having a tongue in MY ass makes me very self conscious, and prevents me from being in the moment. But when MY tongue is up a hot ass, and lapping on that rosebud, its pure Heaven...... Some sound effects from the receiver (mouth, NOT ass) puts me over the edge.....

[TruthBTold]

I am another of those that gets more pleasure from giving than receiving. Having a tongue in MY ass makes me very self conscious, and prevents me from being in the moment. But when MY tongue is up a hot ass, and lapping on that rosebud, its pure Heaven...... Some sound effects from the receiver (mouth, NOT ass) puts me over the edge.....

 

I am with you on that. That is a complaint I have. Guys in general don't make enough noise during fucking. Not the fake, loud shit you see in porn but something to let you know that you know that they are enjoying it so you continue what you are doing.

[LADoug1]

I am another of those that gets more pleasure from giving than receiving. Having a tongue in MY ass makes me very self conscious, and prevents me from being in the moment. But when MY tongue is up a hot ass, and lapping on that rosebud, its pure Heaven...... Some sound effects from the receiver (mouth, NOT ass) puts me over the edge.....

 

Love verbal sex.

[Arbimuscle]

Hey guys,

 

Thanks for the response and comments. I won't be as shy about asking a "top" about rimming him. Glad to know that even most "tops" appreciate a good ass licking.

 

Joey, I haven't yet had the chance to be a client but does your comment mean I can have a free try at your ass?? }>

Never will forget, I hired a really good looking guy for it overnight. The next morning when we woke up he said his ass was almost chapped

[TruthBTold]

Never will forget, I hired a really good looking guy for it overnight. The next morning when we woke up he said his ass was almost chapped

 

Tell him that you will apply some lotion to help that out and a finger may stray while it is being applied. Accidents happen.

[+ Avalon]

Rimming is a part of the ABCs of gay sex - Ass, Balls, Cock.

[Rudynate]

I think it's sublime. I go into a zone when I have my face in a guy's ass. I like to get rimmed too, but I get bored easily unless the guy is really good at it. I hired a guy recently who was superb at rimming.

[big-n-tall]

Rimming is a part of the ABCs of gay sex - Ass, Balls, Cock.

 

Don't forget to add the mouth. Without which a lot a pleasure could not be had.

[+ Avalon]

Don't forget to add the mouth. Without which a lot a pleasure could not be had.

 

The tongue is a wicked beast! ;-)))