Rod Hagen

Love that movie

Kristian Elix, absolutely.

If they are window shopping, I'll definitely leave them alone. if they ask for private photos, I'll tell them the photos should now be unlocked and also I'll flirt briefly and provide email and text information.

This really is a generational thing :-) 20 years ago the West Hollywood Athletic Club went bankrupt and closed, the gym had no female members. It was wonderful for many reasons. I can remember in my Gay infancy in the late 90s large complaints about how women were infiltrating gay bars, specifically The Gay '90s in Minneapolis, but presumably elsewhere, with their friends to fawn over the hot male strippers. Someone very close to me who is in his 80s now looks back at his gay life and the gay events and organizations he belonged to and has ruled that, generally, women move in and ruin things. So, it's both a different history and, in the case of people like my friend, a different attitude based, reasonably or not, on individual, non-millenial and non-zillenial, therefore ancient, experiences.

Did you ever play in the hotel behind Laguna's Boom Boom room? That was KINDA like a bathhouse, at least "action" wise. :-)

Thought you all might like this, Kristian retired briefly in 2011 and this is what Oklihomo had to say :-) Kristian retired! From the Deli-- 23. But I have talked to him and he has retired. Really.??Kristian has been part of this whole deal since before I started. Back in his Houston days with Athan....?? Feels like a loss. He was a magnificent escort. Perfect body, perfect face, perfect teeth and a magic ass... and a one of a kind dick that was relentless. Hung and then some.??Truly versatile.... remember back in the Hooboy days, when he had that 3 way review with Brick Tavern of the massive cock... and Kristian hired Brick himself the next day because he couldn't get enough of it. Yep. He was certainly a fan of the big dick....??And so sweet and funny. Shyly charming. Unassuming... also recall a conversation where we are all talking about doing a double penetration (which he had done before with Justice and David, effortlessly.... no easy feat, that.. "What are you guys waiting for) .... and Kristian said, "Oh, I can do that..." and then he preceded to tell us, "Yeah, I can take two dicks and put my own in there, too." We were speechless, in awe of that magic ass... and then I said, "Buddy, we were just talking about two" And he was like, "Oh, yeah, that would be three, wouldn't it" Classic.??See, boys, however, fucked up it may seem, that's why I film it. Because I will always have Kristian. In his prime, in that sexy cowboy hat, doing what he loved best on many Sunday nights in OKC and at what, he was the best at. Giving it, getting it, being one of the most totally sexual men that I have ever met... totally into it, all the time. Seriously, I have seen the man cum three times in less than a hour... just watching. Amazing.??But the real deal with Kristian... is that he never lost his basic decency. He has a real life, a real goal. I think that the only time you really get lost is when you have no place to come home to. (Feel free to stitch that on a pillow) Kristian has always had that and good for him. He was smart enough to never have believed his own press and knew from the beginning what was important to him and what to protect... but then again, he HAD something to protect... a genuine kindness, a real ability to love, an honesty.??Wish him the best.??Okie

Chubby? WTF? :-)

A few weeks ago I saw Scott Adler in the neighborhood eating lunch alone at a restaurant I often eat alone at. I wasn't alone, so I did not say hi.

Very connected I have a long term gay partner, that's reason 1. I have sex with lots of nice guys, reason two. I meet lots of gay guys. I have long time relationships with lots of gay guys. I have, and have always had, a build that gets me attention, yes that's a shallow connection, but a connection. I love gay literature, Gay Films, Gay Plays, Gay music of the 30s 70s 80s and 90s, and gays in athletics, particularly my athletics (Mountain Biking, Snowboarding, Climbing), I enjoy large gay gatherings such as the Gay Games and Gay Aspen. I love sex parties. I've always been very interested in possible proximal and ultimate "causes" of homosexuality. As much as I love music, I've never liked dancing and that's something I've always felt is missing. I don't feel particularly connected to young gays and the current gay culture, but that doesn't make me feel at all disconnected, just more connected to the past and my present.

Quite a chest...bastard :-)

When I trained, they taught us how to massage the stomach. Once we'd learned, the other students would always try to skip it, and I'd never let them. Most Spas do not allow the practitioners to "do" stomach massage, which is ridiculous. Stomach massage is wonderful, and important. I never understand why private masseurs prefer to skip it.

Glennn was a client of mine, very nice guy; wonderful man.

Starbucks Sumatra, definitely

Perfect, thank you :-)

Like therapists, It's always up to providers to control the time. Your specialty, fisting, can NOT be rushed, and if you are going to feel slighted if not compensated when it does run long, you really need to make it clear at the beginning how time consuming fisting can be, and that while "I don't want you to feel rushed, I do keep a busy schedule (insert something about ha ha it's not ALL clients I'm not THAT much of a whore ha ha) and so it's really important that", well the rest is up to you. Yes, it's important that clients feel comfortable with you. Additionally, however, it's important that you not feel resentful or you will not enjoy escorting as much as we all want you to. So, create a compassionate, firm, playful script and stick to it.

Thanks Paul! :-)

You're right about that. I taught skiing in Europe, and they paid us shit, and nobody tipped.

Anybody remember Taveller? He was a wealthy, youngish, Lawyer. LOVED big dicked Tops. Overdosed, I believe. Fun poster. How about, before Fin Fang Foom, TruthTeller, the prick; anyone remember him? Mean as he was he was often funny. And even before TruthTeller there was Skeptic. Hey what was the name of the guy who worked for law enforcement down in San Diego? WoodLawn was impossible, just impossible. Totally inflexible.

Yes, that was him. Thank you

The days of great snow in December ended 15 years ago. Go in January or February. Gay ski week in Aspen is fantastic, I've been many times. And I'm not someone one who enjoys gay events generally. You need to think long and hard before going to Breckenridge. All mountains are high, of course, that's what makes them mountains. But Breck is at that point where almost anyone visiting will struggle against the altitude. I've been to Breck 20 times. I always suffered altitude sickness to some degree. One year it was so bad I drove to Denver and flew back to LA several days early. Then I discovered Diamox, which I think I've written about here. The skiing at Breck is fantastic. Anyway, Telluride is also very high, but it is so very very beautiful (again, Diamox.) Vail is wonderful. I spent many fun filled days there in the late 70s and early 80s. One of the first things you mentioned was the Koosh stuff, which is fine. If that's what you are looking for, hit Vail or Aspen or Telluride. If you want kick ass skiing, hit the Summit (Breck and A-Basin) or Purgatory or Crested Butte (crusty butt). Have fun!

Daily, I brew blended Starbucks Sumatra (2 scoops) with Urth Manhattan Mudd (4 scoops). Best damn cup(s) of coffee I've had in 44 years (yes coffee started for me at 4, I'm a Scandinavian farm boy) of drinking it. Unfortunately (possibly), I have to have both ground at the store and can't use a Burr at home, much as I'd like to. More important to me than PERFECTLY ground coffee is very very very very very good coffee that is brewing automatically the moment I wake. And, unfortunately, every automated coffee maker I've purchased that uses a burr grinder becomes clogged immediately because my favorite beans are quite oily. Yes, in the last 15 years it's become quite trendy to be mindful and stepwise when "creating" the perfect morning coffee. And if that brings you greater enjoyment and makes you mentally and emotionally centered, wunderbar. That process doesn't bring me pleasure. Smelling my favorite blend of coffee brewing as I walk to the kitchen first thing that brings me pleasure. So, daily I don't have the best coffee, because I don't grind it myself. But I have my favorite coffee my favorite way.

Who was the poster living in Minneapolis who died? He posted here that he'd struggled with his illness (cancer??) but that the fight was over and he said goodbye to us, then someone posted later he died. He was nice, I just don't remember his handle. Being from Minnesota, originally, myself, he and I talked privately as well. He seemed to handle his impeding demise really well.

If someone's only going to be with you for an hour or two, taking it slowly might not be the best use of their time :-)

I love Mexico, Central America, latin parts of the Caribbean, South America, well, I guess, I love Latin America. I've always wanted to visit Mexico City, but have not because whenever I check the Air Quality online, it's too low for me and my asthma, and this from someone who lives in LA! I was fine in Chiang Rai, I was not fine in Bangkok. I was fine in Hanoi, I definitely was not fine in Saigon. (Sadly, this condition has kept me from China as much as I wanted to visit there). How do you manage the AQ in CDMX? Some people say, visit in Winter. Then I look online, and the AQ sucks in the winter. But visiting places with bad AQ in the hot summer sucks too. What to do?

Add to this to that, most of us live in such ludicrously expensive cities. Oh well. Life isn't fun if it isn't a challenge.