Rod Hagen

Friends tell me that their SA providers reach out to them, frequently, both in a friend way and also in a "I need a laptop/iphone PLEASE" way. Yes, of course, you have to protect yourself. ADDITIONALLY, simply keep in mind that someone can be your friend and also rely on you financially. The two aren't exclusive. Just as you can be someone's friend and rely on them for affection.

I can't quite tell on the map, if Morocco is orange, you nevertheless need to go. Also, whatever color Jordan is, you definitely need to see Petra.

Thanks boys!

Quite close to LAX. Enjoy! https://www.bullandbutterfly.com/

Years ago a man feigned ignorance at the end of our time together even though, on the phone, everything had been laid out, so to speak, clearly. This has happened so rarely that I basically shrugged. He forgot his phone. I took a deep dive online, and boy does his life suck. Comes from a rich Bakersfield (where he had driven to LA from and was driving back to after he left) but is the fucked up kid, lots of stupid failed businesses of the kind wealthy fathers setup for the kid recently out of rehab, and getting his act together. Yes, he'd been in rehab many times. From what I found online his life was imploding around the time we met. I felt really bad for him. On top of that, he didn't have his phone. So I messaged him on Facebook and said, basically, 1. you are a piece of shit for cheating me BUT you probably already know that and 2. you probably realized you forgot your phone and are now too uncomfortable to come get it. I can leave it at the top of my stairs in an envelope if you want to drive back to WeHo, no problem. He never responded and after a few weeks I dropped off his android at weho electronic waste. Hope he got his life together. Meth sucks. Poor little rich kid, literally. p.s. To be clear, I looked him up online (it took a "deep dive" because his name is common) after the fact, not to stalk or pester him, I wasn't especially bothered by what he'd done, but to find a way to message him to tell him he forgot his phone (that's how nice I am :-) ) All the crap I found out, was right there on FB.

Does Kyle Vong still work? Lotsa folks said he was/is very nice.

I'm HIV negative and fully vaccinated, and I've indicated both on my both RentMen and RentMasseur. However, I'm not sure the HIV question is fair. I would definitely encourage clients to ask providers individually about their status if they would like to know. But I feel for those who are positive, aren't comfortable being dismissed out of hand by posting it for the world to see, then either lying or leaving it blank which brings its own problems. Huh. Have to think about this one. My instinct is that "what is your HIV status" is a fair, private, question (even though, yes, people can and do lie), but this feels almost like a strong-arm tactic. And yet, hyporcritically, I don't feel this way about the COVID status question. If they are going to ask about HIV, they definitely should have "Yes and undetectable", with a link to what UNDETECTABLE is, as an option.

Well, if this thread works as I hope it does, maybe this Wednesday morning when we finish with Brogan, you could return to this thread and write about your memories of Jason Markus and if you are verbose SOMEONE might reward you, and all of us, link to his old/archived reviews :-)

I'm really glad he was able to make $300/hour work for him. Back then there were very few escorts confident enough to charge that. From what I hear now it's much more common (I'm a bargain!) Generally, for an escort, Retiring well-off is only possible if they find someone wealthy to bed down with or marry, or if they inherit money (There are always exceptions, Kevin Slater I'm sure is saving wisely). For 5 years of escorting, Imagine Brogan made say $10k/month , which is a stretch. If he spent nothing, he'd have $600k to retire on. Not enough given how young he was :-) Wonderful man, I hope he's living well AND happily with someone somewhere.

If you want some super vivid dreams, find a melatonin supplement that works for you. I like RemFresh 2mg. https://www.remfresh.com/products/remfresh-2mg-advanced-sleep-formulation Lots of people report that their dreams are much more intense, it's likely only because the resulting sleep is deeper and more consistent.

Definitely ask. Yes they could lie, but he could also tell you he isn't vax'd and then you'll know. Also, I'm all in favor of creating a culture of pressure on ppl to be vaccinated and healthy generally.

I linked to his old reviews above. Just click the word "brogan" in my original post above. Wait, here you go, just click this. That's why I mentioned the internet archive being your friend :-) https://web.archive.org/web/20050824173913/http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/broganla.html Anyway, glad you had fun with him . I think everyone who met Brogan enjoyed meeting him. One of the special past escorts who to my memory had no naysayers nor controversy. Just beautiful and fun and professional.

Was your review Brogan the DGMilano review?

Thought it might be interesting to start a thread, I won't maintain it, with a weekly, similar to "Friday Funnies" thread, discussion of an escort of the past, loved or hated or both. It's important to link to the person, not just talk about them in the abstract, so learn to use the internet archive, it's easy. It is NOT A GOOD idea to get into specifics about what that individual is doing now, if they are retired, because it's indiscreet and can jeopardize their current careers and circumstances. I'll start. Brogan. Los Angeles. I only met him once, not for work, briefly with a friend who had hired him many times. At that time his hair was very short. He was beautiful. My understanding was that for some time before that he also had long hair, which looked fantastic on him as well. We exchanged emails several times about this and that. A very good friend of mine hired Brogan many times, mostly when I was out of town, but sometimes not. Brogan was passionate and sweet. I knew others who hired him. Everyone who did loved him. We were never hired together. I do not know why he left, if he moved away or moved in with someone. But he was both a star, meaning much discussed, but also a shining example of how escorts should be. Additionally, bonus, beautiful What are your memories of Brogan?

Really interesting exchange, thank you for posting it. On topic, before he started escorting, Brogan tried to hire me, but our schedules didn't fit. I don't think he was looking for pointers :-)

I just finished and enjoyed BT's Filthy Animals, and can't wait to read his other books.

10+ years ago I saw a gay movie and a, at the time currently working and popular, LA escort was in it. On IMDB he had maybe seven movie credits. We knew each other, but I didn't know that. Not long afterward I saw him at the gay Starbucks CLEARLY in a showbiz meeting w/3 other people, and from the look on his face, I knew that we did not know each other :-) That reminds me of a quote from Guy Davenport, I can 't find it exactly, but here it goes, "When I see my cat outside the house, he doesn't know me. And it is clear from his expression, that I should not know him."

Older guys don't come much, trust me I know (for some reason I never came much, even when young). If you had fun and his coming is important to you, then he came.

Oh fuck him, seriously.

Sex (adapted) and intimacy post prostate cancer surgery can be fulfilling and fun, don't give up. Nobody's last words were, "thank god I didn't use my AmEx like I used to."

It's unfair that hiring in Nursing Homes isn't an option. Even if it weren't explicitly forbidden, the staff would scold the client, treat him differently. And, let's be honest, even in the best of nursing homes your freedoms are significantly curtailed, particularly if you're living with disabilities and/or mobility issues. In the world I imagine, a world that won't happen in my lifetime, escort brochures would be in every live-in Occupational and Physical Therapy facility, every facility for those living with cognitive issues who can make their own decisions about living and legal matters, and Assisted Care facilities of all kinds. Regardless of age or physical or cognitive (moderate) impairment, If you're alive, your physical needs are otherwise met, then occasionally you're horny. Assuming sex is an option, I could stand to live in an otherwise-well managed assisted care facility. Until that happens, I will continue to read Jane Brody weekly and, sooner rather than later, adapt my apartment to make it Age-in-Place ready.

Ha, even the names Gen-X and young Baby Boomers gave to Bands (Dead Kennedys, Madonna, Screaming Blue Messiahs, Circle Jerk, Joy Division (WWII concentration Camp brothels)) wouldn't fly today

I had no idea. Absolutely makes sense both in her looks and her attitude which, while 200% woke, is more acerbic than, say, either daughter from Modern Family.

I chastise myself whenever I laugh at Lasso. I guess it's like a Disney TV show, just let go :-)

I replaced my 6S with another 6S. I'm happy. :-)