Rod Hagen

OR if you've done the massage thing, consider stepping up to Escorting! https://www.companyofmen.org/forum/82-the-deli/

I don't believe in an afterlife. You might. Regardless, even though she's gone, talk to Mom every day. Give yourself time to grieve, but soon tell her you're gay, say it as if she were right in front of you. Additionally, don't frame these conversations with caveats of, "I wish", such as "I wish I'd told you this before" "I wish we had more time". Those things are true, but you already know them. So, talk like she's right there. You will not be lonely. There are gay rock climbing groups, gay reading groups, gay larping groups, gay muslim groups. Reach out. Gay is a community, so sooner rather than later, make yourself at home.

SO SO SO fucked up. And really well-made.

That's a good thing for escorts to remember: If a client seems defensive or resistant to intimacy, it could simply be manifestations of anxiety.

Not at all.

Dude, that's fucked up. That song's AMAZING Any. Time. Of. year.

Wait I can't make assumptions about people I haven't met, movies I haven't seen, books I haven't read, and places I haven't visited? When the fuck did that happen?

I loved this actress in Halt and Catch Fire, but I hated HATED the first episode of Station 11 so much that I can't stick with it. The story telling sucked, and that actor is entirely non-engaging. Oh well.

I loved his movies Tangerine and Florida Project. Look forward to seeing this.

Is that the book that the remarkable movie Downfall was based on? Presume so. Great great movie. As a skier I LOVE this mistranslation of a scene:

I've told this story before, but YEARS ago I was to see a client at the Hotel Bel Air, I only knew his first name and his room number. Having been there many times beforehand, I should have known better. The front desk refused to call him without his last name, the front desk wanted to know at least why I was there, and I couldn't call him because I had no cell service in Bel Air. We worked it out eventually, basically because I refused to leave, find better cell reception, call him to get his last name, then come back.

I love them, and also Aman's are funny to try to visit if you're not staying there. Aman Tokyo, they held my luggage while I had a WONDERFUL lunch there. I told Amangiri that I'd be passing by and would I be able to make a lunch reservation? "Call us the morning of" in other words, we want to assess the level of privacy/celebrity in-house, that day. Aman Turks and Caicos is nearly impossible to get to if you're not staying there. By the time I arrived for lunch, I had to turn around without going in because I did NOT want to be on that road at night in a rental car. Amangani is great for dinner if you're not staying there, or of course if you are.

Dogs more, but cats can be great.

"It's raining like a cow pissing on a flat rock" "Hotter than a Three Peckered Billy Goat" "Colder than a coalminer's ass in the Klondike". (I think it's originally, well-digger's ass, and for some reason rural Minnesota shifted it).

I used to attend occasional sex parties in LA before the Covid arrived, and the clothing check is for those people who want to walk around the party naked (or in underwear). "Secure", maybe, but leave the credit cards at home and bring little cash. When I was young in the '90s, the sex parties I attended enforced mandatory nudity. That's more to my liking.

Far from costing me my sanity, I've been close with plenty of clients I could easily imagine spending the rest of my life with were I not already taken. I don't know if that's quite what you're asking?

I've booked months in advance. However, if you're dealing with younger guys, they are more apt to want something nowish. If you do book something in advance, be sure to send a short message(s) now and then saying how excited you are for that date, and specify the date and time each time you do.

Very sorry that guy said that to/about you Kareem. What a fuckTwit. Before my gym shutdown I always walked from my locker to the shower and then to the swimsuit spinner and then back to my locker, nude. And I prefer the men that stay nude as long as they can. This is one of our rare opportunities to be naked together, gay or straight, let's take advantage of it. On the message center people have before commented that younger people don't grow up being "forced" to shower after gym class, and so they are naturally more modest in the gym. I suppose, since they are modest, older men now also cover themselves out of an unconscious mirroring behavior, or simply peer pressure. 20-some years ago I used to see Jerry Stiller walking around the locker room, always sans-towel, at the 13th-street NY Health and Racquet Club. Good for him.

Jamie's a 100% right. 15 years ago, you would have sent an email with all those questions, and the majority of "good" escorts would have answered each one. Today, with text and messenger, anything more than something very simple, won't get a response. Additionally, very often, if you're not asking for right now or at least that day, you won't get much, if any, response. It's the way communication goes now. So, go with Jamie's suggestion.

Definitely.

p.s. some schooled and skilled masseurs, and affectionate escorts, have NOT raised their prices.

Well....not ALL the amenities :-)

The Tragedy of Macbeth

I missed the second one with JH, THANK YOU!

I know someone who lives to kiss, would that work? 🙂