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I just got super annoyed when someone slipped in a gay men are predators trope over a discussion of what does the term "chicken hawk" mean? Chicken hawk was always synonymous with Twink lover, as I understood it when I was still a twink. Geffen doesn't even seem to be a chicken hawk. If the model pictured is typical of his "type", not sure what Geffen's camp term would be but he falls under the Abercrombie CEO / Bruce Weber model / "twunk" type.

Continuing the technical hair splitting seems self-defeating. He's an older guy who prefers college age+ but regardless still ADULT men. No different than any other older man chasing college+ adult women. Both may end up exploiting each other depending on the power dynamic, but it's between consenting adults. Pushback against the narrative that older gay men are preying on underage. It's a trope that has come back around. Unless someone knows Geffen has crossed that line, it's self-defeating to our overall group to continue to split hairs for purposes of this thread.

Well, this post took a turn. Here I giggled with glee at the "My business associate Benji and I... " comparison. Folks remember avoid the personal attacks on each other.

Looks like Kevin missed this... yes there is such a thing. Unsure what all the catches are. One you can't double dip over the contribution limits between solo Roth 401k and a solo 401k. Etc

Tobin Bell from the SAW movie franchise https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jigsaw_(Saw_character)

I think he was around 29. 😕 IIRC, He also had a stint dancing at the Shoe early on. It was after my regular weekly outings tho. Very sad. Never met, but id see him on grindr cause he was local to my area. Seemed like a nice guy.

Sadly, Southwest is still my go-to. My closest airport is one of their major hubs. I got disillusioned with United after they devalued their miles and stratified their loyalty program. Meanwhile, Southwest feels honest about the process. Everyone is equally worthless. You want to cash in miles, corresponds to real time pricing. You want to fly standby or change plans no change fees. No bag fees. Yes it's the Greyhound/Megabus of the sky. Let's face it though most of the big airlines are the same experience if you don't have ongoing spend/status. If you want to upgrade to Economy Premium Plus Super, it'll cost you but you will still be on the same plane as everyone else. About the only thing I'll say... I'd pay to have an empty seat next to me on most longer flights on Southwest, but that's the same for any other airline unless you are flying business or first(if there still a first class cabin)

Here tonight for the customer appreciation party. Good mix of customers. Busy for Tuesday night prolly due to Holidays and $3/drink special. Good mix of dancers from what I tell so far. The shoe goes in phases. I'm hopeful it's in one of the upswing. I liken it a bit to a gay Cheers with gogo boys. In amusement, I've invited multiple friends out who then caught other friends who vowed they were staying in. LOL.

I am planning another round next year. I'm viewing I bonds as my eventual last resort emergency funds. I never thought I'd be back in US savings bonds, but here we are. I'll stagger the amounts throughout the year so if/when the fixed interest rates inch higher, I'll step the older bonds into newer rates in the future. Borrowing from The Grand Budapest Hotel... I-Bonds will be my "Whiskey and whores" funds into my 60s with any luck.

Eh the shuttle busses weren't an option for my building during that time. Union Station to IBM now AMA building at 330 N Wabash just on the edge of reasonable walk in your 20s everyday. The water taxi in the summer was a nice option though. Moving into the city was seriously considered during that time period. Ended up subleasing a couple places to make my commute reasonable during busier work/school times.

@Cooper @RadioRob tried updating the Lucky Horseshoe post and it shows a status of archived and closed to new comments.

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Also, it's not eradicated either. The African doctor who first raised this as having a sexual component in transmission will confirm. It never went away in Africa. It's hard to say if it never got a firm foothold in Northern climates before the most active summer flesh on flesh events started to become more infrequent vs how much was due to vaccinations. End of the day, it can still hop a ride on plane from an outbreak site to Europe and/or US center next summer. I dont know if we seen the last of it. Hopefully there's enough vaccinated in the highest risk base to make sure it won't cluster up again anytime soon. Either way, I don't regret my decision to get the vaccine even late.

Followed by a mile long walk to your downtown building where you have to cross the river wind tunnel TWICE! Coworkers would wonder why I'd spend the money for a monthly parking pass.

I personally want to leave Chicagoland in February. February is THE WORST. I had hoped this winter would be the year to spend it in Key West. Sadly, those prices have climbed super high. Who knows maybe FTL, Gulf Shores, Galveston...

Any hints on best ways to stretch the heating bill while minimizing the lack of comfort encouraged. I have likewise heard using a humidifier will help make the indoors feel warmer.

This may change, but I'm viewing I bonds as my new inflation hedge/place to park emergency funds for the next couple years. Eventually plan to build up a sizeable war chest for rainy day - oh crap, then rotate some of the 0% fixed bonds into higher fixed rates as the penalties age out. That plan may change in a few years, but for now, it's better than a CD and I'm viewing these as the last resort funds. As long as you can tolerate locking it away for the first 12 months, it's not a bad option for nearline funds. As for taxable income, if I have to cash them, tax should be the least of my concerns in the near term.

You may have not noticed the increase in Natural Gas prices. They doubled just after the heating season wound down. My typical $70 November bill has increased to $160!!! Definitely plan on keeping an eye on the thermostat this winter and using spot heat for the home office rather than the whole house. Layer up and put on the electric blanket. Ouch in Chicago! **** No politics!!! ****

I suspect Balance Transfer offers are going to get even more expensive. Gone are the 2% transfer fee days. 5% typical fee now. I suspect a nominal interest rate to return for shorter months too. I'd evaluate the balance transfer fee as part of the offer. I've had pretty good discipline on parking a balance on a transfer offer, and then making regular payments to pay it off by the end of the promotional period. While also NEVER using that card for anything else since comingling balance transfer and new purchases is a recipe for $$$ in unclear interest rate structures. I'm finding I need to teach similar rules to my sister for financial literacy.

Opening a thread on folks best practices around handling credit cards. I'm re-evaluating my annual rewards card landscape. I was loyal to United for years then switched to Southwest for their reward program fairness. Now I'm considering would it better to go the route of a single high priced annual fee like an AMEX Platinum versus carrying multiple travel cards - CapitalOne, Airline, Hotel cards.

Agreed! Bumping my now resolved issue off the main page

Issey also makes a sport and night version of it. I loved international travel for the duty free shops having such a wide selection of colognes to test out and buy.

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This is Medicare fraud I can get behind... literally!

I tried to carefully caveat it. Specifically as long as you are able to take the time and have the capacity to be your own advocate. You can put in the work to make Medicare Advantage deliver as promised. My experience came from managing complex medical condition with skilled nursing care involved that didn't always coordinate well with private insurance. It yielded surprise bills and fights for not getting preauthorized when it was scheduled outside of my control. When I compared the even playing field of Medicare and all providers knowing what would get paid for versus what's private pay with certainty, it took a significant administrative burden off me. Kaiser as I understand it has the Western US pretty universally covered. In the Chicagoland market, there was variability at play with long standing traditional Medicare providers not being in the Advantage networks. Plus dementia care meant on boarding new providers held risk for knocking the dementia demons loose. All that adds up for me to be sour on continuing the private insurer "benefit" versus universal coverage under a single national plan as traditional Medicare is. Again, it's my experience for my situation. I found private insurance via Medicare Advantage to be way too much hassles versus everyone takes Medicare. The cost savings didnt make sense for me. Why change to save money I'll end up burning through that money spending time fighting and paying bills. My situation had a lot more provider services week to week so administration was key.