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He’s been a bit of a busy beaver lately from the recent reviews on RM. I enjoyed my time spent. He’s gotten beefier than the earlier days dancing at Shoe I remembered him from. We used google translate for communication since his English is roughly the same as my Spanish. It worked out well enough. If you are looking for a vers very toned to muscley circuit dancer fantasy, he’ll check those boxes nicely.

I didn’t ask myself. I asked him. He replied that’s something he reserves in-person for his private life. The pictures may imply that, but he’s never failed to deliver on what we explicitly agreed upon. Just saying in my experience, it’s far from one of the worst massages I’ve experienced and it’s in line with Chgo rates. Again, he’s not charging higher closer to Deli rates. My experience/opinion varies from yours. I met him during just before COVID years and appreciated his precautions during it.

It’s been my experience that Orlando communicates his limits upfront. Also his rates are in line with therapeutic so fully clothed and lack of extras on his part shouldn’t be a surprise. Also, he’s only active on RentMasseur these days. Communication is a two-way street. I have found Orlando to be clear in communicating boundaries. He’s paid extra attention to areas I highlighted like tense shoulders, sore hamstrings, etc. Avoided sensitive areas where I had surgeries in the past. Also on the plus’s he also does have a heated table. I’ve seen him on a semi regular basis every couple months or so. When I want some medium to heavy pressure, he’s been dependable and we get along fine. Parking has never been an issue. Never flaked on me, always responsive within a few hours max. My first session - I wasn’t 100% on the chemistry or vibe. He’s very much though what’s communicated is what’s expected and mid-session nuance isn’t an opportunity for reinterpretation. He’s not a bargain basement rub and tug, nor charging anywhere close to Deli rates either. Yeah, I’ll admit I’d like to see him in jocks or MT, but providers have rights to boundaries as well. For what he charges, the experience is in line with expectations. To each their own. You didn’t have a great experience. I won’t be able to change that. Orlando operates in black and white terms. Sounds like the chemistry wasn’t flowing on both parties.

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I also adopted a technique on how to handle being indecisive on keeping something. If you can’t clearly decide if you need it or can toss it? Throw that into a bankers box and mark the date. If you haven’t touched the Bankers Box in a year from now, off the shredder. I also use a local shredding company. I’ll get in a decluttering kick and box up all the old crap. Then I’ll find out when the shredding company has a shop day when they take appts and they shred everything at their facility. You pull up, empty the boxes, if it fills the bin more than halfway, then it’s $45. Otherwise $30. Likewise towns around me will host shred days where they accept one or two boxes for free with a shredding service. It saves me half a day feeding a shredder which I won’t end up doing. It’s quick, and very final. You don’t look at every paper over again and question if you need it. Once the box is loaded in the car, it’s as good as done.

Actually I was thinking I could repurpose the pull up bar in my home gym setup for one side of the connection points. Exercise equipment indeed!

That’s what the basement will eventually be for.

I’m finally getting around to putting together a proper guest bedroom. It’s got an attached bathroom with a shower. It’s definitely overkill at this point. What sort of things would be nice for guests? - usb charger block with extra AC outlets on the nightstand - small computer desk/chair with a generic dock for laptops. I might just put an external monitor and speakers, but I will NOT put in a printer. I know better than that.

Your services are the Lord’s work in some ways. Most therapists are definite clock watchers. Sometimes people just need to be heard in addition to the ancillaries.

My god man, that hit deep and VERY close to home. You want to pool resources and hire a string a house boys until we find a trustworthy one that will take care of us into old age? We’ll make him the Grand Budapest promise, “all of this will be yours, minus whatever we have spent on Whiskey and Whores”

I found https://onlyfans.com/windwhole I liked his insta, but his onlyfans turned into an extended tease game for additional videos with escalating tip chart. Yeah, sorry bub, been down that road. Old stripper trick to keep them tipping and never having to fully commit. Plus recycling a bunch of videos available further back in the feed. Whomp whomp.

Subscribed, yo drop those tips cause otherwise I’m kicking you out of the stream. but then he is gay baiting on two of paid video options. Simulated gay sex. Dude wants to get credit for taking cock without a little pain in the ass. Wha wha wha. Fool me once, fool me twice, yeah unsub. sad, cause if he had gone through with, I’d have stuck around longer.

Curious if anyone had interactions with Skyler Ray? Twink in Chicago. He only does outcalls. Quoted $500 an hour/ $3k for an overnight. Seems steep, but he’s right to charge what the market will bear. SkylerRay - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Chicago, IL | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Chicago, IL - SkylerRay: Charming, Intelligent, and Easygoing

You talking about that lil’ bitty ant country place? I hear they draw a nice quiet crowd.

It’s a bit morbid, but I was thankful for the document hoarding when I took over affairs for my mom and then another friend during an illness. It gave me a starting point. If you get rid of most older records, keep an emergency oh shit folder to give someone a starting point to track down your assets.

Cash will always have a place. It’s the only truly discrete transaction. Also, carrying an emergency $100 came in clutch while in Shanghai at a work dinner. The exceptionally good local restaurant only took cash and China payments. No western credit cards. We had no local currency and no China pay methods. It was becoming a big deal between my executive, our APAC guide, and the restaurant management. Lots of tension. I remembered my emergency Franklin and old friend Ben applied some quick international diplomacy. My exec later commented how smooth I resolved the issue, and why do you carry an emergency hundred? I replied, “Even good men have vices. It’s best to be prepared. “ gave him a wink. And he cracked up laughing.

For sure, it wouldn’t be a rando. Also, I’d be curious to see how their keep their own place before contracting to clean mine.

Thanks I’ll bump over to that thread. Serves me right for not being more accurate with my searching

Bumping this thread. Interested in any recent experience for Chicago. I can imagine how the conversation would go? Interested in a 4 hour block of time. I need someone to vacuum, do laundry, general cleanup, and then get a little dirty. - Is that your fetish? No, I just don’t want to hire ugly maids.

Given the cost of maid services, I’m half tempted to hire out naked maid services and get a two-fer. Curious to see if anyone has either hired a naked housekeeping service or been hired as one? I can work from home, and it’d be easy on the eyes to have someone clean the house then stick around for fun afterwards. Obviously, it wouldn’t be for all. Just curious if anyone else ran across this. Understood, it might not be as cost efficient as splitting tasks. Seems though it’d be a way to get some consistent business and fill in some hours during slower times.

Any one know if any OF stars use a chat bot to answer/post messages direct to fans? I get the free subscriber then hammer on PPV tipping thru messages. One guy though seems very chat bot-ish. New to the platform so unsure if that’s something standard or if it’s an actual person on the other end. After all, I find it hard to believe OF content creators are genuinely interacting with all new subscribers. Seems like there’s better ways to use their time.

It’s like wearing a helmet while riding a motorcycle. I’m not wearing a helmet - I don’t want to live through a crash. - you want to wear a helmet IN CASE you do live through one. Least if you still had reasonable brain function, you would have some choices in the matter. like sleep apnea, the best case scenario is passing in your sleep. The more likely scenario is a decade+ of shitty quality of life before additional health issues start piling on. Then one day, a stroke or heart attack disables the person. I’d rather avoid/delay that future if I can do reasonable actions to prevent it. My experience though is different than others I realize.

In other news, Grindr IS too much work. So much more efficient contracting out with a provider. Time is money - goes both ways.

Sad trumboner happens when you start taking Testosterone. Your balls will shrink. It’s a trade-off. Libido comes back full force, but yeah, the bigger balls that used to fill out the sack, start to play hide and seek more. Hoping I can put on some muscle mass at least

I think my provider probably just couldn’t read me. I sent a single follow up text a month or so later to schedule another session, and everything proceeded as if nothing happened. I’ve seen him fairly regularly. Agreed though with everyone else said. You may never know what caused the block. If it happened before any meet up - especially so. You will just have to look inward a little bit, but let it go - it’s probably the other side if you didn’t have any of the red flags listed above.