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Your services are the Lord’s work in some ways. Most therapists are definite clock watchers. Sometimes people just need to be heard in addition to the ancillaries.

My god man, that hit deep and VERY close to home. You want to pool resources and hire a string a house boys until we find a trustworthy one that will take care of us into old age? We’ll make him the Grand Budapest promise, “all of this will be yours, minus whatever we have spent on Whiskey and Whores”

I found https://onlyfans.com/windwhole I liked his insta, but his onlyfans turned into an extended tease game for additional videos with escalating tip chart. Yeah, sorry bub, been down that road. Old stripper trick to keep them tipping and never having to fully commit. Plus recycling a bunch of videos available further back in the feed. Whomp whomp.

Subscribed, yo drop those tips cause otherwise I’m kicking you out of the stream. but then he is gay baiting on two of paid video options. Simulated gay sex. Dude wants to get credit for taking cock without a little pain in the ass. Wha wha wha. Fool me once, fool me twice, yeah unsub. sad, cause if he had gone through with, I’d have stuck around longer.

Curious if anyone had interactions with Skyler Ray? Twink in Chicago. He only does outcalls. Quoted $500 an hour/ $3k for an overnight. Seems steep, but he’s right to charge what the market will bear. SkylerRay - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Chicago, IL | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Chicago, IL - SkylerRay: Charming, Intelligent, and Easygoing

You talking about that lil’ bitty ant country place? I hear they draw a nice quiet crowd.

It’s a bit morbid, but I was thankful for the document hoarding when I took over affairs for my mom and then another friend during an illness. It gave me a starting point. If you get rid of most older records, keep an emergency oh shit folder to give someone a starting point to track down your assets.

Cash will always have a place. It’s the only truly discrete transaction. Also, carrying an emergency $100 came in clutch while in Shanghai at a work dinner. The exceptionally good local restaurant only took cash and China payments. No western credit cards. We had no local currency and no China pay methods. It was becoming a big deal between my executive, our APAC guide, and the restaurant management. Lots of tension. I remembered my emergency Franklin and old friend Ben applied some quick international diplomacy. My exec later commented how smooth I resolved the issue, and why do you carry an emergency hundred? I replied, “Even good men have vices. It’s best to be prepared. “ gave him a wink. And he cracked up laughing.

For sure, it wouldn’t be a rando. Also, I’d be curious to see how their keep their own place before contracting to clean mine.

Thanks I’ll bump over to that thread. Serves me right for not being more accurate with my searching

Bumping this thread. Interested in any recent experience for Chicago. I can imagine how the conversation would go? Interested in a 4 hour block of time. I need someone to vacuum, do laundry, general cleanup, and then get a little dirty. - Is that your fetish? No, I just don’t want to hire ugly maids.

Given the cost of maid services, I’m half tempted to hire out naked maid services and get a two-fer. Curious to see if anyone has either hired a naked housekeeping service or been hired as one? I can work from home, and it’d be easy on the eyes to have someone clean the house then stick around for fun afterwards. Obviously, it wouldn’t be for all. Just curious if anyone else ran across this. Understood, it might not be as cost efficient as splitting tasks. Seems though it’d be a way to get some consistent business and fill in some hours during slower times.

Any one know if any OF stars use a chat bot to answer/post messages direct to fans? I get the free subscriber then hammer on PPV tipping thru messages. One guy though seems very chat bot-ish. New to the platform so unsure if that’s something standard or if it’s an actual person on the other end. After all, I find it hard to believe OF content creators are genuinely interacting with all new subscribers. Seems like there’s better ways to use their time.

It’s like wearing a helmet while riding a motorcycle. I’m not wearing a helmet - I don’t want to live through a crash. - you want to wear a helmet IN CASE you do live through one. Least if you still had reasonable brain function, you would have some choices in the matter. like sleep apnea, the best case scenario is passing in your sleep. The more likely scenario is a decade+ of shitty quality of life before additional health issues start piling on. Then one day, a stroke or heart attack disables the person. I’d rather avoid/delay that future if I can do reasonable actions to prevent it. My experience though is different than others I realize.

In other news, Grindr IS too much work. So much more efficient contracting out with a provider. Time is money - goes both ways.

Sad trumboner happens when you start taking Testosterone. Your balls will shrink. It’s a trade-off. Libido comes back full force, but yeah, the bigger balls that used to fill out the sack, start to play hide and seek more. Hoping I can put on some muscle mass at least

I think my provider probably just couldn’t read me. I sent a single follow up text a month or so later to schedule another session, and everything proceeded as if nothing happened. I’ve seen him fairly regularly. Agreed though with everyone else said. You may never know what caused the block. If it happened before any meet up - especially so. You will just have to look inward a little bit, but let it go - it’s probably the other side if you didn’t have any of the red flags listed above.

Understood, on the rent.men side, I wouldn’t know that was an option though. It doesn’t list any indicators he has one. I’m on mobile chrome so maybe it’s a browser rendering thing.

I had one block me right after a session. Very odd because I’m usually fairly self aware and didn’t think the massage was off. I texted to rebook. No issues rebooking and we have had multiple sessions since then. We never spoke of it. I’m curious if it was just a vibe thing or feared a bad review?

Tangent it doesn’t show the private gallery as an option in rent.men mirror site. Is that why folks mainly post the .eu domain?

Going to go back to Defcon 2024. What else? Maybe some shows.

I’d generally avoid the built-in chrome or Firefox browser password managers. They have been easy to compromise in the past. I don’t think much has changed. LastPass has a bit of an image problem as of late. I use Keeper, but other colleagues use BitWarden too. Apples password manager has been well reviewed as well.

Also a collary - you can fuck them or you can mentor them. You. Can’t. Do. Both. Hence, “Daddy” is an easily imitated stereotype. Big Dad Energy - aims for results - not for himself but in others.

Kicking around thoughts about going from rudderless in my late teens to buckling down into Big Dad energy. It’s not quite “Daddy” stereotype, but when Big Dad energy shows up, it doesn’t need rank, suit, or some fancy introduction. Competence has entered the chat. Shit got serious long ago. Now it’s time to sort out and put in the work. Not the quick fix work either. The work that will test your commitment. You will fail in the commitments you made to yourself. You will beat yourself up over it, and recommit because that’s what you do. An experience with a surgeon at Northwestern exemplifies that. He’s not the chief of the department. He doesn’t boast of his accomplishments. However, when shit went sideways, Big Dad energy showed up, and put in the work. “These things sometimes happen, but they happen to my team only once” With that statement, acknowledged problem, took ownership, provides assurance. I often crack jokes far too often in the professional setting. I try to keep things light. I did the same during my hospital stays. Because when the mood turns serious, it’s time to put in the work. A coworker once observed that Big Dad energy. Irate client - technology not responding as expected - read the room saw he needed a lifeline and now wasn’t the time to teach - “Hey, do you mind if I drive for a bit?” Instantly, focus on me, irate client still irate, (in my head, “keep this up shithead, and it will stay fucked until Tuesday out of spite” - outwardly, “putting in the work”) Resolved the issue. Advised coworker afterwards what I did and what led me to that solution. Assured them they would have gotten the solution if the client wasn’t adding unneeded pressure. Big Dad energy doesn’t need to boast. It shows up puts in the work, and tries to leave the situation better than he found it. It doesn’t always work. That’s why your dad gets quiet a lot or sometimes drinks. 😉 It’s also why hearing a dad voice their pride is high praise. Also - some biological fathers never mature into dads. Some dads never were biological fathers. Big Dad energy on display - no time to play politics, no time to sugar coat, time to put in the work.

Late to the party. Here’s my experience. I’d wake up routinely around 2-3am. I convinced myself it was probably something going bump in the night etc. On the weekends, I’d sleep in until noon or 2pm easily. I convinced myself I probably needed it because I was working too much during the week. I finally used a snore counting/recording app on my phone. I heard it for myself - the same snore, silence for an extended period of time, then jolting gasping for breath. I use the term same snore sound, because I heard it from my dad decades prior. I was a teenager and didn’t know any better, but I knew it probably wasn’t healthy. My dad passed shortly after my 17th bday from a heart attack in his sleep. Sleep apnea is no joke. I wear the CPAP religiously, and luckily I didn’t have too many issues adjusting to it. I sleep mostly through the night. I wake up now consistently around 6am maybe 8am on the weekend if I allow myself to sleep in. I have since lost 40 lbs since diagnosis, but still find my sleep is crap without the cpap. I’ll happily wear the cpap if it means better quality of life. Less serious side stories, I have had friends nod off on car rides mid conversation. Turns out yeah sleep apnea for them. They were getting such poor sleep they’d be nodding off unless they were actively engaged in things. I’d encourage your friend to stay the course, and track his sleep quality / how he feels the next day.