MikeyGMin

I’m trying to decide whether to schedule a 1 hour or 2 hour appointment. I have only done 1 hour appointments and am trying to decide if it is worth it to do 2 hours.

I generally do two hours on the first meeting. Especially if the provider offers a two hour rate.

Maybe I've just been lucky, but I've never hired a guy who I found it difficult to spend two hours with. It takes an enormous amount of pressure off of getting to know a new guy a little bit before getting down to business. Then business can also move more slowly.

I just find it really awkward to rush a new guy out of his clothes. After I get to know them, I have no problem doing a one-hour appointment that is all business, but not on the first meeting.

Since I never hire anyone who I wouldn't be interested in seeing more than once, I think the two hours is a goid initial investment. It gives me time to determine whether I like the man himself and not just his body.

There were or are times where I've been envious of the escort from a standpoint of excitement and pleasure versus my life which has always been in the corporate world

I admire the ones who truly have their act together. Who have chosen to live their lives on their own terms and couldn't care less what others think of the choices they've made. It takes guts.

I've been told by a couple different guys that being a premium member with a profile let them know right away that I was a serious client.

And getting access to the semi-private pictures without having to bother them with an access request is pretty convenient when you just window shopping. Also some pretty hot videos. Definitely worth 10 bucks a month to me.

You could always be extended family-like his mother’s brother-in-law.

 

I’m not sure I understand. If discretion is important, why are you going to places where eyebrows might be raised or where someone might wonder about an intimate dinner?

 

Gman

Discretion is important to him not me. He is not out to his friends about his "side job," so we avoid establishments and even entire parts of town where we might run into them.

He doesn't care what strangers think though, so we go to plenty of places where people (who aren't clueless) are going to notice the older guy and the beautiful young man having dinner together. It's not just the age difference. He is truly stunning...and I...unfortunately...am not.

I know that if I saw us out together I would wonder what the situation was?

It’s my understanding that yes, they’re a couple at th moment.

In fact, I believe they recently announced their engagement.

Does anyone know if it is legit?

It's legit. Not first-hand experience, but I've had confirmation that they are definitely working together. What I haven't heard or read is if they're any good.

I think you should probably separate the playtime behavior and the "out in public" behavior.

If you hired him to bottom and he can't or won't get ready, then he isn't performing the service you hired him for. I would either talk to him about it or simply stop calling him.

I believe the "out in public" behavior is much more complicated. I'm very fond of an extremely attractive young man who is less than half my age. We go out a lot. He has never said a word because he's much too sweet, but I make a point of never putting him in a situation where we might run into his friends. Discretion is important to him and there really is no way to explain me. (I can't be passed off as an older relative because I'm not Latin.)

We stick to places where an eyebrow might be raised or someone might wonder about an obviously intimate dinner, but the judgment is more likely to fall upon me.

Only you can decide whether it's worth trying to talk it out or just move on. I know I like my "kid" a lot. I would sure try talking it out with him before moving on.

I used to have a better balance between dating civilians and hiring escorts, but in the last few years and has shifted heavily towards escorts. I just can't get excited about age-appropriate men who would be suitable for dating.

When I was dating actively and also seeing escorts, I was always upfront about it, but I treated it like "seeing other people." I stopped seeing escorts for brief periods when a dating relationship got serious. The same time frame you might stop seeing other people in any other relationship.

My experience has been that the younger the man the more judgmental they are likely to be. They judge the older man as being desperate and can be particularly harsh on the escort. I call it the "eww" factor. They cannot imagine themselves being with an older man so they judge their peer very harshly. The eww factor seems to lessen as men age and can identify with both parties better.

Add me to the list. Wow. Or, to echo DickyF, Triple Wow.

Haha. He is kind of a triple threat. Great personality, handsome as hell (dear God those lips!) and a body to die for. My only complaint is that he travels too damn much!! Curse you NYC!!!!

I appologize if I came across

in a negative way. How can I make it up to you?

Gray -- you didn't come off negative to me in any way. We had a good time and I enjoyed your company. The "douche" I was referring to was whoever was saying that you don't look like your pictures. I'm one of the few in this thread who actually know what you look like in real life.

Welcome to posting in the forum!

 

We have a politics and religion section were you'll love to talk about your political points of views.

Don't you ever tire of being a hall monitor?

This became an attack thread by Post #13. Some truly mean and ignorant statements were made by people who have never even met the guy. (Only one person actually met him and said he would not repeat.) The rest was all pearl clutching ladies who thought they would get the vapors if they met with someone with such atypical opinions.

There were two bachelorette parties there. This is a thing? Women go to gay bars for these parties?

Unfortunately this is a thing. An extremely annoying thing that some bars are beginning to push back on. I am by no means a woman-hater, but I am very much a bachelorette party hater.

It's by no means universal. I do see guys hook up at bars, but it's not at all like it used to be. These days, like it or not, people use the apps to hook up. They generally go out to the bars with their friends, so you need to be smoking hot to lure someone away from the people they came with. At least that has been my experience over the last several years. A "lone wolf" out cruising ends up holding up a wall and looking a bit out of place.

Kissing is so subjective. I think a good kisser reads and adapts to his partner. Bad kissers seem to be oblivious to what their partner is enjoying.

I have two favorites who I could kiss all night long, but each one is very different. One involves a lot of tongue and the other is all about tender lips with very little actual tongue.

I like tongue, but I cannot stand to have my face eaten. If your lips are constantly wrapped around mine with tongue everywhere, then you aren't paying attention, and by default are not a good kisser.

His ad has expired.

I'm sure he'll get it back up and running soon. He has a lot of travel planned and there is specific information he needs to communicate about outcall vs. incall and daytime vs. nighttime.

He is good at many many things, but managing his ad may not be one of them.

Yes, I would never have expected that. I haven't really seen many posts about hiring in Mexico on this forum. I wonder if demand from Americans really does influence those numbers.

I think people often discount the size of Mexico City

Did Sulu and his partner kiss in their brief scene in "Star Trek: Beyond"? or was it just a hug?

I believe it was just an intimate hug and then they walked off arm-in-arm with their child.

I first posted a long time ago, but I haven't posted much in the last year or so. And I'm not very technically adept, so the explanation by Latbear was not amiss. Thanks guys

Pierrot

You're going to have a great time with Kurtis. This little communication glitch isn't even going to feel like a bump in the road when you're looking at it in the rearview mirror.

In fact I’m not into hiring escorts at all and find it disgusting.

Disgusting?

I hope this is the right place to post this question...

 

So, I’m a total voyeur. I love the idea of watching a hidden cam vid (or cell phone vid) of clients with escorts. Obviously, there are privacy concerns. But, are there any guys out there that would video their session with an escort if someone were to reimburse you for part or all of the escort’s fee for their time?

Does one of the people have to be unaware of the recording for it to be titillating? Is that part of the kink?

Everyone is different. Some people slap a rude hand away, angry and defending themselves; others stand mute and tremble inside, not knowing what to do, then go home to cry.

And then move on with their life. It's the idea that it's a life-changing trauma that I find far fetched. I must have run with a tough crowd when I was 18 because I certainly didn't know anyone so delicate.

Jase is a lot of fun

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If someone whom I idolized did that to me at age 18, I would be extremely upset and remember it for the rest of my life.

And I would slap his hand away and be angry about his rudeness. I would remember it, but be traumatized many years later? For goodness sake we have 18 year olds going to war and being traumatized by unbelievable atrocities. Are we supposed to treat "He touched my weiner" as a life-altering traumatizing event on the same par? I'm glad that Kevin Spacey has been exposed as a predatory closet case, but I akso think the mother was thirsty.

I find your suggestion that my finding a pass made at me which I rebuffed as a "disturbed" view on sexual assault to be a bit extreme, but realise we all have our own views of what constitutes assault

I also found it extreme and insulting. "Ah, that explains why you don't agree with me. Because you're disturbed yourself." Quite rude and intellectually lazy.

Had an encounter with a Latino. When I asked if he was cut or uncut he replied “I’m cut. My parents were progressive Mexicans.” Thought that was a slightly weird response. Maybe a little elitist and even borderline racist.

It's a relatively common response ftom Mexicans who are cut. At least the several that I have run into over the years. I've never had one say it was "progressive" but it generally coincides with being very fair-skinned due to a European parent or grandparent. Mexicans can have a very complicated relationship with skin tone -- just like many other groups.

I look forward to exploring his virtues very soon. He and I found a mutually agreeable opening in his travel schedule.

Excellent! I have been hoping he would meet some quality gentleman and your reputation precedes you. We actually have other “friends” in common. Lol. You will find him equally as sweet with the addition of a body to die for!