LADoug1

This is when I thought he looked the hottest. He was Valentino on chaosmen.com (Of course the one size too small spandex/lycra shorts didn't hurt!!)
 
http://www.chaosmen.com/showgal.php?g=content/CM/video/2011/867-tobin_valentino_raw/1450/7_1&s=34

I've always felt there is a difference between LOVING something or someone and BEING IN LOVE with something or someone. Subtle difference maybe, but a difference none the less.

I hope it happens for you one day very soon. He's one of a kind.

When hiring I send an accurate picture of myself. Let the escort decide.

We almost crossed paths... non-sexually. Mr. Chris E. and myself were having fun in NYC. Chris invited Dane to meet up, but Mr. Scott couldn't.
 
One day it will happen, but I don't often have the time to get to an area the Great Dane visits. So it will have to wait. Sigh.

Make it happen! Even casually meeting Dane will improve your life: spending time with him will enrich it.

Only the ones who list their age as 32

Dane - absolutely!

Wait a minute ... you mean all escorts aren't between 40 and 50!?

I can't believe people would be this stupid. Well, on second thought, they probably watch Fox "News" all day. That will suck your brain cells dry.
 
Thanks (maybe not) for sharing.

Hmmm.... this has me worried.... If there are too many escorts will they suck up all the sex leaving none for the rest of us?????

Years ago I worked in radio and we had a very popular show every Thursday night. While working it one night someone called in and said it was very static-y (and this was FM) and was wondering if it was because so many people were tuned it that it was sucking all of the signal up.

It proves jacking off is good for weight loss.

innocent until proven guilty folks. this is still America

Let's take a look at this review through the lens of issues and concerns that are posted to these forums every day:
 
Experience: Recommended by another escort I already knew, Trophyhusband (TH) much prefers direct phone contact to communicate.
 
The majority of threads on the topic of "communication" express a strong preference to telephone contact. This statement indicates the escort prefers phone contact. Good thing to know if a prospective client likes to make phone contact rather than text or eail contact, especially those who will not book an appointment without a phone conversation.
 
Texting the number is an acceptable second place and email comes in a distant third!
 
See above
 
As always, please be patient for a reply if he doesn't answer.

I have lost count of the number of times posters have complained about slow responses. This is very good information for those who want an immediate response (maybe find someone else) and those who obsess over a delayed response.
 
TH is a Texas native and is very much a 100% masculine good ol' boy. Very casual, friendly, chatty, and very eager to have fun and hang out.
 
One of the topics that comes up over and over again is escort's masculinity and ability to converse. Both questions answered in the review.
 
The ad pictures match, but he does look better and younger in person.
 
Having participated in this forum for 10 years and lurked for years before that, I've found the question of an escort looking like his pictures is probably the number one question on this forum. Now we know he looks like his pics.
 
Most of these ad pictures are unposed, quicky selfies.
 
Another frequent topic is that of over-posed, photoshopped pics. Apparently, not a problem here.
 
TH is definitely not a highly-groomed, tweezed, GQ-model type. Very real and very unpretentious. He's not a muscle freak, but has the look of a regular in-shape dude in his early 30s.
 
Many guys are looking for a model type while others want a "regular guy." This helps both groups of potential clients determine whether TH is the right guy for them.
 
Interaction with TH will very much depend on the ol' "chemistry" thing. If you're a cool guy and having fun, are respectful and nice, you'll probably have a great time with TH.
 
Sounds like TH might not be a match for every potential client. Good for them to know. Helps to avoid making a hiring mistake.
 
He's definitely more than "stand and pose". As usual, be discreet about discussing expectations before and during the meet.
 
Another frequently asked question is what to say to an escort when contacting him. This reviewer has answered that question. Be discrete.
 
I'm not much into kissing or anal with anybody and I had a fantastic time with TH. I got all I wanted out of the meeting. We both had a couple cheap beers down in the lobby and talked a lot about the business and stuff.
 
Like every review, this review captures the reviewer's experience. This reviewer wanted to hang out and have a beer. Another reviewer might want to be forced into get throat-f*&^ed. It sounds like it accurately described the experience this reviewer was looking for.
 
He's busy with other projects in LA, so be patient contacting TH. If you like a very casual, friendly, good-looking, guy-next-door dude, TH is your man.
 
Sounds like a good summary to me.

In my personal experience there are two ways in which this happens.
 
The first and most common way, is after a shared intimacy, after a passionate session or few years of getting to know one another, he looks at you with a glint in his eye, says "I fucking love you, man" slaps your ass, smiling and moves unto something else. In my experience, when a session goes the way I want it to go, I fall in love a little, I feel butterflies a little, I cherish that special moment looking into each other's eyes, which makes it very easy for me to imagine he will also feel that.
 
There is no promise, no contract, no attachment, no exchange of vows, and more importantly, no benefiting from the other's vulnerability. There is only love, encounter, tenderness, passion, all lived powerfully in a magic moment, then forgotten, till next time.
 
The other way is when after one or many sessions you notice the client suffering, tentative, demanding a lot of attention, constantly trying to break the pre agreed privacy boundaries, asking for reassurance, information, promises, or a lot of time outside of the time you spend together. Sooner or later when together, he will break down and in a very emotional way he will say something like: "I have not been doing well, I am suffering so much because of my feelings for you... I love you so much that I _______". You get my drift.
 
In this case, I listen attentively and compassionately and explain that under these circumstances I am unable to continue seeing him because that would only be damaging to him. I clarify that because of my professional ethical rules I will never -under any circumstance- start an emotional partnership with a client because I believe the power imbalances and mutual transferences and expectations will make the relationship unhealthy from the very beginning. I then strongly encourage him to look for professional help, someone with whom he can talk about this. Not another escort, who might potentially take advantage of his vulnerability, but a psychologist who might be better equipped to help him through that.
 
I tend to prefer not to wait till all this happens and look for the signs of emotional attachment before they further develop.
 
I have no problem with having a passionate, romantic boyfriend experience. Love traveling to romantic places with dear old clients of mine, with whom I can allow myself to be vulnerable and absolutely available because they understand, respect and celebrate the boundaries and nature of our relationship. What I won't do under any circumstance is keep seeing a client and charging him even if I know well that I will never be able to give him what he believes he wants. Making money out of heartbreak, to me, is just not an ethical thing.
 
To me love and vulnerability have never been a problem. They are the goal.
 
Attachement, expectations, blurred boundaries and emotional exploitation are an absolute no no. As soon as they show up, I will end the relationship.

Hmmm... I get what you're saying. A client has never said it to me, so it's hard to say what I would do. I think my key point is that before shutting it down and making a client feel shamed for using it, having an honest discussion about it would be a good approach. The discussion my lead to it being unacceptable, but at least have the discussion to explore why it was said and what it really means within the context of the service that is being provided, as well as emotional expectations and limitations. As long as, like you said, the client doesn't substitute real life with fantasy, I think it's an acceptable fantasy to allow a client to explore as long as there's clear understanding that it is in fact just that - a fantasy. I think the response should not be fear driven (e.g., "woah, you can't say that to me") and more honest and empathy driven (e.g., "what you said made me a little uncomfortable, but maybe we can talk about it...").

In terms of romantic love I thought I loved an escort but came to realize that despite his sweetness and caring I was in love with a fantasy.

Only if it'll make him more comfortable or confident going into the session. If it doesn't matter to him, it doesn't to me either, and I'm sure we'll have loads of fun.
 
Kevin Slater

The only thing I require from a client is his desire.
 
There are no other conditions...

Dane Scott. Dane Scott. Dane Scott. Simply the best.

Absolutely!

I will add my voice to the Dane Scott recommendation and yes he looks exactly like his pictures!

Dane is a complete delight. Also, I love Nate in Long Beach, the total masculine, yet sensitive escort. I will always remember the strong, firm, erotic evening he gave me. He is mature, yet really handsome.

Thanks, That's a great suggestion. He has that tight gymnast body. He still look like those pics on his site?