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Wow. So handsome and look at those abs 😍 THIS is what turned my same-sex orientation.

Yeah...that is interesting that he'd demand face-UP, if he's primarily straight oriented in his own sexual identity. In some Arab cultures it's fairly common for young men to start their sexual experience with male friends since women are still required to marry as virgins. I wonder if he's accustomed to making sure his companion is turned on too...and that's part of his sexual connection to men. "I'm not gay if I only top and dont kiss" shows up in many different places and cultures. So that part isn't unusual.

I'm in the habit of first communicating through the site to ask basic questions like rate, availability and location. This would satisfy the monitors' requirement. For privacy, many providers prefer to go off-site when discussions become specific in a sexual way. (Although I feel discussions of sex-for-hire should never be documented by anyone, anywhere).

I agree. For me, its the inclusion of the bisexual flag, that although I am part of that community, its inclusion seems completely superfluous. I always understood the rainbow to represent everyone in the Gay-Lesbian and Bisexual community. Colors representing sub groups of the community start to add the whole box of crayons and obliterate the intention of the original.

My bad. I was unaware that religion was banned along with political discussions. Thanks for explaining.

Exactly. I live in Greenwich Village and have had to shoo people away from my front patio because they were having sex right there in front of my home. I remember one year we had gone out of town to avoid the chaos and I came home to find two men fucking right there on my front steps ! I had my two 10 year old children with me. Thankfully I spotted them before the kids did and told my wife to hang-back with them for a second while I dealt with the situation. Both my wife and I who are both part of the LGBT community call the parade "the Gay Embarrassment Parade". Nothing to be proud of anymore. Its a freak show.

It is really sad. For some time most everyone I grew up around in red-neck Central PA had basically come around and accepted that gay people are just like everyone else. NOW the gay circus side-show freaks are busy demonstrating they are NOT like everyone else ..so middle America is starting to hate on gays again.

He's "well educated" and in grad school but can't spell Holistic 🤔.... Things that make you go hmmmm.

There's a lot of guys on Grindr who claim to offer massage+fun meets and "only" require a small deposit. Most of these are scams to get your credit card information. Half the time it's obvious because they forget they're trolling in the US and they quote in Euros

....and an ass that won't quit.

Correct. The alterations ignore that message of unity and instead keeps segregating people into their own sub groups. LGBTXYZQPDFTUHRWV

Fortunately the US judicial system has mechanisms to prevent people from suffering from clearly biased court decisions. As we see above, the ability to say that phrase "convicted felon" is being weaponized. So the court of public opinion may attempt to take away rights someone may otherwise have.

I've always understood this to mean you're waking up the next morning with your companion (and maybe breakfast and another ejaculation) before they head home. Can't say I have personal experience but most every comment I've read here is about a sleep over session, not a five hour hang n bang.

Same + same. "ME time" is important when you've got so many responsibilities as a parent. I also take time away from work rather than take time away from the family.

Same here. My wife and I were pretty wild and adventurous before the kids. We don't really get the time to be out together much without the kids...but I think I do now prefer my time with a masseur to be private. The days of watching each other in sexual situations seems to have lost its luster. I'm going to guess my wife feels the same. It's all too much information now. ( Are you going to kiss the kids goodnight with that mouth ..after sucking that guy's dick ?) 😂🍆💦😋

We all know who this is about ..so technically a political discussion.

Best kind of cutie! Agreed. Why would a boy like this need to be a top ? There's plenty of older top men who can keep a cute bottom boy busy.

Yup. Been there. I always say: the most attractive person I ever slept with was the worst in bed. Good looks aren't everything.

Different strokes. Everyone's "perfect" is a bit different. For example you say you've seen guys with "more muscle" as if bigger means better. While I would say he's as muscular as anyone should be. Different visual cues.

Some seriously distorted photo editing on that ass. Or he's been using Kim Kardashian's plastic surgeon 😆

There's a difference between sexual desire and repulsed aversion. It's like with food. You may prefer beef over chicken. But you're repulsed by the thought of eating eel. The narrative here is that some people like @KensingtonHomo claim that they will sleep with anything that moves and others are far more discerning because they are literally revolted by the thought of sleeping with anything but their type. In the case of this conversation, that's older men. I think when you are talking to a group of men who are tossing down hard-earned cash for the opportunity of a sexual encounter, the majority are seeking the companionship of the sort of young, fit, handsome men, they may not be able to attract on their own without the offer of payment. I'm sure plenty of these same men could attract men their own age if they tried. So the comparison of events is, do you PAY for the young, hot guy for an hour, or save your money and go with the old daddy, or is that completely unappealing ? MY guess is that if you're into old daddies, you aren't really driven to HIRE for company unless you're so unappealing yourself that you can't attract ANYONE without cash.

I agree. I generally tip with cash.for that reason. I also know that many corporate owned restaurants chains (where I end up sometimes when I travel) toss all the tip money into a kitty and split it up evenly. Which defeats the whole purpose of tipping for exceptional service in MY mind.